Do you have a personal ad online? What does it say? (No pics).

[playful808]

Do you have a personal ad online? What does it say? (No pics.)

I know the rules say 'Don't post your personal ads here', but I am wondering what other guys here say in their ads online. And what they explicitly do not say. I thought this might be educational and fun. (Please do not post phone numbers or email address.)

I'll go first.

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Boy scout for same.

I am 57, openly bi, very happily married, in an open relationship. Seeking a bi male playmate for myself - perhaps to share with my wife, later. A friend with benefits, not NSA. Please be 40 - 65, comfortably bi, and Vers or Top.


I am a straight arrow / boy scout type. Honest and polite and I strive to be an ethical slut. Liberal about most things, but conservative about safe sex, hard drugs, cheating and avoiding Covid. If you are on this page too, write me.

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That's my current ad. It is short and accurate and clear, seems to scare off the desperate straight guys.

I showed you mine...

Anyone care to share yours?

[Long Duck Dong]

When we were advertising for a new male to join us in our closed group, we had this ad

Looking for a bi/pan male to join in a closed group with another male, a female who is intersex and two females.
We are looking for a person that wants a ongoing / long term shared situation, in a closed group.
We are not looking for orgies, swingers, NSA arrangements or casual / on call, married / closeted males as we are all open about who we are and trust / honesty is a big deal
We do value good conversation, friendships, staying over / nights together with a view on building up connection and trust.
Respect for each person is a must, sex is a pleasure, not a right and the right to say no thanks not tonight, is to be respected.
we do not always have sex, it can be just hugging, kissing, masturbation, watching, oral or full sex, PS the ladies love to peg males so versatile males are big on their list.

we will want to meet, talk and get to know you and what is in your head and heart as what is in your pants will provide pleasure some of the time but great conversations, dinner and friendships will be appreciated all of the time



out of over 30 interested males, most of them wanted casual hook up sex, suck, fuck and go, less than 1/4 were versatile, over 1/2 were closeted and married, some wanted to bring their partners ( some first timers, others experienced / swingers ...... we finally managed to find 2 males, one was not suited and the other took a couple of months to get their feel for the group and is a great addiction....... the worst guy got angry cos we met them and within 30 minutes he was asked when we were going to fuck.....

[aLABiM75 & StrF51]

We likely still have a few out there for a closed group relationship, but being part of one is not what people on such sites seem to be looking for.
Even those we got to know, eventually turned out just wanting to sleep around... and we never found the right partner(s).

[BiCoffeeM8]

I had an ad out online for six months and very recently deleted it. I was rather specific in my ad in stating that I am bi and have had bi experiences in the past. I said that I was looking for a closed loop, one on one friendship with someone who is discreet and whom I could trust. I had zero interest in bed hoppers or anonymous sex at any of the gay cruising areas. I did not sugar coat my physical appearance nor did I add a few inches to my cock size. All in all, I had hoped to land that rare one who I was compatible with and who knew where I was coming from.

I deleted the ad out of frustration. I did get a few replies as well as several "winks"and what not. I also did reply to a few ads that appeared to be seeking the same thing I was. What frustrated me was the number of tire kickers who were seeking a fantasy. A lot of the fantasy boys just seemed to be interested in sexting and that was it. Others were more interested in the stereotypical effeminate twink under 30 who would blow them on demand. As for the ones I had replied to, the biggest turn offs for them was either my cock size or my age. I finally just got tired and gave up.

[Tight1-4u]

my current add says this:
horny kinky sub bottom guy that likes aggressive kinda dom guys.. oral to get you ready to fuck me.. relieve your stress strain and built up seed deep inside of me.. let me do all the things your wife or gf won’t.. looking as long as this is up!! Willing ready and able.. tight and right.. no bugs here..

[BiEli]

Professional MBiWM looking for a similar, like minded partner. OK with gay, bi or couples. Always have a nice hotel room to host in. 6-1, 195, red hair with a 6c package. A normal, sane, disease-free middle-aged guy. Enjoy oral, j/o, frotting and maybe more. Have a lot of bi, straight, gay, solo and TS porn for the flat-screen. Prefer spending a few hours at it and really like making my partner cum more than once. Passionate about making it all fun!

A variation on an old CL ad. My main thing is starting a conversation. Good prospective sex partners of any gender take an interest in their partners and don't BS about it. Sex is so much more fun when the people involved are into it.

[playful808]

Professional MBiWM ...

A variation on an old CL ad. My main thing is starting a conversation. Good prospective sex partners of any gender take an interest in their partners and don't BS about it. Sex is so much more fun when the people involved are into it.

I like your ad. I simply do not play with a guy until I trust him, and that usually requires coffee, conversation, hanging out.

Guys in the hookup scene are on a completely different page.

[tenni]

"I know the rules say 'Don't post your personal ads here', but I am wondering what other guys here say in their ads online."

Playful, I am wondering why you felt the need to violate the rules?

[playful808]

"I know the rules say 'Don't post your personal ads here', but I am wondering what other guys here say in their ads online."

Playful, I am wondering why you felt the need to violate the rules?


Tenni, are you serious? Wow.

In case here anyone is confused: I am not soliciting hookups or encouraging anyone else to do so. I live in the middle of the Pacific ocean. No not use this site like craigslist. Again, do not post personal contact information.

I wondered what other guys *here* put in their ads and why. What they choose to mention or not mention. What language they used. How they describe themselves and what they want. How they talk about safe sex. How they communicate with other bi guys. How they get an actual conversation started.

If this topic is inappropriate to the site, please delete the thread.

[tenni]

Playful I didn't understand "why" you decided to violate the rule about personal ads in the forum? This seems out of character for you. Maybe, this is closer if your post was to encourage discussion "I wondered what other guys *here* put in their ads and why."? The original owner decided to make "no posting personal ads in the forum" probably to keep the forum for discussion and not self promotion for a hook up.

Sorry if my question bothered you.

[playful808]

Tenni,

One last time:
I explicitly did NOT violate the rules, or encourage others to do so.
I attempted to discuss how guys write ads to meet guys.
I hope this distinction is now clear to everyone.

Separately, your question did bother me, yes.
Asking "Why did you need / decide to violate the rules" is a lot like asking, "why did you need to beat your wife".
This language misconstrues my actions and motives and integrity.

It would be ironic if your efforts to protect the site
also squashed substantive discussion of a topic that impacts real bi people everyday.

[Cum1st]

I had an ad out online for six months and very recently deleted it. I was rather specific in my ad in stating that I am bi and have had bi experiences in the past. I said that I was looking for a closed loop, one on one friendship with someone who is discreet and whom I could trust. I had zero interest in bed hoppers or anonymous sex at any of the gay cruising areas. I did not sugar coat my physical appearance nor did I add a few inches to my cock size. All in all, I had hoped to land that rare one who I was compatible with and who knew where I was coming from.

I deleted the ad out of frustration. I did get a few replies as well as several "winks"and what not. I also did reply to a few ads that appeared to be seeking the same thing I was. What frustrated me was the number of tire kickers who were seeking a fantasy. A lot of the fantasy boys just seemed to be interested in sexting and that was it. Others were more interested in the stereotypical effeminate twink under 30 who would blow them on demand. As for the ones I had replied to, the biggest turn offs for them was either my cock size or my age. I finally just got tired and gave up.

I had a safe, weekly FWB (mostly B) over 20 years ago. He took a job transfer out of state. Ah, good times. Haven't found another. Not trying too hard, so not frustrated. My wife wouldn't likely feel threatened by me fooling around with a man when she figured it out. Life is still good, but it would be nice.

[tenni]

" explicitly I did NOT violate the rules, or encourage others to do so."

playful
You posted your own ad on this site verbatum. Regardless of your intention, you violated the Primary rule of the site. BiCoffeeM8 and Cum1st did not post an ad. They posted about their ads. They did not violate the primary rule of this site. I will not post in this thread again as it seems pointless.