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guywholikesboth
Sep 7, 2020, 12:24 AM
ever regret seducing someone into gay or bi sex
Jazminedress
Sep 7, 2020, 12:37 AM
noooooooooooooooo
playful808
Sep 7, 2020, 2:38 AM
Yeah. There was one guy, he seemed straight, says he was bi and eager, liked to kiss, we played, it was awkward, and the next day he freaked out. It was an act, he didn't know himself very well, wasn't ready.
If I had to repeat it, I wouldn't. Learning experience.
stonebow
Sep 7, 2020, 10:39 AM
Yeah. There was one guy, he seemed straight, says he was bi and eager, liked to kiss, we played, it was awkward, and the next day he freaked out. It was an act, he didn't know himself very well, wasn't ready.
If I had to repeat it, I wouldn't. Learning experience.
Don't blame yourself....you didn't so much "seduce" him as call his bluff. He didn't know what he wanted....not your fault.
KDaddy23
Sep 7, 2020, 3:57 PM
Usually, no because before I introduce a guy to this, I make very damned sure that this is something he really wants and needs to do and if he can't convince me, nothing happens. I make the pros and cons very clear to them and will repeat myself as much as I deem necessary. I tell them that this is either going to be one of the best things they've ever done... or it might be one of the worst things you've ever done. So think very carefully about this - I'll wait. If a guy goes for it but then has some bad moments afterward, it might sound cold-blooded but I'm not going to regret anything but I guess I'm "weird" in that I will also tell a guy - before the fact - that if we do this and later you're feeling shitty about it, call me and let's talk about it: I do not believe in leaving a guy hanging like that.
If I provide very detailed information so that a guy can make an informed decision, I'm not going to have any regrets if/when he learns or otherwise finds out that, in truth, he really didn't want to do this which is why, again, I make very damned sure that he does and if he can't convince me that he really does, nothing is gonna happen.
playful808
Sep 7, 2020, 5:49 PM
Here is the thing:
inexperienced guys don't know what they want - even when they think they do.
They only know what they *think* they should want, to be the person they *think* they are, or want to be.
Once they cum, their emotions might swing the other way, fast.
So, I avoid inexperienced guys.
Let them get their experience, work through their issues, and get comfortable with their own sexuality.
THEN then can contact me.
twilde1952
Sep 11, 2020, 12:34 PM
I've never come on to a guy like that ever but if I did they could always say," no thank you." You can't make people do what they don't want to and if you did they call that rape! Be safe everybody.
KDaddy23
Sep 11, 2020, 12:45 PM
I've given so many guys their first time... can't recall ever actually seducing one or trying to get him to do something he may not want to do. I've asked guys if they'd be interested and if they say that they wouldn't be, okay - I had to ask; no harm, no foul. Still, I've seen guys who thought they wanted to do this, did it, and they're the ones feeling lots of regret afterward... but I'm not gonna feel bad because they have regret because, like I said in my first comment, I'll give them all the information they're gonna need to make an informed decision one way or the other and even if they're feeling some kind of way afterward, I'm still not gonna leave them hanging if they're troubled or feeling regret.
Neonaught
Sep 12, 2020, 12:11 PM
Sounds more like guilt or self-loathing to me.
julyguybill
Sep 13, 2020, 1:07 AM
Yes. I do have regrets. to be totally honest I regret that I did not start enjoying sex with men sooner in my life I was about 34. Yrs old wish I would have started when was 15 or 16 my cousin sucked me first did not finish and did not return the favor wish had too I for many years had desire but did nothing about them
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Apr 19, 2021, 5:04 AM
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cornholejoe
Apr 19, 2021, 4:16 PM
no never had ang regerts because most was ready anyway to do it
Tight1-4u
Apr 19, 2021, 10:25 PM
I am like Kdaddy I have given so many guys their first blowjob,, ride in my pussy!! I can’t remember them all.. I have only had 1 that really freaked out.. yes some feel weird after.. and I mean just as soon as their cock falls out of my pussy,, never while they are in me humping away.. but after they cum and fall out.. but in a moment they are wanting more..
bblover
Apr 21, 2021, 8:55 AM
Short answer: Yes.
Long answer: I started very young. 12-13 i played exclusively with a friend after chatching him sucking off his cousin. That eventually turned into playing with many other young friends like us. Apartment complex nearby offered tons of playmates like a revolving door.
Eventually, i began coaxing/seducing guys as i got older. Using any mouth or ass I could my cock into. Looking back, Im sure I pressured some past what they wanted just to unload. Nothing forced, ever. I just carry a bit of guilt.
We're all a sum of our experiences. It makes us who we are. You can't undo any of it, just learn and be better.
dan.woodlawn
Apr 21, 2021, 10:22 AM
yeah, my wife and I had a threesome with my best friend (female). She told me she was a hunter, and a 'one and doner'...and the event was great...8 hours of relaxed fun.
She ghosted us right after, and our relationship was forever altered.
I miss my friend.
chongster
Apr 24, 2021, 10:12 AM
I have no regret but the very first guy I hooked up with might. We connected on squirt, we were both first timers. When he asked me if he wear stockings I thought it was kind of weird but said ok. He came to my house and I put some porn on. We got undressed except for his stockings and soon were jacking each other.
I was first to take the plunge and got on my knees and took his cock in my mouth and started to suck him. I couldn't believe I was sucking a cock and I was super turned on! We traded places and he sucked me for a while then I suggested we go to the bedroom.
In the bedroom we got into a 69 and I was so turned on, I didn't want to cum, I wanted it to last. I one point he stopped and asked me if I would fuck him. I loved anal sex with women but had never thought I would want to fuck a guy but I was so turned on now I was game for anything!
I got a condom on and lubed us up, when I got just the head of my cock in his ass he said stop it's to big. I stopped and just kept still hoping he would relax, his ass was so tight and I was so horny I just wanted to plunge deep and rape his virgin ass at this point but I didn't. He pulled away and rolled over on the bed I quickly went back to sucking his cock but he had gone limp and I couldn't bring him back. At that point he said he wanted to leave, got dressed and left.
Needless to say I had to take care of myself that night. The next day his profile was gone and I never heard from him again. My next encounter was way better