Is this the truth or BS..?

[The Chunkly]

Is this the truth or BS..?



I was talking to an old mate to whom I used to work with some years ago the other day.
He said that he had a friend and she was straight but did lesbian porn to pay the bills.!

I said then she is Bi or Lesbian.
He said no she is straight !
She only does it to pay the bills.
She is married and with kids.

Personally I say that she must be Bi
your thoughts

[Footstep40]

It depends.. I’ve done scenes with gay for pay guys, some even brought their female partner to set. Whether they “were just doing it for the money” most had no problem getting hard, some if you ran into them in the real world would act like you’re beneath them. My point is, I always thought that they were Bi at the least or gay & doing all that they could to deny it while enjoying the ride & money. It boils down to how they compartmentalized it with their own mind. Some embrace it, some feel that society won’t allow that and find a pressure release valve that may work. But those are my thoughts.. I think in her private thoughts, she identifies as bi, but publicly, straight. But I’m not her.

[Annika L]

I see no contradiction in a straight woman doing lesbian porn. Sex is a series of physical activities...sex in porn triply so. Any decent actor can learn the script and do it. It might take a lesbian or bisexual to enjoy it (though I doubt they’d much enjoy most of the crap ff porn sex I’ve seen)...but to do it? Even a semi-talented actress could manage.

However, the argument that “she’s got a husband and kids” is 100% meaningless. There are plenty of bisexual and gay people with spouses and children. That statement adds exactly nothing to their argument.

[Long Duck Dong]

Its its very possible that they did it as a job to pay the bills but have zero interest or desire in women, they may just prefer not to have sex with another guy....

its like sex workers, they fuck people for a living but it does not mean that they love sex with different people, its simply a way of paying the bills..... a number of porn actors ( including females ) have said that they can perform on camera having sex, then go home and have sex with their partners and its completely different, one is purely physical and the other is physical, emotional, mental....

[Coastocoast]

Was this that important to use a huge font? Come on and maybe be fair to the rest ??

[jem_is_bi]

Was this that important to use a huge font? Come on and maybe be fair to the rest ??

I agree. I think regular size text is more appropriate for this topic.

Regarding sex for money, I believe that a person can be strait and engage in same sex acts.
Just consider how many people have regular jobs that they would rather not be doing. However, they need the money.

[The Chunkly]

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[KDaddy23]

I knew a couple of guys who did gay porn to pay the bills and even they said that it's just a job and acting. I said that hard dicks are hard to fake and they admitted that they'd hard - with the help of fluffers at times - and the sex was real... but of no real interest to them. One guy said it took him a while to be able to act as if he was enjoying every moment and that he had to keep reminding himself that he needed the job and the money. The other guy, when I asked him if his enjoyment was acting or real, just shrugged and said that you do what you gotta do to get paid.

Were they hiding something? The only ones who knew were those two guys and they both stuck to their stories. What I do know is that what you see on the screen may not reflect the real sexual behaviors of the people on the screen.

[tenni]

Does it really matter to you?

Unless you are being asked to have sex with her or a relationship, it is none of our business.

[Annika L]

Does it really matter to you?

Unless you are being asked to have sex with her or a relationship, it is none of our business.
It sounded like a genuine question to me. Less “is this specific person queer or not?” and more “can it be that a woman can perform in lesbian porn and be completely straight?”

[The Chunkly]

it is none of our business.
Well that is a true enough statement, it's not really.

I just put the question forward to others

[Realist]

I think it was a legitimate question. I've wondered the same things, myself.

I once had a Korean GF, who used to visit a female masseuse, who gave her fully nude massages and "Happy endings".

She'd gotten massages from both genders, before, but settled on the one woman and, after that first time, she never saw anyone else, again.

I asked her if she was bisexual, she emphatically said, "NO!" She just enjoyed the way that lady knew how to relax and please her.

I asked her why she'd never had an orgasm with a male masseuse? She said none of the men knew exactly how and where to touch her.

I thought, if the lady was the only one who aroused her, then created an orgasm for her, she must be bisexual! Again, she denied it, so I let it go.

We each have our own theories and different things turn-on different people. If she felt comfortable with herself, why should I insist on complicating things for her?

[tenni]

it is none of our business.
Well that is a true enough statement, it's not really.

I just put the question forward to others

Why do you want other people to decide another person's sexuality?

I ask Chunkly this question. I realize that I have asked myself a similar question about a person claiming to be "straight" and they continue for years having sex with another man. It is a similar question about the guy claiming to being straight. In reality, it is no one else business who we have sex with is my point. If she is having sex with another woman to pay for her children's food softens negative feed back for some.

[Christopher South]

I wouldn't say that Sean Connery, Pierce Brosnan and Daniel Craig are British spies just because they did movies portraying British spies.

[KDaddy23]

In any of this, people are what they say they are even if what they say is, for us, a contradiction. I keep telling the story of a guy I knew - a swinger who was into a mistress/slave thing with his wife - who, when playing with couples, would be ordered to suck cock and take it in the ass... and he loved it... and insisted that he wasn't bisexual and that he was just following orders; in his mind, he was a submissive bottom slave. He further qualified this statement by saying that he didn't like being sucked by other guys and wasn't interested in fucking other guys. Since this discussion took place in a swingers forum, the audience went batshit crazy and, let me tell ya - it was one of the most fascinating and heated conversations I'd ever seen - anywhere.

The end of the story is that he confessed that despite being ordered to service guys, yeah - he was bisexual and more so when he let it be known that he was servicing guys outside of the swinging environment - with permission. The "moral" of the story is what someone thinks of themselves is one thing... and what everyone else thinks is something else. If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, then it's a duck or a rose by any other name still smells as sweet - stuff like that. It's about perception and one's self-perception: If you suck cock or otherwise have sex with men and still think of yourself as being straight, well, there you go. I know "straight" guys who are master cock suckers... and they will tell you that they're straight. You can hit them with some knowledge - and proven knowledge about their sexuality... but what you can't do is easily dislodge someone's beliefs or really question how they justify themselves and their actions... and, at the end of any day, it doesn't really matter what they think of themselves or why they do what they do. It is whatever it is even if no one else agrees that it is.

[Jazminedress]

It's about perception and one's self-perception: If you suck cock or otherwise have sex with men and still think of yourself as being straight, well, there you go..

I knew a guy a long time ago...........we used to mess around a little. He had never been with a woman. I made a comment about him being gay, and he got very upset, I mean real upset. Insisted he was a gay lesbian. Now to my way of thinking, I could never wrap my head around what he was trying to say. It would at least have made sense to me if he was someone who dressed en femme, but he didnt.

I have had people argue that I am Trans, no matter what I believe. Reality, I am not transitioning to anything, I know what I am and comfortable with it.

[Bi_Dave]

Buttinsky butt·in·sky. or butt·in·ski. Slang a person who is constantly butting in or meddling in the affairs of other people.

#1. Who cares?
#2. None of YOUR business! It's her life, let her be, to live it without your interference. No, REALLY...IT IS NOT ANY OF YOUR BUSINESS!
#3. There should be less of you people in this world. Cull the herd.
#4. It is my profound disgust that some people just have to stick their nose into everyone else's business. I really, honest and truly do NOT care if they exist anymore on this earth wasting our Nitrogen!