Could use some advice

[Bi-Rõnin]

In just the last few years I've accepted that I'm Bi, and no longer feel ashamed of it. Only my fiancée knows, even though she's stated she didn't think I was at first. Maybe I hadn't slept with enough men. Lol
So, I'm apparently like a lot of bi men. Not really attracted to men like I am to women. But definitely love every aspect of being a bottom during sex. The feeling of submission when pinned down. Feeling and seeing his sexual gratification while he is inside of me. The physical pleasure of being penetrated. There is so much I haven't done that I want to experience including fantasies if you will. Would be nice to find a fwb to learn and gain experience with

Being late 40s, I wish I had started decades ago. Tops don't seem to like middle aged bottoms. And I'm still in that nervous untrusting stage when it comes to meeting strangers

My question for everyone is. How do I get past that? And or, whats the best way to meet and find other bi men

[Long Duck Dong]

it takes time, you can join all the sites you want but its really going to come down to two things 1) what you are looking for.... and 2) if other people want the same.......

so is there a local LGBT group you can join so you get used to making connections and friends ? it can be easier than dealing with endless dick pics and people that talk but never want to meet up.......

what role is your partner playing in this, have you both talked about using toys, strap ons etc so she feels more involved, with just you both... and are you looking for a FB? for just you......

[playful808]

> still in that nervous untrusting stage when it comes to meeting strangers ... How do I get past that?

Experience. If you are an introvert, it is much harder.
You should be untrusting, until you get to know someone.



> And or, whats the best way to meet and find other bi men

The best way? Find a friend you trust. If you don't have that kind of friend, make one.

Ever think about a threesome?
Many bi guys want to be with a couple.

[Bi-Rõnin]

We haven't discussed this. She's used a strap on once. She really got off on it. But gets irritated if i bring it up. Thinking it just wasn't her thing psychologically

[remington12369]

As for meeting other men, luck can play a big part in it. I had a mostly useless account on Silver Daddies for a number of years. Answered a few ads with no luck. The account was all but forgotten when I got a message from another member. Me 63, he is 55. We got together and have a good connection and will continue to see each other for the foreseeable future. Hope you find your answers!

[Bi-Rõnin]

a three some would fill one of my fantasies. Gonna have to bring that up to her

[Neonaught]

Everyone is a bit nervous or even terrified somewhat when meeting a new potential partner. I found that passed as time went by I had more experiences. I like to take the time to chat a bit and try to get a feel for the person before inviting.