Top/Bottom

[shameless agitator]

Just wondering if something in my sexual attitudes is common for other bis. When it comes to sex with women I'm generally a "top" ie generally the instigator & kind of the one in control. With men though I am much more interested in being a "bottom" and having them take control. Much more interested in receiving anal than giving it. I was just wondering if this was common with bi men or if it's just another example of my being fucked up in the head ; )

[Reprob8]

Just wondering if something in my sexual attitudes is common for other bis. When it comes to sex with women I'm generally a "top" ie generally the instigator & kind of the one in control. With men though I am much more interested in being a "bottom" and having them take control. Much more interested in receiving anal than giving it. I was just wondering if this was common with bi men or if it's just another example of my being fucked up in the head ; )

You know what my vote is bro.

[Lorcan]

I was just wondering if this was common with bi men or if it's just another example of my being fucked up in the head ; )

You're not fucked up in the head.... it's just the way you like it.

As for me, I am versatile, and can be both ways with both genders. But i am a very in-between person anyway.

[titeabs]

I have only had two occasions with men, and both I was the 'top'. I would love to be a bottom though...........fwiw. :tong:

[KevsBi]

I prefer to be the top but I am versatile. Sometimes I feel submissive and like for the guy to 'take control'.

[smokey]

Depends on my mood really though I am much more fond of fucking a nice round female ass than a man's.

A lot depends on his size...if he is small, say under 5 inches or so I am not interested in recieving...when it comes to anal I want a large cock...I have a fat 7 inches and that is a nice size for anal...anything under say 4.5 inches and it is just too much of a tease...I want to feel it in me. Though, I will fuck him.

[DiamondDog]

some guys are top/bottom for oral sex too (or french active/passive as they used to say), and not everyone does anal sex either.

[Laurence]

Hey ya'll,
I don't think your "fucked in the head" as you put it :). I agree with Lorcan and DiamondDog - it's just a matter of personal preference. I'm a transsexual bisexual guy (FTM), and personally I'd rather be the top/instigator, but that's just me.

[johndotou]

No your not fucked in the head, its just your preference.

For me I have never done either,well successfully that is. I tried being a bottom but learned I had a hidden talent when I tried it. I learned how to fly of the bed. It hurt like no tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!OUCH. Although I must be a glutton for punishment because I've witnessed it being done and I still want it back there BADDDDD! It looks like it can feel sooooo goood, I'm guessing I just have to find the right person with patients,who's willing to go slow and give me some more time to lube up and get it in.

As for being a top, Again I have yet to do that as well it looks like great fun and I'm curious to (So curious) to do it.

Seems every encounter I ever had or have always turns to the other person going right for my cock (its a little on the large side) and seeing where I'm cautious I wont suck a cock unless its covered, I end up licking balls. While my cock get sicked and they always go for my ass as well, which I dont mind,cause I love my ass licked.So once they start licking my ass thats it for me I'm toast and I just cum so hard.

just my experiences.

[becksbolero]

Very much go getter with women but orally submissive to men.

[hottrodd]

johndotou,

you should buy yourself a dildo or butt plug and practice. you'll figure out how to take it.

[Lyon1369]

With me it's diffirent.

I am in the Leather lifestyle as well as bi. I am a Dom, and a Top for both men and women. I love "Taking control" and doing as I wish with my partners.
I do not submit, I do not bottom. Just doesnt do anything for me. Now if my partner wants to do things to please me, I will gladly lay back and enjoy.
See just because Im on the reciveing end, the "Bottom" position, doesnt meen that Im Submiting. So you see where I come from. (no pun intended)

So I dont think its a matter of one bing fucked in the head. its a matter of what makes you tick, and what makes you, you.
Embrace who you are and how you love/play.
bi4now :three:

[smokey]

Personally I love it in the ass....when done right (not too slow or for that matter not done roughly, but a nice easy ride) with the right size cock. I think 4.5 to 5 is the smallest I will take, anything under that is just a tease...who dat knockin on my back door? and I have taken men about 9 inches but that is a tad too big...6 to 8 is perfect...it drives me wild...I rarely cum from being fucked but if you ride me for awhile and then pull out I will be so hot I will devour you until you can't see straight, then I will let you come.

Far from being submissive feeling for me, after I have gotten a man to come in me...I feel like purring and preening myself.

[FSJeepguy]

Very much a bottom, submissive.

[johndotou]

johndotou,

you should buy yourself a dildo or butt plug and practice. you'll figure out how to take it.

I've thought about it, I think I'm going to do just that.

[joxbear69]

I am versatile with my wife, however, most times I am "the instigator".
With guys, I almost always top--I have bottomed, but not my preference.
Regardless--it's sex and i enjoy it all.

[jimnicenhard]

Hey, there's something to be said for being "fucked in the head." I can think of at least two ways in which that might be fun!

[DiamondDog]

Hey, there's something to be said for being "fucked in the head." I can think of at least two ways in which that might be fun!
uretheral sounds, a glass eye, or fucking someone's mouth/throat?

[jimnicenhard]

I was thinking of being fucked in a restroom (slang: head) or in the mouth. Not that any of y'all would like either one....

[bivision]

I like both but really depends on my mood, more leaning towards the bottom side no pun intended. but I like to do it on top by straddling that way I can control how much , how fast, and how deep, and if he can keep up how long. also that way i can get him positioned inside me to rub the sweet spot just right! like the others said you might want to get some toys and practice and become comfortable with it

[wantus269]

I've thought about it, I think I'm going to do just that.
Thats what I did and I LOVED it! I found that you can "ride" it on all fours once its inserted slightly, lay down and fuck yourself on your back and all sorts of different ways! Personally I am versatile! I can either give it or take it! But i'd rather take it!

[NJpantyboy69]

Like most guys I thought being on TOP was the ultimate, it makes you macho and in charge.

Then I went to the BOTTOM once, and wow, what a ride! There is nothing like actually cumming while you are soft when your lover is riding you correctly, furiously pushing and pulling. :tongue: :tongue: :tongue:

[Bi4now2006]

Well since I am married, Ive discovered that I am definately a bottom, Ive mastered my 12 inch dong too the point I can devour it all up in my ass. I often wonder how much better it would feel though with a real cock that size. I personally am not a top though, something about banging a guys ass, just throws even me "off" like nope!, thats not for me, now if it was some little hot chick in her twenties dam I'd hit that ass.

[pasco_lol_cpl]

Im vers but prefer to bottom. Its fantastic feeling. Of course trying to find the right top for fun, who realzies that im not into seting the land speed record for screwing is another matter all together.

[LouiseBrookslover]

I'm very much a bottom with men. I love the feeling of being taken by another man.

[BiGuyinTX]

Join the club... with men, I am 100%, absolute bottom. The best sensation in the world is a strong man fucking the hell out of me.

[timepga50]

I'm the same way.:)

[timepga50]

I'm the same way.:) I loved getting fucked in the ass!!

[ukmale32]

I've not been fucked a man. Have used a toy on myself & liked it. So its something I want to try. Also have fucked one guy - but he was way too hairy. Have enjoyed anal with women. When I do meet a m, cpl, f - who is bi friendly - I'll try anal then :)

[LouiseBrookslover]

You've experienced the physical rapture of anal sex, then....wait until you actually get fucked and you'll feel a psychological thrill as well.

I've heard many people say that after being fucked, sex is never the same again.....