Which would you choose? (For those who had sex with both)

[Curiouscurious]

I know you hate this question, but if you were only allowed to have gay sex or straight sex for thr rest of your lives, shich would you choose?

Of course assuming you are single. Also why?

[tenni]

You are asking people who are bisexual to chose just one gender. That is what monosexuals believe in as morally correct. I don't think that bisexuals should be forced to pick a side.

Just as gay people stood up against heterosexuality as being the only way and fought for same sex partners as acceptable; bisexuals should not play into the mono sexual practice of accepting only one gender as a partner.

fyi
You do not have to be single to be bisexual. Bisexuals have "same" sex not "gay" sex because they are not gay nor heterosexual.

Bisexual individuals may accept monogamy for a certain length of their life but it is ok to switch gender as lovers or even have a poly relationship as a bisexual..... without guilt please. Your post supports mono sexuality and gives negative support against us. Why do you do this? Free yourself of such thoughts. Its ok to be attracted to both genders.

[loftycraig]

I know you hate this question, but if you were only allowed to have gay sex or straight sex for thr rest of your lives, shich would you choose?

Of course assuming you are single. Also why?at my age, well over 65, being with a man is easier, no drama.

[cornholejoe]

like them both thats why i am bisexual

[Curiouscurious]

like them both thats why i am bisexual

But if you HAD to give up on one?

[Long Duck Dong]

I know you hate this question, but if you were only allowed to have gay sex or straight sex for thr rest of your lives, shich would you choose?

Of course assuming you are single. Also why?


I am reading the question as in the event of medical event such as I lose the ability to get an erection which could adversely impact on a * straight * sex life tho toys would still be an option and I am a open minded person that is fine with being pegged by a female and if I had to, using a strap on to give her, pleasure.....

My partner is a intersex female born with both a pussy and a penis..... within the parameters of the question, me sucking her cock and being fucked anally by her fit the parameters of the question, in regards to gay sex..... as it states type of sex, not type of person

Yes if we were both single, we would choose each other as friends with benefits as we prefer long term connection, intelligent conversation, good times outside of the bedroom and no drama.....and neither of us are interested in casual hookups with random people.....

we both are into cuddling, holding, kissing, masturbation, oral and anal and different positions so the sex would be varied....

so why my partner, over a male ? its cos its so damned hard to find guys that have any interest in anything beyond their cock, as a good number of members have posted about, in their search for long term friends with benefits that want more than just sex...... and why not a female ? if I did not have my partner as a choice, then I would choose a female that was into pegging and using toys on us both as well as enjoying being eaten out and fucked.....

[Jazminedress]

I would chose whoever I loved

[zgay73]

Tough choice for me, not really, I fall on the gay side of bisexual so gay sex it is. Oops didn't see the "for those who had sex with both". Still choose gay.

[sexylacaman]

Both! That’s why I’m BI. But if I had to choose just one it would be straight. I’ve been very affectionate with some men but I don’t believe I could ever be romantically involved with a man.

[John1971]

Both! That’s why I’m BI. But if I had to choose just one it would be straight. I’ve been very affectionate with some men but I don’t believe I could ever be romantically involved with a man.

Same here.

[stonebow]

"HAD" to give up one? What would force such a choice? If partners of both genders are available and willing why would anyone HAVE to choose?

[Neonaught]

I am happily bi but still lean just a bit more towards the opposite sex.

[KDaddy23]

I also choose both.

[jem_is_bi]

I am mostly gay. So, I would choose sex for the rest of my life with my present male partner.
But, some women are just so wonderful!

[csreef]

I am happily bi but still lean just a bit more towards the opposite sex.

Same here.

[NjbiGuy01]

You are asking people who are bisexual to chose just one gender. That is what monosexuals believe in as morally correct. I don't think that bisexuals should be forced to pick a side.

^^^ THIS ^^^

As a bisexual, we really need not make a choice generally. I've chosen to live in a traditional married (to a woman) lifestyle. I have enjoyed sex with men, women and couples, but my choice is that of a more traditional, accepted partnership. I think if my wife were to die or we split, at this point in my life (62) I might be more open to living with a man or finding a poly couple who would let me join, should it come up.

The world is a more accepting place today, my parents are dead, and those were two reasons I might not have chosen to live in a partnership with a man in my youth. Honestly, truth be told, I'd rather be married to a woman who was open and accepting of my bisexuality.

My wife has been a great wife, business partner, mother and friend, but is somewhat closed-minded about that. I recently ended a relationship with a woman I truly thought I might marry, who was open and understanding about my bisexuality. Honestly, that was a great feeling in a partner. My wife and I decided to make things work, and a big part of that is understanding my being bisexual, even if at this point I'm no longer feeling the urges for it. Since that romance blew-up, my sex drive overall too a hit. I am drained (it was pretty amazing), emotionally, mentally, and sexually. The sex was amazing, while sex with my wife is "functional", which we will work-on.

[jamie.knyc]

I would say I prefer women, but I did enjoy the times I have been with men, and I'd like to do more

[biguy54jb]

you havethe best of both i have wanted to meet such a person for my life even if open to polly multiple partners but yea 1 person both dick and pussy i have fantasized

[monaohio]

for me it would be with another man to do me any time he wants to

[BareBalls1953]

I would prefer a male as I enjoy a hard cock in me .
I know you hate this question, but if you were only allowed to have gay sex or straight sex for thr rest of your lives, shich would you choose?

Of course assuming you are single. Also why?

[ready5858]

I have always enjoyed men as one of the previous post said less drama but for me I love a hard cock

[sisboy]

Been with both and married.Have had way better orgasms from men who knew what they were doing than any time with a woman.There is no greater orgasm than a forceful prostate orgasm.Men also suck a cock better than women.

[Neonaught]

If I was forced to chose just one it would be women.

[eager4cum]

In the spirit of playing the game, I would choose same sex over opposite sex. But in reality, I would not want to ever choose long term.

[DD788Snipe]

In the spirit of playing the game, I would choose same sex over opposite sex. But in reality, I would not want to ever choose long term.

Ditto.

[Bisexual765]

Why same sex?

[Fred_Brice]

Why same sex?

Why not?

[chiefconsultant63]

man, easier to deal with....of course cheating is not outside my realm and that would include both cocks and pussy...oh well...

[allmyassbelongtocock]

The great thing is, I don't have to choose, but... if I did, it would probably be sex with a man. I prefer giving a man a blowjob, than performing cunnilingus to a woman. I also prefer the taste of semen over pussy. I also prefer organism from anal than anything else.

[CurEUs_Male]

Honestly, it's a A$$hole question...

I'd have bisex my entire life.

[homebrew]

Ah Nebraska, the "cornhol... husker" state... Sorry, that just popped into my head.

[Geoff Gregg]

I bet most have already made that choice known by who their long term partner is. I don't see to many male couples reaching out for a female, I'm sure it happens, Just my observation. My personal taste is that I love my wife for so much more then sex. I enjoy playing with a guy, but there is no long term commitment or romance there.

[chongster]

I can love a woman, I just fuck men

[JeffT]

Being mostly straight, I'd have to choose female.

[Cum1st]

My (second) wife hasn't been into sex for the last bunch of years. Otherwise we have a good relationship. Many past experiences (70y's old) have shown that having a female FWB would lead to emotional and other complications all around. I do very much like the female form and any form of sex I could have with a woman.

On the other hand, my partner (and I) are opposed to ANY form of discrimination. She hasn't expressed any desire to be with another woman, but knew I was Bi before we wed. She was even curious enough to watch me with another man. Sadly, the opportunity didn't present himself at the time. She also mentioned that she expected I would step out some without a even hint of an issue with it. (That was how we got together.)

A fellow hiker FWB would be Just the ticket. I feel she would be able to accept the arrangement when she suspected it. I am very much into what's in a man's shorts, and would definitely lean into a spur of the moment fondle...

That's my choice if I'm going to have sex for the rest of my life. (And I've had sex with both.)

[Bisexual765]

Why not?

Was just asking

[Fred_Brice]

Was just asking
For myself, I truly enjoy having sex with all the sexes, each brings it own benefits to the bedroom. It serves me, as an example, of what real sex with another, human feels like. I have never complained and I will always have those memories of sexual enjoying with another human body!

[Basin_Bouy]

If I had to choose 1 ... it would be sex with men

[Waylon]

At my age and with various prescribed medications my sexual pleasure is oral sex. I prefer getting a good blowjob from a woman and love to eat out pussy. But being bi, I love sucking cock and would be pleased to give blowjobs to special men. I enjoy being rimmed by either sex but not really into rimming men.

[MissRina]

You can't make choose, I refuse