View Full Version : I think I want to be a sissy
Huey1N
May 3, 2020, 7:36 PM
The idea of wearing thigh high panty hose and having my hair pulled while getting fucked from behind gets me really excited. I don't know if that makes me a CD or a sissy or something. Anyone else into this? It's really just the panty hose, not anything else. Maybe a bra once in awhile.
mr bill
May 3, 2020, 8:14 PM
never me55022ha ha
Jazminedress
May 3, 2020, 9:01 PM
I think sissy would be more of a subservant / master type of thing..............which isnt me, though if you are gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair
Your answer is not an easy one to nail down, just like sexuality isnt (disclaimer, I do believe there are only two genders, but there is more sexual preferences than homo, hetero, bi)
there are crossdressers that would never have a same sex relationsuhip, they just enjoy the dressing
There are people that I would put more into the transexual as they want to live their life as the opposite sex, and may have homo, hetero,bi relationships
there is the sissy (dont really know much about the culture) but I believe that goes more to the submissive thing
there is also the more, I guess you would call it fetish enjoyment of wearing pantys or pantyhose. Which would include just wearing them to make a partner happy because they feel good.
Personally, I am not a sissy (no judgement), I am also not a transsexual. If the oppoertunity to live my life in a female persona came up, I don't know which I would chose. I have simply accepted this is a part of me and I seperate boy mode / girl mode. I am only attracted to men when dressed though.
I also dont dress just for sex, I may be dressed just to lounge around the house.
As of now, I think what you are describing is more of the fetish type, I would say dont waste time being concerned,go with it. If you find you want to dress more, go for it, if you find this is what you like, great....................as someone on here told me, labels belong on soup cans
Jazminedress
May 3, 2020, 9:03 PM
never me55022ha ha
love that dress
csreef
May 4, 2020, 2:13 AM
I'd say explore your sexuality, Slowly. Just take take things in steps; find what you like, and what you don't like or want. Also, a key point to this is find someone who is willing to be patient with you.
Good luck, and keep us posted in your new adventure!
A.
Huey1N
May 4, 2020, 6:11 PM
I think sissy would be more of a subservant / master type of thing..............which isnt me, though if you are gonna ride my ass, at least pull my hair
Your answer is not an easy one to nail down, just like sexuality isnt (disclaimer, I do believe there are only two genders, but there is more sexual preferences than homo, hetero, bi)
there are crossdressers that would never have a same sex relationsuhip, they just enjoy the dressing
There are people that I would put more into the transexual as they want to live their life as the opposite sex, and may have homo, hetero,bi relationships
there is the sissy (dont really know much about the culture) but I believe that goes more to the submissive thing
there is also the more, I guess you would call it fetish enjoyment of wearing pantys or pantyhose. Which would include just wearing them to make a partner happy because they feel good.
Personally, I am not a sissy (no judgement), I am also not a transsexual. If the oppoertunity to live my life in a female persona came up, I don't know which I would chose. I have simply accepted this is a part of me and I seperate boy mode / girl mode. I am only attracted to men when dressed though.
I also dont dress just for sex, I may be dressed just to lounge around the house.
As of now, I think what you are describing is more of the fetish type, I would say dont waste time being concerned,go with it. If you find you want to dress more, go for it, if you find this is what you like, great....................as someone on here told me, labels belong on soup cans
Thank you for the thoughtful response
Huey1N
May 4, 2020, 6:13 PM
I'd say explore your sexuality, Slowly. Just take take things in steps; find what you like, and what you don't like or want. Also, a key point to this is find someone who is willing to be patient with you.
Good luck, and keep us posted in your new adventure!
A.
Thanks!
KDaddy23
May 5, 2020, 1:34 AM
I’ve seen some stuff about sissies and I’ve even seen a “how to be a good sissy” guide complete with everything a guy would have to do to become a true sissy including what hormones to take to grow breasts and pretty much make his cock and balls go away. It’s part submission, part cuckolding, part humiliation, and cock cages are often involved. A lot of this stuff was centered on white men “realizing their place in the world” and become totally subservient to their big-dicked, Black masters or cuckolded by a woman because his cock is deemed inferior and as such relegated to clean-up duty and being a “good little girl” and be taken by her lover and in any way she wants that to happen.
And a true sissy would never have sex with a woman other than licking the other man’s spunk out of her pussy. A true sissy with a “Black Bull” is demanded and required to not only service him but any other men he wants to bring to the party, no questions asked, no hesitation or saying no. I feel this representation is overly hyped but what surprised me were the number of men who, if their comments were to be believed, were extremely hyped to be this kind of a sissy.
If you search the Internet, you’ll probably find this stuff but it’s up to you what kind of “sissy” you want and need to be and, of course, why you want to be one.
tenni
May 5, 2020, 8:56 AM
I have to wonder what being a "sissy" is to bisexuality? I don't see the connection. I am inclined to agree with the poster who wrote that it seems more of a fetish than a sexuality. Are all bisexuals sissies?(nope)
KDaddy23
May 5, 2020, 2:51 PM
@Tenni, I'd suppose it's all about how a guy wants to be a "sissy." Are crossdressers considered to be sissies? I wouldn't say that they are and more so if they only get dressed to the nines when getting with a guy - but are dressed like "regular guys" when getting with a woman... and some maybe get all dolled up for that as well. When I was growing up, "sissy" meant the same thing as being not only gay but "girly gay" - those "flaming fags" I'm sure everyone has heard about in their travels. I see how this... fetish is referred to today and I just shake my head over the whole thing and just chalk it up to yet another way for someone to express themselves. Even still, I wouldn't assume that someone who aspires to be a sissy isn't or couldn't be bisexual.
We talk about all kinds of interests here and they're just as much a part of bisexuality as anything else is.
tenni
May 5, 2020, 6:35 PM
@Tenni, I'd suppose it's all about how a guy wants to be a "sissy." Are crossdressers considered to be sissies? I wouldn't say that they are and more so if they only get dressed to the nines when getting with a guy - but are dressed like "regular guys" when getting with a woman... and some maybe get all dolled up for that as well. When I was growing up, "sissy" meant the same thing as being not only gay but "girly gay" - those "flaming fags" I'm sure everyone has heard about in their travels. I see how this... fetish is referred to today and I just shake my head over the whole thing and just chalk it up to yet another way for someone to express themselves. Even still, I wouldn't assume that someone who aspires to be a sissy isn't or couldn't be bisexual.
We talk about all kinds of interests here and they're just as much a part of bisexuality as anything else is.
KD yes, we talk about all kinds of interests (sexual) but I don't see some of them as talking about their sexual interests for both men and women. Play acting about being a submissive and acting more traditional female than male is walking on "the wild side" as Lou Reed said. I think that a lot of guys who want to be accepted as a sissy or fem submissive are exploring their sexual tastes. A lot has to do with where the guy exists in his own mind. Some guys want to dress fem and act submissive but not on the wild side permanently. Some want women and a more masculine sexual behaviour. Some want to walk on the wild side for good and give up women/men sex.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oG6fayQBm9w
Bottomhubby
May 8, 2020, 8:49 PM
I am bisexual love wearing panties and being a bottom.
I ask the men I chat, play, and have sex with to call me Jojo.
But in my everyday life from the outside i dress masculine and act totally straight.
So in my yes a sissy can be bisexual.
tenni
May 8, 2020, 9:11 PM
I am bisexual love wearing panties and being a bottom.
I ask the men I chat, play, and have sex with to call me Jojo.
But in my everyday life from the outside i dress masculine and act totally straight.
So in my yes a sissy can be bisexual.
Bottomhubby
I think that there are quite a few variations as bisexual man and how a bisexual man lives his life.
With respect will you discuss your relationships with women? Based on what you wrote beyond your moniker you refer to sex with men. Why do you not identify as gay sissy?
Coastocoast
May 9, 2020, 11:53 AM
One more post for the something to jerk to column. It is a shame the site cannot get back on track. There are a lot of other sites to post porn and port topics to.
BottomCruiser
May 10, 2020, 4:23 AM
It's fun to think about until you meet a guy and have to be feminine lol. Sissies are fetishes just like tgirls so yeah you could wear what every other cd wears ... but you're a sissy and you'll have to do sissy things with top guys. This is why I loved NSA and CL because you could label yourself all day but the real question was can you suck really good dick? Cause I can lol, and i knew how to show off my body without the corset and thigh combo.
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silkyheels
May 10, 2020, 5:57 PM
AMEN Jazmine
zgay73
May 11, 2020, 5:18 AM
Not I :)
hung4you
May 11, 2020, 10:12 AM
I don't think my regular buddy would ever want me to be a sissy or fem boy. One doesn't have to be a sissy to enjoy a mans cock and cum. I would say that I am very submissive in private but far from a fem boy/sissy...
Bottomhubby
Jul 19, 2020, 6:41 AM
Bottomhubby
I think that there are quite a few variations as bisexual man and how a bisexual man lives his life.
With respect will you discuss your relationships with women? Based on what you wrote beyond your moniker you refer to sex with men. Why do you not identify as gay sissy?
As of right now my sexlife with women is non existent I am in a sexless marriage the only sex I have is with two male friends and they both love that I wear panties and shave my body .
If I was ever offered sex with my wife I would still have sex with her. I still find the female body sexually attractive along with men's. So I still consider myself a bi man
Warmnsalty
Jul 19, 2020, 8:46 AM
I'm not at all fem, very masc but one of the things I love about sucking cock is being submissive and just there to provide pleasure to guys. I also have a thing for womens heels... full on foot fetish. That made me curious about wearing heels. I love wearing stockings and heels.... would love to find a guy who'd enjoy me servicing him while wearing heels. Hard to find but I keep looking till them I'm happy to just suck and swallow without the heels. 55306