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NjbiGuy01
Mar 16, 2020, 5:31 PM
I don't know about everyone else, but frankly, I'm seriously concerned about this disease.

In my case, I've stopped chasing or setting up any encounters until things get more "under control". I'm simply not feeling it and am afraid. As a 62 year old guy in fairly good health (other than a few stents), I'm not in bad health, but that doesn't mean it can't kick my ass.

The biggest worry (like with STD's) is people who may not know they have the virus and pass it along. Plus, in my state (NJ) and surrounding states, there is now a 8 pm to 5 am curfew to stay at home. As a working musician (and also working for a company that supports live music and performances) this has started to impact on my business as well. Scary times.

Anyone else care to chime in ? How is this affecting your mindset and/or activities ?

bikurinpa
Mar 16, 2020, 6:59 PM
I don't know about everyone else, but frankly, I'm seriously concerned about this disease.

In my case, I've stopped chasing or setting up any encounters until things get more "under control". I'm simply not feeling it and am afraid. As a 62 year old guy in fairly good health (other than a few stents), I'm not in bad health, but that doesn't mean it can't kick my ass.

The biggest worry (like with STD's) is people who may not know they have the virus and pass it along. Plus, in my state (NJ) and surrounding states, there is now a 8 pm to 5 am curfew to stay at home. As a working musician (and also working for a company that supports live music and performances) this has started to impact on my business as well. Scary times.

Anyone else care to chime in ? How is this affecting your mindset and/or activities ?
Most people on these sites do not have any real intentions of meeting any one, just get on to chat when horny to get their rocks off then GONE so this does not matter or make any difference!

MorThan7
Mar 16, 2020, 7:15 PM
The virus has actually made it more likely for me to have encounters. Since most guys are retired and can only play around while their wives are at work, I can now meet since my company has us working from home. I'm hoping to host some meets during my lunch hour. Of course, if I develop symptoms I will stay isolated and expect the same from my partners.

Flypaper
Mar 16, 2020, 9:31 PM
I was thinking the same thing, and how I wished that I was holed up with my 42 yo THAI MILF right now for extended fun rather than chasing cocksuckers stateside. Unfortunately I’m stranded in Europe...


I don't know about everyone else, but frankly, I'm seriously concerned about this disease.

In my case, I've stopped chasing or setting up any encounters until things get more "under control". I'm simply not feeling it and am afraid. As a 62 year old guy in fairly good health (other than a few stents), I'm not in bad health, but that doesn't mean it can't kick my ass.

The biggest worry (like with STD's) is people who may not know they have the virus and pass it along. Plus, in my state (NJ) and surrounding states, there is now a 8 pm to 5 am curfew to stay at home. As a working musician (and also working for a company that supports live music and performances) this has started to impact on my business as well. Scary times.

Anyone else care to chime in ? How is this affecting your mindset and/or activities ?

Neonaught
Mar 17, 2020, 10:51 AM
I feel everyone is over reacting a bit. Those at risk I can understand staying sequestered but for the rest of the population a few simple precautions, the same as those used to avoid the common cold, will work just fine. I think the news media pushing "be terrified" stories 24-7 has whipped up a panic. The fact that the US has a moron leading it is not helping either. I have had a few new prospective partners defer meeting me though.

biwmtrucker44
Mar 17, 2020, 11:05 AM
More of a reason for an introvert like me to stay at home watch porn and jerk off .

JCotton
Mar 17, 2020, 11:46 AM
I have also called off a few meetings. For me, it seems the prudent thing to do.

cornholejoe
Mar 17, 2020, 12:54 PM
really anymore got a friend or 2 i meet upwith so we all local and safe

Fred_Brice
Mar 17, 2020, 2:28 PM
As NiBiGuy01, had mentioned, that he has serious concern!

Like him, I do have some, seriously concerns, about the CONID-19 disease and I have chosen to wait, until this country, is able understands more about this virus, and hopefully soon the USA, is able to have it under control!

I did, have some plans, for a early meet-up or encounter, this very morning myself, scheduled to be after, he was finished at our local VA Hospital. Although we both have been, cultivating our friendship for the last several days, we had talked together and we both agreed, to wait it out, but to stay in contact. He shared with me that he had received, a call from the VA, that all clinics are now closed for the next 8 weeks. Now I have been following the news closely last night and this morning and there was not, any news about our VA Hospital closing their clinics. Which adds additional concerns, especially if the VA, has now close their clinics, for at lease, for a min of 8 weeks!

In my situation, I am a retired and now widowed, living alone. He is also retired, but he is married and his wife still works meaning that she is out working with other people and that does concern me and common since takes over. As a old guy, in fairly good health and even if, I am not in bad health, surly that does not mean that CONVIR-19, can not kick my ass. The biggest worry, is people who may not know, they may have the virus and pass it along.





(https://www.bisexual.com/forum/member.php?67848-NjbiGuy01)

tenni
Mar 17, 2020, 3:13 PM
Here are some actions in Canada in the past two days.
There are five deaths of Canadians at the moment. (60 + in US)(linked to Carnovavirus)
1/This Tuesday morning the Premier of Ontario declared a state of Emergency. Schools, restaurants , bars are ordered to close.
2/ Federally, Canada has closed its borders and Canadians are urged to return asap on Monday. The special commerce relationship between Canada and the US will permit US people to to enter /exit Canada People may not be able to get back home from foreign countries and only four international airports will be open.

Yes, you should be cautious about putting your body closer than six feet to another man's face. That knocks out putting your face next to a stranger who coughs. Incubation is around five days before symptoms show after initial contact. People over 60 are high risk to die and other high risk groups. Most people exposed to virus will live.

MorThan7
Mar 17, 2020, 4:00 PM
As I suspected, I was able to reconnect with an old fuck buddy that I used to see when I could work from home.

bithunder
Mar 17, 2020, 4:12 PM
Sounds like you opt for Joe Biden in November.

bithunder
Mar 17, 2020, 4:13 PM
I feel everyone is over reacting a bit. Those at risk I can understand staying sequestered but for the rest of the population a few simple precautions, the same as those used to avoid the common cold, will work just fine. I think the news media pushing "be terrified" stories 24-7 has whipped up a panic. The fact that the US has a moron leading it is not helping either. I have had a few new prospective partners defer meeting me though.
Sounds like a vote for J. Biden

Neonaught
Mar 18, 2020, 9:37 AM
Sounds like a vote for J. Biden

I will support who ever gets the Democratic nomination but politics is not what this thread is about. I probably should not have inserted it into my post. My apologies.

cbxer66
Mar 18, 2020, 10:28 AM
Yesterday, in the Oklahoma City area, all bars, malls, private clubs, restaurants, theaters, etc. were ordered to close until April 16th. Even heard the guvnor utter shelter-in-place may be necessary. Scary times.

NJwood
Mar 18, 2020, 2:39 PM
This isn’t media hype. There are live conferences by officials who are making the announcements of shutting down. People are getting scared as they do whether it’s a virus or impending snowstorm. As horny as I am I wouldn’t be running out to hook up with someone anymore than I’m running out to work. It’s about not being a channel for the disease to spread to those who are at high risk. Kevin Bacon has even created a 6 degrees game along those lines.

As much as I want to be surrounded by a bunch of big cocks to suck, I’ll just play with my dildos.

Christopher South
Mar 18, 2020, 7:37 PM
I've been meeting every week with a buddy of mine. But he works someplace where there was a diagnosed case so we decided it's probably best to wait for a while. Since I'm one of those with "underlying health issues", I'm playing it safe.

playful808
Mar 18, 2020, 7:52 PM
This virus is going to hit the m4m hookup community really hard.

There are still m4m ads up for random blowjobs, anonymous barebacking, Glory holes, Car sex.

So many guys are complacent about safe sex.

fredward
Mar 19, 2020, 12:21 AM
Not having sex with anyone any time soon :-(

zbi73
Mar 19, 2020, 2:24 AM
I still play with myself :P I'll be a bit pissed if I give myself something.

cbxer66
Mar 19, 2020, 10:40 AM
I still play with myself :P I'll be a bit pissed if I give myself something.

Same here. LMAO!

Neonaught
Mar 19, 2020, 12:02 PM
I still play with myself :P I'll be a bit pissed if I give myself something.

You'd have no one to blame but yourself! LOL

jem_is_bi
Mar 19, 2020, 8:56 PM
I have a long-time friend/lover. He is sick right now (likely just a common cold).
However, I am in health care and have been seeing more than 20 patients a day.
So, given that symptoms of covid19 may be delayed up to 2 weeks, we will not be having sex anytime soon.
He is old like me with pre-existing conditions. I do not want to lose him to infection by me.
I hope I survive this too. I feel fine right now and likely not infected.
But, tests are in short supply, so no tests available to confirm that I am covid19 virus free.
Employer efforts are being made to protect us. I hope that is enough.

The Chunkly
Mar 20, 2020, 3:37 AM
I was thinking about going to my local gay bi sauna but since the rising of Coronavirus COVID-19 and the MK2 strain Coronavirus COVID2-20 to what is even worse as it mutated.

I'm not going to be meeting anyone for some time.

need to be safe for all of us to be safe I think.


What we all must do is not over react and just because someone is coughing will not always mean they have the virus as a lot of us do now.


I saw a woman in a shop blow her nose and the woman in front turned and gave her a look that would kill.

the woman replied back saying it's only a bit of dust ffs!

But that is how it has got people now.

I would really like to blow a few cocks and more but what is safe, who is safe?

Westcoaster
Mar 20, 2020, 11:53 PM
Hunker down guys.....we’re going to need to wait this one out. No need to put yourself, or those you care about, at any undue risk.

I’m pretty sure we all have enough practice and knowledge of knowing how to pleasure ourselves until it’s safe to venture out.

Long Duck Dong
Mar 21, 2020, 12:49 AM
because I do not play around with casual sex with random people, its not really affecting me.... but even in our closed group, one of the ladies is self isolating cos she has a dose of the common cold and the nasty looks she got yesturday in town when she sneezed, kinda showed just how over the top people are being about it....

2holer
Mar 21, 2020, 5:10 AM
I think your smart at 5pm here in Illinios we are told to stay in and not go to work and I agree my and so does my wife lol she wont kiss me or fuck me for 7 days lol hell she would of fucked in those 7 days any way well good luck and dont shot your eye out

xdoorb
Mar 21, 2020, 9:41 AM
I've (hopefully short-term) lost both of my regular friends over this. I really hope it ends sooner rather than later. Starting to look into sex toy delivery....

aut17umn
Mar 22, 2020, 1:04 AM
where in Europe? whats it like there? crazy like here?

aut17umn
Mar 22, 2020, 1:08 AM
This isn’t media hype. There are live conferences by officials who are making the announcements of shutting down. People are getting scared as they do whether it’s a virus or impending snowstorm. As horny as I am I wouldn’t be running out to hook up with someone anymore than I’m running out to work. It’s about not being a channel for the disease to spread to those who are at high risk. Kevin Bacon has even created a 6 degrees game along those lines.

As much as I want to be surrounded by a bunch of big cocks to suck, I’ll just play with my dildos.

LOL best option I fathom.

aut17umn
Mar 22, 2020, 1:16 AM
I feel everyone is over reacting a bit. Those at risk I can understand staying sequestered but for the rest of the population a few simple precautions, the same as those used to avoid the common cold, will work just fine. I think the news media pushing "be terrified" stories 24-7 has whipped up a panic. The fact that the US has a moron leading it is not helping either. I have had a few new prospective partners defer meeting me though.

I agree with you. I am still living my life and nothing to do with sex. Media is hyping it up a bit too much. Being the 4th most populated nation of course we will have more deaths than smaller nations. India and Russia I believe are misquoting the amount they have just to fuck up figures. Anyway I am not deliberately walking right in peoples paths and I when I go to parks to walk avoid the normal trails most people use whenever possible. One thing I will not do until this is over most likely is use a public bathroom. See how they are used during regular times so can imagine nothing has changed even now. But I will continue to walk and not by my house until they start arresting people. Then to me may as well institute martial law.

BigAlNYC
Mar 22, 2020, 4:25 AM
Definitely putting off any hookups for now, even with some guys I've played with regularly before. But I can dream, can't I?...

Blondeblowjob7
Mar 22, 2020, 8:27 AM
I would curtail your activities. There isn’t any evidence that this virus is present in sperm. However, this is an airborne virus. If you’re close enough to someone to be giving them a blowjob, then airborne particles from your feeder’s mouth will be landing on you below them. I think curtailing your sexual activities is a very wise move.

averagejoe33
Mar 22, 2020, 11:40 AM
Hunker down guys.....we’re going to need to wait this one out. No need to put yourself, or those you care about, at any undue risk.

I’m pretty sure we all have enough practice and knowledge of knowing how to pleasure ourselves until it’s safe to venture out.

I agree, I also am an older male 60+ and have underlying health conditions so 10 days ago I quit my job and have stayed on my property since. I don't know if any of this
hype or not but I don't think it's worth the risk. I too will be at home pleasuring myself.

needalittle05
Mar 22, 2020, 2:09 PM
Hi Everyone. like most worried about whats going on. hoping things improve soon...... have to say until then will stay in contact but feel self pleasure will have to do. Hope all keep safe and healthy..

MorThan7
Mar 26, 2020, 3:45 PM
Because I can now work from home I was able to hook up with one of my old regulars. Still have a taste of his cum lingering in my mouth as I write this.

KDaddy23
Mar 26, 2020, 4:57 PM
I'm thinking it's better to err on the side of caution and not run the risk of being potentially exposed to the virus... but it stands to reason that there are gonna be guys who aren't thinking about this and maybe even thinking they won't be infected by it. Hard to say. I know my protege in California is handling his bizness despite the state's shelter in place order and, yep, I've been busting his ass about it but at the end of the day, it's his life and his call to make and when he's of a mind to get some dick and poke a guy in the butt, he's gonna do it and no matter the risk or what the order says he has to do. Even he has said that since the shelter in place order came down, he's seeing three or four times the number of men hitting on him and begging for the dick on his apps and many of them are right there in his neighborhood... and I'm not surprised by that one bit.

For myself, I'll just shelter in place and slake my lust on my lady when she's gonna let me do that. Better to be safe than sorry... and even if she ain't feeling it, I still have two hands that work quite well.

zbi73
Mar 27, 2020, 3:28 AM
When in doubt, rub one out!

DD788Snipe
Mar 27, 2020, 5:34 AM
I don't know about everyone else, but frankly, I'm seriously concerned about this disease.

In my case, I've stopped chasing or setting up any encounters until things get more "under control". I'm simply not feeling it and am afraid. As a 62 year old guy in fairly good health (other than a few stents), I'm not in bad health, but that doesn't mean it can't kick my ass.

The biggest worry (like with STD's) is people who may not know they have the virus and pass it along. Plus, in my state (NJ) and surrounding states, there is now a 8 pm to 5 am curfew to stay at home. As a working musician (and also working for a company that supports live music and performances) this has started to impact on my business as well. Scary times.

Anyone else care to chime in ? How is this affecting your mindset and/or activities ?

I'm with you. I'm not setting up any encounters until the situation clearsup. I'm 63 an have a compromised immune system from a battle with cancer 10 years ago so my wife and I gave quarantined ourselves to our house and only go out for food and other necessities. But damn I sure need a cock.

bobsmith
Mar 27, 2020, 7:18 AM
wait, you are saying if you develop symptoms, which could in fact kill you, you will self-quarantine, but transfer the virus to others since will not know you have it until symptoms show for you? yep that sounds like a pretty smart way to handle things to me.

bobsmith
Mar 27, 2020, 7:20 AM
this is not an airborne virus. it is based on droplets within a close proximity as well as contact with any object which an infected person has come in contact with.

bobsmith
Mar 27, 2020, 7:24 AM
hyping it up? wrong. its not hyping anything it is informing to help stop the spreading of this thing. the current figures globally as on March 27 2020 is what I would not call hyped up, or too much attention, or just not factual.


Coronavirus Cases:549,137

view by country (https://www.worldometers.info/coronavirus/#countries)
Deaths:24,863

Recovered:128,623

tenni
Mar 27, 2020, 12:27 PM
It is reported in Canada that the US has now the most coronavirus infection cases.

"In the U.S., at least 81,321 people are known to have been infected with the coronavirus, including more than 1,000 deaths – more cases than China, Italy or any other country has seen, according to data gathered by the New York Times.
With 330 million residents, the United States is the world’s third-most populous country, meaning it provides a vast pool of people who can potentially get COVID-19, the disease caused by the virus."

https://www.theglobeandmail.com/world/article-the-united-states-now-has-the-most-coronavirus-cases/

bbginva
Mar 27, 2020, 1:05 PM
No playing around til this is over. Staying home, watching porn and jerking off.

xdoorb
Mar 27, 2020, 3:35 PM
I haven't seen my FWB in 2 weeks over this. Really missing it! :(

biwmtrucker44
Mar 30, 2020, 3:18 PM
When in doubt, rub one out!
Or 2 or 3 or 4

DD788Snipe
Apr 3, 2020, 4:22 AM
No playing around til this is over. Staying home, watching porn and jerking off.
Absolutely :thumbu::thumbu::thumbu: Not going to chance it.

NEPHX
Apr 3, 2020, 8:12 AM
I feel everyone is over reacting a bit. Those at risk I can understand staying sequestered but for the rest of the population a few simple precautions, the same as those used to avoid the common cold, will work just fine. I think the news media pushing "be terrified" stories 24-7 has whipped up a panic. The fact that the US has a moron leading it is not helping either. I have had a few new prospective partners defer meeting me though.

How do you feel now? Assuming you're alive. You need to stop saying crap like that. No one really cares how you feel. If you have concrete fact, you might jump in. Had you listened to "credible sources" you would have known in January to start preparing. There was NEVER a question it was going to be severe. You are correct that the MORON in CHIEF didn't help. Don't make assumptions and listen just to media, find the science. It was always right there in the science.
USA Coronavirus Cases:245,442 Deaths:6,098 (4/3/20)

menbi
Apr 12, 2020, 10:37 AM
At the moment the world is turned off including hook up

chongster
Apr 25, 2020, 9:53 AM
I'm in the US and my favorite hook up is in Canada so that is off as long as the border is closed. There is another young bottom nearby that I hooked up with a few months ago that wants to get together again but I don't think he is very responsible and probably not taking any of this seriously so I won't go there either.
The world has changed and may never be the same again. Stay safe

Windman
Apr 25, 2020, 3:39 PM
It has affected my activity big time. I’m not sure if I can make until they lift the restrictions.

playful808
Apr 25, 2020, 7:19 PM
Our long time FWB (a bi male) moved a few months ago. He kind of spoiled us.
I had hoped to interview guys for a replacement, but I am not meeting anyone until this blows over (if ever).
The stakes are too high. Guys half my age are dropping dead.

I have a wonderful life, beautiful wife, great sex life, healthy, secure, sane, etc.
Taking unnecessary risks at a time like this ... feels like pissing into the wind.

GeorgiaGuy49
Apr 28, 2020, 12:26 PM
The stakes are too high. Guys half my age are dropping dead.

I have a wonderful life, beautiful wife, great sex life, healthy, secure, sane, etc.
Taking unnecessary risks at a time like this ... feels like pissing into the wind.

The wife and I have to agree, stay home and play with you partner. Daily, we do. Even if it's just cuddling and reading or talking.