Bisexual / interested in cock only when not with a women

[Tag200]

Wondering if anyone else is like this??? If I have a girlfriend who is great in bed I almost never have the urge or desire for cock. But if I have a less than stellar female lover or not one at all then I think about and want cock.
May the way my cock experience is very limited so it’s not like when desire is there I always fulfill it!

I am only interested in cock and sucking nothing else on a man appeals to me. Anyone else like this? What does it mean?

[chargersfan]

Interesting question.... I don’t seem to drop off want one or the other... after putting it to the misses I have down time not wanting either but as I’m ready to go again they both pop right back in ... I may lean a little one and I’m not sure I’m have mind blowing sex ... lol.

[Fred_Brice]

I do believe, that I often think about, my own preferred preference, which is sucking and swallowing a nice warm load of their man juice hoping that he has a smooth shaved cock and hoping that he reciprocates the same with me, rather than, being in the company of a female body. Many females do carry a lot of baggage and most men do not. I also believe that there are many men, out there, that just would like to bust a nut or two with another guy.
My life of being married and the death of my wife, I really do not want any type of a serious relationship with a female, if I can find another male cock to share mutual oral with.
My experience, has prove to me, that most men would also want to bust a nut or two with another male, rather than a female!
Often, I can still enjoy, the company of a female, most of the time, but then I would have to deal, with all their problems, that many females present. Unless they also, enjoy mutual oral and are willing to suck my cock, which are very limited!

[Tag200]

Thanks for your response .. I must admit I never had mind blowing sex with a women before until about four years ago .. and when I do, cock not on my mind ..

[Tag200]

Thanks for your response . I do have mind blowing sex with a female but must admit there is a ton of baggage...!!! Also my girl loves sex and sucking cock ; she is the dream in bed

So your saying even even guys who want women prefer men because it’s easy and baggage free ?

[chargersfan]

Thanks for your response . I do have mind blowing sex with a female but must admit there is a ton of baggage...!!! Also my girl loves sex and sucking cock ; she is the dream in bed

So your saying even even guys who want women prefer men because it’s easy and baggage free ?

I think it’s a leaning thing more then anything... if you lean towards males it probably won’t matter how good the sex is with a female. I told the misses the other day if we ever split that’s it for me and women and relationships with them... so much work and it’s never been cost effective for me... she has baggage and it’s exhausting at times ...

[Footstep40]

I’ve been in more relationships with guys than gals, not just hooking up, but actual love and feelings and emotions are in play... there is always baggage involved with men too.
I agree that it is a lean as part of the spectrum, nothing wrong with that, I certainly wouldn’t worry about it. I’m in fact kind of the opposite, never thinking about getting with a woman at all if I’m getting great sex from a guy.

[KDaddy23]

Wondering if anyone else is like this??? If I have a girlfriend who is great in bed I almost never have the urge or desire for cock. But if I have a less than stellar female lover or not one at all then I think about and want cock.
May the way my cock experience is very limited so it’s not like when desire is there I always fulfill it!

I am only interested in cock and sucking nothing else on a man appeals to me. Anyone else like this? What does it mean?

On the whole, it doesn't mean much of anything - a lot of guys are like this. I learned a very long time ago that there are some guys who only want dick when they can't get pussy, got a female lover who ain't all that in bed, and even more if she isn't a cock sucker, shows signs of not wanting to do it, stuff like that. While some guys are genuinely into guys, some guys aren't; their only interest is in the dick. There are those who'd say that guys who are like this really aren't bisexual - but that's just an unfounded opinion held by those who'd say that. Bisexuals are bisexual in the way that works best for them and it's not all that unusual that when it comes to sex, having sex with a guy is just about the sex, nothing more, nothing less. Been bi all of my life... and I don't look at men and "lose my mind" like I would looking at women who visually excite me. I want the dick whether I'm getting pussy or not and it's just my way of being bisexual. Nothing unusual here.

[Tag200]

On the whole, it doesn't mean much of anything - a lot of guys are like this. I learned a very long time ago that there are some guys who only want dick when they can't get pussy, got a female lover who ain't all that in bed, and even more if she isn't a cock sucker, shows signs of not wanting to do it, stuff like that. While some guys are genuinely into guys, some guys aren't; their only interest is in the dick. There are those who'd say that guys who are like this really aren't bisexual - but that's just an unfounded opinion held by those who'd say that. Bisexuals are bisexual in the way that works best for them and it's not all that unusual that when it comes to sex, having sex with a guy is just about the sex, nothing more, nothing less. Been bi all of my life... and I don't look at men and "lose my mind" like I would looking at women who visually excite me. I want the dick whether I'm getting pussy or not and it's just my way of being bisexual. Nothing unusual here.


Thanks for your reply.. I just find it interesting that when my super sexual girlfriend was with me I hardly ever even thought about cock. But when she left me I mostly thought about cock and only 25% about finding another women

[Bifun2009]

I am the same. When, in a relationship with a female, I don't have any desire to have sex with a man. I'll think about it from time to time but, just don't act upon it. At the moment, I have interest in a woman and have gone on 2 dates with her but, I've been satisfying my sexual needs with my current buddy. I would like for things to move forward with this woman but, I am at a point in life that I want to continue seeing my buddy (once a week or every other week, right now). It would be great to find a woman that would love to play with my buddy and I in a 3some :bigrin:

[Jazminedress]

I am a weird one, when dressed, I have the desire for male company, when in "boy mode" , women. Walking down the street I dont look at men and think, wow, I want that, but I do look at women.

Now, if I go to a club that is accepting of people like me, then I notice guys more but not women, its almost like a on off switch.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I am a weird one, when dressed, I have the desire for male company, when in "boy mode" , women. Walking down the street I dont look at men and think, wow, I want that, but I do look at women.

Now, if I go to a club that is accepting of people like me, then I notice guys more but not women, its almost like a on off switch.

I'm the same with regard to the first sentence, but not the second. I really don't notice guys in any context. (Don't go to clubs like you mentioned, so that could be an exception...) It's only when I'm looking online for someone who enjoys this type of play, or meet someone who I know enjoys these pleasures, that I begin to have a serious urge to be with a man.

[playful808]

My lovely wife and I like to share a man’s body together.
For me, sex with men is better when she is present.
Perhaps I am more open to vulnerability.

YMMV.

[Tag200]

Thanks for your input. What if your wife didn’t know and you coolsnt trek or or you were it married ? Would you seek cock as often as pussy or if pissy was good you wouldn’t think about dick ?

[Safebutcraving]

Wondering if anyone else is like this??? If I have a girlfriend who is great in bed I almost never have the urge or desire for cock. But if I have a less than stellar female lover or not one at all then I think about and want cock.
May the way my cock experience is very limited so it’s not like when desire is there I always fulfill it!

I am only interested in cock and sucking nothing else on a man appeals to me. Anyone else like this? What does it mean?
I think it is common and rings true. My male on male experience is limited to oral and I enjoy it. I think bisexuality is inherintly a broad category.

[Tag200]

That’s all I am interested in too and not fully when I have a strong female sexual partner in my life

[playful808]

Thanks for your input. What if your wife didn’t know and you coolsnt trek or or you were it married ?
Would you seek cock as often as pussy or if pissy was good you wouldn’t think about dick ?

I do not understand your first question, but my wife knew I was bi from the start.

I like to have both in my life, and I crave whatever I do not currently have.

[williamg]

Married 30 years to a hot woman. We fuck like crazy. She uses a strapon or at least a toy in my ass from time to time. But here I am looking to see what other bi curious guys are doing. You seem to be the classic bicurious like many of us. A good portion of my porn viewing is gay or trans porn. I too want to feel cock. But timing is everything when discretion is needed!

[RisingBi]

Ever since my first ever girlfriend broke up with me in 1992 when I was 30 after 3 years dating and heading to marriage, gay desires and fantasies would appear whenever I got rejected by a woman or failed getting dates. Lots of gay porn just fed that, until it would drive me out looking for cock. That's also all I was interested in when I was naked with a guy, sucking each other's cock, although all my fantasies and gay porn included everything gay. In 2013 I was overcome by desire for a guy's ass that I met (I tonguefucked his ass for over an hour before fucking him), and ever since then I've been interested in ass as well in real life, though not with every guy. But still not the whole guy, though in my fantasies I fantasized about falling in love and even marrying a guy, and just being totally gay.


When I finally got together with my second girlfriend 3 years ago, a woman who was off the charts gorgeous and out of this world amazing in bed, loving cocksucking, cunnilingus, fucking, fucking me with a strap-on, and me tonguefucking and breeding her ass while she had multiple orgasms every session with all we were doing, you would think that my gay desires would stop. But when our relationship became rocky early on, and the rollercoaster continued all the way until breaking up with her in December, I did turn my mind to gay fantasies and gay porn whenever we were on a break or she hurt me. But when a medication I was taking started screwing with my ability to orgasm, with me taking usually much longer time than the 2-3 hours we would spend in bed having sex, I found myself jerking off to gay porn at home later that night each time we had sex and I didn't orgasm. And gay porn continued at other times too, until it became an obsession and I became addicted (I'm on the wagon now). And every single time I did it, she would know (some kind of clairvoyance?), so I was hurting her a lot, making her feel inadequate. But I didn't cheat on her with a real guy. And I absolutely loved making love with her all the time; she was really extraordinary. Now that we're done for the final time, I know I need to get out there again in the gay sex world.


I don't know how it will be for me, because real life rarely matched my gay fantasies and what I desired. I so would love to have the same passion for a guy that I have for woman, at least for his whole body, and not just his cock and ass, but also his friendship, if not love. Maybe it'll happen, and maybe not. Maybe it will just stay always about cock & ass. If it's not going to be with a woman, then I want to have a more meaningful connection with a man. Time will tell. And of course the right guy.

[Tag200]

Thanks for your post .. still would love to hear from others on this?

[Neonaught]

I guess I am bisexual to the bones. I'll enjoy either sex solo or both together and have just as much fun and satisfaction. I do encounter guys who say they will only engage in bi play with a woman present to at least watch. Such guys break down into two categories: men just looking for pussy and willing to play a little bi to get it and men who need a woman present so they don't feel "gay".

[Tag200]

Interesting post .. I don’t need a women present to play with a man but like I did a super sexual women keeps me almost uninterested in a man.. I have a women now I can play with and she does not know I want to play with men, but it came up would I let a sissy suck me and I told her yes and she wants to warch

[zbi73]

I think the desire for me would always be there regardless if she's good or not in bed but I wouldn't act, commitment etc.

[NJwood]

I am more about the cock. First marriage after my first man on man experience, I really didn’t think about it for years. As the relationship soured I started finding myself desiring cock more. After she passed I found it easier to just go to the men’s spa and get the release and indulge my growing desire for sucking cock. When I started dating my second wife it came out in conversation that I had sucked cock. It was an immediate turn on for her. That was a big part of what led me to marry her. She watched me once on webcam suck a young guy. Once we were married it kind of faded into the background. Time and opportunity just never seemed to come together. We did talk about guys we would see pics of. I would focus on their cocks. There was one guy who just fired me up. Amazing looking cock and he was in good shape. But it was that hot thick, long cock.

Once she went menopausal and it adversely effected our sexuality life I started fantasizing about men’s cock and sucking once again. I found myself jerking off wanting a cock to play with. When I returned home at Christmas I went to the spa to indulge my craving for cock. Then I bought a dildo with the idea I would try some anal pleasure to see if it was as much a turn on as sucking. I’ve alsways enjoyed being rimmed so it seemed a logical next step. With my wife’s blessing I am in full search mode to find cock. So far it’s been good. But, it’s still the size and shape of the cock that gets me going. If the guy is good looking that’s just added bonus