wife averse to swallowing cum...whatis wrong with her?

[mike r]

Back in the day, say 25 years ago,my wife and I were swingers at club where male bisexuality was not openly expressed, and I was not ready to embrace it myself. She always felt that oral sex was only and always foreplay. Even in the marriage bed. Now I have sucked a few cocks in my time but only experienced a guy ejaculating in my mouth twice. Both times were fantastic. My wife has given up sex all together in her 60s.She knows i'm bi and is ok with it. But man oh man did she miss out!:)

[GayGuy04]

That's sad to hear your wife lost interests with you sounds like you still enjoy little cock from time to time

[Flypaper]

My wife was also a sometimes enthusiastic cocksucker but never once did she swallow. Mostly foreplay or even after play if she lost interest in coitus but knew I needed to cum.

We had a very active and healthy sex life that for many reasons just dried up. She doesn’t ask how I get my jollies and I don’t talk about it. She’d probably be shocked to learn than I’ve had cocks on my mouth, but I think I told her about my first male handjob.


Back in the day, say 25 years ago,my wife and I were swingers at club where male bisexuality was not openly expressed, and I was not ready to embrace it myself. She always felt that oral sex was only and always foreplay. Even in the marriage bed. Now I have sucked a few cocks in my time but only experienced a guy ejaculating in my mouth twice. Both times were fantastic. My wife has given up sex all together in her 60s.She knows i'm bi and is ok with it. But man oh man did she miss out!:)

[delpark]

My wife never liked me to cum in her mouth, said she didn't like the taste or texture. Her giving me oral sex was the first to go. She has no interest in sex at all nowadays.

Me, I have swallowed each load of cum to enter my mouth.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I've read many stories here where the woman is past menopause and no longer has any interest in sex, and the inevitable result is that the man 'discovers' his bi side and seeks hookups with other males to obtain sexual pleasure. My own experience satisfies only half of this equation, that of a happily-married man who has developed an interest in cock later in life.

I've been married for 48 years. My wife has always been, and remains to this day, very adventurous in the bedroom. She's open to trying just about anything, including a brief foray into swinging. There were several reasons that we only experimented with swinging for a relatively short time. When we discussed stopping, she sort-of complained that all the guys just wanted blowjobs, and few picked up on the fact that she'd have loved to be fucked in the ass. So, to me, it was clear that she doesn't like to give oral, even though she didn't come out and use those specific words.

My wife still loves having sex with me, although it has changed quite a bit as we've gotten older. But for all the experimentation we've done, I've probably not had a single blowjob from her in about 40 of those 48 years. And there have been some years where it was, maybe, once or twice. It's just not her thing. If I went downstairs right now and asked her, she would suck me off -- I have no doubt about it. But who wants that? I'd rather be with a man who loves the feel of a cock in his mouth, and the taste of cum.

Since I've been more open about wanting to experiment with other men, especially when en-femme, I don't think she's sucked my cock in nearly 3 years. But it's ok. I am permitted to satisfy that area of interest outside our bedroom with other males. I don't play often, but when I do, it's with her knowledge and consent.

[Neonaught]

My lovely wife of 33 years has been swallowing all my loads since we were 17. Now, as a bi couple, when we enjoy a MFM encounter whoever gets the guy's cum shares it with the other spouse in a hot kiss!

[Waylon]

Back in the sixties when wifey was my girlfriend, she loved to give me ( and a few other guys) blowjobs and always swallowed. After we married, she would service me anytime I wanted and quite often begged me to let her suck my cock. I usually complied because I figured if I didn’t, she would find a guy that would! Sadly about 10 years ago she stopped all sexual activity. That’s when I let my bi side blossom and enjoy giving head to certain men. Like wifey. Swallowing is a must when giving oral.

[dan.woodlawn]

how can anyone eat the twinkie and not the cream? i need my reward after all that "work"

[guywholikesboth]

my wife has given up on sex it took me 10 yeaars to get her to take it in the ass she then wanted it that way most times she was never into oral didnt like me to eat her pussy one day in the shower I was using the spray on her clit when she bent over and took my cock into her mouth I was shocked after about ten minutes I unload in her mouth she said nothing she didnt spit it out when I went to kiss her their was no cum in her mouth at least I had that one time

[Grant_Norman]

Swallowing cum is what is the great reward for feeling a nice cock in your mouth...enjoy!

[KDaddy23]

With some women, it's a problem due to the length of time it takes to get a guy to cum that way, the taste and consistency and, for some, the sure and certain belief that a man's sperm belongs in one place only - their pussy. My first wife told me, when I asked her why she rarely sucked me off, that she knew that if she made me cum in her mouth, she wasn't going to be fucked and she didn't think it was fair that I get off like that and she has to wait for the pleasure she wants other than me eating the living daylights out of her. At some point, a lot of women just lose interest in sex and sometimes it's not just menopause that's the culprit and I have yet to hear a woman explain why they get it into their head that having sex is no longer a thing they want to be involved with other than, "I just don't feel like it anymore" and whether menopause is the cause or not. Which, of course, tends to push men into bed with other men; one can sneak out and get some "new pussy" but at some point, the same thing is going to happen while men, historically, don't have that physical - and, perhaps, even emotional problem.

What's wrong with her? Probably nothing but if you really wanna know, ask her and don't accept "I don't believe in it" as her final answer although questioning what someone believes is a pretty tough thing to do because you could get her to see that oral sex is sex and she can agree... and still won't want anything to do with it because she doesn't believe in it.