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zgay73
Feb 8, 2020, 3:31 PM
We all get aroused in various manners and ways but for me, since my very first camera, I've enjoyed taking video or photographs of myself naked or masturbating. Does anyone else enjoy doing this and get turned on by it? Obviously this is a private fetish and those photographs/video are for my eyes only. I've heard of others doing this and deleting them once they're done but mine now date back over 20 years. It's always been a solo thing, no partners involved. It's not to say that that wouldn't be a turn on but revenge porn is always a factor.
biwmtrucker44
Feb 8, 2020, 6:16 PM
I do. I prefer live in person but I got my start with Yahoo groups video chat. After starting a video chat with a couple of people I didn't intend to masturbate for I stopped . On my fetlife.com page I do have an old video of me masturbating.
Robtiti
Feb 8, 2020, 6:19 PM
Same here. Take pics of myself only for my eyes.
SilkyHoseLover
Feb 8, 2020, 7:18 PM
I enjoy giving a show to others who like to watch and comment. Never force my images on anyone, but am delighted to share...
eager4cum
Feb 9, 2020, 10:20 AM
We all get aroused in various manners and ways but for me, since my very first camera, I've enjoyed taking video or photographs of myself naked or masturbating. Does anyone else enjoy doing this and get turned on by it? Obviously this is a private fetish and those photographs/video are for my eyes only. I've heard of others doing this and deleting them once they're done but mine now date back over 20 years. It's always been a solo thing, no partners involved. It's not to say that that wouldn't be a turn on but revenge porn is always a factor.
IF you had asked me this about 10 years ago, I would have said an emphatic no. Today though, I must answer yes. I discovered this late in life but started to realize that I must have some amount of exhibitionism in me because once I took a pic of my cock and put it out on the site, as I got positive feedback, it made me hornier. In addition, I tried 2c2 masturbating with other guys, gals and TG's and found that I got rock hard the more people were watching. today, I have about 500 pics of myself and can even get hard just looking at my own cock.
Waylon
Feb 9, 2020, 10:58 AM
I have been observed giving a guy head in a parking lot by other guys. My side chick has used my phone to video me sucking a couple of guys off. But pics and vids are for me only but some don't show my face so those are ok to share.
zgay73
Feb 10, 2020, 1:13 AM
Not so weird then :)
querty
Feb 10, 2020, 6:47 AM
I enjoy a couple of different venues for exhibition fun. I enjoy going on cam in the bi men or voyeur chat rooms on SLS (swinglifestyle.com). Ill set myself up with toys and spend a good half hour or hour pleasuring myself with anal toys, my sound (a new thing for me!) Etc, vs just stroking like the 10K other guys on cam. I get alot of positive feedback!
Sometines Ill video myself and watch it a few times or share with select playmates.
My favorite is having sex in front of a crowd, such as at a swing club.
Neonaught
Feb 10, 2020, 9:42 AM
We all get aroused in various manners and ways but for me, since my very first camera, I've enjoyed taking video or photographs of myself naked or masturbating. Does anyone else enjoy doing this and get turned on by it? Obviously this is a private fetish and those photographs/video are for my eyes only. I've heard of others doing this and deleting them once they're done but mine now date back over 20 years. It's always been a solo thing, no partners involved. It's not to say that that wouldn't be a turn on but revenge porn is always a factor.
Now that is a photoalbum I would pay good money to see! :>)
Neonaught
Feb 10, 2020, 9:44 AM
When I make pictures and videos it is usually to share with some of my close bi friends. Several of them are married closeted guys so they joke that they live their bisexual lives vicariously through me.
BiSNJGuy
Feb 10, 2020, 12:18 PM
While I enjoy time with myself if a friend is not available, I have found that a morning spent masturbating is so much more enjoyable via Facetime. A long edging session with someone else if just so enjoyable for me. Ive never tried the site mentioned above but am truly interested in finding out more on it.
csreef
Feb 10, 2020, 7:20 PM
The only photos I have shown are on my Bisexual.com profile. There is one with my balls in my then Gf's mouth.
zgay73
Feb 11, 2020, 3:02 AM
Now that is a photoalbum I would pay good money to see! :>)
It would have more books than Friday the 13th.
Neonaught
Feb 12, 2020, 11:20 AM
It would have more books than Friday the 13th.
Wouldn't be anywhere near as scary though!
MAcpl69
Feb 12, 2020, 3:37 PM
My wife is shy when it comes to her body. She is now 55 (sorry I mentioned age honey) she works out all the time and in my eyes is in fantastic shape. I would love to see her walk down a nude beach, naked, go the beach bar, order a drink and say "hey guys I like it up the ass so get in line and plow me while I enjoy this drink". That would be fun
bbginva
Feb 13, 2020, 8:54 AM
Even though I do not have the most beautiful body, I love to exhibit it. I go to nude beaches whenever possible and used to be a regular at Gunnison Beach on Sandy Hook in NJ. I have also been to Orient Beach, St. Martin in the Carribean which has a nude section and then also gone nude on beaches with either a large gay contingent, or was less populated. My wife has been to the nude beach with me once but refused to remove her bathing suit. I also like to go to jack off clubs or bathhouses where everyone is walking around nude.
semod
Feb 14, 2020, 5:31 AM
My wife is shy when it comes to her body. She is now 55 (sorry I mentioned age honey) she works out all the time and in my eyes is in fantastic shape. I would love to see her walk down a nude beach, naked, go the beach bar, order a drink and say "hey guys I like it up the ass so get in line and plow me while I enjoy this drink". That would be fun
You two need to go to Desire in Mexico
cbb83
Feb 14, 2020, 12:54 PM
Yep. Exhibitionism is a thing. Although if the photos are for your eyes only it's more narcissism than exhibitionism, lol. Try getting nude on a webcam on a chat site some time where you can control who sees you. Getting recorded is a risk, but less so if you're just showing to people you're chatting with as opposed to an entire room. Although if you get naked on the internet, yes, eventually the images will get around. It's unlikely anyone you know will see them though - and if they do, well... that means they are going to the sort of places you are, maybe for the same reasons. Could be a bonding experience instead of blackmail ;)
NerdyBiGuy
Feb 14, 2020, 3:51 PM
I kinda have an exhibitionism streak, not anything in person, just sharing pics and vids. :-)
MAcpl69
Feb 15, 2020, 12:41 PM
You two need to go to Desire in Mexico
Thanks seemed, I'll check that place out
MAcpl69
Feb 15, 2020, 12:43 PM
Sorry semod didn't mean to screw up your name
cbxer66
Feb 15, 2020, 1:35 PM
The extent of my exhibition is during the summer wearing super tight speedo type swimwear. I'm 58 but workout daily and still have tight abs, nice arms and a nice bulge in said swimsuit. Even had a lady one day at a pool party say " I see what you have dirty old man!". LMAO!
MorThan7
Feb 15, 2020, 2:53 PM
I try not to masturbate but I love taking pictures in the nude and with a hard on. I am happy to share if it turns people on. I love the compliments and I love to give compliments when pictures are shared of other people. Never force or expose to someone not wanting to see.
proteindump
Dec 14, 2020, 3:10 PM
I am an exhibitionist for sure. I don't mean with pictures of me, my body is not what most consider sexy. But I get a huge turn on when I am in a group (sex club or ABS) and I am sucking a guy off or eating a chick out. I will not go to a glory hole, not into that at all, but go into the main theater where there are other people and I go instantly into heat if I can do a guy and there are a couple watching. I guess I have become a cum slut.
fredward
Dec 14, 2020, 5:03 PM
I LOVE going to a gay sauna and having sex in the open areas. Such a turn on. The more watching, the hotter it is.
JordanCD
Dec 14, 2020, 10:42 PM
I get turned on imaging guys jerking off to my naked pictures.
RisingBi
Dec 15, 2020, 1:03 AM
I think there is exhibitionism in me, though I don't identify with it all that much. But if I think about it, and I've even written a bit about it, it's definitely there.
I frequented gay bathhouses in my 30s and 40s, but I always hated the aspect of wearing towels to cover up our privates as we walked around. It wasn't just because of the voyeur in me, loving to look at guys' cocks and asses, prevented by the towels, but it was about being freely naked and open to others. I know that was the case because whenever I took the towel off, like in the showers, or as soon as I got the towel off and started walking towards the whirlpool, that feeling of being naked for all to see felt so freeing and sexy, and connecting with the gay part of myself.
I also frequented nude beaches (and want to do more of it, but I'm currently living in an area where it's harder), both co-ed and all male, and even though most of the naturism for me is about connecting to mother earth and nature and myself, I think some of it was to just present and share my body, not in a narcissistic way, but just in a openness way.
But the greatest proof for me of my exhibitionism streak happened in a gay bar that I used to go to once a month in Toronto when they had clothing optional nights. I would always go naked (except for shoes), but probably 60 or 70% of the guys in there kept their clothes on. But I got such a massive thrill walking around naked among so many clothed people, with eyes on my body and hard cock (I was always so excited and feeling so free that I usually had a hard-on most of the night). It's the sexiest I've ever felt in my life to date.
But what isn't there with my exhibitionism is the risk and fear factor. All of this for me is safe exhibitionism, and I think that's what I like. I've never really done any exhibitionist things where there was a risk of getting caught because you were doing something wrong in the eyes of society. That part just hasn't been there for me, at least not yet.
Asspussy302
Dec 15, 2020, 1:10 AM
Love taking pictures of myself, just nudes or videos of masturbation. All just for me.
ct_sounder
Dec 15, 2020, 9:41 AM
Years ago I enjoyed Yahoo chat for anon cam to cam. I also made a couple of vids of me cumming for a porn uploading porn site (I forget the name).
Now I enjoy keeping my radar up whenever I am in a restroom. I had many experiences jerking at urinals and watching other guys do the same. Highway rest stops are the best but I also had an experience at an airport rest room.
Not looking to suck or anything, just two horny guys at a chance encounter. Some times I cum, most times just enjoy some stroking and looking at my partner's nice dick.
You might be surprised how often this happens. Look for guys that hang at the urinal longer than others. A sideways glance will probably get them to stroke a little (more than 2 shakes and you are playing with it!). Give a few strokes and keep glancing. That usually works for me.
I always take in my surroundings whenever I am in a rest room.
fredward
Dec 15, 2020, 9:42 AM
But what isn't there with my exhibitionism is the risk and fear factor. All of this for me is safe exhibitionism, and I think that's what I like. I've never really done any exhibitionist things where there was a risk of getting caught because you were doing something wrong in the eyes of society. That part just hasn't been there for me, at least not yet.
Great phrase: safe exhibitionism!
That's me too. I don't want to be naked and sexual at a supermarket or on a train. I want to be naked and sexual out in nature or in a place where nudity is accepted.
borntosuckcock
Dec 15, 2020, 11:05 AM
I like to give my iPhone to the I’m sucking off for him to make a video. I save the videos to watch and jerkoff later. I also send them a copy of the video, if they have a private email. Use to jerkoff on campus years ago, but site went bad.
Bi-Rõnin
Dec 15, 2020, 4:35 PM
To an extent, I do have an exhibition side. I've made home videos and put them online. Never been watched in person but think it would be 🔥 having someone watching me get nailed
Keithy
Dec 18, 2020, 11:02 AM
i have just spent over two hours online exposing myself and doing whatever anyone commanded me to do. If the wife is not around I always switch the lights on when I am naked before pulling the curtains so that anyone who cares to be passing gets a good view. So am I an exhibitionist _ Hell yes!
Footstep40
Dec 18, 2020, 1:14 PM
In my younger days at first nope! Nervous about being in a room nude with more than one other person. You do a few adult films and the attitude becomes almost “who needs clothes..or a room”.
nowadays(pre Covid, minus the beach) ..I feel fine when and where it’s acceptable & appropriate, nude beach, spa or resort, no clothing no problem, but I’m not going to get sexually active, it’s not appropriate! Get together with some of the fellas? I’m usually the first one in the buff. Done a bit of cam stuff with a friend, it’s really easy to me.
GreenFedora
Dec 18, 2020, 2:26 PM
I LOVE going to a gay sauna and having sex in the open areas. Such a turn on. The more watching, the hotter it is.
Me too. I miss it now with the bathhouse temporarily closed. Big turn on!
borntosuckcock
Dec 18, 2020, 2:42 PM
I like exposing myself, especially when my cock is hard. Used to jackoff where I could be seen, in public restrooms, cars, parks, etc. like to wear short baggy jogging trunks that would expose my cock and balls when I sat down. I also liked to give blowjobs where I could be seen. I remember my favorite rest stop parking lot, I’d be sucking one guy while others were waiting a turn at my mouth.
tenni
Dec 19, 2020, 12:17 PM
What does "exhibitionism" have to do with Bisexuality?
All bisexuals are not exhibitionist. Some may be but I doubt there any evidence that even a majority are exhibitionist.
There is nothing wrong with being an exhibitionist as long as it doesn't damage another person.
This seems a bit off topic of the purpose of this site. Try to remember what this site and forum are for (bisexuality). Some of the posts are interesting to me and I'm sure others. Ask yourself if your post includes ideas about bisexuality if possible.
Basin_Bouy
Dec 19, 2020, 2:52 PM
I love taking nudes of myself, I do it quite regularly. Some I share, some I don't. I also love being photographed in the nude by other people.
csreef
Dec 19, 2020, 4:08 PM
What does "exhibitionism" have to do with Bisexuality?
All bisexuals are not exhibitionist. Some may be but I doubt there any evidence that even a majority are exhibitionist.
There is nothing wrong with being an exhibitionist as long as it doesn't damage another person.
This seems a bit off topic of the purpose of this site. Try to remember what this site and forum are for (bisexuality). Some of the posts are interesting to me and I'm sure others. Ask yourself if your post includes ideas about bisexuality if possible.
In today's world, being an Exhibitionist can land you in jail fairly quickly. 2 cents worth.
moreno22
Dec 19, 2020, 4:14 PM
I like to see others show themselves
Johnyonenut
Dec 20, 2020, 7:03 AM
I am just the opposite. As I was very late to develop and not very well endowed I have a poor body image. But I love to peek at others both male and female. Wonder what the sex would be like with either gender. A confirmed voyeur all the way.
Neonaught
Dec 20, 2020, 9:08 AM
I am just the opposite. As I was very late to develop and not very well endowed I have a poor body image. But I love to peek at others both male and female. Wonder what the sex would be like with either gender. A confirmed voyeur all the way.
It takes all kinds to make a world. If there were no voyeurs who would the exhibitionists show off too? LOL
dowmass
Dec 21, 2020, 4:24 PM
I LOVE going to a gay sauna and having sex in the open areas. Such a turn on. The more watching, the hotter it is.
Do you remember the first time you had sex in an open area?
How did it feel (were you shy/afraid/stressed out etc?)
How does your partner feel - and is that allowed in gay bars of Canada?
Flypaper
Dec 25, 2020, 9:34 AM
As several of my friends here know, I am a total exhibitionist. I try to maintain my body, and I enioy sharing my pics.
I try and let it dangle a bit at the gym to see if I am draw any “fans” but I’m afraid of getting smacked with a perv tag.
A gay sauna would be fun, but: pandemic
Warren63
Feb 1, 2021, 6:37 PM
Loved getting blowjobs on the interstate let people watch, head in my lap ,ass in the air. Let all the truckers see!
Waylon
Feb 3, 2021, 11:15 AM
In the summertime I enjoy cruising the local park n ride lots to attract guys that want blowjobs. i am shirtless and wear my hair long and being somewhat muscular, I usually attract a guy who wants his cock sucked. I have him get in my passenger seat and start sucking. If any other guy pulls up to watch that is no problem. When I'm done with the first guy, the guy that was watching usually gets in for his turn.
Rezzonto
Feb 11, 2021, 12:21 PM
Male exhibitionism has always been a mystery to me, but when a girl shows her naked body to those around her, it's amazing. It's especially cool when she takes beautiful erotic photos that make me horny. I often look at photos with this topic on the Internet and nude photos of girls with rare appearances look especially great, for example, Elizabeth Ostrander Nudes (https://fapdungeon.com/white/elizabeth-ostrander-big-tits-model-nudes/) photos. When I first saw her photo, I was delighted with her perfect body and stunning photos. I advise everyone to evaluate her high-quality photos and have fun.
rubiroid
Feb 11, 2021, 12:29 PM
Male exhibitionism has always been a mystery to me, but when a girl shows her naked body to those around her, it's amazing. It's especially cool when she takes beautiful erotic photos that make me horny. I often look at photos with this topic on the Internet and nude photos of girls with rare appearances look especially great, for example, Elizabeth Ostrander Nudes (https://fapdungeon.com/white/elizabeth-ostrander-big-tits-model-nudes/) photos. When I first saw her photo, I was delighted with her perfect body and stunning photos. I advise everyone to evaluate her high-quality photos and have fun.
Where can I find some more feedback?
fredward
Feb 11, 2021, 4:07 PM
Do you remember the first time you had sex in an open area?
How did it feel (were you shy/afraid/stressed out etc?)
How does your partner feel - and is that allowed in gay bars of Canada?
I've never been to a gay bar, tho I've been to many gay saunas in many cities. I don't see the point in a gay bar for me. I'm looking for sex, not a relationship.
The first time I had sex in an open area was with my wife at a swinger club. That took a while to achieve, but I loved it. My wife likes it too. We love being naked with/in front of others (tho it has to be in a place where nudity is more or less OK).
Once in the backroom of a swinger club, my wife and I were fucking (I was on my back), and a younger woman was fucking her BF next to us. She started to watch us, and said something to the effect that she was enjoying watching us. Our bodies were close enough to almost touch. She then reached out and stroked my head tentatively. I said I liked that. She continued to stroke my head gently while we were both fucking our partners. I reached up and held her hand and looked into her eyes, it was so f-ing hot. I soon came massively inside my wife, looking into this girl's eyes. OMG. Often at a swinger club, fucking with your partner next to another couple doing the same leads to swapping or group play at a club, but that didn't happen. The other girl went back to fucking her BF, and my wife and I watched them for a bit longer.
MAcpl69
Feb 11, 2021, 4:14 PM
Your adventure at the swingers club sounds hot! Hopefully I get to try it.
ct_sounder
May 18, 2021, 10:54 AM
Anyone else like to show on the DL when at at a urinal? Especially when travelling.
fredward
May 18, 2021, 9:34 PM
Yeah, a little bit, but always so it's ambiguous enough for plausible deniability. If anyone ever noticed, it wasn't obvious to me. I esp. like this at a swimming pool / YMCA when travelling. I pull it out kinda obviously and hold it as I pee. Maybe someone noticed, maybe not. Wish I knew.
redngoldpride
May 21, 2021, 8:34 PM
I have always enjoyed an audience whether it's a lone person or a group of people , our group has annual parties and some have had as many as 50 in attendance and our little get togethers , here in the bay area there are some very friendly night clubs for the gay , bi , trans community and a few who allow some open sexual activity which is great for my exhibitionist side