Alone in a hotel room

[DareMe]

I travel every so often for work. For some reason, when I am alone in my room, I am always more horny than usual!

i wish I had some company at the moment.

;)

DM

[Coconut-Joe]

Agreed, same for me .

[zbi73]

Must be something about hotels .... they both start with the letter "h" :P

[Long Duck Dong]

without any distractions going on, you notice your emotions and desires more.... simple psychology 101

still, it gives you a chance to focus on what you desire and how good it would feel to fulfill them

[fredward]

Hotel rooms really do it for me too. Once I'm done my work obligations, I'm naked and watching porn for hours.

[CentralMaGuy]

My wife has always said (well, since we had kids anyway!) that hotel sex is the best sex. I think it's because when you are away all the day to day stuff that creeps into our minds that distract us from really enjoying ourselves fade into the background.

I used to travel a LOT for business (100K miles/yr), and hotel rooms was where I really got to explore my own sexuality and realize that I love looking (and more) at a nice cock almost as much as I do a great pair of tits! :)

[Robtiti]

Same here. Whenever I'm alone in a hotel room, it's pure nakedness then some fun alone. Such a turn-on being alone for some reason.

[eager4cum]

I agree, I love the freedom a hotel room gives me. I get semi hard while checking in too.

[travelingman5000]

I also have sex on the brain when I am staying in hotel rooms alone on business. For me I would think it is because my first experience with a man as an adult was in a hotel room on a business trip. I have posted that story before.

[Biappeal]

Nothing beats masturbating and fantasizing about being with a man in hotel rooms!

[Glasscityguy]

I'm in a hotel tonight in Noblesville IN. Hotel rooms don't make me horny unless there's a good reason. Typically I'm tired and just like to relax because I've had a day of work and travel. It's also nice to get away from the home routine. Now if I'm there with others then it's a different story. Especially if it's someone I don't know that well then hotels are the best. That way I don't have to see their collection of human lamp shades at their place and they don't have to tell me I have too many guns and watches at mine.

[hung4you]

Just for this reason is why I have been lucky finding like minded guys to play with while traveling. I too love to be naked and can watch porn and edge for hours. I know men are always looking to get off when away from their wives. It’s interesting and fun to find a horned up guy ready to bust a nut because he is doing the same thing you are. It all boils down to who has the desire to seek out these like minded men. I for one have sucked and swallowed a lot of cock while traveling, most of them are hard working professionals who have a desire for private man on man time. On occasion I even find a guy who is willing to spend the night for morning fun.

[cslutt]

Love, love hotels! I was on the road for a company and loved staying over! And I loved to dress, too; had a separate bag in my car in the wheelwell for just such 'special' occasions! I would see about picking up some playtime company at the bar, if none, I would retire to my room and change into lace and femme including makeup, strutting in front of the mirror with my cock out, dripping precum. Eventually I would finally orgasm, usually more than once, and eat it all up! Then go to bed, get up in the morning and jerk off to hard cock mags I'd bring with me, including fucking my asshole with a huge dildo and cumming greatly!

[averagejoe33]

If ever in Phoenix : q

[fredward]

So ... how do you road warriors / hotel travellers find guys to play with? Do you use apps or just go to a bar and see what happens? (I don't use much apps since CL died.)

If you do go into the hotel bar, how do you figure out who might be game? How do you talk to them? How do you go from talking about football (or whatever) to talking about man-sex?

(I've never managed a hotel pickup (male or female) in my life, tho I've done well online in the past and also in gay saunas, where you don't need chit chat to warm up.)

[hung4you]

fredward, when I travel and looking to find a like minded guy or gal to play with keep human nature in mind. Most if not all tend to be older meaning guys and gals in the 50 or 60s. As with most of these ,most if not all are either married or in some sort of relationship and not exactly getting what they need at home or some are just plain horned up all the time. If the hotel has a workout center, use it, I have been lucky to meet a few guys there, if the Hotel has a bar, all the better, most men love being around other guys during baseball or football games. Also don’t be shy, strike up conversations but don’t be to anxious just feel the situation out and see where or how the conversation is going. Also watch body language, people will give off certain vibes that if you are tuned in can lead to lots of fun. Just sit back and watch a crowd sometime you will see what I’m talking about. If you walk in expecting to find a buddy for the night forget it, it takes a little effort to identify and how to properly start a conversation.

Of of course sometimes it’s as easy as just going to the gym and finding a like minded guy or gal. Most men will and do like to show off their body’s and I am no different as I tend to wear clothing that allows others to see the outline of my junk. Not long ago I was on a treadmill wearing my earbuds when in walks an older lady very much in shape and attractive. Her tight spandex shorts was showing off her camel toe and I could see was checking out my package I took my earbuds out and said holy cow it’s hot in here, she smiled and said it could get hotter, that was the ice breaker, and as direct as one could get. We finished up our routine and made plans to meet up for a drink after a shower, we met up and I ended up screwing her most of the night. Her smooth hairless pussy was used and abused that night as she litterly made the bed so wet we had to sleep on a towel.

Bottom line one is always be willing to watch listen execute a plan and have fun trying.

[Leo Rabbit]

Yup! I can relate. Travel a lot and one of the draws is that I'm typically alone...none of the day to day responsibilities of home/family life for a short time. That's typically when I actually have some time to look online, etc. Nothing has happened...yet!

[RisingBi]

My gosh, I thought it was just me! I am always super horny in a hotel room. Like others have said, there is this great freedom you feel in a hotel room, away from your worries and responsibilities perhaps. It affords the opportunity for your true self to come forth. For me the true self is the gay side of myself I find. It was in a hotel room that that self was really born for me. After my first girlfriend broke up with me when I was 30 and broke my heart, I went on the road for 5 months. In the 4th month I started thinking about sex with guys for the first time. I bought a couple of gay porn magazines, and took them back to my hotel room. It was by far the most incredible, all-night masturbation session, looking at those unbelievable naked pictures of guys, both individual as well as male couple sex, and I've never stopped thinking about sex with men ever since, and I've had lots of sex with men ever since.

As soon as I enter my hotel room, I rip off all my clothes, and just feel so free, alive, sexual, and gay! Ironically, I've actually never had sex with another man in my hotel room (though there was a huge gay orgy that I attended monthly for more than a year in Toronto that took place in a huge hotel suite, always with 30-50 guys). But I have had sex with girlfriends in hotels. But what I really need to do is start trying to hook up with guys in hotel rooms, to see how out of this world it might be to bring my very passionate solo gay experiences in hotel rooms into partnered ones, to really let the gay part of me explode together with another man in my pure horniness of my hotel room!

[KDaddy23]

@fredward, I'd usually go to the hotel bar (or the closest one if the hotel didn't have one) and just have a drink or two... and wait. I'm one of those "unlucky" guys - when I go looking for it, I can't find it and couldn't find it even sitting in a gay bar! But if I'm not looking, at some point, someone will show up and we'll get to talking which usually leads up to having to go back to our respective rooms alone and, hey, would you mind some company for a little while? I was hoping you'd ask! Over the many years I traveled for business, I've had sex with a good mix of both men and women - but mostly men - who find they don't wanna be stuck in their room and be all by themselves.

[Jozyxt]

There is something about the anticipation and freedom you feel when exploring a new place and the transitory feel of the hotel room that make me open to new encounters. There is also the stress of travel and the relaxation that an orgasm brings. I used A4A and DL last time I traveled to look for a cocksucker. But it didn't work out. Next time I travel solo, I'll get a head start on the hookup.

[BiGuyinMA]

Love, love hotels! I was on the road for a company and loved staying over! And I loved to dress, too; had a separate bag in my car in the wheelwell for just such 'special' occasions! I would see about picking up some playtime company at the bar, if none, I would retire to my room and change into lace and femme including makeup, strutting in front of the mirror with my cock out, dripping precum. Eventually I would finally orgasm, usually more than once, and eat it all up! Then go to bed, get up in the morning and jerk off to hard cock mags I'd bring with me, including fucking my asshole with a huge dildo and cumming greatly!

You sound exactly like me... I too, have the goody bag of lingerie, heels, wigs, make up and dildos.

[csreef]

I have stayed overningt at a hotel 4 times, and nothing happened...Years ago, I was a van driver for a hotel, that is another story altogether! :impleased

[mrheem]

I got on Grindr and have had a couple AMAZING experiences...a hot married guy, and a young black guy who really was amazing

[KDaddy23]

One of the things I've not quite "figured out" is how some guys can be alone in a hotel room... and they're thinking about having sex with a guy but when they're at home, they're not thinking about it. I've had guys ask me about this and I admit that I don't know why and I can't take my own experiences with being alone in a hotel room and wanting some dick because I always want some dick.

[Jazminedress]

One of the things I've not quite "figured out" is how some guys can be alone in a hotel room... and they're thinking about having sex with a guy but when they're at home, they're not thinking about it. I've had guys ask me about this and I admit that I don't know why and I can't take my own experiences with being alone in a hotel room and wanting some dick because I always want some dick.

well, like me, I got home yesterday, and I just want to sit and relax..........not two weeks in a hotel room, it gets boring. Even though I still have a TV, I still have my computer, same crap I would do at home, somehow, it just gets you to be meh in a hotel................so ya start thingking , and hmmmmmmm

[Jozyxt]

My first time alone in a hotel since I started the game resulted in two nice visits. One in my room and one at another guys place near the hotel. It made the trip a whole lot more memorable. Although I couldn't discuss it among the muggles.

Tuesday morning, a friend and I plan to get together with a traveling salesman at his hotel and help relieve him of the alone in the hotel blues.

It is a great opportunity for some action with less stress than making local arrangements. An no concern that I might run into a friend.

[Modude]

Anytime I'm away from the wife and in a hotel room by myself, I get so horny. Not sure why but it seems to affect a lot of other guys the same way

[Modude]

My first time alone in a hotel since I started the game resulted in two nice visits. One in my room and one at another guys place near the hotel. It made the trip a whole lot more memorable. Although I couldn't discuss it among the muggles.

Tuesday morning, a friend and I plan to get together with a traveling salesman at his hotel and help relieve him of the alone in the hotel blues.

It is a great opportunity for some action with less stress than making local arrangements. An no concern that I might run into a friend.

Sounds like a blast....

[RisingBi]

One of the things I've not quite "figured out" is how some guys can be alone in a hotel room... and they're thinking about having sex with a guy but when they're at home, they're not thinking about it. I've had guys ask me about this and I admit that I don't know why and I can't take my own experiences with being alone in a hotel room and wanting some dick because I always want some dick.
As I've mentioned in an earlier post this year, and Long Duck Dong posted back in 2019, without any distractions, responsibilities, or your fear & learned internalized homophobia in home surroundings in your own town, being away in a hotel room allows you to be totally free to let your true self emerge, and that true, repressed self is your gay aspect. You unconsciously give yourself permission to entertain your gay desires and fantasies, and as LLD said, "and how good it would feel to fulfill them." That is reinforced by the great pleasure fantasizing about and feeling these desires brings you. This is definitely what happened to me when my gay side reawakened as an adult in 1992 in a hotel room at 30. That night was the best masturbatory edging and multiple orgasms of my life up until then--to gay porn magazines that I bought earlier.

[Jozyxt]

There is also something erotic about being in a room where you know other people have fucked. It could have been that very morning. I could have been a husband and wife, a man with a prostitute or two men, or......

I find the stirring of the imagination that comes with the sharing of space to be very erotic.

[chongster]

I have always loved sex in a "motel" where I'm from. Long before I ever found my bisexual side I would take women to motels for sex. I've had sex with a couple guys at the local Super 8 this year. It just seems to add to the excitement of it all, once you're in the room together and nothing but pure lust from there.

[Jozyxt]

I have always loved sex in a "motel" where I'm from.

It removes the awkwardness of being in someone's home and needing to be a good guest. I find that particularly difficult when the guy wants to be talked to. It has been difficult for me to learn to call someone names in their own home even though they have asked for it.

[xdoorb]

A hotel room is anonymous and lends itself to feelings of anonymity and being able to unleash a side of ourselves we might not be able to otherwise. I know that's been my experience quite a few times.

[4nik8ter]

Anytime I'm away from the wife and in a hotel room by myself, I get so horny. Not sure why but it seems to affect a lot of other guys the same way
Guilty as charged. Currently in a hotel room a long way from home, horny as hell

[Jozyxt]

Guilty as charged. Currently in a hotel room a long way from home, horny as hell

Wish I could help you with that problem.

[Naughtnick]

I'm in a hotel tonight and tomorrow night super horny for cock. Had a couple of offers but I keep getting nervous and bottling it. It's not my first time being with a man although has been awhile kicking myself for missing opportunities

[mrheem]

Hotels! You bet! I found a guy on Grindr down the hall one time and had a great time. On another trip a very attractive black guy totally seduced me in the hotel bar and ended up taking me to his room. Awesome experience that was.