fredward
Sep 16, 2019, 4:57 PM
I travel for work some, and when I get the MM itch I usually find if there's a gay sauna in town and go there. No social skills needed! I seem to do pretty well as a reasonably GL silver dad type guy.
I've only once managed to meet someone in public that led to a sexual encounter (male or female). A guy made eye contact with me on a subway, and I reciprocated. We got off the subway together at the last stop, and I walked him back to my hotel room and fucked him silly. But neither of us spoke a language the other could understand, so it was a little awkward. It was so hot, and I can't believe it "just worked" that one time. Hasn't come close to happening again.
So I'm thinking that hotel bars might be a good bet to find guys looking for a little fun, but I'm not a great seducer. I've read lots of stories here about guys who seem to be able to do well in hotel bars. How do you start? What do you talk about to begin? How do you eventually let the other guy know that you want to get into his pants (or get him into your pants)? Does it ever blow up in your face cos you guessed wrong?
Any good hints and/or stories about hotel bar encounters that turned out well for you?
I've only once managed to meet someone in public that led to a sexual encounter (male or female). A guy made eye contact with me on a subway, and I reciprocated. We got off the subway together at the last stop, and I walked him back to my hotel room and fucked him silly. But neither of us spoke a language the other could understand, so it was a little awkward. It was so hot, and I can't believe it "just worked" that one time. Hasn't come close to happening again.
So I'm thinking that hotel bars might be a good bet to find guys looking for a little fun, but I'm not a great seducer. I've read lots of stories here about guys who seem to be able to do well in hotel bars. How do you start? What do you talk about to begin? How do you eventually let the other guy know that you want to get into his pants (or get him into your pants)? Does it ever blow up in your face cos you guessed wrong?
Any good hints and/or stories about hotel bar encounters that turned out well for you?