Boyfriends and girlfriends!

[zizzy]

I'm curious about people you have had a girlfriend and a boyfriend. I'm espeacilly interested if you was dating the boy and girl at the same time, but if not, please still share. Tell me if you liked the boy better, the girl better, neither or both! Please tell me!

[anne27]

I'm curious about people you have had a girlfriend and a boyfriend. I'm espeacilly interested if you was dating the boy and girl at the same time, but if not, please still share. Tell me if you liked the boy better, the girl better, neither or both! Please tell me!

I'm married and had a girl friend, too. Does that count? It was one of the happiest times of my life, while it lasted.

[zizzy]

To anne27: Yes that counts!

[Herbwoman39]

I'm married to a wonderful man who is not ready to share me yet. Complicating the matter is that I am a) a bi-virgin and b) a 2 time rape survivor so finding the right woman is going to take some time since I have some baggage that she and I would have to work through.

This is why I keep hoping for a kind, patient woman who doesn't mind that I'm out of shape and getting ready to turn 40.

[Mrs.F]

I am married to a bisexual man (I"m straight) and I found out just a yr. ago...(today is my 1 yr. anniversary on here...woooooohooooooo!) that my husband is bi. Our life has changed ALOT and our marriage has become stronger. We've had many ups and downs, all good ones, and all one's to learn from. We've done more talking and communicating then I think we ever have in the 10 yrs. we have been married.

While I felt I was ready for him to have a male friend in his life, as reality got a little closer and closer.....I discovered that I was not ready. which made me frustrated with myself. I am not upset that he is bisexual...I actually admire him for being that way and able to share his feelings with me but at this point in time I am not ready for the "boyfriend". I think alot of it is because I am a monogamous person and I just can't share. We have the rest of our lives and who knows what that will bring. :)

[Tynary]

I haven't had a boyfriend (I'm still very young so it doesn't matter)
I almost did once but the situation was wrong. All my close friends are male so that fills the void somewhat.
I prefer male friends anyway.
I've had two girlfriends when I was v young. It was nice while it lasted but both relationships ended badly. I felt I was kinda using them to discover my sexuality.
I haven't had enough relationships to know which I prefer.
If I could find someone who was like a best true friend who I could have fun with and tease with and was a lover and soul mate that would be perfect and since I prefer male friends I would probably like it to be a boy but there are qualities in girls I like better as well and finding a perfect person isn't likely so I dunno. (poor me)

[shameless agitator]

I was in the situation of having both for a while & it was great. The most important thing is to make sure everybody is on the same page. Everybody has to be okay with the situation and if there's a jealousy issue things can get ugly really quickly. If you intend on staying with the original partner it's critical that the new one understands this & doesn't think you're going to leave him/her for them & if they can't cope with that then it just isn't going to work.

[silverleaf]

I am happily married to a very open minded (straight) man who I can say from experience is willing to share . I agree that all parties have to be on the same page, The thing I learned the hard way is that honesty is also VERY important between all parties involved. I found having the ability to have a girlfriend while married to a man can be a great experience but if there is a hint of dishonesty it can have lasting negative affects.