Blow and Go

[Poppi999]

As an older gent I have had limited luck in finding other gents for mutual fuck and suck. A lot of guys express interest but then no follow through. Recently I had an offer for a blow and go. He just wanted to show up get on his knees and suck me til I shoot my load. So he sucks me, swallows and then gets up and leaves. He is not interested in any reciprocation of any sort. I now realize that is a niche of gents that just want to suck and swallow with no expectation or desire for any other interaction. DonÂ’t get me wrong, I am not complaining, I now have 3 guys that come by and service me on some regular basis. I have not had my dick sucked this much in many years.

just curious as to why the desire for a one sided interaction. I would have been more than happy suck them off as well.

Any theories?

[Tnstr8sucker]

I'm one of those guys. I like giving no-recip bjs.
For me, servicing a guy is more psychological pleasure than anything else. In "real life" I'm an alpha dom type. I'm the boss. I run a company, give the orders, make the decisions etc. My "real life" personality is confident, maybe a little cocky....you get the picture..

There is nothing more opposite than getting down in front of a guy and sucking his cock. I get a huge rush from it. When its no-recip, it's even more of a rush. At that point, my position in life, business, success, etc means nothing. I'm just being used as a mouth to cum in.
Nothing else gives me that kind of feeling. Sounds funny but it's like therapy. It's like CEOs who pay hookers to whip and pee on them...lol...

While in some situations i love mutual play and even just receiving, its different.

My interests vary depending on the guy as well.
I'm typically not attracted to guys at all except in rare cases. It's the situation that get me off.

I like to service older, bigger, straight, usually married guys that aren't getting it at home and just want to feel a mouth. They want to watch porn or have the room dark and pretend it's not a guy sucking them.
I particularly like the type of guy who probably wouldn't be getting tons of responses from an ad or profile.

The submission aspect gets me. I sometimes roleplay in my own head when I'm meeting someone. I pretend and fantasize that I'm being made to do it by someone else. Like someone else has chosen who I have to service.

On the flip side, being in my mid 30s, average dadbod type I surprisingly get quite a few young guys who want to do that to me.

[Neonaught]

In the last two years I have met 4 guys who just want to suck me and nothing else. I guess it's because I am well-hung and they all seem to really enjoy what they are doing. One always wants a rough throat-fuck and I give him just that. Since we have seen each other he's gotten quite skilled at getting me all the way down his throat and it feels great. Another always wants the same scene: me standing in a darkened room, he arrives and goes to his knees and sucks me and then immediately leaves as soon as I cum. Since he's a gym-bunny 26 yr old muscle boy I don't mind a bit!

[cornholejoe]

got one guy who sucks me off and leaves and i got this one man who i will meet and suck him off and he leaves

[Poppi999]

Thanks. I suspect your insights are the basis for why some guys find this the ideal interaction. One guy comes in, I say hello, he nods and goes down on his knees and begins to suck my cock and in just a very few minutes I am filling his mouth with my load. He gets up, grabs a bottle of water from my fridge and leaves. I usually send him an email thanking him for the visit (I feel like that is the least I can do), and I get a happy face in return. At first it felt strange but now I just relish in the fact that I am well serviced.

[bimwmoh]

All of the guys I meet with are only interested in having their cocks sucked and not returning the favor. I am ok with that. One guy has me get on my knees in front of him and then empties his bladder full of piss down my throat and then grabs hold of my head and throat fucked me hard and deep till he blows his load into me. I love it and need nothing in return

[Rvdude05]

I just love the blow and go, it arouses me. And I get to enjoy the sweet rewards. I'm getting closer to my goal, to take a cock all the way down my throat.

[KDaddy23]

I've never been sure about this other than maybe being crunched for time; maybe the other guy had some kind of "shame" or "guilt" going on? Was one of those guys who didn't want his dick touched, let alone sucked in return? I don't know. Even I used to do blow and gos and wasn't interested in having the favor returned - and most of the time, it was because I had squeezed the blow job into my schedule that day or it was a spur of the moment encounter... but sometimes, even when I had time, all I wanted to do was blow the guy and either he left or I did.

Still not sure about that. I think I went through a period where sucking and splitting just seemed like the thing I needed to do. I'd meet with a guy and one of us gives head... and thanks, I needed that, have a good day. Maybe one or two times in that period I found myself thinking that I should have returned the favor or should have let it be returned but, bleh, it was what it was and it was enjoyable - plus I could always screw one of my ladies to "make up for it."

I've never gotten upset about the blow and go - that's just the way it goes sometimes. What I've thought over the decades is that the blow job is so popular as a thing to do because it doesn't take a lot of time to do it, you can do it almost anywhere, and you don't need any preparation before the fact other than making sure you wash your junk - or it's okay enough for those spontaneous blow and go moments. I grew up with this rule: If a guy sucked your dick, you sucked his in return... but as I grew up, it just didn't happen that way and sometimes returning the favor wasn't required or, again, there just wasn't any time. I think that "period" for me lasted about maybe two or three years - then I got right back to if I suck your dick, you will be sucking mine; otherwise, no deal.

[Rvdude05]

As I get along in years, I find older cocks a great pleasure. They are so appreciative, and willing to share. A satisfied customer is a happy customer, and returns often. I love cock!

[KDaddy23]

How does one get out of the blow and go thing if/when it doesn't suit their purpose? Like I said, I "changed my mind" about it and "insisted" on guys who were able to suck and be sucked but, yeah, the occasional blow and go is okay - just not how I want to always do things. It's okay to "put your foot down" in this... but you do so with the understanding that there are gonna be other men who just want to blow and go so the "solution" is to get with guys who are more like-minded about this as you are.

[softheart]

As an older gent I have had limited luck in finding other gents for mutual fuck and suck. A lot of guys express interest but then no follow through. Recently I had an offer for a blow and go. He just wanted to show up get on his knees and suck me til I shoot my load. So he sucks me, swallows and then gets up and leaves. He is not interested in any reciprocation of any sort. I now realize that is a niche of gents that just want to suck and swallow with no expectation or desire for any other interaction. DonÂ’t get me wrong, I am not complaining, I now have 3 guys that come by and service me on some regular basis. I have not had my dick sucked this much in many years.

just curious as to why the desire for a one sided interaction. I would have been more than happy suck them off as well.

Any theories?

There are times when a partner is selfish and only wants to blow you and you don't feel like reciprocation because you just blew your wad. The OP will let me come over and blow him, and that's that. I got what I wanted.

[happymex]

I have been doing blow and go since I was fifteen, I enjoy it as the only thing I want is to suck his dick and feel him shoot his load into my mouth. I currently work in an adult book store and spend most of my time in the arcade. I don't have the time to mess around but when I do get an occasional cock it has to be a blow and go. The blow and go turns me on and the booths with the glory holes are the cleanest in town.

[dickneeder]

I love cum. I suck for cum. The comment about the guy who pisses first is very hot. Im looking for regulars to blow and go... piss makes it hotter as a starter or to wash down the cum. My favorites are younger guys who cum quick abs shoot big loads.. nothing the feel and taste of a cock pumping a big load in my mouth... I'd rather suck cock than anything else. I've been trying to get a regular blow group going. I need guys who only want sucked so all us cocksuckers get our fill... why do I do blow and go? I love cum.

[Rvdude05]

Myself, I don't get hard anymore. VA says it's because of Agent Orange I got in Vietnam. I love cock all my life, and enjoy pleasing others. Older folks are more appreciative. Hope this explaination helps. Yes, I get turned on sucking and swallowing, but the cock won't work. Embarassing!

[Cum1st]

Given a choice of one or the other, I'd rather suck a cock than have a man suck me. The parts of a man that really turn me on are in his shorts. I'm not saying I don't want a man to suck me off. Just given my druthers, I'd rather watch a woman's face on my lap with her cheeks sucked in. If her titties were out it would be even better. The best blowjobs I've received from men were in the 69 position. A man's cock, balls, scent, and asshole in my face really turn me on. I'd say 69'ng with a man is every bit as exciting as with a woman for me.

I really like to suck cock.

I guess it's time I get going and do something around here since there isn't a man here to distract me.

[Bi-guy rick]

The beauty of well matched sex with another man for me, is that we both are equally into it, we both understand each other. I suck cock and he knows I am loving it. He sucks me and I know he is so into it. The same with fucking. I prefer versatile men because when I am fucking a guy I know how he feels, and I get off on that because I crave cock in my ass. Blow and go's are underwhelming encounters. Give me an hour… to two with an equally matched man. THAT is what I crave.

[julyguybill]

for me its blow and go mostly i want to suck 3 or four guys when i go out then let a guy suck me i go to a park and a bath house in the city where i live i just enjoy the feeling of a cock in my mouth and love for my friend to cum