Do you look at men when your out/about?

[GayGuy04]

Anytime I'm out I'll look at a guy's ass or maybe his crotch too sometimes ill look at a guy even if he's married or has a girlfriend and I'm not touching lol just looking with my eyes :tongue:


Anyone else do this too?

[jem_is_bi]

I check out guys that I know or suspect are gay or bi. Otherwise, I pay no attention to them at all.

[Neonaught]

Sure I do. Nothing wrong with enjoying the view!

[SilkyHoseLover]

I check out guys that I know or suspect are gay or bi. Otherwise, I pay no attention to them at all.

Same here. In fact, most men that I see in public make me wonder why I am interested in M-M intimacy. It's only when I somehow am made aware that we share common desires and interests that my attitude towards them changes.

[atxbi]

I didn’t used to. Then after I found out how much fun sucking dick is, I do find some men attractive, and find myself looking down there to see what kind of bulge I can find, and imagine what his dick is like. Just like I have always imagined what women’s tits look like when looking at their chest.

[delpark]

Yes, I look at men while I am out and about. Opportunity may be knocking.

[Virilecraft]

I normally don't but I started a new job today and there was a cute guy in orientation I couldn't help but wish was gay... It sucks I couldn't ask hope he is because I would have loved to lick him all over. Any of you guys ever have a co worker you checked out.

[GreenFedora]

Sometimes. Years ago it probably would've been more difficult.

[csreef]

Honestly, I don't.

[Basalt79]

I feel the exact same way and am happy you articulated it so clearly!

[zbi73]

My closet has no peep holes.

[Tight1-4u]

Yes all the time.. since I figured out a few years ago that I don’t need to fit in any categories or scales.. I find that just being me and playing the field and giving myself permission to feel what I feel.. I find that I get horny in all sorts of places and situations that I never allowed myself to in the past.. even the smallest things like a look or his smell or something he says can get me all horny.. it really is a lot of fun to find myself lusting after a guy I don’t even know but I know I want him to fuck me.. and fuck me now.. I can go from 0 to bend me over and breed me in seconds.. it makes everything so erotic.. I wish y’all could just drop all the titles and just fit and be you..

[monaohio]

yes i do i look if i can see if their cock is outlined in their pants

[rascal2014]

I have caught myself now and then checking out mens ass or crotch, especially if i am at the beach. Oh yeah and those women too.

[GayGuy04]

yes i do i look if i can see if their cock is outlined in their pants

That would be a sight to see

[whistle1]

I pay no attention to men at all when I'm out and about. By contrast, I check out every woman I see - and will sometimes go out of my way to get a better look at a particularly attractive one. I guess this fits with the "not attracted to men, just cock" mentality.

[NjbiGuy01]

I do, not overtly, but I do look an attractive guy up and down sometimes when they catch my eye. On rare occasions someone might catch me looking at their crotch or checking them out and respond in kind...only once did it go further than just a look.

I was on a business trip and sitting in my hotel bar in Ohio and another middle-aged guy struck up a conversation which led to "where you from", "what do you like to do", "are you staying in the hotel ?" which led to us spending a few hours making one another feel great ! A hot shower, and an hour or two of sucking, fucking, making out, and we both tapped out pretty tired by 2.00 am..we woke up at 10 am and both missed our morning meetings....we managed to reschedule, which gave us time to play a bit more before we went our separate ways.

[Zoom1969]

I definitely look at other guys when I am out. Probably more so as I have gotten older. I always try to be really careful and discreet! A few times I found a guy so attractive that I don't really mind if they realize I am checking them out! Usually the first thing I notice on a guy is their backside. I love a guy with a really nice ass!!

[GayGuy04]

I definitely look at other guys when I am out. Probably more so as I have gotten older. I always try to be really careful and discreet! A few times I found a guy so attractive that I don't really mind if they realize I am checking them out! Usually the first thing I notice on a guy is their backside. I love a guy with a really nice ass!!

I'm the same way I'll look at the ass on a guy too yum

[kutag]

The only time I look at a guy is on a beach or pool etc.
I will then look at his bulge and out line of his cock.
If he is wearing a G String or Thong it's a big turn on looking at
the string up his arse giving me a hard on.

[joe_1152]

I like to look, first their face to see their reaction if we lock eyes then my eyes go down to his crotch area.

[69plus1]

Not really, still look at women especially a nice ass, but when I think of sex I think of sucking cock. I am open to anything but women "seem" to want some romance where men lean more towards action.

[jem_is_bi]

Same here. In fact, most men that I see in public make me wonder why I am interested in M-M intimacy. It's only when I somehow am made aware that we share common desires and interests that my attitude towards them changes.
I have noticed we share significant features (not all ) of our sexuallity even though you are married and I am not.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I have noticed we share significant features (not all ) of our sexuallity even though you are married and I am not.
Could be a generational thing, as we're relatively close in age. And I'd like to think that being thoughtful, reasonably intelligent, candid, honest and respectful has something to do with it, also.

[Fluidity]

All the damn time, but I don't leer

[jamier58]

I look all the time. the first thing I look at is his cock, than at him, than i think about sucking it.

[NjbiGuy01]

I do sometimes find myself looking over men as much as women. Their look, their smile, their body shape and sometimes glance at their package too. As long as you are discreet, you should be fine. Obviously, you don't want the wrong guy to think wtf you are looking at....just as much as I'd hope a guy would look back at me and maybe start a conversation. It could go either way :)

[Biwolf]

Yes, men and women. And I do it often.

[Birobertb]

Oh ye

[69luvr]

I will stop looking when I am dead. Until I look at everyone.

[Joboo]

Only when I suspect they are bi or gay.

[Mmpmm]

I pay no attention to men at all when I'm out and about. By contrast, I check out every woman I see - and will sometimes go out of my way to get a better look at a particularly attractive one. I guess this fits with the "not attracted to men, just cock" mentality.

I am the same way. Out and about I look at women. In private, watching porn, masturbating, or fantasy it's all male!

[PVFotoGuy]

Yes, I look at guys always. Especially if the guy is fit and sexy, I love seeing a bulge or a penis outline. When I see a nice looking guy that I'm attracted to I sometimes let him see that I'm checking him out. Ya never know when there could be mutual interest. ;)

[Arsamatoria]

I check guys (and women) out all the time. I believe it is very natural to admire another person, even in a sexual way.

[Joboo]

Hardly ever unless it’s a guy that’s checking me out. But this reminds me about a guy who was at our house years ago giving an estimate on some construction stuff. It was hot and he was wearing khaki shorts, I thought I noticed a bulge when he was standing and when he squatted down it was on display. About six inches of thick dick trapped between his leg and shorts. My wife had squatted down as well and I was standing. I remember the moment she saw it, it was three feet from her face. She played it cool but took every opportunity to glance at it when he looked away. When she stood up he face was flushed and it was easy to see it aroused her.
once he left and we were inside I made a little pass at her her, hugging and kissing on her neck. She was very responsive and naked and wet.

[novaguy027]

I have and wondered if there was a way to tell if they were bi or bicurious. I’m married so can’t be obvious since my wife doesn’t know.

[Footstep40]

Absolutely! It’s grey sweatpants season out there!

[Robtiti]

I've never. I can't even tell who's bi or straight so I wouldn't want to offend anyone if I ever did check them out.

[Coconut-Joe]

I look , but most of the time I am underwhelmed. To me there are still many more nice looking women than men. At least in my area.

[SlowNEZ]

I have been attracted to many guys on this site —- I have not met anyone yet, but the profiles stimulate me.
Out-and-about, in real life, I look at guys, and try to imagine some intimate time with them. In all honesty, none have turned me on enough to even strike-up a conversation with them. My imagination is much sexier than my vision, I guess. I will keep looking though ;-)

[Sidsmith]

I do all time. It sucks now with colder weather. Hey only like 3 months till spring.

[bbginva]

Of course

[ocaladouglas]

oh yes I do often check out other guys just as much as I check out other women. I am lucky that the wife knows that I am bi and oftne when we see a good looking guy we will chek him out and evan point him out to the other.

[SlowNEZ]

Hey Ocala, those guys may also be checking you out at the same time. Do you know of any sign or signal, other than prolonged eye-contact, that will indicate to other guys that we are bi, looking, and interested? ... something like the touch-of-the-nose in the movie “Butch Cassidy ...”?

[biwmtrucker44]

I check out guys that I know or suspect are gay or bi. Otherwise, I pay no attention to them at all. Me too

[GayGuy04]

I do all time. It sucks now with colder weather. Hey only like 3 months till spring.

Yea wait until warm weather then you see guys in shorts and mmmnm what a sight to sse

[RisingBi]

Same here. In fact, most men that I see in public make me wonder why I am interested in M-M intimacy. It's only when I somehow am made aware that we share common desires and interests that my attitude towards them changes.
Lol, that's been the same with me these last 28 years that I've had gay sexual desires. I've never felt the slightest attraction to any guy on the street and in regular situations, i.e. fully clothed. I've just been about the naked cock for the first 20 years, and then the naked male ass as well since then.

But since breaking up in December with my girlfriend of three years, and fantasizing about having not just sex with men again, but perhaps more intimacy (I like the idea of having a male fuck buddy or even a FWB), things have been changing. I have really been wanting to accept my true bisexuality deep inside me, that I have been hiding from through just cock and ass play, I think (that's just me).

I have started--initially kind of forcing myself--to check out the odd clothed guy in regular situations, checking out his front package, and especially his ass (because I really want to have a lot more ass play with guys), and getting myself turned on about what I see and imagine with him. And perhaps because he's clothed and it is just in a regular situation, there's an attraction to more of the whole of him than just his cock and ass. And I'm feeling an attraction and desire for HIM, like he's a person, and not just a floating cock and ass. As a result I'm just doing it more and more.

It's nowhere near at the point like it has been with women my whole life, but it is a big change from never having the slightest gay feeling outside fantasies, porn, and nakedness. It's still more about the cock and ass underneath those clothes, and not his whole body, let alone his personality and his heart. But I think I'm moving in the right direction towards perhaps finding deeper intimacy with a man. Like everyone, I want connectedness.

Of course, we'll have to see what unfolds as I start hooking up with guys again.

[loftycraig]

yes, all the time.

[newporter4u]

Of course I check them out, just like I check out every women's ass that walks by me....lol

[willj]

Yes I Do. All day every day. I also check out woman. I am an ass man so all shapes and sizes get my attention. I like them big and round. The bigger the better. Butt I also like them tight and muscular.

[FredGillard]

I pay no attention to men at all when I'm out and about. By contrast, I check out every woman I see - and will sometimes go out of my way to get a better look at a particularly attractive one. I guess this fits with the "not attracted to men, just cock" mentality.

I'd say I fit this MO.:)

[perthguy]

I tend to notice men when I am out if they are exercising and wearing sports gear as I need to see a guys arms/chest/legs before that 'he's sexy' switch turns on in my head.

[JSX1575]

Sometimes but most guys where I live wear oversized pants. Can’t check out their butts :(

[Neonaught]

I don't leer obscenely but will admire!

[Grant_Norman]

I don't look at men like I do women...hot women really get me. ALL men get to me, I really don't care about their size, age, shape, etc. only that they are clean and have a cock, which is really all I want

[playful808]

Yes, I do check out men, and women.
Sometimes, my lovely wife and I check out men together, it’s fun.

Very few men receive the coveted status of: Snacky.

Mostly twinks. You can’t eat just one.

[borntosuckcock]

Always checking guys out, looking for a connection, any sign that they be interested.

[twilde1952]

no, not really mostly if I'm out and about women tend to get my attention more than guys...

[JeffT]

Sure, I notice a nice tight ass occasionally.

[Destro]

I pay no attention to men at all when I'm out and about. By contrast, I check out every woman I see - and will sometimes go out of my way to get a better look at a particularly attractive one. I guess this fits with the "not attracted to men, just cock" mentality. I feel you. Same here. I consider myself heteroflexible, which means just that "not attracted to men, just cock". Although, I don't use that term because i dislike the term 'bi'. I use it because it fits perfectly with my sexual desire.

[zbi73]

I now from time to time have a sideways glance but never long enough to be caught.

[cbxer66]

Nowadays there are some "chicks with dicks". So you may see a bigger bulge down there on the dames than the guys. LMAO!!

Nah, I don't check guys out. There's nothing really attractive about them. Even a dick isn't great when it's flaccid. It's only when a boner is present, I'm attracted. ;-)

[LowkeyBreeze318]

I sometimes do! & occasionally I will sneak a peak @ their bulge!

[JBourne]

Never. I actually don't find guys attractive in the least; a hard cock is the only part of a guy that I have any interest in. I don't see many hard cocks while I'm out and about, so for me there's nothing to look at.

[fredward]

Only if they're naked ;-)

(e..g, YMCA changeroom / sauna / jacuzzi, and very carefully too)

[guywholikesboth]

I always look hope to see an out line of a nice cock once saw a kid at home depot he had about a 5 incher showing soft

[twilde1952]

No I don't look at men when I'm out and about (which is never because of Covid 19) but I do look at women LOL.

[Birob67]

I never used to, but i do sneak a glance once in a while

[late4guys]

I am the same way. Out and about I look at women. In private, watching porn, masturbating, or fantasy it's all male!

This hit the nail on the head for me.

[CockHummer]

Nowadays there are some "chicks with dicks". So you may see a bigger bulge down there on the dames than the guys. LMAO!!

Nah, I don't check guys out. There's nothing really attractive about them. Even a dick isn't great when it's flaccid. It's only when a boner is present, I'm attracted. ;-)

I wish I would find a chick with a bulge! in the sorriest way I really do.

The sad truth is that I crave cock at times but just don't find men attractive and am actually sexually turned off when I'm with men. I have checked guys out from time to time when I am just so cock-hungry I think it's got to work, so I go out with a very open and hopeful mind and look and it's like, what on earth was I thinking? I just don't feel it. Like you say, there's nothing attractive about them to me, either--and I do recognize when a guy is well-built or good looking, but that doesn't have any sort of erotic power to it like it does so often, so strongly with a woman about whom I could say the same thing. It drives me crazy and I wish it were otherwise.

[RisingBi]

I wish I would find a chick with a bulge! in the sorriest way I really do.

The sad truth is that I crave cock at times but just don't find men attractive and am actually sexually turned off when I'm with men. I have checked guys out from time to time when I am just so cock-hungry I think it's got to work, so I go out with a very open and hopeful mind and look and it's like, what on earth was I thinking? I just don't feel it. Like you say, there's nothing attractive about them to me, either--and I do recognize when a guy is well-built or good looking, but that doesn't have any sort of erotic power to it like it does so often, so strongly with a woman about whom I could say the same thing. It drives me crazy and I wish it were otherwise.
Perhaps it will come with time. I was the same as you for 20 years. My super strong gay desires and fantasies, and jerking off to gay porn for hours and hours, kept driving me out to various gay sex venues like bathhouses etc. looking for real cock and ass. But whenever I ended up naked with another guy, I lost all desire. I would still finish sucking him off, but only out of kindness. But there were a few very hot and passionate exceptions, so I just kept chasing those highs, but they were few and far between, something like only a total of 4-5 times out of 100+ guys. And I never felt anything anal in real life, including with the guys who I loved being with for oral.

Then in 2013 I fell in utter mad lust with this young twink's ass in a Berlin bathhouse while visiting Germany, and I tonguefucked his asshole for over an hour, before finally shoving my cock in and fucking him like crazy. Losing my gay virginity like that really changed something deep inside me, and I felt free to finally accept my bisexuality. That was the end of anonymous sex for me, and after that night I started going on gay dating sites and hooking up with guys in each other's homes, and with a lot of them I felt intense passion for them. I then met and fell in love with a woman, but I recently broke up with her after 3 years, and was just about to get back on the gay/bi scene when the lockdown happened. I can't wait for it to be over so I can rekindle my true enjoyment of sex with men (I hope).

So you never know: people change. Maybe you will as well someday. Good luck!

[allmyassbelongtocock]

I don't... but, when a guy stares at me, if I like what I see, I look at his eyes. If he smiles, I keep looking, glance down at his cock, realize what I'm doing, look back at his eyes, blush a bit, and then look away... then look back a few seconds later to see if he's still looking at me, and if he is, I give him a quick smile, then look away again. That's about as much as I look at men when I'm out and about. It seems to work, though, because they usually approach me. Great thing about being bi, is that the same moves you do with women, and how they respond, is pretty much how you respond with guys.

[BigDanFL]

I'm a crotch watcher male or female it doesn't matter.

[fpb09]

I look listen to them, attitude is what gets me turn on & if I’m in a swinger’s club cock is what turns me on! Lol!

[Oborokybiman]

I check out guys that I know or suspect are gay or bi. Otherwise, I pay no attention to them at all.
How do you know what to look for? Boogied!

[Johnyonenut]

BigDanFl
we are two of a kind. I have always checked out other guys cocks and love upskirts. A totally confirmed voyeur.