whichway06
Sep 15, 2006, 12:17 PM
For a long time I have been surfing the web and looking at as many gay, lesbian, and bisexual sites as I can. I have talked with many gay, lesbian and bisexuals face to face or in chat rooms and forums. I have found one common thing that seems to go hand in hand with the gay, lesbian, bisexual community and that is pornography. I have found very few sites that do not have a link to gay porn. There are some sites that I think, hey a gay site without a link to porn, but after further searching the site there it is, a link to gay porn.
I have even found sites that advertise they are there to help people with gay issues in their communities that have links to gay porn. I even found a site that was for gay teens, 13 to 17 that had a link to gay porn. Why are so many gay, lesbian, bisexual web sites linked to pornography? Now I know most of you will say there are just as many straight porn web sites, but how many of these are linked to other web sites that have nothing to do with pornography? I can say I have not found any porn links while shopping on line for car prices, camera's, clothing, sporting goods and many other items. But for some reason when it comes to the gay, lesbian, bisexual community there it is a link to porn.
This is no secret the straight community knows that many many gay sites of all kinds have porn links. I have not seen the gay flag for awhile but I remember it being shown freely in public and what do you think most people thought when they seen a flag that had two guys in the process of anal sex? Why do so many gay, lesbian and bisexual web sites that seem to really tackle important issues and seem to be really working hard for the gay community have porn links on there web sites? Is this how the gay, lesbian and bisexual community want to be portrayed as being all about, pornography?
Most straight people I know and have talked with tell me that the gay, lesbian and bisexual community are sexual pervert's. When asked why they feel this way the reply is all to often, "gays have no sense of relationship or family values". When asked why that is the reply is all to often pointed at gay pornography and the have sex with anyone attitude they believe the gay community has.
This makes me wonder if this is one of the biggest reasons why gays, lesbians and bisexuals are not widely excepted as being able to have what straight people would call normal relationships and family households. Is the widely excepted links to pornography in the gay community it's down fall? When I look at a web site that says it's dedicated to the gay community and how they help fight for gay marriage, gay adoption and other gay rights and then at the bottom of the web page there is a link to gay porn. All I can think is, "what the hell". I even found a site that said it's by gays and for gays to stop pornography but they had a link to a porn site, now that's a "what the hell". Please do not tell me that straight people never look at gay web sites.
Are community leaders going to support gay, lesbian and bisexual groups who have a web site that says it's working for community efferts but then has a link to pornography that anyone can see or access? If anyone wants to view porn in your own home that's your business. But why must the gay, lesbian and bisexual community always identify themselves with pornography?
To say if you do not like it then do not look at it is living your life looking through a pin hole in a piece of paper. The big picture is still porn links on a very large number of gay, lesbian and bisexual related web sites. This is what the public sees and this is how they view the gay, lesbian and bisexual community. So the big question is, how is this affecting the gay, lesbian and bisexual community in our efferts to be excepted as what the straight world calls normal segment of society?
I have even found sites that advertise they are there to help people with gay issues in their communities that have links to gay porn. I even found a site that was for gay teens, 13 to 17 that had a link to gay porn. Why are so many gay, lesbian, bisexual web sites linked to pornography? Now I know most of you will say there are just as many straight porn web sites, but how many of these are linked to other web sites that have nothing to do with pornography? I can say I have not found any porn links while shopping on line for car prices, camera's, clothing, sporting goods and many other items. But for some reason when it comes to the gay, lesbian, bisexual community there it is a link to porn.
This is no secret the straight community knows that many many gay sites of all kinds have porn links. I have not seen the gay flag for awhile but I remember it being shown freely in public and what do you think most people thought when they seen a flag that had two guys in the process of anal sex? Why do so many gay, lesbian and bisexual web sites that seem to really tackle important issues and seem to be really working hard for the gay community have porn links on there web sites? Is this how the gay, lesbian and bisexual community want to be portrayed as being all about, pornography?
Most straight people I know and have talked with tell me that the gay, lesbian and bisexual community are sexual pervert's. When asked why they feel this way the reply is all to often, "gays have no sense of relationship or family values". When asked why that is the reply is all to often pointed at gay pornography and the have sex with anyone attitude they believe the gay community has.
This makes me wonder if this is one of the biggest reasons why gays, lesbians and bisexuals are not widely excepted as being able to have what straight people would call normal relationships and family households. Is the widely excepted links to pornography in the gay community it's down fall? When I look at a web site that says it's dedicated to the gay community and how they help fight for gay marriage, gay adoption and other gay rights and then at the bottom of the web page there is a link to gay porn. All I can think is, "what the hell". I even found a site that said it's by gays and for gays to stop pornography but they had a link to a porn site, now that's a "what the hell". Please do not tell me that straight people never look at gay web sites.
Are community leaders going to support gay, lesbian and bisexual groups who have a web site that says it's working for community efferts but then has a link to pornography that anyone can see or access? If anyone wants to view porn in your own home that's your business. But why must the gay, lesbian and bisexual community always identify themselves with pornography?
To say if you do not like it then do not look at it is living your life looking through a pin hole in a piece of paper. The big picture is still porn links on a very large number of gay, lesbian and bisexual related web sites. This is what the public sees and this is how they view the gay, lesbian and bisexual community. So the big question is, how is this affecting the gay, lesbian and bisexual community in our efferts to be excepted as what the straight world calls normal segment of society?