A vent for bisexuals.

[twosmokers]

I'm sick and tired of being part of the GLBTQ crowd. As a Bi man I have been treated as less of a person by the Straight community and even lesser so by the homosexual community. I am Bi. Not gay or straight. Yet because I seem to be in this twilight kind of sexuality I am ostracized by both communities.

Straight women think I am not capable of monogamy, gays shrug me off because they dont think I am acceptable (because I am capable of loving a woman).

I know who I am...and I accept it. It seems to me like us Bisexual men get the shit end of the stick. Gay, Lesbian, Transsexuals, Queer (a term I frankly find more offensive than n**ger) then...oh let's include bisexuals. Being openly Bi is a pain in the ass. I've got so much shit for being a bi Male in the gay and straight community.

No wonder most Bi-guys stay closeted. Being a bi woman is ok (look at the porn), but a bi man isnt liked.

Am I the only one who noticed this? Have dispersions cast upon me? Am I imagining that both communities believe my sexuality makes me promiscuous and incapable of love? As if one side of the fence or the other is the only way? I either have to be gay or straight?

Sorry to vent. I was just wondering if any other men have felt this way. If you do post.

And FYI there are more of us bi guys than gay guys. It's just we are closeted.

End diatribe.

[whistle1]

https://www.thedailybeast.com/are-bisexuals-shut-out-of-the-lgbt-club

[Jazminedress]

I'm sick and tired of being part of the GLBTQ crowd. As a Bi man I have been treated as less of a person by the Straight community and even lesser so by the homosexual community. I am Bi. Not gay or straight. Yet because I seem to be in this twilight kind of sexuality I am ostracized by both communities.

Straight women think I am not capable of monogamy, gays shrug me off because they dont think I am acceptable (because I am capable of loving a woman).

I know who I am...and I accept it. It seems to me like us Bisexual men get the shit end of the stick. Gay, Lesbian, Transsexuals, Queer (a term I frankly find more offensive than n**ger) then...oh let's include bisexuals. Being openly Bi is a pain in the ass. I've got so much shit for being a bi Male in the gay and straight community.

No wonder most Bi-guys stay closeted. Being a bi woman is ok (look at the porn), but a bi man isnt liked.

Am I the only one who noticed this? Have dispersions cast upon me? Am I imagining that both communities believe my sexuality makes me promiscuous and incapable of love? As if one side of the fence or the other is the only way? I either have to be gay or straight?

Sorry to vent. I was just wondering if any other men have felt this way. If you do post.

And FYI there are more of us bi guys than gay guys. It's just we are closeted.

End diatribe.

go to any bar, and the in thing is women rubbing up against each other and making out while grabbing each other, many times while dancing on tables..............everyone, including the women cheer them on

two guys doing it in a straight club, I believe the reaction would be completely different and not so supportive

So ya, in many ways I totally agree with you

[yeahso]

I'm sick and tired of being part of the GLBTQ crowd. As a Bi man I have been treated as less of a person by the Straight community and even lesser so by the homosexual community. I am Bi. Not gay or straight. Yet because I seem to be in this twilight kind of sexuality I am ostracized by both communities.

Straight women think I am not capable of monogamy, gays shrug me off because they dont think I am acceptable (because I am capable of loving a woman).

I know who I am...and I accept it. It seems to me like us Bisexual men get the shit end of the stick. Gay, Lesbian, Transsexuals, Queer (a term I frankly find more offensive than n**ger) then...oh let's include bisexuals. Being openly Bi is a pain in the ass. I've got so much shit for being a bi Male in the gay and straight community.

No wonder most Bi-guys stay closeted. Being a bi woman is ok (look at the porn), but a bi man isnt liked.

Am I the only one who noticed this? Have dispersions cast upon me? Am I imagining that both communities believe my sexuality makes me promiscuous and incapable of love? As if one side of the fence or the other is the only way? I either have to be gay or straight?

Sorry to vent. I was just wondering if any other men have felt this way. If you do post.

And FYI there are more of us bi guys than gay guys. It's just we are closeted.

End diatribe.

Unfortunately the supposed open mindedness does not translate to bisexuals. I grew up in an era where you were either straight or gay. If you were bisexual, you were just a gay man who did not want to admit he was gay. You could not talk to heterosexual or homosexual friends about being bisexual, because both sides would out you, and any chance of having a relationship with a woman would be zero. I do not consider myself closeted. I feel my sexual preference, and whom I have sex with is no one's business. There are gay guys I know whom feel the same way. If you out yourself, you are not being honest, you are just being self serving.

[NjbiGuy01]

How many times do you plan to start the same thread with the same exact post, every fucking time >!>!>
This is what, the fourth time you started ?