Interested in talking to other straight females with bi boyfriends.

[MissFancyPants25]

I am a straight female and my boyfriend is bi and I am interested in talking to other straight girls who have bi boyfriends. It was very hard for me to hear that my boyfriend wanted to have sex with other people, but I'm getting more open about it now and am willing to consider doing something with another guy, but I'm not sure yet. I'm scared that I will regret it if I do end up trying something, but I'm a little curious as well. I guess the hard part is that I love the fact that my boyfriend is the only person I've ever had sex with and I would have liked to keep it that way. The idea of one partener for your whole life is a very romantic idea to me. But I'm pretty sure I'm at least willing to try something and see if I like it. I'd just like to talk to other people who feel or have felt similar to this. Guys too, if you are straight and in a relationship with a bi girl and have similar feelings to this, i'd like to talk to you too.

[married2biguy]

After 25 years of marriage my husband came out to me a few weeks ago. We have a very strong relationship and truly enjoy each other. I am very open minded, but still excepting the fact my husband is bi. He has never done anything with another man, but only wants to if I am involved. He feels it would be great to make a threesome. We really do love each other and want to make each other happy. With that said, we did get together with another man. I was very nervous and so was my husband. We did enjoy it, but now I am feeling confused. He now wants to do it more often. Not sure how I feel about that.

Anyone else involved with the same experience?

[Rhuth]

The Straight Spouse Network (http://straightspouse.org/) is not just a resource for straight spouses. Straight girlfriends could and should also use the information and support they offer.

When departing from the fairy tale idea of spending the rest of your life with prince charming and inviting his squire into the bedchamber with the two of you, you might want to look into polyamory (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory). There are usenet groups (http://www.polyamory.org/) and local support groups (http://www.polymatchmaker.com/pmm3/main.mv?Screen=GROUP_MAIN&MODULE=POLYGROUP&Tab=SOUTHWEST) of people experienced in relationships involving more than two people, and you can learn from their mistakes before you begin.

Being with a bi boyfriend does not mean you have to give up monogamy though. If a threesome does not work for you, you should not force it. There are many ways for the monogamous bi man to relieve his frustrations. Porn? Phone sex? Cybering? Gentlemen, help me out here. I am not monogamous or male. What else do you guys do?

You mentioned that you want to experiment to see what your limits are in satisfying his fantasies. Impressive. He is one lucky man. I would recommend starting with fantasies and pillow talk. Find out what scenarios get him going with just words before the actual person is there. It might help you alleviate fears and figure out what you are comfortable with as well.

[miamiuu]

As a bi man that believes in monogamy i would not let him use the fact he is bi as a reason for him to have sex with other guys. If you are uncomfortable with it than decide whether or not you are willing to let him do it. If you dont want him to do it you should be up front with him about it. I think it is odd everytime I hear people wanting to bring people into thier bed just cus they are bi. Also ask him what that man can give him that you are not able to so you can have some insight and maybe you two can work something out.