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Jbtojbto
Mar 24, 2019, 5:19 AM
When I’m drunk or altered with certain substances I tend to have more sexual thoughts about men, bi and gay. Does anyone else experience this? If yes I would love to hear your experience. While I’m typing this I’m definitely tipsy dandn altered and is the reason I’m posting but wish I had the real thing in bed with me to end my night off right.

KDaddy23
Mar 24, 2019, 2:48 PM
When one gets drunk or otherwise altered, inhibitions tend to get removed - "A drunk never lies" is the saying. With your inhibitions lessened or removed, one's "true self" is revealed so if you'd normally not think about guys when unaltered, it's not surprising that you do when altered. Me, I don't need to be altered to have a bad case of dick on the brain (or pussy, either); I get tipsy, I wanna get laid and by anyone who'll volunteer.

Ebonybifemme7
Mar 25, 2019, 11:33 AM
Oh yes. Ive seen a lotta guy on guy nipple pinching dick grabbing ass slapping back rubs while guys are tipsy or drunk. I love to watch.

playful808
Mar 25, 2019, 2:01 PM
Many people police their sexual thoughts about one thing or another.
Not surprisingly, curious guys are anxious about sex with men.

Maybe they have mental discipline, but 'put away' is not 'gone away'.
Those 'forbidden' desires are still there, and growing, and waiting.

Jazminedress
Mar 26, 2019, 12:00 AM
honestly no, I dont feel its different when I have been drinking, but, to be hones, I dont drink a ton

hardcurve
Mar 26, 2019, 5:18 PM
I haven't noticed that effect when drinking but if I do a little weed, its a whole different story. Weed not only increases my horniness, but also tends to open up my bi-sexual nature. I find myself thinking and fantasizing about male bodies, and especially cock.

papasmurph
Mar 26, 2019, 6:46 PM
Definitely get friskier when I've had a couple drinks... and I think a little booze does loosen people...

csreef
Mar 26, 2019, 7:00 PM
Once I was getting an Acupuncture treatment, and the treatment hit me like a Ton of Lead! My Acupuncturist was whining how he could meet any women, ect.

At this point, I was almost knocked out by the Acupuncture, and I wanted to say to him " I'm Bi, and let me take care of your needs", but thankfully I didn't.

Lil Miss Understood
Mar 26, 2019, 9:56 PM
...I can become like a bitch in heat when under the infulence of 420... ;)

ChiefH
Mar 26, 2019, 11:32 PM
When I have had few to many beers my thoughts turn thinking and wanting to play with another man's cock and he mine!!

973scorp
Mar 27, 2019, 9:49 AM
I agree with hardcurve, I little weed and I'm off cruising for sex in any form but car sex has it's limits. pass the bowl and lets fuck

whistle1
Mar 29, 2019, 11:04 AM
This is probably not uncommon. I often find myself more horny with a drink or two as well.

DD788Snipe
Mar 30, 2019, 2:02 AM
...I can become like a bitch in heat when under the infulence of 420... ;)
Me too.

Jbtojbto
Mar 30, 2019, 4:29 AM
Do you do anything about it or do you just think about it!

mike_smallwood
Apr 8, 2019, 12:29 PM
I find that alcohol definitely decreases one's inhibitions. Over the years my natural curiosity to play with another male has increased and I find I no longer need a few drinks to awaken these feelings. However after a few drinks I am a lot more open to exploring fantasies than I would normally not consider while stone cold sober.

My first experience with another male 40 years ago was after consuming alcohol and it felt great at the time. Once I sobered up I had a completely different feeling and could not imagine why I would have allowed the experience to happen in the first place. A few weeks late, again after consuming alcohol, the same thing happened and I swore the next day it would never happen again and I put all bi-sex thoughts out of my mind.

Evidently there is a bi-sexual component to my personality as the thought of playing with cock and having another male play with mine has emerged quite strongly over the last 10 years. I try to keep the head on my shoulders in control to avoid doing something I would regret if I simply follow what my little head between my legs would tell me, especially after a few drinks. Meaning with a like minded individual I would definitely pursue some same sex activities slowly and cautiously. I have no romantic interest in men, only to explore some sexual activities together with one individual on an on-going basis.

The activities explored, I suspect would be related to the trust level and the amount of alcohol that would have been consumed with this friend.

Birobertb
Apr 8, 2019, 2:30 PM
Not so much, im more sexual sober, except hungover for some reason, ive been to the gay sauna while hungover so many times, and yes, it always helps.

travelingman5000
Apr 8, 2019, 2:34 PM
When I’m drunk or altered with certain substances I tend to have more sexual thoughts about men, bi and gay. Does anyone else experience this? If yes I would love to hear your experience. While I’m typing this I’m definitely tipsy dandn altered and is the reason I’m posting but wish I had the real thing in bed with me to end my night off right.

Hay bud would you like to meet up for a couple drinks?

;-) sorry could not resist.

sysper
Apr 10, 2019, 8:10 PM
actually i tend to desire women more when i have a few...........

NjbiGuy01
Apr 19, 2019, 6:34 PM
I usually feel more open to messing around after relaxing with a few drinks. When I was working as a musician on cruise ships, I'd meet men, women and couples (they were usually a bit relaxed too), and I was more open to asserting some sexual innuendos...

DD788Snipe
Apr 20, 2019, 3:43 AM
Do you do anything about it or do you just think about it!

It depends on the company I'm with I guess. It's a whole lot more fun to get fucked when I'm stoned and had a few beers.

williamg
Apr 20, 2019, 4:26 PM
Weed. I get horny as fuck. My ass tingles and I love to find a toy to play with. A real cock would be amazing a little high. Alcohol? Meh...

Buck Naked
Apr 21, 2019, 2:59 PM
I don't know that I have more sexual thoughts about men when I've been drinking, but I do know that I'm more likely to throw caution to the wind and get intimate with another man without consideration of the ramifications when I'm buzzed

Leehebs
Apr 21, 2019, 3:38 PM
I prefer and alway am sober, I have never used any drugs so I can,t comment on that, for me I need to be 100 % there to feel every touch and kiss , that’s my drug

FredWearsTights
Apr 23, 2019, 12:38 AM
If I'm alone my urges for same sex comes on so strong I don't need a drink or weed. If I have I'm less inhibited though. Lately I'm wanting same sex more and more.

fredward
Apr 23, 2019, 3:29 PM
In person, I am always pretty sober (maybe one drink at most). I don't want to make bad decisions.

When I'm web browsing at home ... that's another story ;-)

LVTOGP
Apr 28, 2019, 7:06 AM
I’ve found that a few drinks and maybe some party really makes me crave getting fucked or more

rukiddingme
Apr 23, 2025, 5:42 PM
I will take a bit of weed, and my fantasies will take me to a highsexuality of passionate gay sex

Footstep40
Apr 24, 2025, 9:30 AM
Some of my sluttiest moments were the result of drinking, some fun memories, some OMG…what the fuck was I thinking!! memories.

RICKCASV
Apr 26, 2025, 11:59 AM
Thread: Str8 guy, bi-sexual thoughts when drunk or altered

Smoking some weed always makes me think of my sexual experiences with men or causes me to fantasize about having sex with a man.

KDaddy23
Apr 26, 2025, 1:07 PM
I had a friend in high school who, when he got drunk, he'd turn into one hell of a cock sucker and a very hungry one; he took a bit of skin off of me during one of our days getting plastered. However, when he was sober, he wouldn't even talk about what he'd do when he was drunk, but he was very much aware of it. I'd mentioned it once - the day before, he had sucked off six of us in quick fashion - and he just shrugged and in that "I really don't want to talk about it" way so I left it alone. I'd never say that I was his "favorite target" but when we'd hang out and get to drinking, he'd do me to the point where I couldn't get hard again and the only "break" I'd get was when there was more guys hanging with us - and they'd all get sucked off by him.

I've known other guys who "weren't as bad as my friend was" but, yeah, they'd get a few drinks in them and want to get really friendly with me or whomever was hanging with us and he was quite the bottom but dealt with a lot of shame and regret when sober and something I worked with him on until I could get him to understand and accept that alcohol removes inhibitions and lets things out that we'd normally keep in and... don't worry about it. He was okay after 2-3 weeks of conversations (and sucking each other sober) but, yeah, people are one way when sober, can be a totally different way when not sober.

iamcontent
Apr 27, 2025, 2:05 AM
I am guessing this your true feelings coming out. There is a saying that goes a person's real personality comes out when drunk