When did you know you were bi

[Tight1-4u]

This may have already been ask but it might be worth another look..
For me I had been curious for as long as I can remember.. I had played around with dressing up only at home and for myself.. Putting thing up my ass just to see how it felt.. Then I started talking to others on sites about my interests.. Had quite a few offers to meet but I was chicken.. Then one night I accepted an offer.. I met this guy and he pretty much just got me naked and fucked me.. It was about half way through through him fucking me that I really realized I really like this and I have to have more that I realized I am bi!! Or gay!! Or something cuz I want to get fucked more!! A lot more!! Any way that is when I realized what was what.. How about you?? When how did you figure it out?? How did it make you feel when you figured it out??

[Texasbiboy]

I have all ways liked porn. I began to explore my bi desires 4 years ago when I admitted to myself that I like looking at men’s cocks just as much as I liked looking at women’s pussies. It has been a great feeling to have these desires without the guilt that was always associated with homosexuality. My first experience was with 2 men. Spent the afternoon in a motel room with them participating in all of the sexual fantasies I had imagined and watching them have sex. That was when I knew this life was a part of me.

[cornholejoe]

when i was doing a 3 some with a man and his wife sucked his cock while i was fucking his wife and then he fucked me later on i fucked him and i liked it

[Sundazzled]

I've posted a detailed description of my introduction to bisexual play elsewhere on this site. Suffice it to say I became involved in a threesome relationship with a younger couple across town.

At first other guy, Bruce, and I were both focused on pleasuring his girlfriend, Colleen, and she us. But midway through our third encounter Colleen pushed away from the action and announced that she wanted to diddle her clit while watching Bruce and me play together. Until that moment, Bruce and I had never had more than incidental contact, but I hesitantly agreed to indulge Colleen's request. With a belly full of butterflies, Bruce and I began slow mutual masturbation, which felt just wonderful, and the fact that Colleen was getting off while watching us, only enhanced the eroticism.

Before long we progressed to cock-to-cock play, and I found myself enthusiastically stroking both our cocks in my well-lubed hand. The feeling of our swollen cockheads gliding across one another was dizzying, and with Colleen cooing her approval, I began to feel that familiar tingle that signals the approach of orgasm.

Without a conscious thought, I dropped to my knees and began sucking Bruce's cock. I distinctly remember thinking "So this is what I've been missing all these years!" I let Bruce cum on my neck and chest, and then let Colleen see to my own orgasm. As we lay together in their bed with trickles of semen running everywhere, I realized I'd just been on a voyage of self-discovery; I was bi and eager to explore all bisexuality had to offer.

[borntosuckcock]

I knew at 8 or 9 that I enjoyed older men’s cocks. I didn’t understand sexual labels at that age. Later, I discovered that I like to play with girls. I think better label for me, would be an oralsexual, I enjoy giving and receiving oral to both sexes.

[ChiefH]

I guess it happened to me when I was about 12 or 13!! I had the school friend who would stay over and we would play with our cocks, that is when I knew I had this fascination for uncut cocks!! Gary's cock was about 7.5" and totally intact!! I would jack it off and gaze as the foreskin just glided with ease over his glans!! I love sucking it and having him cum in my mouth or in my ass!! Those bi feelings all got locked away for many, many years!! But they have surfaced again as I have gotten older and the wife is no longer interested in sex!! I would love to find another intact married bi guy to have some fun with!!

[ghw132]

When I was young my first sexual experiences were with other boys. I later met a girl and we were sexually active for several years. After we broke up I met a guy who was psychologist. He was the first to mention bisexuality to me. He stated that all men were bi sexual and most women. With men if denied sex with women they would certainly have sex with other men. I do not know for sure if that was true since he was trying to score with me. Since I had no girl friend and his wife was in the process of divorcing him. We proved his theory was correct.

[cslutt]

After getting off my knees with a mouthful of hot cum; around 8.

[Fzmr9t]

For me, it was when I was in my mid 40s. I started becoming more and more curious about how/what gays do together sexually. Then the internet just blew up with so many open sites and bulletin boards full of images, and my curiosity was piqued! I then joined a free gay site and would get into the chat room and ‘lurk’. One day, I felt emboldened enough to actually respond to some comments and got into a conversation with someone who called himself a ‘newbie’ who was also new to the chat room

we we agreed to meet at my house and he came over. We went into my bedroom and I immediately dropped to my knees and pulled his shorts down! This was a BIG first for me, taking some other guys clothes off of him! He was a ginger and thin, so he had a white, almost pink, thin cock, about 4 1/2 inches long and probably the thickness of an Oscar Meyer wiener. I took it in my hand (another 1st), and opened my mouth and put my lips around it (another 1st) and went up and down on it, trying to duplicate what had been done to me by my (female) lover

he came on my tongue in the back of my throat, not very much cum, at that, and I really didn’t taste a whole lot, but I do remember that there was a kinda salty taste in my mouth. After he came, I let him out of my mouth and stood up and he dropped to his knees pulled my cock out and put it in his mouth and started going through the ‘motions’, but suddenly stopped, stood up and said “sorry, dude, I just can’t do this”. He got himself together and left

i was amazed that I had no qualms about what I had just done. Not only that, I was left with a somewhat empty feeling. I decided that I needed to feel the cum in my mouth and on my tongue! It was then that I purposely searched for a second experience. Which led to a third, and a forth and a fifth and a....

[SatinnaTheGothQueen]

Brids and the bees for me it it was about three years ago that I realized that I was bisexual at the time I was still in high school (senior year)and now I'am 20 years old. And I'am very happy with who I'am and I do not care what other people think of me and my very rare sexual preferences which lean towards sex in cemeteries and gothic sex along with demonic sex fanstasies and satanic sexual fantasies. I'am a bisexual black female and I'am not into couples and swingers and I don't like rude disrespectful and brain dead selfish childish men but I'am not a lesbian but to most men I'am a lesbian cause I'am too smart and too sassy for them to deal with and they become so frustrated cause they can not have me and so they end up hating my guts but I like making my enemies hate me more by being myself spoonfuls of honey and cuties.

[rainbow6]

I was around 12 too spent weekends with my best friend he talk me into us playing with each others dicks. He had a 5 1/2 uncut dick and I got to really likeing it! I love to suck him and letting him fuck me. That's when I knew I was bi.

[delpark]

When I was young my first sexual experiences were with other boys. I later met a girl and we were sexually active for several years. After we broke up I met a guy who was psychologist. He was the first to mention bisexuality to me. He stated that all men were bi sexual and most women. With men if denied sex with women they would certainly have sex with other men. I do not know for sure if that was true since he was trying to score with me. Since I had no girl friend and his wife was in the process of divorcing him. We proved his theory was correct.

I went out with a psychiatric nurse (she had her PHD) for a while. She told me everyone is born bisexual. I found it comforting to hear, it helped me to accept my growing desires for cocks.

A childhood friend introduced me to sucking cock right before I reached puberty. I was totally at ease with sucking his cock and enjoyed every moment. There was no guilt associated with my early homosexual relations. I chased girls the following year. Then one night I was propositioned by a gay guy and it got me to thinking and wondering...

[BiGreenh0rn]

I think I considered I could be when I was 12. A friend and I ended up experimenting in the woods near our subdivision and I remember how much I loved the rush and how nervous I was. I didn't end up looking at gay porn until a few years after I started looking at any, but I came across an amateur video of a beefy hairy daddy and a younger guy. I had always been timid and not entirely comfortable around men for some reason, and around my step-dad I always felt intimidated. He wasn't abusive or mean at all, I had no real reason to feel that way.

I watched the video and remember I felt like I was breaking a rule even more than when I just watched regular porn. It made me feel the same rush and sense of urgency experimenting with my friend did, and at the same time I felt the same intimidation I always did around adult men. Feeling both of those together got me more excited than I ever had before. After that, I spent more time looking for vids like that. Eventually went on craigslist to pretend I was 18 and chat with older guys. Didn't actually get with one until I was 20 though. I left his house after a couple hours and knew for sure I was bisexual

[hbgbiguy]

I think I was about 14 when I first started to experiment with guys. A childhood friend and I jerked off together for several months till one day he leaned over while we were stroking ourselves and took my cock in his mouth. He only sucked me for a minute or two but I liked it and knew I wanted more. He moved away shortly after and I did not experiment again until I was 18. At the time the AOL chatrooms were all the rage and I met an older guy that lived across town and he invited me over. This was the beginning of a several year span where he and I got together at least once a month to stroke, suck and fuck each other.

Don't get me wrong, I absolutely love eating and fucking pussy. There is just something about holding another mans hard cock in your hand or feeling a mans hot mouth wrap around your hard cock that feels amazing. I am 40 years old now and I have know that I am bi since I was 18 and I cannot imagine being any other way.

[BisexualPisces3192]

I've always been into Women, but after having sex with a former friend & asking him to continue after he cummed inside me & enjoy his cock I realized I was into Men as well.

[guywholikesboth]

I was 13 went to a friends he took his huge cock out 11 inches asked me to suck siad no he forced it into my mouth and fucked it till he came swallowed all his come loved it i was hard went home jerked off swallowed my cum I was hooked

[Joboo]

At about 13 a friend at a sleepover started feeling me up after all of us had showed each other our dicks. It was after everyone was asleep and it felt so good I didn't resist. Next day I was telling myself never again and then he called saying he was home alone. That time I played with him as well and we jerked each other till we came. We did that all summer and when we went back to school I got a new girlfriend that would would play with me and jerk me off. I was done with him, I didn't have any desire to do it with him anymore. I never thought I was bi until 18. I had a breakup with a serious gf and he and I found ourselves alone. We were still friends and still hung out with our group of friends but that night we were alone. He had tried several times over the years to get me to play but I didn't. I knew he would try that night and after several beers I knew I would let him jerk me off. We parked in a secluded spot and he made a move. He was jerking and playing with me and after a few minutes I reached for him and he immediately pulled his jeans down. His dick had gotten so much bigger, a good 2 inches longer than mine and way thicker. We had never done oral but I was suddenly so attracted to his cock. I went down on him and came in my mouth in about 2 minutes, I was thinking it would taste bad but it didn't so I didn't spit it out. I was so hard and leaking precum as soon as his mouth touched my dick I was cumming. We must have sucked each other everyday for a month, sometimes several time a day. We kept it up 5 years and our friends never knew a thing. So I guess I was 18.

[zbi73]

Knowing and accepting aren't the same, I think I've known for 30 years but only accepted it two years ago.

[Long Duck Dong]

I knew I was attracted to males and females a few years ( 14 ) before I heard the term, bisexual ( 18 ), I became aware of more broader terminology when I working as a barman / doorman at a lgbt bar when I was 18.. ironically that was also when I became more aware of the animosity in the LGBT towards each other......

anti gay, gay bashing, gay hate was terms I was familiar with but they referred to offenses against LGBT people of a violent or very offensive attitude regarding LGBT ( in my late teens, and early 20s ) now anybody that dares have an opinion that is contrary to socially acceptable ideas and LGBT, is labelled as homophobic or bi phobic...

I accepted who I was for many years because it was normal for me., what I struggled with, was understanding me and how what I was, differed to the terms used and after a good number of years, I realised that I was more pansexual or attracted to people that also identified as trans, intersex or non binary.... however, I have also used the label of celibate ( a period when I did not engage in sexual activity, asexual ( referring to the fact I had no interest in sex, but that was also driven by the understanding that the way I relate to sex, differed from other peoples understanding )

Now I am very comfortable and happy in a closed loop type poly group of a older male, older female and younger female where sexuality does not matter and fuck other people who insist that they are the authority and rulebook on definitions, labels and how other people can be happy

[Robocock]

I have already spoke about this in my blog..
But basically I was sucking mens cocks when I was very young and I liked it.. but before I became an adult it stopped.. so I decided to try it again in my 40's to see if I still liked it.. and I did..

[joe_1152]

Same with me, around 12-13 w wrestling around with neighbor same age, I accidentally touch his boner maybe rubbed it is the better term didn't take long for him to pull his shorts down and show me his cock. It was about a foot from my face, if I knew then what I know now I probably would have sucked it.


Knowing and accepting aren't the same, I think I've known for 30 years but only accepted it two years ago.

[SandyStorm]

around 6 grade, me and my best friend used to masturbate and watch porn together at first we hide on the the other side of the bed but eventually started masturbating laying side by side, than one day he rolled me over and used my ass crack to masturbate...god how I love the feeling of his thrust and the hot cum shooting on my back...than one day I made the move and sucked his dick, god I knew right than I was going to want to suck dick all my life, ....this relationship went on almost daily and we did everything we could imagine our young brains and hormones for 3 years till he moved away...

[Samdy]

At 17 I was dating a lot of girls, but when an older man put the make on me I gave in. From then on I liked both.

[mike r]

When I was a teenager (16 0r so) I had a few experiences giving and getting blowjobs from male friends at my suggestion. I never thought of myself as bi - just horny. Been married for 38 years. I'm 61 and rediscovered my love for cock a few years ago. Never had anal, but have used dildos. I may not be flexible enough for a lot of anal anymore.

[KDaddy23]

I was probably different in that I was up to my eyeballs having sex with boys and girls but it wasn't until I went to the public library to get some books and look up something for school that I learned the word, "bisexual" and when I saw the defintion, I said, "So that's what I've been doing!" At 11, I had to do some sneaking as I flitted through all the books I could find about this bisexual thing and hoping the librarian didn't notice what books I was hauling back to the table.

So it took me two years of "active duty" before I knew what I was.

[csreef]

I knew I was Bisexual when I was 15. . .I didn't take action, and explore my Sexuality until I was 32.

[Grant_Norman]

Iwas 7 years olf when I started sucking cocks...loved to feel them in my mouth and also loved guys sucking me...around 12 or 13, hormones kicked in and I loved it even more - sucked lots of guys my age and younger, but no cum just a lot of me sucking and then they sucking.

When 13 I finally was able to cum jacking of and although still loved to suck cock, my brain became completely obsessed with pussy..wanted to fuck so bad, it was pretty much always on my mind. Finally, at 14 a girl let me fuck her and I lasted probably all of 30 seconds or so, but couldn't believe how great pussy felt..had to have more...at 16 found a couple of regular pussies to fuck, but also swallowed my first load...was great. At 19, had anonymous guy swallow my load in bookstore in San Francisco - to this day still greatest blow job I had.

Pretty much straight hetero - some sucking and being sucked in 30's...but mostly still zeroed in on pussy...until I was about 60, my wife (of which I had had multiple) currently shut down sexually completely...was able to still jack off some, but really missed having sex. At 65 (oralswallow65) I remembered just how much I liked sucking cock and thought, "What the hell, there's nothing from the wife I'll go back to cock!" In the first week - 4 years ago this month - I sucked and swallowed 4 different guys...and once again I was hooked on cock...swallowed a 100 plus loads since - 4 new ones in just last week two more scheduled tomorrow. The feel of cock in your mouth just can't be matched. And when they shoot, iy is oh so good.

So from 7 years old until now, at 69, I've been bisexual. Sex has been with men because it is so enjoyable and not any emotional commitments but also, if I had chance to have oral with any woman now, I'd also enjoy that....my mouth is my main sex organ.

[Basin_Bouy]

At 38 I had been curious for years. I kept searching on Excite.com back them and kept chickening out. I decided to finally do this so a guy answered my ad, met him for coffee, went back to my place. We undressed and he was hung below his knees. We got in bed, had passionate sex with him one Saturday night, an hour later I was in bed with a woman passionately making love to her. I realized then that I loved both sexes in a sexual manner

[berk144]

For me, it was early teen years, about 13 or 14. I found myself masturbating thinking of a friend of mine. Freaked me out but couldnt resist thinking of him when i did it.

[Robtiti]

Later in life around my early 30's for me.

[querty]

15 or so I think..... not till my 40's did I finally take the plunge

[1funguy]

So to answer, I knew early in life without any action till later in life.

I was introduced by close family member with his member:-) before I had experienced pussy. I did enjoy the intro however never followed thru with more as I kept the experience in the back of my brain for years as I lived the "hetero" lifestyle that goes with my generation. Many years later my brain was craving and itching to suck a cock after divorcing in the early 2000's. This was my chance to re-experience sucking cock, so I did. Haven't stopped since. I have been lucky enough to have a steady suck buddy for the last 10 years. We get together as schedules allow... maybe tonight!

Female friends? Sure, however I stay single and happy.

[KDaddy23]

Shit... I was up to my eyeballs doing it with both guys and gals before I even found out there was such a word as "bisexual." Got started at nine and I was eleven before I came across the word and famously said, "So that's what I've been doing!" For me and given the nature of my introduction, it wasn't a thing of me knowing before the fact as it was a thing about me finding out about it.

[NS Uncut]

I guess it happened to me when I was about 12 or 13!! I had the school friend who would stay over and we would play with our cocks, that is when I knew I had this fascination for uncut cocks!! Gary's cock was about 7.5" and totally intact!! I would jack it off and gaze as the foreskin just glided with ease over his glans!! I love sucking it and having him cum in my mouth or in my ass!! Those bi feelings all got locked away for many, many years!! But they have surfaced again as I have gotten older and the wife is no longer interested in sex!! I would love to find another intact married bi guy to have some fun with!!

I have to say I mirror you Chief. Sleepovers, camping or his house when no one was home up until about high school, that when i know i liked girls too

He was cut, I'm not so i liked the dynamic of being the uncut guy. There weren't too man guys intact but now I definitely prefer intact guys.

[zbi73]

My early twenties is when I discovered I liked cock too but I would suppress and tell myself that I was mistaken. It took 20 years to accept it. It never goes away, it just gets stronger.

[playful808]

As a little kid, I was sexually attracted to / played with girls and boys.

If this was just a phase, it has been a rather long one.

[NJwood]

It was mid twenties for me. Newly single, horny and hanging out at a strip club in Quebec. I had been approached a number of times in my teens by older guys but wasn’t interested. But that night with the alcohol, porn and hot dancers I couldn’t resist. There was an 40ish guy at the bar who struck up a conversation with me. At closing he asked if I could give him a ride back into town to his hotel. Knowing where this was going, I said sure. When we got to the hotel he invited me up for drinks. Nothing had been said to that point. He said he wanted to take a shower and at that point it was my turn to either take the initiative or not. I came into the bathroom and asked if I could join him.

The rest is history but but I was hooked on sucking cock. It took quite a few years before I found an outlet for my desires. Now with my wife’s blessing I’m on the lookout for opportunities to arise!

[Footstep40]

18. A friend (who later came out as gay)and I hit his parents liquor cabinet while they were on vacation. We went skinny dipping in their pool, he swam up to me laying on the Baja shelf and kissed me. I kissed him back, we started making out hot and heavy, then spent the next two days recreating scenes from his secret stash of vhs gay porn collection. We secretly dated for some time after that, having as much sex as we could.

[sysper]

18. A friend (who later came out as gay)and I hit his parents liquor cabinet while they were on vacation. We went skinny dipping in their pool, he swam up to me laying on the Baja shelf and kissed me. I kissed him back, we started making out hot and heavy, then spent the next two days recreating scenes from his secret stash of vhs gay porn collection. We secretly dated for some time after that, having as much sex as we could.
that sounds like such a beautifull story of 2 young guys discovering something new & intimate with each other. i bet the sex was magical!

[yeahso]

When I was a teenager, and realized I was just as sexually attracted to other guys as much as I was attracted to girls. Suppressed those thoughts a lot because I grew up in a time when you were either gay or straight, no in between. Like the old joke goes, "You could sleep with a million women, but suck one cock, and you are a cocksucker for life."

[Zoom1969]

There were a few signs in my youth that I might be Bi or attracted to other guys. I think I was just naive at the time and didn't realize what was going on. Used to jerk off with a buddy in high school a few times one Summer... But it never really seemed sexual to me. We never really talked about it and it never progressed to anything else. Had my first sexual experience with a guy when I was 19 and it seemed so random and out of the blue. After that I realized some of the signs were there from my early teens. I remember having a fascination with guys in their speedos. When I was in my teens I used to work out at a recreational facility that also had an indoor pool. I used to be in awe of this guy that used to swim there... Seemed like for some reason we always ended up in the locker room at the same time. This guy had an amazing body! Hairy chest, great ass, and nice cock! The locker room had communal showers. I used to get excited when I would go into the locker room and see his blue speedo hanging up on the hook. I used to always slowly walk by the showers so I could get a quick peek at him. I remember a few times thinking to myself why I am I so fascinated with this guy. For some reason I didn't realize it was sexual until I got older and would occasionally think about him!

[Joboo]

Had no romantic attraction ever but at 18 a friend and I were out one night, we had jerked each other off all summer about five years before. After some beers we were parked in the woods and he reached for my crotch, I just let him do it. I thought at worse I was going to get and give a handjob. Once his jeans came down and I saw how much bigger he had grown I couldn’t stop looking at it and playing with it. I was overcome with the urge to suck his fat cock and I eagerly did all the way till he shoot a huge load in my mouth. He was so excited, he had never had his dick sucked. He confided he had no interest in girls and he and I kept a secret relationship going for the next five years until he found a friend that was also into what he desired and that was it.
Ive never understood why but bigger dicks than mine really excite me. I’ve always loved seeing pictures and the occasional locker room stare.

[NerdyBiGuy]

When I started noticing some boys in high school looked cute.

[LVTOGP]

As young as 12-13 I remember experimenting playing with other boys But never had sex, used random objects inside me for a long time before realizing what I was craving was a thick cock... had my first at 18... and randomly through my remotely strait lifestyle

[FredGillard]

Knowing and accepting aren't the same, I think I've known for 30 years but only accepted it two years ago.

I guess I had what's now known as a friends with benefits relationship with a lad my age who lived nearby. Given we were teens I guess it was also experimentation. We'd dress up in women's tights (pantyhose) and wank ourselves off, then each other, then we got to suck each other's cocks in a 69. I started dating girls, got married, and only put tights on when I got drunk. When people talked about gay people, I felt uncomfortable. I wanted to jump on a good friend once, so there was always this weird horny I'd get. Thankfully I met a female, similar to me in terms of quirky, and we'd talk about lezzie and gay sex. Since the internet I've found sites like these and realised and come to terms with the fact that I am bisexual, albeit not active beyond online. It took me many years to get to this level of comfort. It was tormenting for a time, but age has helped.

[gmansam]

14 I think - my cousin and I used to stroke, then each other and one sleepover we started sucking each other off. We did that for years after.

[MAcpl69]

At 12 I had a jo/suck encounter with a friend for a wonderful summer, we both couldn't cum but it was awesome. Met chicks and concentrated on sex with women. At about 20 I was at a Grateful Dead concert and got in an issue with security, they tossed me out and wound up with this guy, we when to his place and next think I know I'm asking to suck his dick. We both had great oral sex, and a I asked him to fuck me unfortunately neither one of us had enough experience so that didn't happen. About 7 years ago I realized I was bi, I told my wife who I've been with for 32 years and she is working with it. We have engaged in anal on both sides since then and I have made it clear that I would love to have a 3some with a bi guy. I feel great that I have expressed my feelings and I hope our sex life continues to grow.

[Joboo]

It was a very strange night for me even though we had jerked each other off many time one summer five years before. We were 18 and we ended up alone that night away from our friends. As we parked and drank beers his hand came over and started feeling me up, my pants were down quickly and he was stroking me like years before. I finally reached for him and he dropped his jeans. I had never been turned on by anything except his touch and never thought about giving oral. When I saw how big he had grown over the past five years I was at first jealous. Then as I complimented his size we got close and held them together as he stroked us. I could not stop looking at and stroking his larger dick and couldn’t believe I was so drawn to go down on him.

Once he was in my mouth it was all over, I loved the feel and taste along with hearing his reactions. I positioned where I could look up to see his facial expression and knew I wasn’t stopping till after he came. I sucked on him a good five minutes after he came and remember him saying “ you really like that.” I did and I continued to suck him over the next five years.

[Realist]

I think I was born bi! My very first experience was with both genders.

I was 5, at a birthday party for a pair of paternal twins. A little group of us were standing around behind the house listening to the twins telling us they liked to kiss each other.

Someone asked, "Who kisses better...girls, or boys?" Spontaneously, we all began kissing each other. It was my first scientific experiment, to resolve a question!

My mother happened to be in the kitchen, and looked out of the window, just in time to see me, finishing kissing the female twin.

The was probably thinking, "Aw, they're so cute!"

Then, much to her chagrin, I turned to the male twin and we kissed, too!

She burst out of the house, grabbing my arm, hauled me off to the garage and began spanking me, like she was going to beat that scene out of my head! She was yelling at me, about the sins of same-gender interactions, as her belt were concentrating on my little ass!

The only thing she accomplished, that day, was to put me into a covert mode that I still maintain, to this day!

I'm sure she went to her reward knowing she'd cured me from ever again being drawn to both genders!

Oh Mama, if you only knew!

[Tnstr8sucker]

Way before I knew what "bi" was. As far back as I can remember I would play "show mine show your" with friends. Before I knew what sexual arousal was, I always got a strange feeling in certain instances. No matter what we were doing, I always wondered about and wanted to see other penises. I would try to suggest activities that would involve being shirtless or more. I managed to "experiment" with most of my friends growing up.
Sounds crazy (and I dont think this way in reverse) but when we would learn or hear about "inappropriate contact" I didnt quite know what I was feeling but I actually would fantasize about it and hoped it would happen to me. My first real learning experience happened that way with a friends older brother when i was maybe 10 or 11 and while I had learned in school that what was happening was supposed to be bad, I couldn't understand why. It was the most awesome thing I ever experienced and I found every reason I could to sleep over at my friends house to do it again. From that point on, I've always had a secret obsession in the background.

As I've gotten older (mid 30s now) I've been more into submission and age differences. Most I can only role play now. When I was 18 there was very limited online opportunities since most sites were barely starting and the internet was still new.

I sometimes think about if the internet, smartphones, and hookup apps were available when I was in my teens and 20's like they are now. Especially if I had the interest in older guys like I have now.

[JeffT]

Probably around age 13 or so. A couple of us used to get together in the woods nearby to watch each other masturbate.

[Dennis5662]

I have always been daring since I was a teen, getting naked outside, fucking at an early age but it wasn't until my early 40's that the thought of playing with men entered my mind. It just took one trip to the local ABS and got enough nerve to enter a booth with a glory hole, did things changed. When I experienced the incredible feeling of having another man suck my cock to completion, I knew I was all in. It didn't take long before I was sucking cock and enjoying the taste of cum. After a couple of years of this, anal was introduced into my play. I have loved playing with other men ever since.

[JasonS]

As a little kid, I was sexually attracted to / played with girls and boys.

If this was just a phase, it has been a rather long one.

You and me both. I have so many stories I could tell.

[Tight1-4u]

You and me both. I have so many stories I could tell.

So do tell please..

[perthguy]

The first time I saw gay porn at 14. Gay sex was an abstract idea for me before that point which I hadn't really thought about. Seeing two men have sex made the idea real to me, and at that point I knew I was sexually interested in both men and women.

[Annika L]

I had this weird set of epiphanies at age 16 that contained a very calm analysis that “I’m attracted to girls *and* guys...I guess that makes me bisexual.” I honestly have no clue where I came upon that word, but I knew what it meant, and from that moment on, I knew it applied to me. At this point I’ve had a *lot* more experience with women than with men. But hey, life is long, right...still time to balance that out!

[Rvdude05]

I grew up in a neighborhood of older boys, all 19 and 20. I always wanted to hang out with them, but they wouldn't let me because I was only 13. One day, one of the 19 year old's invited me to his house, I was glad for the invitation. His parents were at work, and we were alone. He quickly showed me a stack of rubbers, hidden under a seat cushion. When I asked what they were for, he told me his dad didn't want him getting any girls pregnant, and his mom was tired of him messing up the sheets. I told him it was the first time I ever saw one. He quickly pulled his pants down and showed me how to put one on... He got really big and hard as he did. Next, he wanted me to put one on, and he helped me. Then he said we could now play with each other without making a mess. He got to his knees and took me into his mouth...WOW! What a sensation that was, and I liked that feeling. He stopped and asked me to suck on his, and I didn't know how to do it very well. He instructed me on how to cover my teeth, to gently suck and play with his sack, to tickle his butt hole. I felt his cock throbbing in my mouth, he told me to keep sucking. After it stopped, he pulled his cock out and showed me his cum. I didn't know what it was, but said nothing. From that day on, he would invite me over and we would do the same. During that time, I started to cum myself, but only bluish water, nothing like his thick stuff. Before long, all the guys were inviting me, and they all wanted to play the same.... I was too stupid at the time, but he told them that I sucked cock, and they all wanted in. this continued for about 6 years, then I joined the Army and left home..... I never regretted sucking cocks, in fact I always enjoyed having a cock in my mouth.

[Bi-guy rick]

As far back as sexual thoughts began to form. Into my teen years I fantasized about it constantly, but never actually thought I'd go through with it until my 20's. One day as I was in a gay fantasy daze I suddenly realized - hey I can actually do these things! I was immediately hard, and on my lunch break found a quiet spot to jack off in my car. This was before internet, so finding someone was the trick, but that's the day I realized this is the life I wanted.

[can2020]

i was 48 when my wife and i had a 3some with a married man. sucked my frist cock then and loved it.been with 5 other men sometime alone

[BiInIowa]

Early teens and always knew I liked both girls and guys. Genuine attraction to both not just a cock thing with guys.

[alljackdup65]

Mid teens. had girlfriends and had already had pussy, grew up rural, but knew I wanted dick too, so as soon as I got my license and drove to town to the adult bookstore. once or twice a week I'd get cock in my mouth. took months and years off from it between marriage, kids, rise in STDs, but still at it in my mid 50's, now a dedicated bottomed who loves m2m sex

[Jack Waage]

I new I was bisexual the very first time I had a penis in my mouth as I knew this wouldn’t be the only one.

[Darlo]

I had an inkling when I was like 8 years old after I got a hold of hardcore porn magazines out of my friends Dad's garage. I was mesmerized by not only the hot pussy but also the big hard cocks. Before that as a kid, I had no idea adult cock was that big and magnificent (of course porn mags had men with larger/nicer than average cocks).

Then around age 9 I saw a guy show off his amazing flaccid cock at a public pool locker room to me. My god that thing was glorious, I can still picture it to this day. Then when I started puberty and started jacking off, definitely confirmed with my fantasies that I liked cock in addition to pussy.

All through middle/junior/high school; looking at cock bulges in the locker rooms provided plenty of imagery for the spank bank. I never acted on it at school, as I grew up in a fairly rough neighborhood and back then kids didn't take too kindly to same sex interests.

If I wasn't having sex with a woman, I'd say through my life my jack-off percentages are split down the middle between women and men. I've never sucked a cock, but plan to in the near future.

[BigAlNYC]

It seems like I always knew. I would have little crushes and follow girls around and watch them. But I was also always curious about what other boys had in their pants. When I had a lengthy multi-day encounter with a slightly older son of one of my parents' friends one summer, it just confirmed my interest in sex with males. For a short while I thought I must be gay and looked up whatever I could about it. But I also never stopped looking at, and being attracted to, girls. When I had my first girlfriend in high school I thought that perhaps was the end of same sex interest for me, but after a while I also started to crave sucking dick again and began to seek out ways to do it. I really loved getting head from my girlfriend but also thought I wanted to do that too. Licking her pussy was wonderful, but sucking cock was different, and there was something so hot and transgressive about it too. Soon enough I got what I wanted, and began to have an active homosex life to go along with my strong heterosex side.

It's been that way ever since. I have a very strong visual and physical attraction to women and several long-term relationships with women (including a longish marriage). When I get excited over people I see in the street etc., it's pretty much always women. But I also have a strong visceral attraction to man to man sex and a deep need for it. When I look at porn, I usually start out looking at women and heterosex, but to get off I often switch to m2m porn. If that isn't bi, I don't know what is.

[blatant_bi_guy]

I was actually practicing before I heard the term 'bisexual'...I was 13 when I lost it to a girl, then a day later to a guy. It wasn't until I was 15 I heard the term bisexual, so I knew after I'd already been that way.