If you could take a magic pill... [Archive]

innaminka

Sep 11, 2006, 5:24 AM

I like who I am - I am happy with my life as it is .......but!!!!

I actually voted to take the str8 pill.

Now before I am accised of all sorts of "traitor" type epithets, I'll try to explain.
I really don't think very many of us woke up one morning and went, "Who ho. I'm Bi (or gay) YIPEEEEE!"
When the realisation finally dawned, itcaused great upheavals in my psyche, my self image, my day to day life, my relationships with hubby and kids and also my sex life which needed to be requited!
Not an easy time.
We are str8 or bi or gay because of genetic coding out of our control. I did not choose to be bi, it was foisted upon me by my cellular and chemical being.
I believe I have adapted and am quite upfront and do not deny. But wouldn't some aspects of life in our society be easier..
That's why I voted the way I did.

.....Maybe I think I might have taken the pill as a 10 year old rather than a reversion. What is the opposite of coming out??

DiamondDog

Sep 11, 2006, 6:39 AM

I wouldn't take it.

A good friend and I were talking about this last night. He said he could understand why someone would feel the impulse to take a pill that was a cure to being gay/bi/queer; but he wouldn't, even though he will feel weird in het environments as a gay/queer man, gets annoyed at the gay "community", and did want a wife/kids at one point.

For awhile I wasn't happy being the polymorphously perverse sexually fluid human being that I am. But now I'm OK with it and I figure if others have a problem with it, it's their problem not mine. I was REALLY worried about what my family and close friends would think about me and they're all ok with it and if people don't accept me for who I am it's THEIR problem not mine.

This isn't to say that I don't have bad days or get annoyed/angry at homo/bi/queer phobia; but overall I'm a lot more happier now that I've accepted myself as always being this way, being sexually fluid, and how it's just a small aspect of who I am as a sexual human being.

glantern954

Sep 11, 2006, 7:39 AM

There have been times when I have felt guilty about making my wife feel insecure about our relationship. Even though I am out and pretty well adjusted, I think I would probably take it for my wife's peace of mind.

As long as it didn't incude symptoms like, oily gas, loss of sex drive, etc :)

glantern954

Sep 11, 2006, 7:40 AM

I think a more interesting question would be, if there was a magic pill to make you either 100% gay or 100% straight, but you had no choice in what the outcome was. Would you take THAT pill?

anne27

Sep 11, 2006, 8:17 AM

There have been times in my life where if I had a prescription for one of those, I'd have happily taken it. I think most bisexuals at one time in their lives wish for the easier path, either one or the other.

But then again at times, I've also wished I was thinner, or taller, or blonde, or richer, or smarter.... :rolleyes:

Right now, I'm happy being bi. I am who I'm supposed to be.

gh05t

Sep 11, 2006, 8:59 AM

Sorry to hijack the thread, but:
If I could take a magic pill for anything I'd prefer one that either made me dumber & more thickskinned
OR
one that took me back to wherever the hell I came from!

:rotate:

littlerayofsunshine

Sep 11, 2006, 9:56 AM

I would stay bisexual. I am happy being that way. Sure it gets tough at times as does life that anyone lives and has their own struggles, But I know deep in my heart, due to being bisexual, it kept my heart open through out the many times "life" would have made it lock.

TinTin

Sep 11, 2006, 10:09 AM

Happy as I am.
Good question though.
Dont even take pills for a headache so to take a pill which would alter my whole thought process would probably kill me. Then again what happens if you take one of each???

cand86

Sep 11, 2006, 11:48 AM

Then again what happens if you take one of each???

You spontaneously combust. :eek:

As for me . . . as a closeted bi virgin, this is HIGHLY theoretical, but no, I wouldn't take the pill. Not because I don't want to change my orientation (we're not the kind of people who'd get all up on someone's back for a private, personal change, are we?), but I hardly trust medicine like that. I mean, Ritalin quiets hyper kids into doped-up submission, anti-depression drugs give you a goofy smile all day as you stare into space . . . (that's just my impression. No offense if they help you.). I imagine if I took this pill that there would still always be something off, even as I felt no love for one of the sexes . . .

This is actually interesting timing for this thread to come out- I just saw the preview on Youtube of a movie called 'Hard Pill' about the same thing (only straight/gay, not bi). It looks fairly good- anyone seen it?

cfr50s

Sep 11, 2006, 11:59 AM

Neither of us would take the pill. We are both comfortable being bi and enjoying the best of both worlds.

gentlepen9

Sep 11, 2006, 12:44 PM

What if you took the pill but you retain all the memories of being bi? Wouldn't that just torture your soul? There you are, you're straight but you have all these memories of being with the same-sex. Or you're gay and you have all these memories of being with the opposite sex. The pill wouldn't only have to make you straight or gay but it would also have to wipe out the memories of you sexual history. You would have to start all over again otherwise you might just lose your mind or revert back to being bi since you would probably feel as though a part of you is missing.
I know it's all hypothetical but if something like this existed in real life I'm sure it would have some strange side affects.
Personally, I can't imagine being 100% gay or straight. All I know is being bi, even when I didn't know that bisexuality existed. I've always been attracted to both men and woman and the thought of only being attracted to just one hurts my brain.

hillwalker54

Sep 11, 2006, 12:50 PM

No Way! I wouldn't take it, i like the possibilities and best of both also.

Herbwoman39

Sep 11, 2006, 12:57 PM

Okay..I'm about to seriouly reveal my beloved internal Geek.

Is anyone else an X-Men fan? Think about the comparrison. In the comic, for decades the government tried to come up with a "cure" for mutation. They even registered mutants then later rounded them up and put them in camps. By many accounts (no offense intended here folks, nor am I trying to scare anyone) because we are "different" we would be the equivalent of mutants in that comic book world.

I was raised to revel in being different, to be a non-conformist. Those who follow the herd are sheeple (sheep + people = sheeple). In many ways this is who I am.

It took me 38 YEARS to discover this part of myself. There is NO WAY I'm going to try to "fix" something that ISN'T broken!

In short, you'd have to chain me down and forcefeed that pill to me.

ddbmma

Sep 11, 2006, 1:07 PM

Happy being bisexual here despite seeming to gradually become asexual.

There's good reason I feel I'm becoming asexual. Not had balance sexually in my life for a long time. Some medical issues within me, cause low sex drive anyway. I love my wife. But, after a decade of the same dinner every night, well you get the idea. So, I'm happy being bisexual even though I'm heading toward being asexual. Wife says it's fine if I'm not interested in sex.

Of course, she can always find another guy to give her that. I've no problems with jealousy. It'd be nice to find a guy for myself to perhaps offer a bit of spice, but I'm not holding my breath. Besides, what need of sex does a guy who can't father children have? It's just a biological function anyway.

Magic pills? That's akin to dreaming, and I'm through dreaming.

Tynary

Sep 11, 2006, 3:18 PM

There were times in my life when I would have taken the pill to make me gay but I look at some pretty boys and I think why. I can see beauty on a whole ther level. I think being Bi is a good thing as in better than gay or straight. Its really hard but it makes me feel free. This may sound silly but there is something magical about it.
If there was the choice I would take the pill to make me a very attractive, sexy, beautiful boy but with my brain and still be Bi. I don't know why. Its so weird I guess I feel I sound have been a crazy boy with my brain who dresses like a girl sometimes and acts strange. Its the other side of me.
I never want to be straight or gay I love me the way I am. Every part not just my sexuality.

arana

Sep 11, 2006, 4:33 PM

If it's such a magic pill why can't I just have super powers instead?
I wouldn't want to change. Being one of the others is too boring.

DiamondDog

Sep 11, 2006, 5:34 PM

interesting how nobody so far said that they'd take the pill that makes them gay.

I thought about clicking that but I didn't.

jedinudist

Sep 11, 2006, 6:24 PM

If you could take a magic pill that would make you either completely heterosexual or homosexual, would you?

Nope. :)

After years of hating myself, trying to kill myself and being overall just a miserable person, I have finally found peace and acceptance- thanks to my wife.

Like Popeye said "I am what I am!"

And Im finally happy :)

jedinudist

Sep 11, 2006, 6:26 PM

In short, you'd have to chain me down and forcefeed that pill to me.

And then get ready to have it vomited back on you by someone who is perfectly happy being Bi :)

jodi benmac

Sep 11, 2006, 8:43 PM

:bigrin: i'm bi and DEEPLY in the closet. the one thing that i do know is that i'm not gay.although i like my life style. i do what i want when i want ,no one knows and thats the way i like it. :bipride:

Fancy Me

Sep 11, 2006, 9:39 PM

I think I would consider taking an "easier route, get straight" pill. After all I have loved ones it would be easier on. But ultimately I come to the realization that being some one who is not readily accepted by others, makes me someone who is much more accepting of others. I am often the mediator, and the devil’s advocate. I often force myself to see every possible angle of a situation. I think I’m a better person for being bisexual. Not to say bisexuals are better people, but bisexuality was the avenue that brought me to betterment, however slight that betterment maybe.
And also if it weren’t for my sexuality as it is, I might have become one of the bigoted people that have caused me so much grief. And I’d rather not be any different. Yes it would be easier; yes it would be simpler for those who know me, but I would not be me. If I imagine myself any different, I’m imagining a stranger.

In short I would not take any pill. Besides it’s more fun.

Chris.

P.S. I’ll ask my wife how she feels about her bisexuality.

Lorcan

Sep 13, 2006, 12:28 AM

12voltman59

Sep 13, 2006, 12:35 AM

I would not take such a pill-----

mistressnataku

Sep 13, 2006, 1:26 AM

hell no i wouldnt take the pill. i luv my woman 2 much, though i also want a man. And 1 of each is much more fun.

Azrael

Sep 13, 2006, 1:41 AM

I wouldn't take it.
For awhile I wasn't happy being the polymorphously perverse sexually fluid human being that I am. But now I'm OK with it and I figure if others have a problem with it, it's their problem not mine. I was REALLY worried about what my family and close friends would think about me and they're all ok with it and if people don't accept me for who I am it's THEIR problem not mine.
Exactly where I'm at. Screw the pill. As many have said, it would make a significant amount of my experiences vapid and meaningless.

Okay..I'm about to seriouly reveal my beloved internal Geek.

Is anyone else an X-Men fan? Think about the comparrison. In the comic, for decades the government tried to come up with a "cure" for mutation. They even registered mutants then later rounded them up and put them in camps. By many accounts (no offense intended here folks, nor am I trying to scare anyone) because we are "different" we would be the equivalent of mutants in that comic book world.
Yes. I am totally with you on this one! Ever watch the X-Men movies while psychiatrically confined? I've come to the same space about being bipolar, my power of sorts being my feral manic energy which I keep under control to the best of my abilities, my brain encompassed within an antipsychotic cage like a male Phoenix.

Just_Gem

Sep 13, 2006, 8:17 AM

NO WAY!!!!! Think the old adage "If it ain't broke don't fix it" fits here, at least for me, :devil: and sure hubby would agree!

Gemm :bibounce:

deepbluejamie

Sep 13, 2006, 8:34 AM

I am perfectly happy being bisexual, I have had a lot of identity crisises in my life as far as looks, employment, education and fatherhood. But, thankfully I knew at an early age that I was open to loving both genders and although the world tried to shame me often , I very rarely looked back when it came to my sexuality. :bibounce:

Herbwoman39

Sep 13, 2006, 10:04 AM

And then get ready to have it vomited back on you by someone who is perfectly happy being Bi :)

Damn Skippy! :bigrin:

(Interpretation for those who have never heard this phrase before: That is a correct interpretation of the situation.) :bigrin:

meteast chick

Sep 13, 2006, 8:22 PM

Okay, so I'll admit that some days I wish I was for sure one way or the other, but to me that would be admitting that I wasn't happy for who I am, and that's simply not true.

Therefore, I'll just say thanks, but no thanks.

canuckotter

Sep 14, 2006, 8:24 AM

If I could take a magic pill that would give me all the social graces that I lack (think a mild version of Asperger's), would I? No. My awkwardness makes life difficult, but it's also given me a unique viewpoint on life that's served me well many times.

I see my bisexuality in the same light. Sure my life would be easier, but what would I learn from taking the easy route? :) Plus, the world would be less filled with attractive people, and where's the fun in that?! :eek:

Enoll

Sep 14, 2006, 11:00 AM

Never.
I like the way I am, the person who offerd me the pill would
probably be very sorry that they did.
If I could take one that had only effects for a day then I'd take it
just to see what it's like to be one way or the other, it'd be a fun
experement.

Avocado

Sep 14, 2006, 6:28 PM

Not in a million years

biandu

Sep 14, 2006, 6:44 PM

I think a more interesting question would be, if there was a magic pill to make you either 100% gay or 100% straight, but you had no choice in what the outcome was. Would you take THAT pill?

fuck that would be too hard!

coyotedude

Sep 16, 2006, 4:28 AM

m.in.heels&hose

Sep 16, 2006, 7:29 AM

I am perfectly happy just the way i am (sexually) and wouldnt change a thing
I feel that being bisexual gives me lots more freedom of what i can do sexuallyand spiritually as well

if i were to change anything about me, it would be physical changes, but i already know i can get pills for that, its just up to me to decide if i really want to go through with these changes!!!!! :flag4:

warm heart

Sep 16, 2006, 8:13 AM

It took me 38 YEARS to discover this part of myself. There is NO WAY I'm going to try to "fix" something that ISN'T broken!

In short, you'd have to chain me down and forcefeed that pill to me.

Ditto herbwoman......it took me thirty eight years to own who i am......the journey has been hard....heart breaking at times.......and i have struggled to be where i am today.....but would i change it and undo all the personal growth that came with it......no way....

Now ....if the question had been.....would you take a pill to change your sexual orientation....if it meant you would get a shag......lol.....god help me i might have been tempted......

love and light
Warm xxoxoxox

wanderingrichard

Sep 17, 2006, 2:27 AM

nope wont take it.. like others say, i finally got it all the way it's supposed to be, now why would i want to change it?

shades of the jefferson airplanes' "white rabbit", anyone??

actually, the old country song, "the way i am" [ don't fit my shadow] comes to mind first and foremost.

kenny

Sep 19, 2006, 2:39 AM

I would NEVER trade any of my experieces for anything. Having both sides of the world is great.

csrakate

Sep 19, 2006, 6:04 AM

sammie19

Sep 19, 2006, 6:42 AM

Short answer. NO

Longer? It is just who I am and to be true to myself I will not deny or supress my nature. Though being bi has caused me a lot of pain over my life and I have lost so much, it has also enriched me in so many ways, sexually being just one small, if wonderfully important aspect of it.

I gained new friends who are far more understanding of the problems and confusions I faced and have helped me through enormously.

I now know also my true friends, those who have stuck by me through thick and thin throughout my troubles. Those who were so shallow as to walk away and leave me to sink, and even added to my woes were not real friends, and love them dearly as I did so many, and cried floods of tears for their loss, I now realise its a greater loss for them than me.

csrakate

Sep 19, 2006, 7:04 AM

Absofuckinglutely!!!!!!

Chaia

Sep 20, 2006, 2:54 PM

It would be easier to be straight and possibly less confusing to be lesbian, but I chose the staying bi option. It is part of who I am. I see most things in the middle--sexuality, politics, social concerns, etc. I see the world in the greys, not black and white. And I don't want to wish away any of the men or women I have loved.

I don't know that I am 100% happy being bi all of the time, but that is mostly because of the societal pressure to conform to monosexual "norms." So, it would be nice to have magic fairy dust that we could sprinkle on the world to make everyone accepting of all kinds of love!
:)

julie

Sep 20, 2006, 5:32 PM

...hmm, not such an easy question...

...my gut response is 'i am who i am...why should i change into who i'm not?'

...but... even as a bi woman in a loving caring relationship with a wonderful bi man.. being bi gets in the way. As i am always aware that i will have to share him at some point..... and that will just be so costly, because i want our intimacy to remain between just the two of us..

...if we were both straight, the issue of polygamy would hardly be at the forefront of our minds, because it is more of an exception than a norm in straight society... but for us both to be true to ourselves, the prospect of either of us being .. distracted or even lost to someone the same gender is a very real and constant possibility... and i hate that so much, because it just doesnt seem fair... it fact it feels so fucking cruel at times..

....so why dont i choose a straight male or a lesbian as a partner?...well because i'm not straight or lesbian..of course! I am 100% bisexual and i want to be with someone just like me... because the empathy, and so the intimacy we share in both being number 4 on the Kinsey scale is so breathtakingly poignant and a wildly stimulating experience for us both...

...so i stay with my gut response of just being me... and i guess that whether gay, straight or bi, there are always going to be advantages and disadvantages that are just part of every walk of life...

...but hey, thanks Drew for the opportunity to reflect a while on both the positives and the negatives... and so, for me at least, to grasp that yes it is tough and its actually ok too.... because, although the lows are indeed so intense...so are the highs!!.. and i'm really quite excited by the realisation that life in the bi lane will be many things....but it will never be predictable.. :bipride:

ooh feel better now after thrashing all that out!

cheers julie :female: xxx

Jimmy2ways

Sep 20, 2006, 6:03 PM

I'd prefer to be either gay or straight. The trouble is I am 50:50 and this has only caused turmoil in any potential relationships, not because I can't stick to one partner but I have found that straight girls and gay guys tend not to favour bi guys. Don't get me wrong I'm no in a "Oh woe is me" mood nor am I the kinda guy who uses unfortunate situations to gain sympathy. It's just that I think it'd be a hell of a lot easier and if this magic pill existed..... you'd never know.

James

P.s if by using the word unfortunate offended anyone, please accept my apologies. There is nothing unfortunate about being bi, rather it's unfortunate that others choose not to accept.

csrakate

Sep 20, 2006, 6:03 PM

I would take that pill hoping that my hubby will get the acceptance that he so desires and needs....and that I may accept the things that I discover about myself along the way!

Oh yeah..and don't forget World Peace and free Mocha Moolatte's for all!!!
Hugs,
Kate

OOOPS!!!! Somehow part of my opening comment got deleted before I posted it....I edit so many times before I submit but this time I apparently cut something out and forgot to paste it back in before I hit the submit button! LOL! I should never post to the forum so early in the morning!!!

The first line should have started as follows:

I would not want my hubby to take that pill...I don't want anything about him to change. But if I could have a magic pill, it would be one for me...a pill that would help me continue to understand how he feels, to keep an open mind and to ensure that he never again has feelings of shame like he used to have. I continue hoping that my hubby will get the acceptance he so desires etc., etc.

No more posting for me before coffee!!!

Hugs
Kate

GypsyButterfly

Sep 20, 2006, 6:30 PM

I've been bi most of my life, I just had to reach a point where I fully understood & could embrace it. It might be a challenge being bi, but, to me, it's also far more interesting. Just straight or just gay? No thanks, too limiting & I like options. No offense meant to anyone who is one or the other.

Gothmom

Sep 21, 2006, 3:35 PM

No. Didn't even have to think about it, either.

It's taken me 45 years to be happy with who and what I am. I'm fine with being bisexual, the people in my life who need to know do, and to me that's all that matters.

I can sympathize with people who would take either the gay or the straight pill. It's so much easier to be one or the other. Not as much fun, though. :bigrin:

ambi53mm

Sep 21, 2006, 7:58 PM

The way I interpret this question is “ If you had the option of controlling your sexual orientation at the deepest levels physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually would you?” If I were given the option at the beginning of exploring my sexuality I would say Yes. Having to repress and hide what feels natural in a society that has little to no tolerance of my bisexual orientation I’ve already lived. Ignorance is bliss as they say. If these deep rooted feelings and urges didn’t exist, then the frustration and confusion would have never been an issue. The magic pill would be a quick and easy solution and I’d opt for just a normal heterosexual existence.
The belief that I made this choice prior to this existence means I probably weighed the pros and cons of this orientation before inhabiting this body. I’m grateful for the lessons and insights it’s given and surely wouldn’t be the person I am today with out it. It’s not an easy road but it sure makes the time spent here interesting.

Ambi :)

wildangel

Sep 25, 2006, 9:29 PM

I've always understood my attraction to both males and females, although I definitely tend to lean more toward females. If I had to choose to be gay or straight, I would choose to gay. But I'm perfectly happy in my life with my husband and the ocassional gf that comes along. I wouldn't have any other way. Why choose when you can have the best of both worlds!

CafeRaquel

Sep 25, 2006, 10:00 PM

I think what everyone is truley trying to define is can you take a pill that makes everything okay?

I think that is what the dr's have tried to create with the prozac anti depressants bullshit. People take them and are "OK" for a bit and then they become numb and useless and depressed, because there is no sense of life and true struggle left with in their being.

With out struggle there is nothing, no chanllenge no growth no life no art

So to answer the question I would NOT take the pill because although my existence on this planet may not be per-fect it is life and it is living even though some don't agree with it I choose it.

suegeorge

Sep 29, 2006, 4:17 PM

I wouldn't take the pill.

Being bi, I think I have a little clearer perspective on some aspects of life than I would if I were just gay or just straight. I think that I am less likely to think in black and white because I'm bi; I have much more appreciation of life's gray areas, since I don't readily fit into society's round holes myself.

Being bi is not just about my sexuality; it's part of how I see the world. I wouldn't want to lose that....

I'd really like to agree with this quote...

I didn't have to think for a second whether I would take that pill. No, never ever ever.

I know that I haven't had things as difficult as many people: my family don't mind, I don't live in a remotely religious community, I've always worked in the arts and been around non-straight people, my partners have usually been supportive, and I have been out for a long, long time.

Earlier on in my life, though, things were tougher. But my sexuality is a hugely important part of me, and of my whole identity. For me, being bisexual is an absolute joy. I really hope it can be for you, too.

Bisexuality and beyond (http://suegeorgewrites.blogspot.com)

hairless

Sep 30, 2006, 2:37 AM

No I would'nt take such a pill. Even tough I have'nt tried my bi side yet. I'd want the best of both worlds. ;)

JohnnyV

Oct 2, 2006, 11:38 AM

If there were a magic pill that existed to make me straight, I assume that there would be another pill to make me bi again. :) So I would take the straight pill just to see what it was life, all the time planning to go back to "me as I am."

:)

NWMtnHawk

Oct 2, 2006, 8:01 PM

I don't even have to consider this one for more than a second. . . no, . . I would NOT take ANY such "Fix it Pill" regardless of what it claimed to "fix".
I truely believe that "struggling" and "figuring it out" is an essential part of the human experience, and is what helps to build character, and wisdom; and in the end is a significant part of what makes you who you are, . . . and what you become as a person.
In my profile I said, "I've found being bi is one hell'uva tight rope to walk", and consequently I feel it's helped me develop a good sense of balance to handle the rough ground you have to walk in life.

tigerlily110

Oct 2, 2006, 11:19 PM

I am happy the way I am. I am more hetro but I do not think I would cut out the bi side of me because it is something that enriches my life I think. Why would you do something like that when you have the best of both world I ask? Works for me! :)

nyabn_webmaster

Oct 3, 2006, 8:41 PM

Absolutely not! Being bi means you have the freedom to love a person for who they are, why would anyone NOT want that? :bipride:

twodelta

Oct 6, 2006, 3:11 AM

And also if it weren’t for my sexuality as it is, I might have become one of the bigoted people that have caused me so much grief. And I’d rather not be any different. Yes it would be easier; yes it would be simpler for those who know me, but I would not be me. If I imagine myself any different, I’m imagining a stranger.

In short I would not take any pill. Besides it’s more fun.

Chris.

P.S. I’ll ask my wife how she feels about her bisexuality.

Very well said!! I especially like the sentence "If I imagine myself any different, I'm imagining a stranger".

DJ Triad

Oct 8, 2006, 12:05 AM

I will not take the pill. I am perfectly happy being bi and being true to myself. Besides, all of the bisexual people that I've met and became friends with are the most balanced people that I know. :) Cheers!

SatyrGuy69

Oct 8, 2006, 7:54 AM

:soapbox: :banghead: :yikes2: , Is that a joke ? maybe they should make a pill for straight people to be bi, I just can't see myself taking a pill that would change me into something that I'm not ! that just goes to show you the difference between stupidity and intelligence;some people just don't have anything else better to do with their time.

fady_uk

Oct 10, 2006, 12:18 PM

can any body explain for me what that is the magic pill. and what it dose to u. is it some sort of drugs or what?

fady_uk

Oct 10, 2006, 12:21 PM

can anybody tell me what is the magic pill is? are they some sort of drugs or what?

sennex

Oct 15, 2006, 12:37 PM

I voted without thinking, why did I vote to be gay? It appears that it was my initial gut reaction to the question and my initial reaction is something that I've learnt to trust over the years
My initial teenage sexual encounters were gay and since then I have had more male encounters than female but the relationships with females have lasted much longer. It has be to said though that part of the reason I started to date girls was peer pressure, being gay in 60's and 70's Yorkshire wasn't actively encouraged.
So now I'm confused, am I really bisexual or gay by nature, straight by nurture?

BbImSexy

Oct 26, 2006, 6:39 PM

its better how i am because i could be with :smirlove2 a men and a woman at the same time i love it better like that.wow :tong: :bigrin:

Dizzy

Oct 27, 2006, 4:44 AM

I really am not sure what I'd do at this point. I've only just been exploring my sexuality over the last month, and it's certainly been causing me heart-ache. I've barely accepted this side of me myself (and to be honest I don't think I have fully), and I'm going through all the drama of telling people; of having to challenge long help opinions in good friends, dealing with the fact that my little sis (read really good friend-it's a long story) is a strong christian which could cause problems....

So to cut my rant short, I don't know. I've never been a fan of changing myself though any method apart from my down thought and self-discovery, but this would make my life so much easier. I don't know. :(

tatooedpunk

Oct 28, 2006, 7:00 PM

Good question,
I'm still coming to terms with my sexuality,definetely wouldn't take the gay road not sure if i'm happy being bi but i am getting more comfortable with it so not the straight road either
dunno what to do

PrudyPrudence

Oct 28, 2006, 9:46 PM

Why oh why would anyone who is bi take a magic pill and give that up? Being bisexual is one of the things I am the most proud of I get the best of both worlds ...I say being bi rocks!!!! :bibounce: ;) :eek:

Doggie_Wood

Oct 29, 2006, 11:15 PM

Not only NO - but Hell NO

If I took the magic pill - then I wouldn't be me - I would be someone else!
I like me - and being able to enjoy the best of both worlds. Even tho I don't get to enjoy it as much as I would like, I am happy with the current statis of my life.
Woof - Woof :doggie:

twosides

Oct 31, 2006, 5:10 PM

I definitly would not take the "magic pill". Long before I came to accept the bi label I know I confounded people with which way I leaned. I've always enjoyed my unsure definition.

I was diagnosed with ADD ten years ago when that became the syndrome of the decade. And I went through a couple medications to try and "make me better", HA! Wellbutrin, then Adderall. I took Adderall for almost a year, but found that it did the job it was supposed to do. That was to make me more even keeled, not so distracted and varied in my attention span. But it did not give me the freedom to act, react, think, or be the way I really was. And I loved being the way I was. I was more creative, more animated, and I just had a more fun life.

So if there was a pill for this, I would hope that the people who *really needed it* would take it, but for me, no way!

Don Gato

Nov 2, 2006, 3:31 AM

Oh, the magic pill...usually has side effects as mentioned earlier, right?

As a creative person (graphic designer) that would mean i couldn't use certain colors, shapes, etc.; this would be very limiting to my work! Thus, the answer would be an emphatic, 'No.'

I'm a newbie here and have found the discussions to be bright and positive, even to members in conflict about their essence. Cheers to you all. Let's keep up the good vibes!

Doggie_Wood

Nov 4, 2006, 1:16 AM

can anybody tell me what is the magic pill is? are they some sort of drugs or what?

:bigrin: It's the pills that Morphius offered to Neo - you know - a chance to go down the rabbit hole with Alice and her boyfriend - LOL :rolleyes:

:doggie:

Trek7200

Nov 15, 2006, 11:12 PM

interesting how nobody so far said that they'd take the pill that makes them gay.

I thought about clicking that but I didn't.

I love pussy too much to be gay and cock too much to be straight!

LoveLion

Nov 15, 2006, 11:46 PM

I pick "happy the way I am", However if I was forced to take one of the pills I think I would take the homosexual one. Not sure why, but I dont think I would really wanna be strait :bigrin:

jaglvr

Nov 16, 2006, 10:43 PM

I don't think I have ever met a "monosexual" (I like that term) that was satisfied and fulfilled with only one gender. I consider bisexuality the naturally evolution of the species. Straights and Gays are all curious about both genders it's just that we do something about it so we are "Bisexual". The labels mean little. I think we are all the same, with stronger leanings toward one gender or the other notwithstanding, but some of us are more honest with ourselves than the majority. Being monosexual would leave an emptiness that bisexuality helps alleviate. I don't consider Straight or Gay any easier than Bi. There will still be a need for balance regardless of your category.

FerociousFeline

Nov 16, 2006, 11:21 PM

Where was the option to take the magic pill and have the REST of the world join you in being bisexual?

Seriously. I'm guilty folks, I'm guilty of being ethnocentric or something. I think Bisexuality is in my belief...the only "natural" way to BE. I'm just tired of all these different movements which seek to put us all in little boxes with neat little labels. Think how much more wonderful the world would be if the majority were bisexual.

Sorry, I guess I was just drooling again. I was just thinking about how there wouldn't be hate crimes based on fear of sexual identity, or how much more open it would be allowing us to openly appreciate members of the same sex in public the way that the hets do. <sigh>

I've been quiet about my orientation for all of my life, hopefully soon, I'll develop the network and the personal feelings of belonging and security to be able to "let my hair down" comfortably among others of like spirit.

In the meantime, as I have mentioned previously to Drew, thank you all for making this such a wonderful place to come and be a part of.

xoxbisexual_loserxox

Nov 20, 2006, 10:32 PM

dude
being effing bi owns!
if it doesnt go right with the oppisite sex, i go to the same.
simple as tht.
but i have a question**
when a girl or guy is bi, are they more attracted to the same sex or not?
i find thts me, same sex more. :flag1:

frankenchris

Nov 20, 2006, 11:34 PM

I think it would definitely make my life much easier to just be homosexual, but that's hardly ever a good reason to do anything.

someotherguy

Nov 20, 2006, 11:47 PM

I did already. That's how I got here.

LoveLion

Nov 21, 2006, 12:03 AM

when a girl or guy is bi, are they more attracted to the same sex or not?
i find thts me, same sex more

It differes from person to person. Some people prefer the oposite sex mostly and are only bi-curious. Other are mostly gay but still hold an attraction to the other sex. And some are 50 - 50. For me gender just doesnt seem ot apply at all when ti comes to sexual and romantic attraction.

Avocado

Nov 21, 2006, 6:56 AM

I'm 100% bisexual but I find more women attractive than men. I guess if it was the other way round I could always get away with having "standards" ;)

meta23

Nov 21, 2006, 3:50 PM

If I took the straight pill, would I have to drink beer and watch football?

Avocado

Nov 21, 2006, 5:33 PM

If I took the straight pill, would I have to drink beer and watch football?

You could take the bi pill for that :bigrin:

rockstarvomit

Nov 21, 2006, 6:19 PM

as much as being bi has troubled me and in someways made my life harder and will probably continue to do so, I'm extremely happy to be what I am. And I'm certainly happier than I was when I was trying to deny it. Being totally gay or totally straight might be easier, but I'm happiest being bi.

FlaPlaya561

Dec 3, 2006, 8:57 AM

I am happy the way i am now ...im having fun ...

animated_Alan

Dec 18, 2006, 12:39 AM

I have to admit, I'm happy the way I am. It's taken a long time for Kara to be really comfortable with my sexuality and we're finally in a really good place, relationship-wise. And when SHE is happy, I am! Besides...I don't do real good on drugs....had to take vicodin after a wisdom tooth extraction the night of our daughter's choral concert and ...well....let's just say THAT won't happen again!!

LoveYourCum

Dec 24, 2006, 3:13 AM

It took me 20 years to purge myself of gender hang ups, why would I want them back again?

mcliff128

Dec 25, 2006, 12:24 PM

I'm at a point in my life that I'm able to accept who I am. Even though I have more gay sex, I do enjoy women on occasion.

christina1131988

Dec 25, 2006, 7:11 PM

i wouldn't take it im to happy being the way i was made, i love being bi

someotherguy

Dec 30, 2006, 12:12 PM

I would not take such a pill myself, but there are some other people I would slip it to. And possibly also give them a pill.

cottoncandy

Jan 3, 2007, 11:57 PM

I've lived 40 years of my life as a bisexual, and it has been a big part of my life mentally and emotionally and occassionally physically. If i took a pill now to be a monosexual, i feel that it would delete a big chunk of my life. Even though it wouldn't change the things i've done or felt in the past, it would make all those things meaningless to me now.

i love this quote i had a boss once that was homophobic and i stood to close to her after she found out i was bi and it put her into a fit i quit shortly there after so i agree :flag1:

Rickh611

Jan 4, 2007, 6:24 AM

No magic pill for me I am very happy being bisexual as much as I enjoy sex with men. I love sex with women just the same.

AngelOfTheMystic

Jan 4, 2007, 2:44 PM

There is no way I would take a magic pill! I love who I am and I think that being bisexual is a great thing. You get the best of both worlds and it's what makes us unique.

jamiehue

Jan 10, 2007, 11:58 AM

Magners Fan

Jan 10, 2007, 2:41 PM

I don't agree with the OP's question, I don't think anyone would wish they were gay or straight unless they were having problems. If your feelings are strong enough for either sex then you'll make up your own mind to live a gay or straight life.

luvrnpa

Jan 10, 2007, 3:58 PM

Sometimes I wish 'society' could take a magic pill. :eek:

Avocado

Jan 10, 2007, 5:25 PM

Sometimes I wish 'society' could take a magic pill. :eek:

:bowdown:

iamjohn5

Jan 20, 2007, 4:49 PM

Hey...I don't want to change. Some women'as parts are sexier to me, and some men's parts are sexier. I like having both. And I will...

tatooedpunk

Jan 20, 2007, 6:57 PM

Not sure,but it would make life a whole lot easier

qdaren37

Jan 20, 2007, 8:29 PM

Yeah, I would, I hate living in limbo everyday of my life, I hated watching my exgirlfriend get her heart broken when i wanted to date guys. I hate not being able to date anyone or see anyone becuase i never know how long im goingto like one sex more then the other or switch.

I ain't happy with myself right now, and I have said very much that i would take the pill to take me back to when this never happened.

but that's my name!!

Jan 20, 2007, 9:05 PM

I am really very very happy to be bi, it's the monosexuals (I'm loveing that word) who have the REAL mental issues.
what kind of dumbass excludes half of the population based on something as trivial as whether they have a cock or a cunt?
I put it down to social brainwashing from birth.
maybe the straights are scared and the gays are over rebelious???
All and I mean ALL of my problems related to being bi have been entirely down to the gender obsessed monosexeuals.
So no, although I considered this (as I'm sure most of us have) when I was first er.. 'dealing with my sexuality' I would definately not take a magic bullet pill. In fact I'd love to turn it down and offer them my own pill which would wipe out all of their emotional baggage, make everything ok and un-brainwash them, Then their sexuality would be untainted and true and down to what they really desire not what society says they must or must not.

I suppose then I'd find out if straight and gay really exist as orientations or not.

sorry, I hope this makes sense and Isn't too "bi-nazi" as I'm a bit drunk on wierd Brazillian sugar cane spirits.

I've recently come back to this way of thinking after about 5 years of not really thinking about it at all.

I've lived amongst monosexuals for 27 years and i still don't get them, I think they're all at least a little fucked up.

:) :flag3:

member4u

Jan 22, 2007, 5:59 AM

now if there was a pill for turning me into a shemale, well.......thats a different story :bigrin:

fortyniner1

Jan 25, 2007, 8:44 PM

I like me. It took me a long time to get to a point where everything is cool. I wouldn't want to take a magic pill because I believe that I am special for who I am and what I do. I like women and I like men and like a river I flow to one side then the other and I do so because I am honest with myself. No pill or cure (I like the X-men analogy) would be better because the world is diverse whether some people can see that or not. :cool:

zeroboss

Jan 27, 2007, 2:51 AM

I'm perfectly fine being the misfit I am. :)

whattodo

Jan 28, 2007, 11:49 AM

As I have just allowed myself to accept this part of myself, I would not and could not take a pill to make me straight. I have fought to be straight for 28 years and I finally feel complete and completely loved. I dont know how long things will continue like this, and when I will tell all of my family but I can not and will not deny who and what I am. I have never been "normal" as society sees it, so people looking at me and saying things behind my back is not a problem to me. Coming out of the perverbial closet, has allowed me to be completely free and feel things that I have never felt before. I am perfectly happy about things and dont see anything changing that.

:bipride: :female: :yinyang:

KChsnyFan4Life

Jan 28, 2007, 10:28 PM

I wouldnt....I am perfectly happy with being bi BUT I wish my family were more supportive of me...and I didnt have to be so closeted about my sexuality

jookboxcharlie

Feb 3, 2007, 8:16 AM

The Magic Straight Pill is not for everyone. You should not take Magic Straight Pill if you are pregnant, nursing, or may become pregnant; or if you are taking an MAOI for a heart condition. Rarely, Magic Straight Pill has been associated with a rift in the space time continuum, teleporting you to an alternate universe ruled by monkeys. If this happens, discontinue Magic Straight Pill immediately, and consult your new monkey doctor.

:bipride:

callig77

Feb 3, 2007, 12:42 PM

...take the magic pill...

Absolutely no way! Why would I want to limit myself to only one of the sexes. I find such great sexuality in women...and also in men.

I am an assman...through and through...it doesn't matter if it is a girls ass or a guys ass...Mmmm!!

mikeiam4

Feb 3, 2007, 2:42 PM

I guess I got lucky enough to meet and marry a women who is not only understanding of my bi-ness, but fully supportive of it. In fact, it was her that ultimatly let me down the path to prove it, broadening my horizons so that I may truly enjoy what I wanted, even though I never knew I wanted it!! I gotta say I would stay the same, I love having the opportunity to explore the best of both worlds!

driventoboth

Feb 4, 2007, 2:04 PM

I voted to remain as I am. I'm fully aware and have experienced most of the pitfalls of being a man who simply has no gender bias. Perhaps I think it's part of a grander design that I shouldn't tinker with. Now, I will never be a flag-waver, exclaiming pride over what I chose to do with my didck as a "culture" or "lifestyle", I actually enjoy having a choice (and giving that choice to others).
While this survey may be entertaining and mindly thought-provoking, it's hardly scientific since practically 100% of the participants (members of this web site) are resolved in their sexuality...and practice it. If other studies are to be believed, 20% of the Earth's population may be bisexual. While bi women enjoy a greater acceptance than bi men, that would mean that there are over-whelmingly more closeted bisexuals than closeted gays. Survey those in the closet and I think you'll find the results quite different.

bhg08054

Feb 4, 2007, 5:08 PM

The only "magic pill" I want is the one that halves my weight and doubles my cock size. :rolleyes: :cool:

The happiest moments in my life have been those when I've been in bed with both a man and a woman. There is no way I would want to give that up.

Cowan

Feb 4, 2007, 8:15 PM

I'm happy as I am, but if I had to I would go gay :bipride:

bigdreams3250

Feb 17, 2007, 6:48 AM

:male: :female: Crikey, are we not what we are. In my teens it was apparent that I had a level of Bi-Sexuality. I emigrated to Australia and the first sex I had was straight, with a lovely weather girl from the local tv station.

Over the years I never ever entertained bi-sexuality. I ran into a Lesbian couple once and that was a bit of a turn on, screwing the 'female' whilst the 'male' looked on. Purely clinical donation that was.

That was it then, spent the next many years as a straight husband to three wives, father to two beautiful daughters and sperm donor for five others. To say that I was sexually active would have been an understatement. But everyone was very very happy. I would never have taken a pill to change it because that was me!

Recently I have discovered the benefits and feelings of bi-sexuality and embrace it totally, why would I want to take a pill to change that? I have never felt better about my sexuality and the friends that I have now and unlike full blown Gay sexuality, I dont have to come out to family but everyone else that I meet is aware of my situation. Take it or leave it, I havent changed, just the pigeon hole I roost in has, I dont want a pill!

Rocsteady

Feb 17, 2007, 11:12 AM

Could I give the rest of the world a combination of the two pills thus creating a bisexual world? That would be awesome....
:color: :bounce: :grouphug:

Solomon

Feb 17, 2007, 11:51 AM

I just say no. :cool:

shadowsaffinity

Feb 17, 2007, 12:25 PM

i certainly would not take a magic pill. i love being bi and i love being myself. i have no desire to change my sexuality. :bibounce:

urabannanahead

Feb 19, 2007, 2:34 AM

I don't think that anyone should take it, there would be no gay or bi people left. Who's going to stop the parent from giving it to their kids? if you ask me, its just unnatural to change your genetics. No matter who you are, be proud, everyone was made perfect.

nbcanada

Feb 24, 2007, 12:03 AM

I beleive that ppl are putting to much emphasis on being sexual, is it wrong to enjoy sex with either sex? If so then perhaps it is wrong to enjoy the taste of fine food, liquor, art. Because no matter which you prefer some one out there well think tha you are weird or strange for liking it. And thats all I got to say about that.

Scakk

Feb 24, 2007, 3:20 AM

A lot of my friends tell me to not be Bi but I am happy for who I am and if my friends don't see that then they are missing out to have me as a friend.

jamiehue

Feb 24, 2007, 11:49 AM

gjmwbimale48

Feb 25, 2007, 1:19 AM

actually i wish there was a additive in the nations water supply that made everyone bisexual.... it would be an overall better world in my opinion!

modzrule

Feb 26, 2007, 6:35 PM

"I yams who I yams!" -Popeye[object Object][object Object]

Quizoid

Feb 26, 2007, 9:26 PM

I didn't vote because I'd take a pill to be more bisexual. I lean way towards men, and only like doing a few specific things with women. This used to get me down more before than it does now, but I think I'm finally ok with myself the way I am, even if it isn't my logical ideal.

Ayida

Mar 10, 2007, 6:57 PM

I would definitely not take that pill!!

I just really came to terms with how extremely hot being bisexual is. There is so much stimulation and excitment in just the surrounding thoughts of doing something naughty with the same sex. Its an undiscribale feeling, and I'm sure some can agree. I can't wait to explore more!! ((Or see more for that matter, thanks to my BF))

So in short, being bisexual is just way toooooooo much fun to even think about taking a pill to cut it short. Ladies: Keep yourselves wet and Guys: Keep the good stuff cumin!!

xoxox's Ayida

biwords

Mar 10, 2007, 7:47 PM

wingnut

Mar 10, 2007, 8:03 PM

Ayida, yours is a credo to live by................thank you!

If I were given one of those all straight/all gay pills, I'd trade it immediately for the one that changes men into women and vice-versa for a (renewable) trial period...as discussed on another thread.... ;)

Speaking of temporary pills, if the "all str8" or "all ghey" pill was indeed temporary, I would definitely take it. I've never understood how someone could be monosexual, and it would be enlightening to see life through one's eyes. Having said that, I would NEVER take a permanent pill. Being bi's too much fun! :bibounce:

Domino

Mar 11, 2007, 4:06 AM

It does not bother me either way, if I was gay, straight or bi, so no i would not take a pill

mouse46

Mar 16, 2007, 1:01 PM

I love both worlds and would never change who I am. People need to learn that we're all out there and we don't want to change. There are things that only the same sex can give that your mate can't and they accpet it because it's who you are that they love and would never want you to change. :flag1: So no pill for me please.

mindfinding

Mar 25, 2007, 11:45 PM

GLANTERN954

I completely agree. And your a good man for putting your wife before yourself. I admire that a great deal.

Cheers

Solomon

Mar 26, 2007, 5:13 AM

bifireman

Mar 29, 2007, 10:48 AM

Heck,

I already took a pill to make me BI or at least that's what they told me I was taking. I would not change a thing being Bi gives me the best of both sex's.

Yum Yum :tongue: :bipride:

raistkit

Apr 1, 2007, 11:18 AM

to all:
pills only make the pill companys rich, if you r straight stay that way, if your curious explore, if your bi fn enjoy, we get all the options when we r out looking. if you do not know who, or what u r, talk to people like us who will not judge but we will talk and explain. then you have a open choice to make in your own time, sometimes the feelings will not come together overnight, in time they will. patience is a virtue, im sorry this does not help when you r holding a rock hard cock and still unsure of your self, the best way to know is masterbate and then have a personal talk with yourself, its like going shopping hungry, dont do it, because it fuc_s up you mental capacity to think straight. hope this helps, and if anyone is unsure email us or message us. we like who and what we r, so we can give u thoughts or ideas to help.

im bi(male) i like stockings and hose
wife is sub who loves mens underwear and ball caps

have fun and explore raist kit

Abbey Road

Apr 1, 2007, 4:50 PM

I wouldn`t take it. I`m so happy as I am & don`t want to change a good part of me. :bibounce:

brwn_brks

Apr 1, 2007, 6:17 PM

no i am very happy the way i am in both sexes i feel myself.

miller lite man

Apr 1, 2007, 8:25 PM

Take a pill to change how I feel,or think sexually? Nope. I'm happy being str8, and wife's happy being bi. :)

catlickerk

Apr 2, 2007, 5:37 PM

TAKE A MAGIC PILL TO NOT TO BE BISEXUAL..... I THINK NOT I LOVE BEING BI :female:

fairbankswingers

Apr 3, 2007, 8:29 AM

The wife and I discussed this together (we are both BI - whihc is nice compaired to some bi marrages) anyhow we both agreed we dont want to change anything about ourselves, but know it would have been an easier life had we been one way or the other...we were very lucky to have found each other, and are both happy with our sexuality, but with me serving in the military for 21 years before retirement - now that was a struggle....

TaylorMade

Apr 3, 2007, 11:58 AM

Honestly not sure.

While it would be cool that I wouldn't have to worry about things like the dumb expectations people put on bifemales, but I'd miss that part of myself.

There are good parts to each side... but knowing me, I'd miss a dose just to truly compare.

*Taylor*

*pan*

Apr 13, 2007, 12:14 PM

no, i'm happy with who and what i am, i believe people are born bisexual and that society dictates our actions with brain washing, that it's wrong to love the same sex. we see it all the time in curious childern getting caught playing with one another and being scolded and told it's wrong and never to do that again. this comes from the christian dogma taught from birth. i see a lot of pagans that carry this baggage claiming to be pagan but with christian moral implications, one has to remember most peoples sexuality id dictated by their friends, family and neighbors. i personaly don't let anyone dictate my sexuality but then i keep it on a need to know basis. of course this is only my opinion and my .
peace and blessings to all >

:2cents: :2cents: :2cents: :2cents:

lilbitsva

Apr 13, 2007, 12:16 PM

I think that i'm fine the way that i am lil bit

christaiwan

Apr 28, 2007, 11:39 AM

sure!!!
i DO will ~
in my country, that's greatly huge pressure on sex orientation
they supposed that heterosexual is the exact way u should follow!
that's why i still hide away from society, even my best friends....
that's what i face in asian regions!! :(

skipper576

Apr 29, 2007, 5:35 PM

No magic pill--although I haven't had much Bi action I still love the thought of enjoying both men and women.

Cherokee_Mountaincat

May 9, 2007, 1:40 PM

Nope, I am happy just the way I am. I have several male lovers and a select couple of ladies that I play with, and I'm happy with this factor. I dont really see me changing this lifestyle anytime soon.;]
MountainCat. :three:

ohbimale

May 9, 2007, 1:56 PM

I would not take the magic pill. I like being bisexual. I was born this way. Most of my life, since puberty, I have always been sexually attracted to both sexes. I find beauty, love, and sexual satisfaction with both other men and women. There was a time in my life that I would have taken such a pill, but I am beyond that now. I accept myself as a bisexual man and would not change my sexuality. :male: :flag3:

Scootertrash

May 9, 2007, 2:39 PM

I go for long periods thinking I am straight.. but then a cute ass attracts my attention and I don't care if it is male or femaile... no pills for me

Bill

miller lite man

May 9, 2007, 2:59 PM

uhh, take a pil to change how I feel,and/or act sexually? NAH, i don't think so. I'm content being str8,wife's happy being bi/ lesbian.... Again, if it ain't broke,don't fix it.

NomDe

May 15, 2007, 9:09 AM

I'm betting that most guys would choose to take no pill or the straight pill, and that most women would take the gay pill :-) It'd be interesting to see a gender breakdown of the poll :-)

Cheers
Nomde

Netai

May 15, 2007, 9:54 AM

I'd take the pill that makes me completely heterosexual, because..

Life would be much easier for being something you don't have to think should you tell about yourself or not, and be sure you don't get rejected by your sexuality. Don't want to think am I accepted totally or not.

Second.. It's confusing to be able to think both sex in sexual ways and life is hard enough I think.

But.. I love to be me the way I am and I think life is richer for me this way :)

madcat73

May 18, 2007, 4:58 AM

I would take it to be heterosexual... Italy is not the right country to be "different than hetero". It might be a paradox, but homosexuality here is more accepted. Bisexuality is considered a dirty perversion. "It's impossible that a person likes to play with both gender people. It's horrible!".
That's our sad reality!
:(

eyelinerprincess

May 18, 2007, 6:27 AM

if i could take a magic pill i want the pill that turns me into someone wise, an wealthy please? :cool:

oh an fart free would be nice so flex doesn't get blasted too hehehehee!!

as far as changing myself to a straight or gay person? i can act like both already, so i don't need it, an i'll pass on the side effects thanx.

Lol, I love you :p

Nah I totally agree, some days I wanna be a big old lesbian, and some days I wanna fit right in, I'd never want to be either one or the other.

BiDanielle

May 18, 2007, 4:35 PM

I would rather take a magic pill that makes other women standing near me to whom I am attracted, think I am sexy and want both me and my husband.

My husband would also rather take a similar pill that makes other guys standing near him to whom he is attracted, think he is sexy and want both me and my husband.

Oh, yeah, the pills should come in two-packs.

:female: :male: :male: :female:
:male: :female: :male: :female:
:male: :female: :female: :male:

Tingly_Tickles

May 18, 2007, 8:34 PM

I wouldn't take any of the pills due to the fact that I'm happy with myself and
love myself just how I am and theres nothing that I would want to do to change
that aspect of my life.

I finally have happiness that I'm openly bi and damnit I'm sticking with it cause
theres no reason that I shouldn't be allowed to be happy damned heterosexual
stigma saying oh you have to be gay or straight I say onward and forward into
a new future with my wife.

Wondering why would anyone have the need to be accepted as gay or straight
just so it makes life easier ever wonder if maybe thats just the simple way out
to be accepted in society well bah society can kiss my @*#^&$ *#&%(@& #$%
if they don't like me for who I am.
:bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride: :bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride:

Be happy with who you are not with what they want you to be.

dragon_n_rain

May 22, 2007, 8:30 PM

No we would not were both bi and very happy that way . We get to share the best of both worlds why would you want to mess that up . Live just gets better and better :)

redheadhoneycat

May 22, 2007, 8:56 PM

No way...I am happy the way I am. :bipride:

angelicvalkyrie

May 29, 2007, 7:22 PM

I voted not to take the pill because I feel my life is exciting and I have a choice. I want my cake and and am going to eat it too. I mean what is the purpose of having cake if you aren't going to eat it ;)

I feel I am more open to... well just about everyone. I know what it feels like to get looks because I am walking hand and hand with a female and I also know how it feels to be completely head over heels with a man while I look at a woman with desire.

I wonder how many straight people would take the Bi Pill

cuteme25

Jun 11, 2007, 9:52 PM

i am what i am and i enjoyed being what i am without hesitation i am proud to be one... i don't need a magic pill to change me because it's me and all i need is something that could make me feel good, those things can be obtained possibly because there are lots of bi's out there! ola! bisexuals!

pashootingstar

Jun 18, 2007, 2:53 PM

No way!
what better sexuality then to be able to find everone equally simulating and attractive. Both dressed and undressed :2cents:

Seth C

Jun 18, 2007, 3:25 PM

I go back and forth on this. It's stupid but I feel like a traitor to the gay community, a freak in the hetero community. Different moods it'd be either the homo or hetero pill; sometimes I actually value being bisexual (and don't flame me; I'm sorry that I could be so evil as to like variety). I might take the asexual pill above all though. But then I'd be envious of everyone. Best bet is to just be like I am.

vittoria

Jun 18, 2007, 6:20 PM

If you could take a magic pill that would make you either completely heterosexual or homosexual, would you?

and even after further consideration i STILL would say...
l like me just the way i am :)

Doggie_Wood

Jun 21, 2007, 7:04 AM

Just remember Neo, once you take the pill, there's no turning back.

Tygress75

Jun 21, 2007, 11:00 AM

I like me just the way I am. :bibounce: Take those pills & shove 'em! :bigrin:

seafer

Jun 21, 2007, 2:28 PM

If you could take a magic pill that would make you either completely heterosexual or homosexual, would you?

I would love to take a pill that would make it possible to be a man for one week.. all the perks and joys!! Ive always wondered how it would be to have some one suck on my cock.. and get fucked in the ass!! Im always told its not the same for women, becasue men have this thing called a prostate that is hit when getting fucked in the ass..

FerSureMaybe

Jun 22, 2007, 2:55 AM

Why can't the magic pill do something more interesting? Like...If you could take a magic pill that would make a million dollar appear in your bank account, would you?

Or, if you could take a magic pill that allowed you to turn into any animal at will, would you?

I guess it is a little bit interesting if someone could actually do that...

Oh, and I'd stay bi, because, I like that I have twice the chance of finding love as a monosexual. :)

CoupleinAlabama

Jul 1, 2007, 2:33 AM

If you could take a magic pill that would make you either completely heterosexual or homosexual, would you?
if i could i wouldnt do it you either accept you self as you are or live a very un happy life. so i prefer to be happy so i have accepted myself and very happy about it

Snowblind1

Jul 1, 2007, 3:13 AM

I'd take it to be straight; then again I've pretty much walked away from my gay side anyway so practically it wouldn't make much difference anyway.

MIMHS00013

Jul 2, 2007, 12:20 PM

I DONT TAKE BECAUSE I AM VERY VERY FANTASTIC LIKE THIS.I FILE 50%MALE AND 50% FEMALE AND IS NICE. :male: + :female:

Something Else

Jul 2, 2007, 5:39 PM

Too bad the magic pill couldn't make EVERYONE ELSE more receptive to the idea of Bisexuality...

but in following with the theme of the question/thread.

Though I know what the "proper answer" ought to be (love/accept yourself as you are)...

nonetheless, I wouldn't mind being entirely gay or entirely straight.

As of now, being Bisexual and having monogamous relationship desires...well, it's simply conflicting.

I don't feel comfortable with the idea of an open relationships--as it allows for too many opportunities for temptation, imo; despite the reality of my continuing fantasies that involve sex with men or women.

I guess, if there were a magic pill around...it would be to help me feel more receptive to the idea of an open relationship--and that, indeed, would be a magic pill if you knew my point of view on relationships.

Maybe then I would feel more satisfaction from being Bisexual and desires that Bisexuals possess.

sphlinxa

Jul 17, 2007, 2:11 PM

I would of take that pill a long time ago when i didn't understand what i am, and i think many bisexuals they would of in theyr youth, I for one, was confused and scared and thote that is a sin that is wrong becouse of the education recived. I had to educate my self, and i still do. Now i am proud to be ho i am but then i realy thote that somewhere out there there must be a cure for what i feel for persons of the same sex with me or some fetishes that i have. Well it dose not exist and toke me 27 years to realise that this is ho i am and killing that would be like amputating one of my arms or legs. The cure was accepting that this is me a normal bisexual persone. :)

rmorti

Jul 17, 2007, 2:37 PM

I'd probably take the straight pill as its sort of a way out from so many decisions, then again I'd miss the odd adventure. Either way i've not decided my sexuality yet and try to avoid labels, its still early grounds and all that.

Also noticed the idea of our sexuality being in our genetics, It may be because I do biology, but I honestly do not believe that its anything to do with genes/genetics etc and ppl who claim they can find it and "cure" it, is just silly.

I was perfectly 100% straight until recently, I feel its just how are body works really, society/life events/family etc. I just find it very hard to believe anyones sexuality is 100% genetically set in stone at all, and that they then "Realise it" later in life, I just feel its the body changing due to subconscious issues, maybe too many girls/guys gave bad relationships, a mental trauma from someone of the same/opposite sex or even just generaly curiosity and finding it enjoyable.

Basically I like to believe that Sexuality is fluid and can change many times over in someones life and some it does not, just depends on the person and where they live/what they do/ beliefs etc that "can" (not saying it does) affect sexuality. Until they state that they 100% find this gene or hormone levels, I will not believe anything about its in our genetics, I mean gay/straight/bi people have exactly the same genetic codes, the only ones thar differ are hair colour,eyes etc, like everyones do :D still thats my little view on it all.

kneadingtom

Jul 17, 2007, 8:19 PM

I would not take the pill. Though growing up it was very scary being attracted to both sexes, I would not even consider the pill.

I WOULD have changed my views of myself as a pre-teen and teen. I am one of the few people I know that would go back to my childhood to "redo" things if I could.

Huey_durden

Jul 18, 2007, 1:16 AM

I would hide the pill under my tongue and create soem sort of "bi-bomb" :bipride: It would make eHarmony's job alot more interesting and the dating scene at large would be delicious. :bibounce: :bibounce: :bibounce:

aWOOhoo!

Jul 18, 2007, 10:06 PM

Being straight would save the trouble of coming out, so, yeah... I'm going with that one. :(

curioushm

Jul 20, 2007, 3:21 PM

Alright so here goes a really different look at this question and for that matter the whole BISEXUALITY (meaning/word) It seems as though the whole concept of bisexuality is determend by the fact that you like both sex's and can/could have a relationship with either. If I'm wrong here don't be afraid to just jump right in and slap me with a wet noodle. LOL Here is the question. What if you consider yourself very bisexual just for the fact that (well you have to call it something) and the word BI means dual/two but you like to have sex with the same sex but only with you mate there, and that is what makes it hot and fun. The naughty aspect of that. But you would never have sex alone with the same sex, that just don't appeal to you. I know, I know, let me have it... I know there are others who completely get what I'm saying. So am I completely happy calling myself bisexual we HUHA, and so is my wife. but no I do not believe to be of the sterio type of BISEXUAL.

Thank you and lets all get naked and have some fun. LOL

CardShark

Jul 20, 2007, 7:16 PM

To thine own self be true! :cool: Be who you are and fuck anybody who doesn't like it. Would be a boring world if everyone was just alike. ;)

Lorrie

Jul 20, 2007, 7:27 PM

If you could take a magic pill that would make you either completely heterosexual or homosexual, would you?

No....I'm just the way I'm supposed to be.

pimptress

Jul 24, 2007, 4:19 AM

I personally have no problems or prejudices from people finding out that Im bi... Guys love it and girls either love it too or just dont give a crap! I have lived quite a normal life since I came out and nothing has really changed... So a pill like that would be of no use to me because I am happy with the fact that my selection in "fresh meat" is larger than a hetero or homosexual! To me thats the best part lol :bigrin:

worshipnaked

Aug 7, 2007, 12:37 PM

i am a bi male in a loving relationship with a gay man for 10 years, he fucks my female partner sometimes. i am bi because i like to be fucked, and i like to fuck, not usually at the same time. i would never take a pill to change

bi-ry211

Aug 10, 2007, 6:36 PM

No way. I'm happy and proud of who I am, I don't care waht people say about it, I wouldn't trade it for anything :bipride:

jonybangbang

Aug 11, 2007, 5:29 AM

re:the pill.t'was the pill me thinks that gave this period of ''sexual enlightenment'' a kink oops start.would it be a pill to take it all back?no friends i think not.will come a time says i when they will look backin history,at all the things weve done to each other in name of religon,turf,oil,ect. and say''why wern't they just bi

Tx46M

Aug 11, 2007, 11:49 AM

As time goes on I realize it's ok to be anyway I wish to be. Romantically I can't imagine being with the same gender however sexually is another story!

I have had 3 oral m2m experiences and actually would enjoy it on a regular basis. Been blessed with a number of female companions and 3 that were especially spectacular!
:male: :2cents:

james4u4ever

Sep 5, 2007, 6:34 PM