What would be your ideal partner and situation?

[CuriousSnapper]

I see lots of people who have different ideas on what they want out of a sexual encounter. There seems to be a multitude of things that turn them on, some very reserved, others very forward, and some even have certain kinks. I am a little curious about what specifically motivates others, what their extreme turn-ons are, or any line that they are willing or not willing to cross.

As for me.....
I think the ideal situation would be to have a great close friend, someone who has a lot in common with me and spend some time together one on one. As far as turn-ons go.... about the only thing that extremely turns me on is the thought of going down on a partner of either sex. The thought of giving a blowjob is mind blowing....

[hung4you]

I pretty much already enjoy my sexual flavors. Having a long term buddy that services not only my sexual drive but my wife’s as well. I am the bottom of our triad, my wife loves to spread her legs for our 3somes. When I travel she entertains him during the day and it always a turn on when she tells me about it. Sucking his cock in front of her turns her on and wants to play right away. I remember a couple of times where when I came home to find him drilling her and I couldn’t wait to get naked and join in.

[sysper]

for me ideal situation would be the right women. it would be a pretty deep relationship not just sexual. but we would both also be very openminded sexually, that means both of us being open to biseuality. we would encourage each other to explore with each other, with others & with ourselves. she would encourage me to embrace enjoying being with a man, sometimes watching & maybe joining in & sometimes letting me go off alone with a man. i would do the same for her encourage her to let herself go with another women. that i would love to watch to be honest, but i would understand they should be alone sometimes too. i would want us to be open to 3somes, 4somes & moresomes. maybe a litle gender roll reversal. or make me take the roll of a women & get gangbanged while she watches & enjoys. or me watch her get gangbanged while i watch & enjoy. she would enjoy too :) or have a group of women tie her up & have there way with her. or have the same done to me. while the other watches & maybe directs. the possiblities are endless! then take all that kinkiness, all that sexual awareness when her & me are alone, have the most personal, intense experiance togather, something beyond sex. how i wish i could meet someone like that!!!

[DarkTemplars]

A sexy woman and very fem transsexual would be ideal for me. Its everything I love. Women, pussy and cock

[GreenFedora]

I would like a MF couple on a regular basis with the freedom to pursue single people of either sex.

[MAcpl69]

For the long term, I bi top stud in a long term relationship with me and the wife, someone we could both suck and would fuck the both of us. One time, a shemale that would let us both suck her dick and play with her tits, would fuck us both, and eat the wife's pussy.

[ghw132]

Ditto

[borntosuckcock]

Wife that was okay with my bisexualality.

[monaohio]

someone that loves same as me and being naked all the time and wants sex as much as i do. and one with a long thick cock that can last for 20 minutes or more before he cums

[friskyous]

A guy i can hang with, ride bikes, work on cars, projects etc. who would fuck me silly... and I could fuck him. Add a nice thick uncut cock and a love for music and there you have my perfect guy.

[Tight1-4u]

I see lots of people who have different ideas on what they want out of a sexual encounter. There seems to be a multitude of things that turn them on, some very reserved, others very forward, and some even have certain kinks. I am a little curious about what specifically motivates others, what their extreme turn-ons are, or any line that they are willing or not willing to cross.

As for me.....
I think the ideal situation would be to have a great close friend, someone who has a lot in common with me and spend some time together one on one. As far as turn-ons go.... about the only thing that extremely turns me on is the thought of going down on a partner of either sex. The thought of giving a blowjob is mind blowing....


For me I can think of a couple situations that would be great..
#1: I would love to meet a very sexy busty ts that in public dresses very sexy and provocatively.. behind closed doors
i aggressive and kinda dom with a large thick cock that would fuck me every day..
#2: would be pretty much the same other than it being a guy..

[JT391]

That's Easy, A bisexual Women who is comfortable with hers self to Be in a relationship with a BI man that they can trust each other to explore all their deep dark fantasies with no Judgement just understanding and Kinky Fun!!!!!

[al_atlanta]

That's the wife I want.

[eager4cum]

my ideal partner would be my best friend from school, his cock was perfect and so tasty.
My ideal fantasy would be a shemale that has my best friends cock.

[downforce]

A guy i can hang with, ride bikes, work on cars, projects etc. who would fuck me silly... and I could fuck him. Add a nice thick uncut cock and a love for music and there you have my perfect guy.

Same here. I would love to have a guy I could be friends with and just hang out doing guy things, but at the same time get each other off when the need or opportunity arises...I would like to have a friend who I watched sports with, and we be blowjobs or anal on the game.

[likethemshaved4u269]

My ideal situation would be a married guy who wanted me to play with him, just the two of us, and then occasionally include his wife with a threesome. He'd be the kind of guy that would like to go fishing together, attend movies, watch games as well as the side play. Kind of a best friend with all kinds of side benefits.

[grstinc]

Mine would be a situation where I could maintain my good relationship with my wife, and have an oral only relationship with another guy. Preferably someone who is only interested in being taken care of orally.

[void()]

or make me take the roll of a women & get gangbanged while she watches & enjoys. or me watch her get gangbanged while i watch & enjoy. she would enjoy too :) or have a group of women tie her up & have there way with her. or have the same done to me. while the other watches & maybe directs. the possiblities are endless! then take all that kinkiness, all that sexual awareness when her & me are alone, have the most personal, intense experiance togather, something beyond sex. how i wish i could meet someone like that!!!

Damn. Not sure I can stand at the moment. Your description here, even the tenderly romantic aspects, set my cock alight. I'm not the type who would take interest in rape fantasy sex. That noted, imagining binding you up and making you suck me right to point before I came. Then mounting and riding you, with a bit of hm, firmness and deliberation sounds yummy. Again, not keen to play in any kind of rape fantasy. For me that would be well, it would lose the mood. Don't ever want to feel I'm 'forcing', even as play, nor feel being forced. That's something of an anathema to me.

Guess my balls will ache tonight, remembering your description here. Not sure I'd like the idea of letting you ride the train, but I can be easy. :)

Ideally for me, a guy friend with benefits. He would need to be understanding of my wife and willing to share knowing I'm not cheating nor looking to leave her. She has no interest in joining in, watching. She prefers me and a guy go off to ourselves a while and enjoy ourselves. I come back to her and we might or might not enjoy ourselves. I'd be a part-time husband for a guy, can't say full time because my wife is nobody's second fiddle.

I enjoy cuddling too. Sexually, I'm a natural switch that keeps it simple, I like pleasing and being pleased. No gross stuff or serious pain.

[sysper]

Damn. Not sure I can stand at the moment. Your description here, even the tenderly romantic aspects, set my cock alight. I'm not the type who would take interest in rape fantasy sex. That noted, imagining binding you up and making you suck me right to point before I came. Then mounting and riding you, with a bit of hm, firmness and deliberation sounds yummy. Again, not keen to play in any kind of rape fantasy. For me that would be well, it would lose the mood. Don't ever want to feel I'm 'forcing', even as play, nor feel being forced. That's something of an anathema to me.

Guess my balls will ache tonight, remembering your description here. Not sure I'd like the idea of letting you ride the train, but I can be easy. :)

Ideally for me, a guy friend with benefits. He would need to be understanding of my wife and willing to share knowing I'm not cheating nor looking to leave her. She has no interest in joining in, watching. She prefers me and a guy go off to ourselves a while and enjoy ourselves. I come back to her and we might or might not enjoy ourselves. I'd be a part-time husband for a guy, can't say full time because my wife is nobody's second fiddle.

I enjoy cuddling too. Sexually, I'm a natural switch that keeps it simple, I like pleasing and being pleased. No gross stuff or serious pain.
yeah rape fantasy totally isn't me. but as u read a little tying up can be divine :) i'm glad u would oblige. need the wife as my main squeeze though.......

[bikurinpa]

Same here. I would love to have a guy I could be friends with and just hang out doing guy things, but at the same time get each other off when the need or opportunity arises...I would like to have a friend who I watched sports with, and we be blowjobs or anal on the game.
Yes, but this is VERY tough to find, I been looking for years, NO luck

[69luvr]

I see lots of people who have different ideas on what they want out of a sexual encounter. There seems to be a multitude of things that turn them on, some very reserved, others very forward, and some even have certain kinks. I am a little curious about what specifically motivates others, what their extreme turn-ons are, or any line that they are willing or not willing to cross.

As for me.....
I think the ideal situation would be to have a great close friend, someone who has a lot in common with me and spend some time together one on one. As far as turn-ons go.... about the only thing that extremely turns me on is the thought of going down on a partner of either sex. The thought of giving a blowjob is mind blowing....
I would love to hook up with you.

[Grant_Norman]

Would love to be the 3rd in a 40 something couple situation...watch them fuck and lick them while happening...suck him hard while she watched...bury my face in her pussy while my ass is up in the air being fucked hard by him...that would pretty much do it...oh, all of it at least 4-5 times (or more) per week

[siryder]

Another married man that wanted a mouth and ass when he is in the mood. He sends a lunch time text saying he had a place for a couple of hours and I needed to be there by a certain time. Or an email saying his wife was out of town for the weekend. Someone to trade backyard blowjobs with.

Have had that before so I know it would be nice to find it again.

[hairy69]

Would be great to find a FWB situation. Someone with similar interests and desires. Also be able to have a great converstation with, before, during and after the "benefits"! Would be nice to have someone to talk to about being bi and how they deal with it. Just to be able to share what you can't share with your "regular" buddies.

[Neonaught]

Would love to be the 3rd in a 40 something couple situation...watch them fuck and lick them while happening...suck him hard while she watched...bury my face in her pussy while my ass is up in the air being fucked hard by him...that would pretty much do it...oh, all of it at least 4-5 times (or more) per week

Wife and I have enjoyed exactly what you describe many times. I also love to be fucking her from behind while he stands over her feeding me his cock. When we all cum together it's truely hot!

[ncbymail]

This is totally attributed to the porn I'm watching right now....I black trans with big tits, big dick and nice ass that I could suck off or fuck & be fucked weekly.

[NS Uncut]

Same here, add smooth and in shape, maybe an younger asian guy.



A guy i can hang with, ride bikes, work on cars, projects etc. who would fuck me silly... and I could fuck him. Add a nice thick uncut cock and a love for music and there you have my perfect guy.

[SilkyHoseLover]

Would be great to find a FWB situation. Someone with similar interests and desires. Also be able to have a great converstation with, before, during and after the "benefits"! Had my second visit with such a guy yesterday. Before meeting, we exchanged quite a few emails in which we discussed as much of our backgrounds, education and work histories as we did our sexual preferences.

We found out that we're remarkably similar in our upbringing and career fields, and our first meeting made us each feel as if we'd known the other for many years. There was a lot of 'technical' talk, as we both date to the very early days of home computing, programming and technologies that most people these days have never heard of. He was delighted -- said I was the first person he's met in many years who 'gets' him. I know just what he meant, because I felt the same.

Sexually, we're not quite as close together as I'd prefer. His preference is to get right to the sucking and swallow cum as soon as it can be available. He loves to suck, but wants a quick reward. So he's pouring all his energy into the cock that's in his mouth, and doesn't touch anything else. It's always fun having your cock sucked, but I like to embrace my touch of femininity and be enjoyed the way a man likes to touch a woman all over, and am open to anal. But it'll never go there with him.

He has about the fattest cock I've ever seen or had in my mouth, but it's not very long -- kinda like a fireplug. So it's just mutual blow-jobs, not a match made in Heaven. Had we met under different circumstances, I think we'd have been great vanilla friends.

[Roxxi]

The ideal partner for me would be a married man who I could pleasure discretely on a regular basis :)~

[MatthewX]

The ideal partner for me would be a married man who I could pleasure discretely on a regular basis :)~

I wod say the same. I would love to have some time now and the. And explore have a day or two with someone.

[beamish13]

A fellow guy in a LTR with a woman who loves sharing her panties for us to jack off with

[nu2curious]

Mine would be a situation where I could maintain my good relationship with my wife, and have an oral only relationship with another guy. Preferably someone who is only interested in being taken care of orally.

Ditto !

[NerdyBiGuy]

My ideal partner would be a cute girl with brown hair and a round face, and shapely hips. I would prefer it if she was bi as well and willing to do some boy/girl/boy action. ;)

[Birob67]

For me, a beautiful Asian ladyboy or transsexual and a comfortable outdoor bed in a tropical Paradise where we could pleasure each other with our hands, tounges and cocks...

[MAcpl69]

A transexual with a killer body and a huge dick that the wife and I could get fucked by. A guy with a big dick that would top me and double penetrate her with me would also be great.

[bibliss]

I meet a nice beautiful couple on the beach in Hawaii. He's an artist type, hairy chested with big blue eyes. She works in health care, is small chested with loads of enthusiasm and positivity. We're all very open and free-flowing with each other. We enjoy a drink and the topic moves to sex. We go up to their hotel room for about 3 hours of sex play. He's got a nice big cock with a wide crown; she's got a full bush with big lips that she loves to spread wide. Lots of man play in the mix with her in the middle, each of us trading off being the center of attention with the other two. Wow! Best sex of our lives. This actually happened to me but it was so long ago. I long for it to happen again someday soon.

[69luvr]

I see lots of people who have different ideas on what they want out of a sexual encounter. There seems to be a multitude of things that turn them on, some very reserved, others very forward, and some even have certain kinks. I am a little curious about what specifically motivates others, what their extreme turn-ons are, or any line that they are willing or not willing to cross.

As for me.....
I think the ideal situation would be to have a great close friend, someone who has a lot in common with me and spend some time together one on one. As far as turn-ons go.... about the only thing that extremely turns me on is the thought of going down on a partner of either sex. The thought of giving a blowjob is mind blowing.... We are very similar!

[69luvr]

I see lots of people who have different ideas on what they want out of a sexual encounter. There seems to be a multitude of things that turn them on, some very reserved, others very forward, and some even have certain kinks. I am a little curious about what specifically motivates others, what their extreme turn-ons are, or any line that they are willing or not willing to cross.

As for me.....
I think the ideal situation would be to have a great close friend, someone who has a lot in common with me and spend some time together one on one. As far as turn-ons go.... about the only thing that extremely turns me on is the thought of going down on a partner of either sex. The thought of giving a blowjob is mind blowing....

I agree with every word you wrote.

[zbi73]

A trustworthy, like minded and discreet friend in a spa or shower.

[CrazyloboTX54]

My ideal partner is a TS or CD who is very feminine and passable in public. And in private would love to get sucked off and suck me off. She needs to be versatile so I can fuck her and then she can fuck me. It is hard to find anyone in my area. Even finding a man for a FWB is nearly impossible

[csreef]

For me, my ideal situation would be to have a Polyamorus relationship with a M/F couple that were Bisexual also.

[Biwolf]

A very loving and sexy woman who is also open minded and owns a strapon.

[sisboy]

A great cock at least three times a week and not have to explain why I love cock so much!

[Zoom1969]

I'm not really into random hookups. So my ideal male partner is someone who is a buddy that you have a close friendship with spiritually and sexually! A friend that you do things with other than just hooking up for sex. Doing things together like going out for dinner and drinks, traveling together, going to sporting events, etc. Also being private/ discreet and respecting each other!

[Sigstache]

Finding out my nextdoor neighbor is a married, newby, orally bi-curious guy like myself.

[Bidirectional4u]

I guess I'm lucky, I have the ideal partner, Wife and I are bi, polyamorous and we enjoy swinging and it turns her on watching me give a good blowjob. She loves it when I'm watching her bounce up and down someone's cock then having me lick her clean. Watching me bent over with a cock sliding in and out of me gets her so hot. Finding some clean down to earth guys in our area to play with is the hardest part. we'd like to have 2 or 3 guys so when the mood hits we'd have at least one to come over and play.

[Autumn Eternal]

For both sexes, I would like someone who is a decent friend who I could have chats with, hang out, cuddle and have sex with.

[Rvdude05]

I would love a close friend that would enjoy hunting, fishing, bowling together, one that enjoys dining out to fast food. One to share our sexual preferences together. A close friend, with all the sexual benefits.

[poetofdarkness]

I'm not really into random hookups. So my ideal male partner is someone who is a buddy that you have a close friendship with spiritually and sexually! A friend that you do things with other than just hooking up for sex. Doing things together like going out for dinner and drinks, traveling together, going to sporting events, etc. Also being private/ discreet and respecting each other!

sounds like my ideal situation. shame that i'll never find it :(

[nu2curious]

My ideal partner would be someone with whom I can enjoy both mutual respect and admiration but also willing to share intimacy. Someone I can do things with have fun with, have dinner with but can also show in a physical sense how much i admire his masculinity by servicing him orally while at the same time he is also willing to reciprocate, all in the framework of complete discretion.
I want the safety of a valued friendship.:)

[Neonaught]

I met my ideal partner 5 years ago online. He's in excellent physical condition and quite handsome. The time we spend together is very passionate and satisfying for us both. He's a wonderful kisser and loves to bottom for me. I only wish we could see each other more frequently than to 6-7 times a year we now enjoy.

[zbi73]

My ideal partner is probably the man I should thank for starting my sexual awakening. He was the first man I ever felt strongly attracted to both sexually and I guess romantically as we had a strong emotional connection but he moved away. He's gay now, perhaps I sensed it.