How do you meet people?

[Jbjrh9837]

Since Craigslist went down how do you meet people who want to hook up? My wife and I are both bi, but we don't meet people.

[whistle1]

I hear some people are using a site called doublelist...

[Agoofball]

I have started wondering this too.... I really want to meet up with another guy letely and have no idea where to go looking now.


Since Craigslist went down how do you meet people who want to hook up? My wife and I are both bi, but we don't meet people.

[centexwill]

doublelist doesn't pick up the areas between the big cities.

[bikurinpa]

In my area here, CL was about totally worthless any way because all was just looking to chat to get off, 1 or 2 email sessions and then they was GONE, none had no real intentions of meeting any one. Just BS and games or just guys only wanting blo n goes.
Someone who wanted someone as a regular and a worth wile friend was impossible to find.

[sysper]

In my area here, CL was about totally worthless any way because all was just looking to chat to get off, 1 or 2 email sessions and then they was GONE, none had no real intentions of meeting any one. Just BS and games or just guys only wanting blo n goes.
Someone who wanted someone as a regular and a worth wile friend was impossible to find.
same experiance here...

[csreef]

I've met people from the personal ads here on bi.com....

I've met people from ads on CL ( waste of time)

It all boils down to this ....Its a numbers game trying to meet people....

[NakedInSeattle]

www.squirt.org (good reviews of cruising sites in your area + people search) and www.silverdaddies.com (good people search and great open chat rooms w/cam)

[cuttin2dachase]

I agree with Naked in Seattle. I have a lot of luck meeting men on squirt.org and silverdaddies.com. Although adultfriendfinder.com is thought to be more oriented to mf hookups and swingers' hookups, you can find hundreds of bi and bi curious men there as well. I've had some luck with manhunt.net and adam4adam.com too. The more irons you have in the fire, the more likely you are to meet guys !!

[bikurinpa]

I agree with Naked in Seattle. I have a lot of luck meeting men on squirt.org and silverdaddies.com. Although adultfriendfinder.com is thought to be more oriented to mf hookups and swingers' hookups, you can find hundreds of bi and bi curious men there as well. I've had some luck with manhunt.net and adam4adam.com too. The more irons you have in the fire, the more likely you are to meet guys !!
Here in my area, the ones on squirt are all the same ones on all the other sites too, just made new names! Most have no real intentions of trying to find anyone, just like to chat to get their rocks off then they are gone, the reason so many has been on the sites so long.

[69luvr]

walk the mall. Eyes show who wants to play. Or pickup a hitchhiker.

[bikurinpa]

that is probably alright if you are just looking for sex with just any random guy. I am looking for someone who wants regular friendship as well and a regular thing, which is nearly totally impossible to find too!

[hazelcd]

I find caffmos.com is the best xx

[Gorgeoushn66]

Here in my area, the ones on squirt are all the same ones on all the other sites too, just made new names! Most have no real intentions of trying to find anyone, just like to chat to get their rocks off then they are gone, the reason so many has been on the sites so long.

This. :oh::oh::oh:

Or go to bars.

But first learn how to read eye-contact. You can DEFINITELY tell who's interested by the intensity of eye contact that they make with you.

I also recommend taking a phenibut supplement to relax yourself and become more socialable.

It basically makes you calm, focused, and relaxed.

The most popular vendor for phenibut is Phenibut Hero (https://phenibuthero.com/) - they make some good stuff, straight out of Los Angeles :)

In any case, becoming ultra-sensitive to social dynamics in public settings can allow you to find partners nearly everywhere!

[bikurinpa]

learning to read eye contact would be my best, I go out to lake fish hoping to find some one there who may be interested, but I also thinking of maybe trying a gym, like the Y that has swimming pool or a hot tub.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I find caffmos.com is the best xx

Wanna provide a link that works?

[StockyAsian]

Since Craigslist went down how do you meet people who want to hook up? My wife and I are both bi, but we don't meet people.

Why don't you give this site a try. http://www.polymatchmaker.com/

[SilkyHoseLover]

Met with a guy from SilverDaddies this morning. He may be the guy I've been looking for for a long time. Married, no sex at home, lives close by, great availability, able to host sometimes. Totally new to M-M play, but very curious, interested and not afraid to at least try just about any possible activities that we may come up with. Loves my passion for silky lingerie.

Very nice guy, and not averse to exchanging several substantive emails to get to know one another before the first meeting. We're both hoping that we can become 'regulars'... :bigrin:

[bicuriousbc66]

I have been finding Tinder for very sexy ladies.

[hung4you]

I have never been nor could I ever go on hookup sites for cock. I have been extremely lucky to identify men who are looking for the same thing. As a frequent business traveler I know most men away from their wives either fantasize about other men or are privately Bi. That said, I often find myself in the Hotel workout centers and have been extremely successful. But not long ago I was on a trip to Buffalo NY and sitting in a Hotel bar I over heard a guy asking the bar tender if there was a more happening place within walking distance, after the bar tender said no I motioned for him to come over and when he came over I asked him if he was without wheels, he said he was there for training and he was using the shuttle. He was quite a bit younger than I am but I asked him what exactly was he looking for , he wanted to relax in a place with music and drinks. I told him I am not familiar with Buffalo but I would drive if he was willing. He said he’ll yea let’s go. Not knowing the area we ended up at a sports pub not far from the Hotel. As the evening progressed we decided to leave and head back, driving back he said so what are you doing to entertain yourself tonight. I laughed and said probably go back and beat off like every other guy, he laughed and said holy shit I was thinking the same thing, maybe we could beat off together. I laughed and said what kind of porn do you watch, without hesitation he said any kind of porn. When he said that I knew he was looking for an evening of fun so I just built on that. We decided to go back to the Hotel bar and of course the conversation was switched up to sex. He was married as I am, I learned he was a little wild in Collage and had been with men before. He said you seem pretty chill, want to go and watch some porn and see what happens? I paid the tab and we went to my room and I put on porn hub and looked up facials compilation and as we watched I seen the bulge in his pants grow and I told him it was alright to unleash it, we got naked and was stroking our cocks and he kept staring at my cock so I guided his hand and he started stroking it and now he was rock hard and it wasn’t long before he was sucking my cock. It wasn’t long before we were 69ing on the bed and his younger cock was leaking precum which is my favorite. It wasn’t long before he was on top throat fucking me and enjoying every thrust. He in a very soft cautious voice said he was ready to cum I grabbed his ass and forced his cock deeper and I milked every drop I could and as he was throbbing and cumming he started moaning so loud I thought the next room was going to hear us. After he gave me my reward, I tuned him over on his back straddled his chest and jacked off a load all over his face.

So guys, who needs craigslist or other sites, do the old fashioned thing and learn to identify who needs what.

[SilkyHoseLover]

So guys, who needs craigslist or other sites, do the old fashioned thing and learn to identify who needs what.
That may work out well for a business traveler who hangs out in hotel workout rooms and bars in Buffalo, NY, but come back when you're retired and spend 90% of your time with your wife, and your primary socialization consists of a weekly 1/2 hour Weight Watchers meeting in a mid-sized suburban town...

[Fzmr9t]

In my area here, CL was about totally worthless any way because all was just looking to chat to get off, 1 or 2 email sessions and then they was GONE, none had no real intentions of meeting any one. Just BS and games or just guys only wanting blo n goes.
Someone who wanted someone as a regular and a worth wile friend was impossible to find.

ive searched for smaller cities within Austin, TX and found a few. So if there are posts for the cities being searched, they will show up

[JonT559]

Doublelist doesn't have my city so that didn't work out for me.

Squirt has been a total bust. Lot of activity but it doesn't seem like anyone is actually looking to meet, it's just endless messages and requests for pics. The only good thing about Squirt is that the cruising spots in my area are well documented, but I don't know if I want to get into that scene.

[elmwood7]

You could try Adultfriendfinder.com or Adam4Adam.com they are very popular.

[bikurinpa]

You could try Adultfriendfinder.com or Adam4Adam.com they are very popular.
Adultfriendfinder, i bought a 6 mo membership their IM chat that can send IMs to other members, dont work that great, you can send 10 messages and maybe if ur lucky 1 user would actually receive the message! You have to buy both levels of membership to really benefit, the first level is the gold, but if you message another non member, he can not even read or reply back! In this area, none of the sites work good, all just looking to chat to get off and no intention of meeting.

[Neonaught]

Adultfriendfinder, i bought a 6 mo membership their IM chat that can send IMs to other members, dont work that great, you can send 10 messages and maybe if ur lucky 1 user would actually receive the message! You have to buy both levels of membership to really benefit, the first level is the gold, but if you message another non member, he can not even read or reply back! In this area, none of the sites work good, all just looking to chat to get off and no intention of meeting.

Adult Friend finder is a massive waste of time and money. We were members for 7 years and it was decent the first couple of years. Now their user base is pretty small and god only knows how many of them are fakes. If the Ashley Madison hack taught us anything it is that none of the hookups sites are what they try to appear to be.

[SilkyHoseLover]

Squirt has been a total bust. Lot of activity but it doesn't seem like anyone is actually looking to meet, it's just endless messages and requests for pics. The only good thing about Squirt is that the cruising spots in my area are well documented, but I don't know if I want to get into that scene.

My problem with Squirt is that there is this obnoxious button that lets users send a 'Hey, I checked you out' canned message with one click of the mouse. How fucking lazy is that? There's a guy on there that sends me a one-line 'Hey sexy - can you host and play today?' request via chat at least once a week. First time, I politely answered via PM, suggesting that 1) I take the time to get to know people a little in the virtual world before getting naked with them in the real world, and 2) I don't have a lot of opportunities to play, so I tend to look for specific things in a user profile before agreeing to meet. I'm sure he's a 'nice guy', but he's not what I'm looking for.

I'm not trying to find new best friend, but the kind of guy/gurl I want to play with has to invest a little energy into getting to know me a bit before we meet -- ESPECIALLY since I'm almost always expected to host. I want to find someone with whom I can play on an occasional or regular basis, not anonymous one-offs I'll never see again. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out, but I'm not holding auditions for just anybody. I'm not 'picky', but I have some selection criteria and preferences. Show some initiative.

Send me a PM that says more than 'luv to hook up'. If you like my pictures or profile, tell me what it is that interests you. Suggest what we may have as common interests based upon what turns you on and what you enjoy doing.

[carlsachs]

I've had good experiences with Tinder. Any other sweet apps with nice people?

[nu2curious]

I'm the guy who said Craigslist was a joke it certainly was in my area . Most of the bi guy adds were actually gay men posing as bi's looking for romance and the whole nine yards. Personally as a bi guy I find masculinity appealing in a guy. I'm looking for a bro for bro time that can and should include male intimacy.

[nu2curious]

I have to pose one more question which is, since I checked into some of the suggestions made here it seems they cater to gay men at least on the face of it so what are some suggestions for purely bisexual guys also love women but want cock ?

[sysper]

u might have some luck at trueswingers.com. seems about 1/2 the guys there swing both ways.
I have to pose one more question which is, since I checked into some of the suggestions made here it seems they cater to gay men at least on the face of it so what are some suggestions for purely bisexual guys also love women but want cock ?

[Tight1-4u]

Since Craigslist went down how do you meet people who want to hook up? My wife and I are both bi, but we don't meet people.

Since Craigslist has shut down there are a lot of folks that are left out there with out!! My suggestion is to go old school.. use eye contact and body language.. the eyes are the easiest to figure out at first.. if you see a guy that you like and could be interested in look at him look straight into his eyes.. linger looking at him.. if he is looking back and kinda starting back at you.. there is about a 75% chance he is interested too.. try it 2-3 times to make sure.. if he looks away he is not interested.. if he is then motion to him to come over.. if he dose chances are getting better.. then talk to him.. while talking to him ask what he is looking for.. add it all up.. see where it goes..

[avaroy]

There is a number of the online dating website. Here I would like to suggest you all go with "Naughty Dating Only" to meet local single.

[coolbreeze69]

Oh my goodness that is so hottt!

[bikurinpa]

There is a number of the online dating website. Here I would like to suggest you all go with "Naughty Dating Only" to meet local single.
Why dont you just post adaultfriendfinder, that is where that redirects you to.

[menbi]

I think that going to club is one of suggests.

[lookingiansa]

just found this site looks like old craigs list called kinyads https://kinkyads.org/signin and Doublelist http://www.doublelist.com

[csreef]

Question ? How do I meet people ?

Answer : I don't look. Then they come to me. :suave: Lesson learned, its good to be me !

[yeahso]

You could try Adultfriendfinder.com or Adam4Adam.com they are very popular.

The first one you pay for, the second one you get what you paid for. Like all dating sites, other people have their own preferences and desires, so it is just a numbers game.

[csreef]

Adult Friend finder is a massive waste of time and money. We were members for 7 years and it was decent the first couple of years. Now their user base is pretty small and god only knows how many of them are fakes. If the Ashley Madison hack taught us anything it is that none of the hookups sites are what they try to appear to be.

It just like anything else, its a numbers game, plain pure and simple.

[williamg]

I have to pose one more question which is, since I checked into some of the suggestions made here it seems they cater to gay men at least on the face of it so what are some suggestions for purely bisexual guys also love women but want cock ?

That's the $64k question! A lot of married but discreet bi out there like me (that's why I'm here).

[hung4you]

That may work out well for a business traveler who hangs out in hotel workout rooms and bars in Buffalo, NY, but come back when you're retired and spend 90% of your time with your wife, and your primary socialization consists of a weekly 1/2 hour Weight Watchers meeting in a mid-sized suburban town...

Silkyhoselover, I too am older, 57 to be exact and after many encounters while traveling you would be amazed at the number of like minded men who feel the same way. Here’s some advice advice , when I travel to a strange area I often find a cigar bar or other avenues that older men frequent. You would be amazed at the results once you strike up a conversation with another cigar smoker. Try joining a gym to work out, early mornings at least for me seem to work best. It seems us older guys are early risers and the odds are vastly increased of finding a like minded buddy.

I tend to to stay away from younger guys as they are not as clean as older married guys. Older married men tend to be very discreet and thankful to find a like minded friend. I have 5 men that I frequent and none of them are under 55 yrs old. Road cock is the same , I seek out older men who I know will probably be safe and sane, so far so good. Good luck and happy hunting.

[KDaddy23]

Before there were websites and apps, you had to get out there and meet people and in any way you could. You could go to a local gay bar but you could also start to feel like you're not welcomed there or even be ignored. I know that even today, when I go looking for a guy, it's like looking for a needle in a haystack but I'll be damned if they don't somehow manage to find me. I never bothered with CL; I'd heard too many horror stories coming out of there so when it went away, it didn't bother me one bit. The best way is to do it old-school - get out there, mingle when and where you can; talk to guys even if it's just to make a new friend - there's no telling where things might go from there.

My protege is an app/website guy and I get on him about it and tell him that as a hunter, he's gotten lazy and he's forgotten how to get off his ass and go on the prowl for the pussy and dick he says he so desperately needs on a daily basis. Some guys will just mysteriously gravitate toward you - gaydar? I dunno... but what I do know is that if you don't get out there so you can see and be seen, the guy you wanna have sex with isn't just gonna magically drop into your lap. Looking for an FWB? You gotta do some work to cultivate such an arrangement... and sitting behind a computer or cellphone screen, while a beginning, shouldn't be the only way you go on the hunt to capture your "prey" or to advertise that you're willing to be another hunter's prey.

[emerging]

I was never into picking up girls at a bar. I did it but never really was my thing. I found joining things (gyms) or groups (hiking, biking) is the best way to meet. BUT how to bring up bisexuality!!! I found the old site shybiguys was great. I actually have a few guys as friends not sex mates on there. Also I found silverdaddies to be a good place to meet. I have a friend from that site, again non-sexual. I could have had sex with any of these guys but I choose not to.
Silverdaddies has a decent chat room and one can easily exchange emails. I found this is a good way to weed out the undesirables. Everyone has their own undesirable threshold. When exchanging emails guys can really get a decent feel for each other, some want quick meets others prefer FWB. To each their own.

[bikurinpa]

I have to pose one more question which is, since I checked into some of the suggestions made here it seems they cater to gay men at least on the face of it so what are some suggestions for purely bisexual guys also love women but want cock ?
This is the question I been asking but every one replies with ideas about meeting "out" gay men at bars who are obviously gay and who are out as a sore thumb! No one has a answer to how to find out guys who you may be around every day or a good way to introduce a conversation to find out without being outed.
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[Jazminedress]

Okay, I have a question. I have avoided the CL thing. My friendships were with a friend and his wife who liked to play, tried cruising once, ended ip in a jerk off session in a park. And an accidental encounter with a customer, who, it didnt go far because he was too damn big (yeah, there)

Hopefully bringing this up wont offend. If you look at my pictures, obviously, I like something a little different (and thank you to the nice people who have been encouraging, I hve never shard pictures before). But, the question, what about safety ?

No, I dont mean disease, everyone figures out there level of protection, but, the safety of meeting random guys. For me, and the way I prefer to dress, there is an added issue in this. There are people who would like to do me harm, and there are the A-holes who are on a power trip and want to exert it

DO people let people know where they are in case something happens, do you leave a note in the car with the other persons plate number, a trusted friend with information ?

Hopefully wont get slammed for this, but, it is serious questions that have made me wary, its not the same as genetic girls who meet new people, we have the bashing to also add in

[sysper]

i have the same fears. i get enough of a bad vibe just chatting with some guys online who want to hookup with me RIGHT NOW! i don't really fear "undercover" gay bashers but they are a thing, also religious homophobes who think they are doing the work of the lord. self righteous pricks! but going back to ur point it's definately 1 thing that makes me hesitate to meet guys. i know there are genuinely nice guys out there but i know there are agressive assholes who only care about themselves & totally inconsiderate of whoever there with.
Okay, I have a question. I have avoided the CL thing. My friendships were with a friend and his wife who liked to play, tried cruising once, ended ip in a jerk off session in a park. And an accidental encounter with a customer, who, it didnt go far because he was too damn big (yeah, there)

Hopefully bringing this up wont offend. If you look at my pictures, obviously, I like something a little different (and thank you to the nice people who have been encouraging, I hve never shard pictures before). But, the question, what about safety ?

No, I dont mean disease, everyone figures out there level of protection, but, the safety of meeting random guys. For me, and the way I prefer to dress, there is an added issue in this. There are people who would like to do me harm, and there are the A-holes who are on a power trip and want to exert it

DO people let people know where they are in case something happens, do you leave a note in the car with the other persons plate number, a trusted friend with information ?

Hopefully wont get slammed for this, but, it is serious questions that have made me wary, its not the same as genetic girls who meet new people, we have the bashing to also add in

[Jazminedress]

I didnt think about the religous Zealots, good point. But yeah, there are still gay bashers out there. I also think with the whole bathroom thing has brought unneeded attention

[sysper]

i get public bathrooms are a convenient place to hookup with guys. but i'm generally against sex in public places. like u said too much attention plus i don't wanna force anyone unwilling to see what's going on. i don't necessarily wanna watch other people either.

[Jazminedress]

apology, I meant people who are similar to me using different bathrooms depending on the circumstances, its a hot topic issue

[cleves]

I have had a lot of luck with Doublelist. I'm 68 and recently discovered that I love to suck cock. I have a couple of regular cocks that I suck every week and a new guy just this morning. He said he wanted to just meet and say hello, but I talked him into allowing me to suck his cock and he got off in about 2 minutes.

[hung4you]

Well guys I have to once again explain how to find like minded men our women, this world is filled with like minded individuals who are in the same situation as most of us are. When I travel I have never gone to a gay bar or advertised on a website for sex. That to me is not only dangerous but stupid. There are many men and women who are in situations that allow them a lot of latitude to play if given the right circumstance.

Most people give off vibes if you will and will and if you know what to look for it’s easy to figure out who is in need. As a bisexual I have bedded not only men but lots of women. It all boils down to conversation and key words to turn normal conversation to sex. I travel often for work and find myself in situations that allow me to take my time and evaluate my surroundings. Reading body language is key here, I have gotten more pussy and cock by just reading people. Most are married and in the same situation they just want to play with a clean like minded person.

I never come out out and say what it is I’m am in need of, conversation is the trigger, example is last week when I was in Omaha NE sitting in a hotel bar enjoying my beverage and struck up a conversation with a guy who was ther to help with flood relief. After a few beverages we talked about home life and kids and what ever popped into our heads. I learned he grew up in Arkansas and was the 6 of 8 kids and we talked about hand me downs from our older siblings, and how we learned from our older siblings about sex either through masterbation or other means. As the conversation progressed I knew he was hinting at wanting to play. The key word in this whole thing was when he asked me so what do you do in private when you travel, without hesitation I said I love being naked and jerking off to porn he laughed and said wow yea that’s what I love to do as well, he said he really loves traveling so he can play like he wants too without the wife.

After the conversation turned to sex, it wasn’t long before I had him confessing to being naked with another man. As we talked I could see him adjusting his junk as I knew he was getting horny. He in a quite voice admitted that he loves eating his own cum, I said me too but it would be wonderful to taste another’s. That’s when he smiled and said I don’t mean to be too forward but any chance of you getting away for some man play. I said your room or mine?

I could tell he was he was a bit nervous but I said that your call as long as we can shower before playing, he agreed and paid our tab and left to go to my room, once there he was a lot more open and free talking as we undressed and his cock was awesome it was a fat 6 inches and his balls were huge which is my favorite. He started slowly stroking his cock until we jumped in the shower at this point I told him my love of cum and my kink was sucking cock as long as I can. After washing our selves both of us sporting hardons I went down on him and swallowed his cock balls deep and within a few minutes he started moaning a said shit I’m going to cum I told him to let it go we have all night, he filled my throat with a nice load. Jumping out of the shower we both had to call our wives and afterward we laid naked in bed watching straight porn and getting hard again. For a country boy he sucked cock pretty well and we 69ed and he reached around and was fingering my ass and I said you want that? He said don’t think I’m weird but I love cumming against an ass I said you do whatever you need to do so he laid me on my back and closed my legs and after a few strokes rammed his cock against my ass and shot his load he said you do the same so I worked my cock and put the head of my cock on his ass hole and cummed hard , that was fucking awesome he said and thanked me for a great night.

So advertising for sex is not needed, just time and the skill to identify who else is looking. Happy hunting.

[bikurinpa]

Well guys I have to once again explain how to find like minded men our women, this world is filled with like minded individuals who are in the same situation as most of us are. When I travel I have never gone to a gay bar or advertised on a website for sex. That to me is not only dangerous but stupid. There are many men and women who are in situations that allow them a lot of latitude to play if given the right circumstance.

Most people give off vibes if you will and will and if you know what to look for it’s easy to figure out who is in need. As a bisexual I have bedded not only men but lots of women. It all boils down to conversation and key words to turn normal conversation to sex. I travel often for work and find myself in situations that allow me to take my time and evaluate my surroundings. Reading body language is key here, I have gotten more pussy and cock by just reading people. Most are married and in the same situation they just want to play with a clean like minded person.

I never come out out and say what it is I’m am in need of, conversation is the trigger, example is last week when I was in Omaha NE sitting in a hotel bar enjoying my beverage and struck up a conversation with a guy who was ther to help with flood relief. After a few beverages we talked about home life and kids and what ever popped into our heads. I learned he grew up in Arkansas and was the 6 of 8 kids and we talked about hand me downs from our older siblings, and how we learned from our older siblings about sex either through masterbation or other means. As the conversation progressed I knew he was hinting at wanting to play. The key word in this whole thing was when he asked me so what do you do in private when you travel, without hesitation I said I love being naked and jerking off to porn he laughed and said wow yea that’s what I love to do as well, he said he really loves traveling so he can play like he wants too without the wife.

After the conversation turned to sex, it wasn’t long before I had him confessing to being naked with another man. As we talked I could see him adjusting his junk as I knew he was getting horny. He in a quite voice admitted that he loves eating his own cum, I said me too but it would be wonderful to taste another’s. That’s when he smiled and said I don’t mean to be too forward but any chance of you getting away for some man play. I said your room or mine?

I could tell he was he was a bit nervous but I said that your call as long as we can shower before playing, he agreed and paid our tab and left to go to my room, once there he was a lot more open and free talking as we undressed and his cock was awesome it was a fat 6 inches and his balls were huge which is my favorite. He started slowly stroking his cock until we jumped in the shower at this point I told him my love of cum and my kink was sucking cock as long as I can. After washing our selves both of us sporting hardons I went down on him and swallowed his cock balls deep and within a few minutes he started moaning a said shit I’m going to cum I told him to let it go we have all night, he filled my throat with a nice load. Jumping out of the shower we both had to call our wives and afterward we laid naked in bed watching straight porn and getting hard again. For a country boy he sucked cock pretty well and we 69ed and he reached around and was fingering my ass and I said you want that? He said don’t think I’m weird but I love cumming against an ass I said you do whatever you need to do so he laid me on my back and closed my legs and after a few strokes rammed his cock against my ass and shot his load he said you do the same so I worked my cock and put the head of my cock on his ass hole and cummed hard , that was fucking awesome he said and thanked me for a great night.

So advertising for sex is not needed, just time and the skill to identify who else is looking. Happy hunting.
I do feel this is the best way of meeting someone, online is a JOKE! My problem is getting a conversation to go that direction without being too obvious! I got a few regular friends I am around all the time that I would love to get into their pants, but never could figure them out or get a conversation started to "fish" them out.

[bikurinpa]

Most people are used to using craigslist to post free personal ads to find hookups, but now its closed as sex-trafficking. Lots of folks type mw4m, mw4mw, w4mw, w4m or m4w to get their needs. This list could be good Craigslist mw4m alternative (http://www.threesomedatingsites.biz/spice-up-the-bedroom-with-craigslist-MW4M-websites.html) choice.
CL is great if ur looking for "hook ups" or blo n goes with just any random. What I am trying to find is some one who wants a regular and friendship as well. That is what is tough to find!

[williamg]

From what I'm reading here: Those that travel alone can do pretty well. Trouble is many of us are not hotel travelers.