What do Women Think of Male Cocksuckers?

[Blondeblowjob7]

I have a question that I’ve been thinking about for a long time. What do women think of men who suck dick? What is your opinion of male cocksuckers verus more masculine men who are totally straight? Do you have a lower opinion of a man who is addicted to sucking cock? Personally I’ve been a male cocksucker for many years now, and I’m just curious what women actually think of men who are completely addicted to sucking dick like I am.

[sysper]

umm just because a guy likes to suck cock, doesn't necessarily make him less masculine than a str8 guy. but i would like to hear the answer from women about this anyways.

[marine20]

i'd like to hear some answers too.

[whistle1]

Like anything else, I think it is specific to the individual.

While my last girlfriend did not express an opinion about guys who suck cock, she did say generally that she had no interest in seeing two guys have sex.

I also would be interested to hear from women on the subject.

[Waylon]

My girlfiend loves to watch me blow another guy and will usually jump in for some sucking too!

[Blondeblowjob7]

That’s very true. They’re are more masculine cocksuckers out there. I meant no offense by not saying that. However, it’s equally true that sexually most people view a male cocksucker engaged in the act of giving another man a blowjob as being more submissive and feminine in nature.

[sysper]

sure there is that tendency & i'm sure in some cases that is the case.

[cornholejoe]

used to do a 3some with a man and his wife she loved to watch us suck each others cock said it made her hot

[chances]

I don't seem to understand, why a male who has sex with other males, and enjoys sucking cocks, would really care what females think ? do men now need to get the o.k., from women ? lmao

[sysper]

i happen to think it's hot when a women thinks it's hot to watch 2 guys togather. i loooooooooove the idea of 2 women togather so maybe it's only fair. sexuality it's all related & complicated. :wacko:

[chances]

sysper please explain what your agenda for being here is?, because you said before you have never had any experiences in the male/ male realm and you've been here long enough to have had many, I am wondering what your real agenda is, you writing a book about other peoples experiences? whats the score? ARE WE JUST FOR YOUR ENTERTAINMENT? SOMETHINGS WRONG HERE WITH YOU, THATS WHY I DONT SHARE MUCH -- BECAUSE OF YOU, AND WHATEVER YOUR AFTER.

[sysper]

chances it's pretty clear we're not gonna get along. i have put u on ignore, feel free to do the same with me. it's probably best this way. i'm not blaming u for anything sometimes 2 people just don't get along.

[chances]

you still cant answer a question, that says quite a bit about you. I really thought you wouldn't show your true side, and you didnt disappoint, whats your game? if you can tell the truth.?

[bi4asplay]

I have a question that I’ve been thinking about for a long time. What do women think of men who suck dick? What is your opinion of male cocksuckers verus more masculine men who are totally straight? Do you have a lower opinion of a man who is addicted to sucking cock? Personally I’ve been a male cocksucker for many years now, and I’m just curious what women actually think of men who are completely addicted to sucking dick like I am.

I do have a lady that plays with me and other guys. She cums every tie she watches me and him suck and she will join in. She also gets off on helping him enter me.

[csreef]

Why haven't any of the female members of Bisexual.com responded to this post?

[Biplastic]

The ancient Spartans were notoriously vicious in battle but were also openly bisexual

[borntosuckcock]

I’ve met a few gals who liked to watch and were turned on by it, they were all married couples. Only one was the sister of the guy I was sucking off. There was a jack and Jill bathroom between their two bedrooms and he forgot to lock the door. We were all around 12 to 13 and she liked watching me sucking him of after we all got over the initial shock. She was turned on by watching us.

i think most gals are turned off at the thought of two guys sucking each other off, even if they are both Bi. I’ve had several girlfriends who were Bi and they it was okay.

[by~his~side]

Female member here. Let's me first say that I don't think that bisexual men are less masculine. I know that isn't a direct answer to the question but I think it's worth mentioning.

I met a nice guy, fell in love and 6 years later he opened up to me that he is bisexual. My love for him and my desire to share my life with him remained unchanged.
At the time that we first met (17 years ago)had I known ahead of time that he was bisexual....I don't think I would have started a relationship with him.
I love him and accept his desire for cocksucking and all things bisexual.
I have an understanding and acceptance that some other women don't.

Speaking just for myself - I do not like or dislike a man because he is a cocksucker. I like or dislike a man based on his personality.
Watching two or more random men having sex does not turn me on.
Watching my husband enjoy himself with another man (or men) makes me feel good. I like knowing because of my acceptance he is fulfilling his desire and fantasies.

I don't like to even think about a life with this man that I love....but if I should find myself a widow and felt as if I were ready to find another man, I would not hesitate to partner with a bisexual man as long as he viewed bisexual experiences with men the same way my husband does.

So, I wouldn't necessarily want to watch random men going at it, I do not necessarily place cocksucking men up on pedestals, but it does not diminish the esteem I have towards men. If he's a good person, his cocksucking doesn't make him tainted.


Dee

[johnnyeasy]

bi his side:
Your husband is one of the luckiest people on this planet to have somebody like you.
I can tell from your writing that you are intelligent and thoughtful. We need more people like that.
I can tell from that picture you are HOT!
Please have your husband contact me and instruct me as to how to find a hottie smart chick like you for myself.
If he contacts me and does give me advice that works out tell him I will send him a PHILADELPHIA EAGLE SUPER BOWL CHAMPIONSHIP JERSEY.
JohnnE

[sysper]

so ur not jumping at the chance to watch this, but if it's something that makes him happy it makes u happy. it's cool ur at least open to that. very cool actually.

[Bottomhubby]

When I came out to my wife and asked if she would like watch sometime she said maybe but for now it's don't ask don't tell type thing.

[Tight1-4u]

The ancient Spartans were notoriously vicious in battle but were also openly bisexual
Spartans were very bisexual as well as the romans and Vikings most all ancient armies.. not only did they fight to protect their country but also there lovers standing next to them..

[sysper]

i wonder what the reason is bisexuality wasn't supported after awhile? at least male bisexuality, female bisexuality seems to be more tolerated these days. i'm sure there are alot of reasons.

[KeyLargoGrandDad]

It has been my experience that most ladies enjoy seeing two guys suck each other's cocks. This is especially true of married ladies watching their husband suck another man for the first time. They feel that they have been sucking cock most of their lives - swallowing cum - that it's time for their hubby to do the same. I have been able to enjoy many newbie couples who have wanted to do this the first time. Anal sex is similar - if a husband has been fucking his wife's anus over the years, she wants to see him get fucked.

And most wives enjoy cum clean up by their husbands - whether it's his cum he's licking up from her cunt or another gentleman's cum.

[KeyLargoGrandDad]

Dee,

I agree with you - most women who love their man, will enjoy seeing him pleasure and be pleasured by another man. I know I enjoy watching two ladies together and two men together, too.

[bw299]

Female member here. Let's me first say that I don't think that bisexual men are less masculine. I know that isn't a direct answer to the question but I think it's worth mentioning.

I met a nice guy, fell in love and 6 years later he opened up to me that he is bisexual. My love for him and my desire to share my life with him remained unchanged.
At the time that we first met (17 years ago)had I known ahead of time that he was bisexual....I don't think I would have started a relationship with him.
I love him and accept his desire for cocksucking and all things bisexual.
I have an understanding and acceptance that some other women don't.

Speaking just for myself - I do not like or dislike a man because he is a cocksucker. I like or dislike a man based on his personality.
Watching two or more random men having sex does not turn me on.
Watching my husband enjoy himself with another man (or men) makes me feel good. I like knowing because of my acceptance he is fulfilling his desire and fantasies.

I don't like to even think about a life with this man that I love....but if I should find myself a widow and felt as if I were ready to find another man, I would not hesitate to partner with a bisexual man as long as he viewed bisexual experiences with men the same way my husband does.

So, I wouldn't necessarily want to watch random men going at it, I do not necessarily place cocksucking men up on pedestals, but it does not diminish the esteem I have towards men. If he's a good person, his cocksucking doesn't make him tainted.


Dee


AWESOME! You are just awesome!

[Ebonybifemme7]

I'm a single girl here and male to male same sex encounters really turn me on.

[dan.woodlawn]

I think it is less about permission and more about what drives the erotic feelings. My wife seems to enjoy watching. No permission, or allowance. Just fun.

[cuttin2dachase]

Outside of the swinging community, I've never had much luck meeting women who could wrap their mind around the fact that I'm bisexual and also enjoy sex and intimacy with men. I'm lucky in that my 1st wife was a hot slutwife who actively encouraged my bisexuality and loved to watch me with other men when we swung together. I have her to thank for helping me to discover I' bisexual. There are a lot of couples, both mf couples with bi or curious males and also mm couples, who enjoy adding a 3rd bi man to their fun. I've disclosed upfront to the last 10 interesting women I've met online or in public that I am bisexual. That immediately drove every one of them off and I never saw or heard from them again. I got remarks such as 'bi is the same thing as gay', 'I want a real man not a fag', 'oh you're sick (or perverted'), "you're going to hell'.

I don't mean to sound boastful, but throughout my life since I was 14, I estimate that I went to bed the same day or night with 85-90% of all the women I took out for a 1st date. The rate was closer to 100% for women I met in bars LOL. I learned at an early age that women who screw you on a 1st date are trying to win your love and already have dreams/notions of long term relationships and/or marriage. There are some women who screw you right awaybecause they love sex and probably already have a bf or husband, but are in no way interested in seeing you again. They're called heartbreakers, just as men who do the same thing are called heartbreakers LOL. Most single, divorced or widowed women are easily hurt if you don't call them back or see them again or otherwise reciprocate their feelings of love. I learned a lot and henceforth went out of my way to not hurt women or break hearts. So after I split with my 2nd wife, I was and still am firmly resolved to never marry again and never mislead or use a woman. I decided I'd only meet women who would accept my bisexuality, and like me, want sex in the context of a casual to semi-serious relationship, perhaps even join me in swinging with other men, women or couples. If I disclose my bisexuality and desire to keep things casual to semi-serious to 1000 women, 999 would say 'well good luck with that!' But because there's there's thousands of bisexual/ gay men nearby who want and enjoy casual sex, I'm never gonna go sexless. Bottom line....as much as I'd love to have a kinky, understanding gf for companionship, intimacy, sex and fun, I could stand on my head the rest of my life waiting for her and still be sexually fulfilled.

[jcstreet]

I don't seem to understand, why a male who has sex with other males, and enjoys sucking cocks, would really care what females think ? do men now need to get the o.k., from women ? lmao

Welllllllllllll - they might be married to them, or living with them, or planning to marry or live with or have a favorite female friend with benefits and - use your imagination WHY

[BIGUY123456]

I had a girlfriend she loved to watched 2 men together begged begged me to suck cock and she only watched gay porn.

[Luvthewater]

Have a female fwb who gets really turned on when she saw me do it.

[NEPHX]

What do women think of men who suck dick? .

Spend your (intimate and other) time with women who think two guys together is hot and don't weigh yourself down with the negativity of the rest.


What is your opinion of male cocksuckers verus more masculine men who are totally straight?

Sucking cock... no relation to masculinity. You're grow out of it... I don't think most men are totally straight... I'm more than willing to test any of them if they are interested :) More often than not, they discover a WHOLE NEW part of themselves... or maybe just set it free.


Do you have a lower opinion of a man who is addicted to sucking cock?

Now, you've moved from men who like men and suck cock to "addicted." Anything that is an addiction is not healthy. One addiction leads to others.... And, has nothing to do with sexuality.

If you asked do I have a lower opinion of men who like to play with other men, I'd say no, I have a higher opinion as they allow themselves to be themselves...and have evolved above the negative BS (usually born in religion).


Personally I’ve been a male cocksucker for many years now, and I’m just curious what women actually think of men who are completely addicted to sucking dick like I am.

Ask them.... most will deny it especially in "proper company" but probably, now it is more in main stream media, eventually will think its hot. Ask them when you've got them all hot and bothered in bed and you'll probably get a different answer... hopefully. The stereo type of the weak wrist, high pitched "fairy" of old (hey, but I like some of those guys a lot too) is replaced by men of all typos and many men that women would claw the clothes of to get naked with them... Many will likely think it's hot or haven't yet erotisised it. Find ones that do/have..... But, act like it's hot regardless of what anyone else thinks (when you can). You have to accept these things first.

More men are into men than anyone ever suspects... but, fuck it, seriously. You're worthy.

[NEPHX]

T... sexually most people view a male cocksucker engaged in the act of giving another man a blowjob as being more submissive and feminine in nature.

And, so? I like a nice submissive guy... Huge turn on... And, I'll happily be submissive to another alpha guy. Please.. yes... And, I easily switch on a dime on another alpha because 9 times out of ten, they enjoy the same... and can sense I can sense it.... In my experience.

[sysper]

wow u sound like u have a healthy appetite for sex & u have alot of sexual freedom. that is so cool & i wanna live like that! so when can u & me sleep togather lol!

[Blowjob & Billie]

I don't think about it. I'm married to a guy who sucks cock. Not a big deal.

Legz

[singlebimale41]

I wonder why this post and so many other are limited to cock suckers.
There is more to sex between men than sucking cock. Being bi doesn't limit us to giving head or receiving head. Why not ask what women think of men who fuck men or are fucked by men. What do woman think of men who can curl another mans toes with a kiss?
There seems to be this obsession on this site with giving head. If that is where your limits are maybe you are not bi but maybe might be more of a fetish you are trying to satisfy

[eager4cum]

I must disagree with the statement "male cocksuckers verus more masculine men who are totally straight?"
being a cock sucker should not be associated with masculinity or the reverse either. One is a personality trait and the other is a personal sexual preference.

personally, I am an average guy in the masculinity area and bisexual, meaning I love to suck the cum out of a cock just as much as eating a pussy until her legs quiver.

[MissRina]

I love guys who suck cock, literally and figuratively. My hubby sucks cock, and I love watching a man suck on him. It gets me uber wet watching and joining in on all the wonderful cock sucking.

[MissRina]

I wonder why this post and so many other are limited to cock suckers.
There is more to sex between men than sucking cock. Being bi doesn't limit us to giving head or receiving head. Why not ask what women think of men who fuck men or are fucked by men. What do woman think of men who can curl another mans toes with a kiss?
There seems to be this obsession on this site with giving head. If that is where your limits are maybe you are not bi but maybe might be more of a fetish you are trying to satisfy

I also love all these things you listed too, I think a man highly skilled in the art of making another man's toes curl with a kiss is hot. I love watching men fuck, but the raw sensuality of it is even hotter.

[void()]

I also love all these things you listed too, I think a man highly skilled in the art of making another man's toes curl with a kiss is hot. I love watching men fuck, but the raw sensuality of it is even hotter.

+1,000 at the very least. :)

[Annika L]

Void? You’re still here? How lovely to see you again, my friend!

[Annika L]

Johnny?? *You’re* still here? *swoons from all the excitement*

[curtotry]

Maybe it's just my experience, but most women don't want anything to do with a guy who is bi. On dating sites it's lumped into the "don't message me if you're married, have a girlfriend, bisexual, or live in your mom's basement" type of requirements. Had wives and girlfriends who seemed liberal and lgbt-friendly...but almost became hostile at any mention of bringing that into our lives. Yes, possibly it could make one seem less masculine - but I think it's a mix of being something they can't be directly involved in, a threat to their sexual power as women, and the stigma of disease. Maybe millennials will be a bit more open to this, but for me the 30+ crowd of women just can't wrap their head around it. Yes, 10% of women are open to it (usually already swingers or open-minded) and maybe another 10% would be willing to explore, but in general expect a woman to head for the hills if you bring this up around her.

[sysper]

i think it's common to think a guy who is not 100% str8 is somehow less masculine. i don't buy it though. but i do agree why alot of women don't want bi men. especially because it threatens them sexually. don't know if that's nature or how people have been socialized. bisexual women don't threaten me sexually, in fact i think it's great. they tend to have a wider awareness of sexuality because they see it from 2 sides. not that that doesn't apply to bisexual men too :) maybe that's why i'm exploring if i'm bisexual being hopeful lol! but it would be nice for me to know a women who has the same appreciation of bisexuals of the opposite sex.
Maybe it's just my experience, but most women don't want anything to do with a guy who is bi. On dating sites it's lumped into the "don't message me if you're married, have a girlfriend, bisexual, or live in your mom's basement" type of requirements. Had wives and girlfriends who seemed liberal and lgbt-friendly...but almost became hostile at any mention of bringing that into our lives. Yes, possibly it could make one seem less masculine - but I think it's a mix of being something they can't be directly involved in, a threat to their sexual power as women, and the stigma of disease. Maybe millennials will be a bit more open to this, but for me the 30+ crowd of women just can't wrap their head around it. Yes, 10% of women are open to it (usually already swingers or open-minded) and maybe another 10% would be willing to explore, but in general expect a woman to head for the hills if you bring this up around her.

[NakedInSeattle]

cuttin2dachase, we found that INSIDE the swinging community it was very difficult to find acceptance of male bisexuality. We've had better luck outside.

[sysper]

i'm actually a little surprised. on the surface i know female bisexuality is definately more supported or at least more seen than male bisexuality. but i would think when multiple people of both sexes get togather regularly eventually 2 guys wind up with each other & realize they are open to it.
cuttin2dachase, we found that INSIDE the swinging community it was very difficult to find acceptance of male bisexuality. We've had better luck outside.

[clittyflickr]

women love sharing cock with a man that will suck it for her..especially if you will lick his shaft while he fucks her... makes her so wet and so glad you are bi

[JordanCD]

Seems like some women here are OK with their guys sucking cock or might even like to watch, but they're already part of a select group of people who are open to bi-sexuality.

I think the general population of women would be uncomfortable at least, and disgusted at worst. I've heard the full range of comments when MM sex comes up. Usually it's something like "Eww... gross." No wonder most bi men, especially those in committed relationships, keep their cock-sucking desires a secret

[KDaddy23]

It's either all that and a bag of chips... or he's the worst motherfucker who ever had the nerve to be born. Women either find it highly offensive or they don't and even then, some women are very okay with it... as long as it's not their man out there sucking dick. I have never pretended to understand why women would be so pissed off about men doing something that a lot of women do - and why women who don't suck cock find reason to be totally offended and pissed off about guys blowing each other.

[buds50]

30 years ago i shared my wife for first time , we talked about me sucking cock, we watched it on bi porn shed get so wet and hot shed masterbate watching it on porn. we used a cock like dildoes in our fantasy play. i pulled on rout of her pussy and sat it on her mound and sucked it off like a cock she came watching me suck it , so the time to try it for real , we got our first puter had a big cocked stud over found him in no time , when i sukced his cock as she watched ,she came untouched watching me work his cock. she went wild on us both his cock was huge over 10 long and thicker than her arm. no idea how she opened to take it all ,but she had it to the base in her pussy. was moaning and quick cums . i held it as he fucked her slow got down low behind him to watch it in her pussy played with her asshole tried to put a finger in as we always did .no way she was full in her pussy with cock. so i watched it a bit i was so fucking turned on thought id cum watching all this.i got so hot i burried my face in his asshole and rimmed him as he fucked her , heard him say to her hubbies licking my asshole , we hadnt discused this at all though we did it to each other, but i was licking him and when he told her she came so hard she screamed .that set him off he came with her. sliped out i sucked her clit tasted some cum, and i slip in my ave 6 cock she was so wet from cuming and his laod and open i didnt feel her pussy at all just heat and wet and i came half way in her .nevr matched that again in our 30 years of swinging and shareing her ,maybe our first gang fuck i went sloppy 7th oh my that was almost as good i came before i hit bottom again

[MAcpl69]

30 years ago i shared my wife for first time , we talked about me sucking cock, we watched it on bi porn shed get so wet and hot shed masterbate watching it on porn. we used a cock like dildoes in our fantasy play. i pulled on rout of her pussy and sat it on her mound and sucked it off like a cock she came watching me suck it , so the time to try it for real , we got our first puter had a big cocked stud over found him in no time , when i sukced his cock as she watched ,she came untouched watching me work his cock. she went wild on us both his cock was huge over 10 long and thicker than her arm. no idea how she opened to take it all ,but she had it to the base in her pussy. was moaning and quick cums . i held it as he fucked her slow got down low behind him to watch it in her pussy played with her asshole tried to put a finger in as we always did .no way she was full in her pussy with cock. so i watched it a bit i was so fucking turned on thought id cum watching all this.i got so hot i burried my face in his asshole and rimmed him as he fucked her , heard him say to her hubbies licking my asshole , we hadnt discused this at all though we did it to each other, but i was licking him and when he told her she came so hard she screamed .that set him off he came with her. sliped out i sucked her clit tasted some cum, and i slip in my ave 6 cock she was so wet from cuming and his laod and open i didnt feel her pussy at all just heat and wet and i came half way in her .nevr matched that again in our 30 years of swinging and shareing her ,maybe our first gang fuck i went sloppy 7th oh my that was almost as good i came before i hit bottom again
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