How long do you really want to suck before he cums?

[Bi_Dave]

Where ever I play determines how long I want to suck and slather on his cock. If it's a bookstore or adult movie, I'd say 5 minutes max. A car, the same. There was once a rest area with no facilities except a big port-a-john on the NYS Thruway Eastbound side between Exits 46 and 45. There was a GH cut in the back wall. It was a big john and the floor gave you ample access to the hole. I sucked many a cock out behind the shed. You didn't want the guy to last too long because traffic would be coming and going. You didn't for sure want to have some old lady or kid walking around back and seeing you bobbing on a knob! Not to mention cops.

Adult theaters, you could take your time somewhat, but too long and you had a line behind your suckee. I had some of my best sessions in a theater. Played with this older guy who had a cock of steel! That thing was always up. Lubed that baby up one day and let him slide it between my legs from behind and fuck me that way. No penetration. It was a mess when he came, but felt oh so good!

I haven't sucked much past 15-20 minutea without tiring. It's the jaw, especially on the thick ones. I had my teeth pulled out when I retired so I didn't have to worry about dental bills and become a toothless cocksucker. A gummer if you will. Guys love it! Total bliss with the tongue and slathering without a worry of snagging a trouser trout with an errant tooth. Do you know what they call a cocksucker with a chipped tooth? Organ Grinder.

So fellow cock bites, how long do you like to suck?

[charman]

I like to go at least an hour and I don't mean of continuous sucking. I like to suck, lick and stroke a cock as part of the whole experience. I love the feeling of a cock in my mouth.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I've never been in a situation in an ABS, rest area or other place where the temptation might be to 'get it over with'.

I've only sucked cock in a comfortable setting where there was sufficient time and privacy to allow things to play out as they will. I did blow one guy in the front seat of a car, and he came rather quickly. Wasn't planned that way, at least on my part. He may have wanted a quickie, or maybe I was just doing a really good job! :impleased

So it's hard to quantify it. I would just say, as long as we're both enjoying it! I love having a cock in my mouth and giving pleasure to another man or gurl!

[atxbi]

As long as I get the cum, I’ll gladly suck it for as long as it takes.

[Sundazzled]

Ideally, five to seven minutes of cock sucking is good for me. After that, it tends to become tedious and I start getting a sore jaw. Most of the time that’s a non issue as the guy usually cums before I start wearing out!

[by~his~side]

Silkyhoselover said it best when he commented "comfortable setting where there was sufficient time......"

But I gotta be honest and say I'm at my best for about 5-8 minutes.
I'm sorry.....I know that sounds sad. But if it's still going on after 13...14...15 minutes then my mouth gets tired and (depending on the position) my neck and shoulders start to hurt.
Worst position is him flat out on his back with me hovering over top. It's too difficult to prop myself up, keep my hair out of the way, maintain a position so he can see breasts AND hold his cock up (with my hand) all at the same time. Sorry, it's exhausting if I'm at it for more than 6-7 minutes.
Only thing worse than that position is if he has unruly pubes. I'll give it a go for 3-4 minutes......but once those pubes start clinging to my tongue - I'm done.

Now, if you are nicely manscaped and if you are willing to sit on the couch, bed or chair so that I can kneel on the floor in between your legs.....then we can have some extended fun. I'll stay put until you give me the signal that you're about to cum. And, after you shoot your load, I can swallow it down or we can share it in a kiss....your choice.
But if I'm being honest, I don't mind a quick shooter.

[Bi_Dave]

Ideally, five to seven minutes of cock sucking is good for me. After that, it tends to become tedious and I start getting a sore jaw. Most of the time that’s a non issue as the guy usually cums before I start wearing out!


I'm more like you. Sometimes I lose interest if it takes too long,

[cornholejoe]

10 to 15 minutes is it for me most times its 5 minutes

[12voltyV2.0]

I have found---you can never tell how long it is going to take for a guy to spurt his load----sometimes it has been as quick as less than a minute with a few over the years--mostly because we had already been doing other things to get the motors running and when my mouth was around their cocks---that was all it took.

Mostly though it does tend to take some time, especially since I am older and I tend to get with older guys too. Sadly, for lots of reasons our dicks don't work as well as they once did. I have to say I find that with myself. I wish I could get back that kid would could cum just by thinking about being horny and even the slightest touch----it was spurting!!

I don't hold it against a guy I get with if it takes awhile or even not at all that he can't finish the job---if doing the sucking--I just enjoy sucking him for as long as I can and if sucks me and it doesn't get over the finish line---as long as he is fine with it--I am too-I just enjoy what pleasure he can offer me and I appreciate it.

[hung4you]

When time allows I love to take my time, it seems the longer it takes the more he holds back and when he releases its very intense.

[cfr50s]

Doesn't matter how long it takes because the wife and I switch off and share. We have a regular so we don't and never have taken chances in ABS or adult stores. We leave that to those who don't care if they get a disease. We go to adult theaters but don't suck or fuck others. To many diseases out there.

[Stinger78]

Mmhmm! Yup, I totally agree. I mean yes, I enjoy giving a guy head as much as the next guy...but for me, (not that i'm keeping track of time at all) if it goes on for what feels like longer than 10-15, as cornholejoe said, then i start to become less and less turned on. For one, if it takes that long, or longer, then it starts to feel more like a chore than something to be enjoyed. Another thing is, when blowing him is going on this long, I start to think & wonder stuff like, "Does he like what I'm doing?...maybe he's just not very vocal... Maybe I should stop....he's probably waiting for me to stop & doesn't wanna be rude an'' outright say so...." So, yah...so by this time I've wondered to the point of having lost all interest.

[Asspussy302]

I’ve never been in a situation where I didn’t make him cum before I got tired. Granted my experiences never took too long. 10 minutes tops.

[borntosuckcock]

I like to suck cocks, but they payoff for me, is when he cums. I’d say around 5 to 10 minutes.

[cuttin2dachase]

I enjoy getting sucked off by men much more than sucking men off. For many years I adored sucking hot, hard virile cocks which fed my mouth and throat with hot, sticky, stringy cum within 10 to 15 minutes. If it took any longer than that to make a man's balls explode, he was either too nervous/inexperienced/guiltful or impotent or not into me or any combination of those 3 things. I knew I'd done my best to orally/manually please him. If that was not enough to get him hard and make him cum, I felt no sense of inadequacy as to my cocksucking skills. I'm 64 yrs old now and I stopped routinely sucking the cocks of men who suck my cock over a year ago. It was due mostly to safety/health concerns, but in large part because I attract mostly older bi married cocksuckers who can no longer get hard or cum except when they are sucking cocks. It's a niche I am happy to fill....getting my dick sucked off by cocksuckers who neither want or need reciprocation from me. Occasionally I meet a hot guy (usually much younger than me) who gets so excited and hard that I cant resist getting his dick in my hands and mouth.

[bw299]

It's up to him. If he wants a quick blow and go, that's fine as long as I get my reward. If he wants me to milk it for an hour, I'm good with that, too. I like lots of precum:)

[softheart]

It depends on the guy. If it's our first time and maybe only time, if he is getting really ready to cum and shows no sign of wanting to stop, I start edging him for as long as I can until he can't take it anymore!

[bw299]

If time permits, I love to milk a guys cock as long as he can take it. Otherwise, up to 20 minutes is a good time for me so my jaw doesn't feel like it's going to lock up.

[Exploring4fun]

6 minutes or close to that

[okbiguy]

I once sucked a guy for more than 2 hours, we were at his place. We started off in 69, then he got up and fixed a drink then sat down in his recliner and leaned back and I was sucking his cock He got up a few times to get another drink then he passed out after about an hour. I kept sucking (I really like sucking) for another hour, he was passed out drunk but his cock stayed hard so I kept sucking until it finally got soft so I got dressed and left.

[middleagedinnj]

It is a rare occasion that I get the time to edge a guy with my hands and mouth for a prolonged period. The longest has been about an hour. Most times it is much quicker as we are never in a place that allows for a long play time. Did manage to play in an ABS behind a locked door in a booth for about 20 minutes once but most times it does go quickly and I don't mind as I like my reward no matter how quickly is comes.

[justforfunct]

If time permits, I love to milk a guys cock as long as he can take it. Otherwise, up to 20 minutes is a good time for me so my jaw doesn't feel like it's going to lock up.

I agree, I love sucking cock so I like to make it last as long as possible without it becoming tedious. I had a steady lover a while back and we would spend weekends together. When we got together on Fridays we would have a couple of drinks in a bar and go back to his place. As soon as the door closed I would have him stripped down and have his cock in my mouth and 5 minutes later I had a mouthful of cum. For the rest of the weekend everything went at a slower pace. I would caress stroke suck and lick for hours. I sure miss those days.

[chances]

I like it the longer the better , all the way to completion, then I get my reward, I love sucking a hard cock

[trackerone]

I like the feel of his hard cock , and love to have it in my mouth as long as i can , taking him deep as i can , hopping he will like what i am doing , and that i will get to taste his hot cum after .

[bicuriousbc66]

As long as its big and hard. whatever time it takes.....mmmmm

[Mac52]

Don't want him to cum too soon, I want that cock in my mouth for a while!

[ck4cpl]

I used to have a regular playmate and we would normally only get a half hour together during which we would suck each other for about 10 mins. But sometimes we would get some real quality time to take it slow. The best was when I ate his cock for almost an hour. We were both edging for what seemed like forever. That produced perhaps the best orgasm I had with him. My load was so heavy and it shot long and went everywhere. Usually we would cum on each other. Most of the time I would blow my wad on his cock and rub my cock all over his til he returned the favor. It was really hot!

[foundpuppy]

I am a devoted cock sucker. I will suck ‘til he cums then continue sucking (very gently) until he can take more vigorous sucking. I’ll repeat if necessary ‘till I’m told to stop.

[twosmokers]

I just love 5he jizz. No matter how long it takes.

[RobJon]

I love sucking cock and balls. I prefer to only use my mouth no hands. It feels better to me that way so I assume it feels better to them. I have never gotten tired doing it, but no one has lasted more the 10 minutes yet. Maybe its my deep throating skills or I just haven't met the right man yet. I feel like I could go at it all day.

[Cgb32]

Five minutes is just about right if I'm really going at it. I've had guys cum in seconds and I had a friend last an hour one time. He usually would last just a few minutes, but he hung in there that day. I was determined to make him cum and once he finally did, my jaw was on fire.

[chub-bi]

I use my mouth only no hands at all unless he takes to long to cum.
I prefer guys that cums quick because I really enjoy the feeling of cock swelling and hearing his moans just before I feel his sweet cum squirt in my mouth. Guess I’m just a greedy cocksucker lol.

[babloobla]

i like to suck for a long long time

[jem_is_bi]

I try to make him last at least 30 minutes.
Keep him right on the edge, as long as possible.

[hung4you]

I love taking my time milking my reward, i always prefer lots of precum prior to the big release.

[BiATL1]

Its funny though! My ex-girlfriend ran an escort agency here in Atlanta back when...LOL.... But she said most guys last between 2 and 5 minutes tops on BJ! Every now and then you would get somebody that lasted along time but it was rare! But they would put in their review that after a 20 minute BJ they fucked the hell out of them for 45 minutes! My GF was like WHAT???? 2 to 5 minutes on the BJ and 2 to 7 minutes on the fucking and that was your average guy! Many guys came way faster but only a few lasted way longer and these statistics are coming from a business that knows! LOL

[Godownonit]

As long as it takes. As long as I get my creamy reward, I'd suck one for days to get there. Absolutely love it when his balls tighten, he stiffens....and then the cum comes blasting. Greatest flavor treat in the world.

Dedication..... it's a wonderful thing.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I try to make him last at least 30 minutes.
Keep him right on the edge, as long as possible.

Which is EXACTLY why men give far-better blowjobs than most women, who seem to want it over-with as soon as possible...

[babloobla]

There are several comments in this thread that seem to evaluate the quality of a blow job or a cocksucker based on time to release, and then people want to compare the performance of men versus women. I want address these conclusions here, though I may appear to stretch the boundary of this discussion I think it is important, especially for BiSexual people.

The first time I sucked a cock, it felt like sucking on a rubber balloon. The cock was 4-5" x 3/4" o.d. (outside diameter.. ) He didn't come from my first bj but when he got me on my hands and knees and greased my anus and took my virginity that way.. it was awesome,,at least for me. However the next morning he sucked me off in like two minutes.
After a couple of encounters with that man, i met a woman and we dated for a couple of years and she gave fine oral. However it was my second girlfriend that blew me into the next dimension with her oral skills. That was the best head I have ever had.

Since then my experience of being sucked has varied depending on my partner, I can't say men give better head than women across the board. From what I hear, most male cocksuckers or their clients say men give better head, and it is often claimed by the fact that having a cock makes you better understand how to suck one.

However, I believe, and some of the comments here seem to me to support my claim, that communication is the key to good head. I think a lot of people don't communicate about sexual interest desire and preferred techniques. Once sex starts between two, or more, it just goes to wherever it goes, and if it is repeated a pattern sets in, for better or worse.
There are too many married "bi" men who claim the wife has no interest in sex and too many middle-aged women looking for sex that I feel it is the men who are at fault. I will explain.

There is scientific evidence that point to certain deep differences between men and women. One interesting conclusion is that there is no artificial chemical way to cause women to become turned on or to enhance arousal in women. It is always fundamentally a psychological trigger that gets women attracted interested and hot for cock or whatever they want. Men can use viagra, cialis etcetera, nitrogen compounds, horny goat weed to enhance their drive. But for men if they don't want to hit it or tap it, it's not going to happen. Women are much more capable of becoming aroused by personality, speech, imagination, emotional connection than purely genital stimulation, or physique. Women's interest in famous powerful wealthy men seems to confuse many men into feeling inadequate and unmotivated to pursue hot women or higher ambitions in life. This is what distinguishes the alpha from the beta males in the species. This is also the reason some sexologists argue that only women can be truly bi, and men who are bi are more interested in cock than pussy, or women.

I will admit that there is a definite difference in my interest in women versus cock. That I put it in those terms explains it. When it comes to sex with men there's no emotional involvement or need for intimacy or anything beyond getting hard and getting off. The sex with men sometimes does have some kind of twisted oedipal drama for me but it's purely internalized.

Testosterone increases sexual drive in both sexes. I know a Transman that was a lesbian but who became seriously cock hungry after testosterone treatments. He enjoyed sucking cock as much as anyone and had a glorious pussy that he loved to get fucked.

I read in a Playboy sex column once that when a woman asks a man NOT to come in her mouth, he can't. I have experienced this with a girlfriend. She would suck me and say, "Tell me when you are getting ready to come because I don't want you to come in my mouth." She felt great but I never got to that critical point. One time however I misheard her, I honestly thought she said, " I want you to come in my mouth," and I did. She was shocked but that was the only time it happened, once the communication gaffe was cleared up.
Regarding time.
I would argue with the comment claiming statistical evidence from an escort agency that women/men give "better" head because the men at the agency came in under ten minutes. It's more a matter of what is considered pleasurable to giver and reciever and whether there is a difference of opinion about it. And th eexpectations are different in different scenarios. I feel some women think that ejaculation is the main pleasure and so the quickest way there is the best. also most men who pay for sex probably need it so bad they come quickly. Some men may feel the same way. But a lot of commenters here, including me enjoy the cocksucking and depending on context it can be enjoyable as a stroll or a sprint.
Women too seem in general to enjoy pleasuring their partner whereas men seem to enjoy being pleased, this is an asymmetry that most women are aware of and men fail to notice, especially in these hetero marriages that dry up after 20 years. I would not be surprised that most men who 'love' women fail to understand just how much power they have to draw a woman into ecstasy, they see women as source of pleasure for themselves. Their wives don't get to even know how much pleasure they could experience if their men could help them feel it.

In conclusion, a lot men on hear seem to be interested in finding the perfect bi female to complement them. I see very little response from women to this. Again I think it is a serious issue that men have that they fail, to understand what women are really interested in, attracted to, and how they get aroused and what their sexual needs really are. The irony of this problem is that the woman you are interested in will figure this out before you and she won't tell you in male-think terms what she wants. But it's worth it for both sexes if men would try to figure this out and learn to understand the power of being made male and female.

[babloobla]

Which is EXACTLY why men give far-better blowjobs than most women, who seem to want it over-with as soon as possible...

Consider this.. When most men, especially men under 30 or so, fuck women, it's over when HE comes. To most of the women this reads like, "a man wants to come quickly and He, when fucking, wants to get it over with asap." It took me years (decades?) to learn that the attraction, arousal, plateau, orgasm, orgasm, orgasm, experience that woman can have with a man depends on the man's ability to pay attention, develop self control, pace rhythm, and two way communication. She would say you have to listen to her body.

You ( i mean the general reader not Silkyhoselover, personally) have heard of the "male ego". No one ever says "she was on such an ego trip after the got some dick". If you conquer your male ego, while maintaining self control and confidence, you will be banging a whole lot more ladies..for a lot more time, if you want. You probably never heard of a woman have a premature ejaculation or finish too quick. :tongue:

[sysper]

wow thanks, u really put some thought into this. i know my goal in sex at least with the opposite sex, is to do whatever i can to please her. my pleasure is worthless if i don't make her have at least as much as me. otherwise i might as well j/o. i haven't figured out yet if this is what i want with the same sex too.

[babloobla]

Yes,Sysper.. pleasing the other is a super turn on.. One woman put it this you must learn to listen to the body of your partner. Feel their response.. vagina, penis, breathing facial expressions small body movements. You do it too when you are getting stimulated.. it's a conversation in touch.. pay attention to tone of voice words feelings.. Don't try to figure out how the other feels with your mind.. focus on your feelings and let them guide you in your movements and touch..
I met this guy a while back.. all he wanted was someone to suck him off regular.. I was like, sign meup.. lol.. anyway i just held his soft cock and squeezed it gently till i felt the pressure back up and jsut pump it's like playing on a awing a little extra push each time and it gets higher. then let it back and bring them down again..

[eager4cum]

I've never been in a situation in an ABS, rest area or other place where the temptation might be to 'get it over with'.

I've only sucked cock in a comfortable setting where there was sufficient time and privacy to allow things to play out as they will. I did blow one guy in the front seat of a car, and he came rather quickly. Wasn't planned that way, at least on my part. He may have wanted a quickie, or maybe I was just doing a really good job! :impleased

So it's hard to quantify it. I would just say, as long as we're both enjoying it! I love having a cock in my mouth and giving pleasure to another man or gurl!

Well said and I agree completely. I just want to enjoy it as much as he does and not be worried about time.

[ohbimale]

I will suck cock as long as it takes to get his sweet cum in my mouth. I have been known to suck cock for up to an hour, alternating between his cock and balls using my mouth, lips, tongue and hands. I like being between a man's legs and I love to suck cock.

[Blowjob & Billie]

The main thing is don't be selfish. Let him enjoy what your doing as much as you enjoy doing it. We he does cum, it will be more enjoyable for both of you.

[eager4cum]

it is much more about how much cum do you get as opposed to how much time.

[CrazyloboTX54]

I love your answer and quite agree. Wish you were closer so we could enjoy one another.