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pagenprincess
Sep 8, 2006, 1:43 PM
I was just wondering when in a relationship is there always on partner more dominate than the other? I like dominace but I also like dominating. Is there a happy medium or just one takes control. There may have been a thread on this and I missed it the only one I came across was the one on if you liked being dominated. I am just curious. :bowdown: . I figured it never hurt to ask.

:devil: Pagen Princess

Reprob8
Sep 8, 2006, 1:56 PM
I was just wondering when in a relationship is there always on partner more dominate than the other? I like dominace but I also like dominating. Is there a happy medium or just one takes control. There may have been a thread on this and I missed it the only one I came across was the one on if you liked being dominated. I am just curious. :bowdown: . I figured it never hurt to ask.

:devil: Pagen Princess

Every relationship is different, we are not into BDSM but at times one of us will take the lead and the other just goes for the ride. I guess for some it depends on what a person needs at the moment.

DiamondDog
Sep 8, 2006, 2:00 PM
you can always be a switch instead of a dom or sub.

Seeker72
Sep 8, 2006, 2:01 PM
My wife and I seem to have the ability to swap without saying a word, I think it depends on the individuals involved.

NightHawk
Sep 9, 2006, 1:27 AM
I like being dominant sometimes, having equal roles at others, and allowing my lover to be dominant at other times. Each case is great. Each adds to the richness of lovemaking.

steve10557
Sep 9, 2006, 1:54 AM
Its nice to run the gamut from dominance to subservience, good relationships are all about the ability to give and take in equal measure. With my partner I am more often dominant as she really enjoys being controlled, but I have to say I prefer equality rather than dom or sub.

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biandu
Sep 9, 2006, 8:20 AM
Question pagen princess

are you referring to D/s..with everyday life functions...

or sex?


big difference.

BI BOYTOY
Sep 9, 2006, 6:41 PM
I was just wondering when in a relationship is there always on partner more dominate than the other? I like dominace but I also like dominating. Is there a happy medium or just one takes control. There may have been a thread on this and I missed it the only one I came across was the one on if you liked being dominated. I am just curious. :bowdown: . I figured it never hurt to ask.

:devil: Pagen Princess
hey princess; hows it going? about your question, yes their is a medium. it is true that every relaitionship is diferent, in mine my wife is the dom. and im sub. to put it lightly. but in a relationship were you have 2 people that like to be both dominated and to dominate . its called switching. :bigrin: it just depends on the people involved. for instance i know of a guy just a freind but he is the dominating type but he also likes the woman to dominate him. that is what he tells me anyway. he he he by the way we know the same person dont be mad. i know him for over 10 years. he is my best freind. it is a small world. :bigrin: if you want to talk about him send me a message on my boytoy site. dont worry its all good.

Avocado
Sep 10, 2006, 7:29 AM
For me it's best that both parties involved have the power of veto. In other words 1 says stop or don't you stop or don't. But also there must be the freedom to pull out slowly, otherwise ouch!

pagenprincess
Sep 10, 2006, 1:28 PM
I really appreciate all the feed back thank you. Maybe I am a Switch but I guess I will have to just try hehehe FUN FUN here I cum. :tong: . I hope my partner and I switch just as easy as it is to write this. Thank you all.

Pagen Princess

There is always time for fun and games just opportunity that you need to find. :female: :male: :female: :male: :female: :male: :female: :male: :female:

pagenprincess
Sep 10, 2006, 1:30 PM
Question pagen princess

are you referring to D/s..with everyday life functions...

or sex?


big difference.

I am refering to all of it hon ;)

Pagen Princess

There is always room for one more :grouphug: