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east919
Dec 23, 2017, 4:35 PM
Is it weird that I'm very much aroused by the thought of giving another man oral pleasure, but in the act of doing it I don't get hard? I enjoy doing it but I'm wondering if I'm forcing myself to do it because I'm into gay porn and wish I was the guys on bottom. I just gave a guy head 2 days ago and I sucked him to completion but I wasn't hard during although I wanted to do it and I had been longing to wrap my lips around a thick juicy dick again. I let him give me a facial and I swallowed all the cum afterwards but never was hard maybe a lil semi-erect. As I masturbated after he left I was rock hard reliving that experience though, am I alone in not being hard while performing oral?

sysper
Dec 23, 2017, 6:25 PM
i can't comment never experianced doing anything with a guy. about all i can say is sexuality is complicated. i'm sure u really enjoyed sucking that guy off. but it just didn't arouse everything like other things might. maybe u were nervous, maybe u weren't into the guy, maybe u were too much into the guy. u will know the best. then again sometimes the fantasy is hotter than the actual act. something i might find out as i love the thought of being with a guy but i've never done it. it's things we gotta keep trying & thinking about that helps us figure out who we are sexually & otherwise. next time that happens maybe u could suggest to the guy he takes care of u someway too! :)

Neonaught
Dec 24, 2017, 5:45 AM
My erection waxes and wanes during an encounter too. A cock ring seems to even it out.

charman
Dec 24, 2017, 6:13 AM
I always get hard.

chiefconsultant63
Dec 24, 2017, 7:05 AM
I rarely get hard when sucking a guy off. I don't think it is a problem. I am so thrilled working that dick I don't have time to think about mine. I feel good all over and every guy I have sucked says he feels great when I am done.

elmwood7
Dec 24, 2017, 8:11 AM
Sometimes I do get hard and sometimes I don't but it's never been a problem.

monaohio
Dec 24, 2017, 9:50 AM
i don't get hard also either with me sucking or him in my ass my cock still cums like a pussy either way without me touching or playing with it

cuttin2dachase
Dec 24, 2017, 10:46 PM
I always got hard sucking a nice hard dick, but I never came while getting a guy off because he was going to suck me off afterwards. That may have been the reason I got so hard sucking a cock. I've seen both ends with men who sucked me off. I had one semiregular FWB who would cum when I began to cum in his mouth. I'd moan and twitch and jerk as he sucked me dry and it felt like several mini-orgasms after my big orgasm. That combination of him and I cumming incontrollably at the same time was very hot. At the other end I've been with several cocksuckers who did not want to cum. One said he loved pull out his dick and jerk off while driving home to wifey. Another said he liked to get home to wifey with my cum on his breath and jack off in the bathroom before gargling and brushing his teeth. Another said he could only cum when he was fucking his wife and imagining he was sucking a cock.

69plus1
Dec 25, 2017, 2:02 PM
Don't worry unless you can't get hard when HE is sucking you!

east919
Dec 25, 2017, 9:10 PM
I always got hard sucking a nice hard dick, but I never came while getting a guy off because he was going to suck me off afterwards. That may have been the reason I got so hard sucking a cock.

So you were hard anticipating being sucked off after you finished him? That could be a factor for me seeing how our encounters (Only 2 so far) have been focused on getting him off. I kind of think I would feel differently about him if he were to want to get me off. Idk it’s like I don’t mind getting off with other guys but I want to be this guys strict bottom I guess lol

bw299
Dec 26, 2017, 4:20 PM
I have been both; sometimes not hard and sometimes hard as a rock. In fact, I once came without being touched just from sucking a cock; a shemale. It was my fantasy and drove me over the edge. But it depends mostly on the guy and my mood, I guess.

mac_46_46
Dec 27, 2017, 7:52 AM
My cock is always hard when I suck another man's cock.

Waylon
Dec 27, 2017, 10:22 AM
When I'm giving head, I am more focused on the pleasure I give him and the pleasure I get by sucking than think about getting aroused. There's always time for that when I am getting serviced.

Odge1
Dec 29, 2017, 3:57 PM
I was giving my new friend head. He was complimenting me on how good it felt. I started getting hard. He started ducking my face and he came hard. He shot his hot load down my throat. He tasted sweet. He told me he had a second load. I kept sucking him. He was moaning and groaning so much I started getting rock hard. I could feel the precum leaking from my cock. Suddenly I started shooting my load. He was about to cum again when he told me he was going to suck me. I told him that I just let go of my load then he gave me his second load. It was so hot.

ncbymail
Jan 4, 2018, 12:01 PM
I don't usually get hard when I'm sucking. I think I'm more into the dick and the cum I'm waiting on.

12voltyV2.0
Jan 4, 2018, 12:05 PM
Sometimes I do get hard and sometimes I don't but it's never been a problem.

Same here.....