Head swap advice

[Kuriouskock]

I'm fairly new to this scene. I got my first bj from a man about 2 months age Then I sucked my first cock about a month ago. So at this point swapping head all I have done and probably all I'll do since I have a wife those ass I can play with. My question is this. When I'm swapping head with someone I do everything I can to cum last because when I cum my desire for cock drops off a 300 ft. cliff. How do you guys deal with this?

[sysper]

don't know if this will help.........when i 1st started to become curious about guys i would jet so horny i would have to j/o. after cumming i lost all interest for months. alot of guilt & shame too. each time i thought it would be the last. but the urge allways came back. the time between has grown much shorter, like minutes now :) can't say anymore cause i've never done anything with a guy. maybe it's just gonna take time & experiances for u to accept this part of urself. not saying ur feeling guilty & ashamed just lost interest that's all. i still feel a little guilty sometimes but at this point in my life, i have allowed myself to be more open. still working on it!

[Fzmr9t]

I'm fairly new to this scene. I got my first bj from a man about 2 months age Then I sucked my first cock about a month ago. So at this point swapping head all I have done and probably all I'll do since I have a wife those ass I can play with. My question is this. When I'm swapping head with someone I do everything I can to cum last because when I cum my desire for cock drops off a 300 ft. cliff. How do you guys deal with this?


I dont have have to cum to enjoy being with a man and give him pleasure. Then again, I’ve been at this awhile longer than you.

[Shelby57]

Is there anything wrong with them cumming first?
Just let them know and I don't think they will have a problem cumming first. As with any intimate relationship, communication is key.

[cfr50s]

If you lost the urge that is quite normal. I will tell you how I got over that lost interest. I am always ready but after I cum I wouldn't be interested. I had a friend fuck my wife and cum in her and then I ate her pussy and his cum. Then I fucked her and he ate her. I asked him about how his interest wasn't lost after he shot his load. His answer was quite simple. It is like everything else in this world, you need to practice and get used to it. After a few times he and I began blowing each other and all three of us enjoyed it. Take your time and get used to it.

[Christopher South]

That's pretty normal. I used to meet up with one guy who once he came, he was done. He had no interest in doing anything else and I'd jerk off to get myself off. I didn't mind it too much since I enjoyed getting him off.

On the other hand, I have no problem cumming and then taking care of my partner. I can't go again but I'm still interested in getting him off.

[lancer525]

If you lost the urge that is quite normal. I will tell you how I got over that lost interest. I am always ready but after I cum I wouldn't be interested. I had a friend fuck my wife and cum in her and then I ate her pussy and his cum. Then I fucked her and he ate her. I asked him about how his interest wasn't lost after he shot his load. His answer was quite simple. It is like everything else in this world, you need to practice and get used to it. After a few times he and I began blowing each other and all three of us enjoyed it. Take your time and get used to it.

Awesome advice!

[chiefconsultant63]

As others have said, it is fairly normal and happens to me too. Ask the guy first he may not care. I know I want his dick so I just go ahead and ignore my waning interest. As I work him I start gain interest againl

[cuttin2dachase]

When I used to love sucking cock, I always sought men who had a mutual desire to suck my cock. It didn't always work out that way. I was very eager to suck them first to show them I was serious about pleasing them. Some of them got dressed after I sucked them off and left without even touching my dick. I was a bit disappointed at not getting my dick sucked, but like other posters have said, I could jack off afterwards while cum was still dripping from my lips and face. I never once had a man suck me off first without sucking him off afterwards, except for the men who wanted to blow me with no recip.

[Odge1]

I used to lose interest after I shot my load. I decided to let my partner start sucking me but would stop before I shot my load. I would trade off and suck them off to completion. I would swallow every drop of cum then let them finish me off.