Never had a straight answer on this...

[j_harles]

In high school, I jacked off w a friend of mine (like a lot of other dudes have) and have since been infatuated with that where as most probably had one experience.

HOWEVER (and no offense to anyone seriously), the thougt of being affectionate or romantic or anything of the sort with another male turns my stomach...guys bodys dont turn me on etc. I do like exchanging handjobs while havin a few drinks and watching porn though.

Is this normal? Is it a "bisexual" activity?

[ScifiBiJen]

Yes, this is a completely normal facet of life and of bisexuality.
Attraction to either sex (straight, gay, bi.... for anyone) doesn't necesarily mean that you want every possible kind of interaction with them. Attraction comes in many different forms:
Romantic (you wanna pick out curtains and go for moonlit walks)
Physical (attraction to their bodies)
Sexual (enjoying the sex acts themselves)
Relational (you love being around them and having discussions)
...probably more I'm not thinking of at the moment...
and any one of those is just as valid as the others.

You don't need to feel all of them equally to both sexes in order to be bisexual.
And also, just because you feel a certain way doesn't require you to get "bisexual" stamped across your forehead. Describe yourself however you want, or simply don't label yourself at all... labels are in no way a necessary part of life.
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[showmeguy]

LOL. i am amused by the prospect of a straight answer to a bisexual question.

[Reprob8]

LOL. i am amused by the prospect of a straight answer to a bisexual question.

picture driving directions, you can't say go straight it's proceed gayly forward.

[Rhuth]

:bounce: *applause for SciFiBiJen* :bounce:
Nicely put! I tried to say the same thing in another post (http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?p=28382#post28382) and included a link for the guys, but she phrased it better than the medical advice in the link!

*giggles at showmeguy* I didn't make that connection 'till ya pointed it out.

/Rhuth

[Tynary]

Lots of straight guys jack off together. Never really knew why they did that unless they were attracted to men but hey thats just me. Just cause you like doing that and getting the odd hand job off a guy does't make you bi or gay. There are different levels of being bisexual yes but without any romantic feelings or any physical attraction it doesn't sound bisexual cause I know straight guys like that. Its normal, hetero sexual behaviour i think but who can say whats normal. You sound just normal and sexual to me. I think you should relax and not worry about it.

[joxbear69]

how would you feel if your j.o. buddy decided he wanted to blow you?

don't get stuck on the labels (gay, straight, bi)--if you want to be sexual and enjoy the company you are with (male, female, both, etc), then just enjoy it!

Some people are looking for love, some for romance, and some for just good fun/sexual release. I have a buddy I hook up with on occasion in another town when I travel for work---he's openly gay, I am discreetly bi and married; we enjoy ourselves physically and sexually when we are together (not to mention intellectually because we also have some other interests in common). I am not into lots of kissing and cuddling--it's just not my thing; but we still have an attraction to one another (at least I hope we do, as we have had some awesome times together!)

Enjoy life!

[JrzGuy3]

I have no doubts that physical sexual activity can't happen in the course of heterosexual male bonding. Though in the same breath, I think there are many, many bisexuals who "don't feel" desire to be romantically involved with men due to internalized homo/biphobia or subconsious fears of having to live outed 24/7 and all the difficulties that come along with it.

[bibottom30064]

Or possibly bisexual guys see m/m activity as part of theis sexual nature, not at all connected to romance or "love". I never participated in common circle jerks with my male teen buddies because i was getting steady sex with girls from the age of 14.

I was 25 when introduced to the joy of m/m sex. :devil: