Is it more than just a blow-job?

[indenver_indenver]

I’ve had a married “straight” partner for about 6 years. It started as my giving him head then off he went
to work. As time went on he admitted that he got off on being my dom as much as the tactile feel of my
sucking his cock. And I got off more and more on feeling owned by his cock - on being his cock-slave.


More and more he got off thinking about my swallowing his load and having his protein become a part of
me. We definitely are not gay. We don’t kiss or anything else like that. We are good friends but there is
some very real depth to our male/male sex. It isn’t just a blow-job. He really gets off on my swallowing
his cum and its implied bond and how much he thrills to have his cock buried in my throat.


Any other bi-guys have similar relationships with their male partner? Believe me, the further we go the
more intense the eroticism becomes.

[pole_smoker]

I’ve had a married “straight” partner for about 6 years. It started as my giving him head then off he went
to work. As time went on he admitted that he got off on being my dom as much as the tactile feel of my
sucking his cock. And I got off more and more on feeling owned by his cock - on being his cock-slave.


More and more he got off thinking about my swallowing his load and having his protein become a part of
me. We definitely are not gay. We don’t kiss or anything else like that. We are good friends but there is
some very real depth to our male/male sex. It isn’t just a blow-job. He really gets off on my swallowing
his cum and its implied bond and how much he thrills to have his cock buried in my throat.


Any other bi-guys have similar relationships with their male partner? Believe me, the further we go the
more intense the eroticism becomes.
You are just kidding yourself if you actually believe that this is not just a blowjob or hook up between you and your deeply closeted coward fuck buddy. You both are homophobic and biphobic but that's not surprising. ;) :rolleyes:

[cornholejoe]

old pole just has put in his 2 cents

[johnnyeasy]

First of all.....don't worry about what other people think. YOU are responsible for your OWN happiness.......ergo, if you are okay with it.....and your partner is okay with it.....then ENJOY yourselves! Life is too short to worry about it! If you two are also seeing women, so be it. If not, so be it. If you two want to call this a deep friendship.....works for me! ENJOY yourselves!

[sysper]

johnny that sounds good makes sense good attitude.......u sound pretty good too :)

[larrywilldo]

You are just kidding yourself if you actually believe that this is not just a blowjob or hook up between you and your deeply closeted coward fuck buddy. You both are homophobic and biphobic but that's not surprising. ;) :rolleyes:

I would like to just kick your judgemental ass. I really would.

[elmwood7]

Many would Larry.

[csreef]

I would like to just kick your judgemental ass. I really would.

If I cold sell tickets to that event, I'd become a Multi - Millionaire overnight !

[softheart]

It depends on whether or not you two are happy. Most of my relationships started as us being equals pretty much, then over time I was in panties and negligees and giving blowjobs and getting fucked 90% of the time. The dominant partners ends up calling the tune because if you are a submissive or on the feminine side, you are busy trying to satisfy him first and yourself second.

[kerisanders3]

i seek this secretly. a man that wants to take our relation a bit deeper than a hook up once in a while. more emotions to come into play so the sexual play is more intense and meaningful.

[SilkyHoseLover]

Most of my relationships started as us being equals pretty much, then over time I was in panties and negligees and giving blowjobs and getting fucked 90% of the time. The dominant partners ends up calling the tune because if you are a submissive or on the feminine side, you are busy trying to satisfy him first and yourself second.Interestingly, that's the way I want it -- dressed in silky lingerie, giving blowjobs and getting fucked! It has to do with my feeling feminine, not necessarily submissive. I do want to satisfy my partner, but my satisfaction is equally important!

But to address the original question, with me and anyone I play with, it's strictly recreational. I greet my friend with a handshake, then turn into the most sensual gurl I can be during playtime. When we're done, it was fun and we shake hands and wish each other well until the next time, if it is to be. No emotional attachment, no real 'bond'. Just adult pleasures. I do prefer that we be casual friends -- no blow & goes for me -- but I'm not looking for a new best friend...

[jem_is_bi]

With my present partner it started with a random hook up mutual blow job. That was 12 years ago. Now, we care about each other very much.

[csreef]

I don't think anyone is able to have sex with another person, on a regular basis, AND NOT become emotionally attached, or develop some very strong feelings towards that person....

"Believe me, the further we go the
more intense the eroticism becomes."

[trottian]

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[fresh6869]

I've had a regular fwb now for 12 years. Started as a kind of nervous mutual Jo session and has evolved into a great friendship. The sex is so much better when there is some emotion involved. Can't wait to see him tonight!

[Fzmr9t]

i had a couple of guys who were FWBs for a short period of time, and while it was still at the 'just sex' stage in both cases, seeing them on a regular basis made it seem just a bit more intimate and special

[cornholejoe]

about 5 years ago i had a man who would come to my house and suck me off and sometimes i would fuck his ass it was just sex he got what he wanted and i got what i wanted so what is the big deal some guys just want sex nothing more:tongue:

[whistle1]

I would concur with csreef in that it is not surprising that people engaged in intimate activities would not develop emotional attachments over time - despite their stated intentions...

[pole_smoker]

I don't think anyone is able to have sex with another person, on a regular basis, AND NOT become emotionally attached, or develop some very strong feelings towards that person....

"Believe me, the further we go the
more intense the eroticism becomes."

Actually that's not true. Prostitutes/people in porn/strippers (99% of all people, who do porn or are strippers are whores on the side as they make more money this way than from porn videos or stripping), and people into NSA sex or hook ups or who have fuck buddies have "just sex" all the time, and don't become emotionally attached to that person.


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[cuttin2dachase]

I've never felt love with a man or for a man emotionally, but I do sometimes meet men to whom I feel a very mutual and powerful romantic and sexual attraction. I get the same feeling I got when I was a teen and I had a big crush on a girl. I get the same feeling as when I had great sex with a woman on a 1st date and couldn't wait to have them in my bed again. That's a nice, nice feeling to have for a woman or another man ! But the lovebuck stops there. I enjoy that feeling when I'm with a man or woman I click with. I live alone and am independent and have no desire to be tied to or exclusive with any man or woman. It keeps things fresh and hot sexually and romantically when there is no drama or any obligation to a lover. I just want the remainder of my life to be simple and uncomplicated and non-stressful.

[boriley]

The relationship I long for, I envy your position indenver_indenver.

[lucky.cucky]

I don't think anyone is able to have sex with another person, on a regular basis, AND NOT become emotionally attached, or develop some very strong feelings towards that person....

"Believe me, the further we go the
more intense the eroticism becomes."

I agree with you csreef. Since this is a Bisexual site, I mention that it is different for men and women. I recently did some research on this matter and found out about how women process sex: It turns out there is a biological reason for greater feelings of attachment and commitment in women after sex. The hormone oxytocin is released during sex and orgasm and women’s hormone estrogen seems to greatly increase the bonding effects of oxytocin. That’s why a wife will feel more attached after sex with a lover than men do.

[sysper]

I agree with you csreef. Since this is a Bisexual site, I mention that it is different for men and women. I recently did some research on this matter and found out about how women process sex: It turns out there is a biological reason for greater feelings of attachment and commitment in women after sex. The hormone oxytocin is released during sex and orgasm and women’s hormone estrogen seems to greatly increase the bonding effects of oxytocin. That’s why a wife will feel more attached after sex with a lover than men do.
i wonder if it would be any different if the women was with another women not a man?