Have you ever met someone that just didn't do it for you?

[Tuffnuggies]

Many of us know the drill if you're met someone online. Conversation gets heated, you're hard as a rock, leaking precum and just can't wait to get naked with them. Then, you get to their place and BOOM! They're nothing like what you pictured, or their house is a pig pen..
Do you follow through to save face? Or turn tail and run?
How many of you has this happened to?
Met one person myself that by far was not a turn on, so I had to use the fake phone call excuse to bail.

[sysper]

kinda happened to me........replied to a craigslist add which was actually real lol.........he replied & sounded like a cool guy, understanding etc. then he sent pix. not bad looking not ugly at all but too old for me, plus he reminded me of someone who might be related to me like uncle. it would just be too weird. too bad he sounds like a real cool guy. but i think he's doing good meeting other guys :) but it helped me realize i'm not into older guys. the attraction is just not there.

[cornholejoe]

thats why i allways meet in a public place first for coffee or a beer first if its someone i meet on a site have met a few guys had that drink and moved on just did not appeal to me

[Realist]

Yep, you can't make yourself be attracted, if you're not. And you can't feel the same way as someone else may feel.

I broke up with a FWB last month, after over two years. A mutual friend thought I was crazy! He thought I should be kissing the ground the guy walked on!

I told him, he was welcome to help himself! No word, yet, how that worked out!

[bw299]

Agree with all of you. I don't do the pic swap thing. Discretion dictates that I protect my my identity. I tell others that when we we meet, if we we don't click we can just go our separate ways....no harm no foul. There has been a few that we we went our separate ways.

[csreef]

This has happened to me numerous times. All I can say is, Thank God I did't get involved with that person !

I may have lost a little time in meeting this person, and maybe a few dollars for coffee, but that is a small price to pay for having Peace in my life!

[NakedInSeattle]

Of course! Not everyone is attracted to or by everyone. It's bound to happen. Just be honest and say it ain't gonna work.

[cuttin2dachase]

Physical attractiveness is secondary to me. I chat with and vet almost every man before I meet them for sex. What attracts me to a man the most is how he comes across to me personality-wise. If I get a warm, open, easygoing vibe from a man and he's polite and patient, I will find him interesting and probably want to meet him. I am ultra cautious and discreet and do not ask for or send face pics. I like to see body/cock pics of prospective partners and have no problem providing pics of my body and cock. Most of the men I meet are married and have profiles and pics on various mm sites, as do I, so there's usually no need for a pic exchange. Most men I meet for sex are average to good looking, but some aren't all that physically attractive. It doesn't matter to me as long as he's genuine, honest, easygoing and hot to play. However I do admit that if a man is good looking or VERY good looking, it is a pleasant bonus on top of the sex and I'll be more likely to want to meet him again. Upon meeting a man face-to-face, unless he turns out to be very obese, or unclean/unhygienic, I'm gonna be good to go when we meet. I'm only looking for sex and a possible FWB, not love or a relationship. If I were capable of emotional love with men and looking for serious relationships with men, I probably would be more picky and selective as to their overall physical appearance. But since it's all about the sex for me, I don't have the same hopes and expectations as men who are looking for more than sex.

I meet some men for a drink at a nearby sports bar first if that is their preference. But if I am comfortable enough to want to meet a man in the first place, I have no hesitation in inviting him directly to my apartment. I have not ever turned away a man who's showed up as planned, although I have been disappointed a few times that a guy was much less than what he projected himself as being, either physically, personality-wise. I still took one for the team, so to speak LOL.

[borntosuckcock]

It's happened hundreds of times and I always say something like, I don't think we are a good match and wish them the best of luck. Most of the time they seem to understand, but sometimes they take it personally, which just confirms my opinion. I trust my senses.

[SilkyHoseLover]

When my wife and I were involved in swinging, we ALWAYS met for coffee or dinner for a face-to-face with prospective couples. There were times when none of us felt the connection, and a time or two where some did and some didn't.

Now that I'm in the market for a male FWB, I intend to employ the same technique. I've replied to a few craigslist ads, and had terrible luck with responses. Some don't respond at all, despite the fact that I am exactly what the person was advertising for, write a well-crafted, candid and honest description of myself and include body/cock photos. Yes, I'm older, which automatically disqualifies me with some, and that's ok -- I have my preferences, too. But I get extremely frustrated with these assholes who can't bother to write back with so much as a 'Thanks for answering my ad -- you're not quite what I'm looking for.' I can handle a polite rejection with grace.I had two big frustrations over the weekend. I exchanged a couple of emails with one guy, who really liked my pics, and insisted that he was very interested. I sent him a couple more pics, requested a picture in return, and asked if he was ready to consider setting up a meeting. He didn't reply for 3 days, and when he did, it was exactly one word: 'Hello'. I was pretty pissed. It was if he wanted to rekindle the conversation, with him expecting me to write my ass off and send more pictures. Bullshit!

Another guy sounded both interesting and interested in me. Just as in the first case, I wrote a nice descriptive piece about myself and what I enjoy, and several pictures, ranging from modest to explicit. He loved the pictures and my stories, but provided very little detail about himself, despite the fact that I hinted at, and then outright asked a few simple questions that he didn't bother to answer. He did want to meet. At his house. And this was a guy whose craigslist ad had said 'Let's meet for coffee and see where it goes'. That's perfect -- but I ain't meeting at YOUR HOUSE for the first face-to-face...

As for attraction, I'm not attracted to men, period. When I'm out & about, I see guys my own age and think, 'How in the Hell can you possibly be interested in playing with another man? These guys are hideous trolls!' But it's totally a different situation when you sit down and talk, finding out what you have in common, at least, from a sexual standpoint. Nice when you have other things in common with them, too. I've had various experiences with one guy, who was initially a playmate with both my wife and myself. He's a truly nice guy, one I can talk with on other subjects, too. He's just like me, in a way -- candid, open and honest, ready and willing to talk about sex just as free as can be. And when the clothes come off, we have tremendous fun!

[sysper]

u have about as much luck with craigslist as me lol. they rarely respond for me, when they do it's usually a few words that's it. would be nice if those who were not interested would reply & say so. i allways do. i'm also not attracted to guys out in public, don't drool after them like i do with girls but yet i long to have sex with a guy & not just use his cock but the whole guy. also foreplay, kissing etc. still trying to figure that out. but maybe it's like u said, when u get to know a guy & open up to each other things change.