Married

[Havasmoke]

If you are married, how do you feel when you get home after a rendezvous with a man. Horny? Ashamed? Guilty? Fine?

[mr_peabody69@yahoo.c]

Usually very relaxed

[cuttin2dachase]

I've never felt shame or guilt, just excitement and satisfaction. It makes me want more sex with men as soon as I can get it again !

[Havasmoke]

So, it's basically don't ask and don't tell with your wife?

[Kylookin4fun]

Im excited having sex with a guy gets me satisfied no guilt because it wax a guy

[a2smith09]

Mostly I feel very happy, very satisfied, and very relaxed. I really enjoy having sexy with another man. Early on the first several years after our marriage I did feel guilty and ashamed. However as I grew more comfortable and understanding of my bisexuality those negative feeling abated.

[borntosuckcock]

I feel satisfied and relaxed. Usually my craving has been building and it's a release to suck and swallow. I usually like to jerk off after sucking a guy and swallowing his cum, then I get a second load to swallow. Think my mood is much better, my wife has said, you seem to be in a good mood. At 68, she lost interest in sex 20 years ago, but I've always been Bi since I was a kid.

[LeeNorCal]

I feel satisfied and relaxed...
Ditto to what Borntosuckcock said. I'm usually in a great mood but somewhat exhausted (if all went as expected...LOL.) If I've spent a few hours with a MF couple I get together with a few times a year, it takes me a few days to recover from all the things she does to us guys. But I'm definitely grinning for those few days!

[JimmieG]

i feel real horny and want to fuck my spouse but am afraid she'll smell sex on me from my previous encouter

[SilkyHoseLover]

If you are married, how do you feel when you get home after a rendezvous with a man. Horny? Ashamed? Guilty? Fine?

If I were doing it behind her back, I would feel ashamed and guilty. I would not be ashamed that I was with a man, but that I was doing it without my wife's knowledge and consent. That's cheating, and she's a wonderful wife who deserves my fidelity.

So, anticipating my first 'allowed' sexual rendezvous with a man, when I return home, I won't feel ashamed at all, but probably a little guilty. Guilty, because my wife wasn't involved, even though she would choose not to be and not begrudge my activity. But this isn't what she 'signed up for' when we married. I had no clue that I would eventually seek to have sex with another man. Because sharing myself with another man is, in a way, taking away from her, I'd have some pangs of guilt. Hopefully, they won't be too strong when it happens.

At my age, I'm sure I'd be sexually satisfied at the conclusion of the liaison -- so doubt I'd be horny. (at least, until sometime later, when thinking about the encounter...)

Hoping that I can just feel 'fine' about it, when all is said and done.

[terri]

My first time i meet with another guy, i sucked his cock and he was so right when he said that he was a big cummer. i tried to swallow but he kept on cuming…..it got all over my face and down on my shirt. when i got home, my wife was there to greet me with a big hug and a deep soul kiss. she knew where i had been and after i got home she could see it , smell it and even taste it… "Did you have a fun time, Cock sucker ?" she said to me.

[HaroldSaxon]

It makes me happy and she gets the benefit of my being in a good mood.

[Waylon]

Years ago when I began giving blowjobs to certain men, I'll admit there were initial feelings of shame and a little guilt but those concerns went away very quickly after I became quite good at the act and knew that I absolutely enjoyed doing it.

[julyguybill]

used to feel guilty but now feel relaxed and fulfilled but if she found out I love giving blow jobs it would be divorce

[csreef]

I dated a gal who knew, and was ok with me being Bisexual...She said "I'll give you so much sex, you'll never even want to look at a man, again"...WRONG...

Every once in a while, I'd drive to to a gay bar and get a Blow Job (or two). She would say " I called your cell, and you didn't pick up...Where were you???"

Did I feel Guilty...NO.

Did I feel sexually satisfied, and balanced, YES !

[Tungtwat]

I also get a craving to suck cock . Even before I was married I had several men That I could go to to satisfy this urge. And somrtimes one was not enough.

[DMercator]

I don't play often, but when I do I feel pretty OK with it. It's been 4 years since my wife and I even saw each other naked, much less had sex. I have no desire to tell her and she has no desire to know. So, I don't feel guilty. Don't have second thoughts. Mostly I enjoyed the moment and then go home and enjoy my family and home life. Two separate worlds meeting two separate needs.

[Christopher South]

I'll be honest and say I feel somewhat guilty. I don't like doing anything behind my wife's back. I'd much prefer the kind of open relationship that some of you guys have.

But I have to say that if I wasn't meeting with a guy, my frustration level over the lack of sexual intimacy with my wife would be through the roof. She does not even try to meet my sexual needs and when they aren't met, most everything else in the relationship suffers. But when I do get my needs met, albeit outside the marriage, things are better within the marriage.

I think I'm in a "don't ask, don't tell" situation and right now everything seems to be at a level calm, which is good.

[Jerrykerry]

How cool was that does she ever watch

[a2smith09]

I'll be honest and say I feel somewhat guilty. I don't like doing anything behind my wife's back. I'd much prefer the kind of open relationship that some of you guys have.

But I have to say that if I wasn't meeting with a guy, my frustration level over the lack of sexual intimacy with my wife would be through the roof. She does not even try to meet my sexual needs and when they aren't met, most everything else in the relationship suffers. But when I do get my needs met, albeit outside the marriage, things are better within the marriage.

I think I'm in a "don't ask, don't tell" situation and right now everything seems to be at a level calm, which is good.

That sounds very reasonable.

[jackbirdjay]

Wife and I haven't had sex in years. At first I did feel guilty but as time went on her lack of interest in sex I feel no guilt at all now. If she dose know something she never brings it up

[Go fore it]

Wife & i play together for the most part so always Cheerfullllll :-)

[elmwood7]

My wife knows so it's all good.

[Havasmoke]

re Christopher South: I find your reply interesting in that you need to go outside your marriage to get your needs met. My question is why do you seek sexual gratification from men rather than women?

[chub-bi]

re Christopher South: I find your reply interesting in that you need to go outside your marriage to get your needs met. My question is why do you seek sexual gratification from men rather than women?

Not trying to put words in Christopher Souths mouth but I am married in s situation very similar to his. I search out men instead of women for 2 reasons. First off I find it a lot easier to have feelings for women that I have sex with. Since I've been married there have been 2 women I've met that I've wanted to have a relationship with but despite the no sexual aspect of my marriage, I took my vows and promised before God to stay with her.
Second although I like cock and get excited seeing feeling and sucking one, I've never met a man I wanted to pick curtains out at Bed Bath and Beyond with.
In a present friendship with a guy who's relationship with his wife is very similar to mine, we meet talk for about 10 -15 minutes
take turns sucking each other off. Then we bullshit about sports or politics for a 1/2 hour or so slide into a 69 position and suck each other's cocks again. After we bust, we get dressed kiss each other and 2-3 weeks later repeat.
I can't do that with a woman, I find myself wondering what she is doing and coming up with plans to see her again. I guess I'm just a romantic at heart.

[Havasmoke]

I think that's a great explanation. By being with a guy, do you feel like you're not breaking your marriage vows? Don't you think your wife would be less upset with you if she found out you were having an affair with a woman versus a man?


Not trying to put words in Christopher Souths mouth but I am married in s situation very similar to his. I search out men instead of women for 2 reasons. First off I find it a lot easier to have feelings for women that I have sex with. Since I've been married there have been 2 women I've met that I've wanted to have a relationship with but despite the no sexual aspect of my marriage, I took my vows and promised before God to stay with her.
Second although I like cock and get excited seeing feeling and sucking one, I've never met a man I wanted to pick curtains out at Bed Bath and Beyond with.
In a present friendship with a guy who's relationship with his wife is very similar to mine, we meet talk for about 10 -15 minutes
take turns sucking each other off. Then we bullshit about sports or politics for a 1/2 hour or so slide into a 69 position and suck each other's cocks again. After we bust, we get dressed kiss each other and 2-3 weeks later repeat.
I can't do that with a woman, I find myself wondering what she is doing and coming up with plans to see her again. I guess I'm just a romantic at heart.

[monaohio]

I feel horny wanting more cock if I was not married I have a red light on all the time in or outside my home

[chub-bi]

I think that's a great explanation. By being with a guy, do you feel like you're not breaking your marriage vows? Don't you think your wife would be less upset with you if she found out you were having an affair with a woman versus a man?

Im probably fucked either way but I really like the way married guys make the most of time spent together.
maybe i'm deluding myself but I feel guys just want to get off and don't want drama.
If I could find a married woman nearby that just wanted to get off and go home I would do that in a heartbeat but at my age it like searching for a needle in a haystack.
When I was single I slept with several married women and it always seemed to wind up with them showing up on my doorstep at the most inconvenient time. Maybe younger women today are different but women around my age seem to want something more permanent.

[Christopher South]

I think chub-bi pretty much answered the question for me. I will add that I actually did look into finding a girlfriend but didn't for two reasons. First, no woman wants a middle-aged, married guy as a fuck buddy that hits and runs. Second, I had years of hetero-sex activity but no gay sex activity until this started so it was an opportunity to explore. Finally, finding a guy is much easier.

To answer Havasmoke's question, I still feel I'm breaking my marriage vows. One can argue that my wife broke hers first but it doesn't make it right. I consider this cheating.

As for her being more upset, she was more upset that (a) I cheated and (b) I never told her I was bisexual. The fact I cheated with a guy wasn't really an issue. She was brought up in a very liberal family that was very accepting to the LGBT community.

[chub-bi]

I think chub-bi pretty much answered the question for me. I will add that I actually did look into finding a girlfriend but didn't for two reasons. First, no woman wants a middle-aged, married guy as a fuck buddy that hits and runs. Second, I had years of hetero-sex activity but no gay sex activity until this started so it was an opportunity to explore. Finally, finding a guy is much easier.

To answer Havasmoke's question, I still feel I'm breaking my marriage vows. One can argue that my wife broke hers first but it doesn't make it right. I consider this cheating.

As for her being more upset, she was more upset that (a) I cheated and (b) I never told her I was bisexual. The fact I cheated with a guy wasn't really an issue. She was brought up in a very liberal family that was very accepting to the LGBT community.

Hey Christopher South, you sound perfect too bad we are geographically ugly lol.

[abc123jd]

I just did this today early morning. My wife knows have her blessing since medically her sex drive has dropped to zero over the past 2 years. I have fucked a woman gad 3 guys suck me I have sucked 1. But my wife and I were talking about it and actually a few hours a go, she is far less threatened by men than competing with another woman.

[Havasmoke]

Interesting that she's less threatened by the guys. I guess the woman would have to be pretty open minded to not think of her husband as gay after she heard he had been with another man.


I just did this today early morning. My wife knows have her blessing since medically her sex drive has dropped to zero over the past 2 years. I have fucked a woman gad 3 guys suck me I have sucked 1. But my wife and I were talking about it and actually a few hours a go, she is far less threatened by men than competing with another woman.

[SecretlyNaughty]

If I were doing it behind her back, I would feel ashamed and guilty. I would not be ashamed that I was with a man, but that I was doing it without my wife's knowledge and consent. That's cheating, and she's a wonderful wife who deserves my fidelity.

So, anticipating my first 'allowed' sexual rendezvous with a man, when I return home, I won't feel ashamed at all, but probably a little guilty. Guilty, because my wife wasn't involved, even though she would choose not to be and not begrudge my activity. But this isn't what she 'signed up for' when we married. I had no clue that I would eventually seek to have sex with another man. Because sharing myself with another man is, in a way, taking away from her, I'd have some pangs of guilt. Hopefully, they won't be too strong when it happens.

At my age, I'm sure I'd be sexually satisfied at the conclusion of the liaison -- so doubt I'd be horny. (at least, until sometime later, when thinking about the encounter...)

Hoping that I can just feel 'fine' about it, when all is said and done.

BEAUTIFUL and BRAVO!!!!!!!!!!
Cheating is cheating if you are doing it without your spouses knowledge or consent. Doesn't matter if it's guy/guy or girl/girl. My Husband would let me do a guy or another chick if I wanted to on my own. Our third comes over every week or two and we spend the day together playing. I tell my Husband about it and it gets him extremely hot. I'd never go play with someone without letting him know what I was going to do and I am pretty sure he'd extend the same courtesy to me as this is our agreement.

As someone that had been cheated on several times through previous relationships (I have never EVER EVER with held sex), it's hurtful no matter what and does nothing but causes divide and long term emotional damage for the one that was cheated on. It's cruel and mean. If you can't be honest with your sig. other, you are with the wrong person. Sneaking around is wrong and you clearly know it because ........... you are sneaking.

[OlderBC1]

My heart agrees completely. But well, some things come from a bit further south. Those can be a dilemma...or, as I was told by an older, ex-hell's angel once," A stiff dick has no conscience"...

[SilkyHoseLover]

Thank you for your comment, SecretlyNaughty.

You and your husband, and my wife and I, are all very fortunate to have similar thoughts in this area. We understand the desires and needs of each other and take care to emphasize and honor the bond that was created when we said our wedding vows. We have reached out to others to share physical pleasures within the context of a strong continuing commitment to one another and, above all, value trust and honesty to ensure that there are no hurt feelings or turmoil that arises as a result of this activity. Everything needs to be above-board, and agreed-to in advance of anything that deviates from what you normally do together.

This past weekend, I enjoyed the company of another man, with the full knowledge and approval of my loving wife. I told her of the initial meeting the day before, and kissed her on the way out the door when I left for playtime the following day. And I brought coffee home for her when we finished.

It did feel a little strange going downstairs when I got home, but it went smoothly. She asked if I had a good time and commented that I wasn't gone for very long. I replied that, 'Well, it doesn't take all that long, you know.' And she said, 'Yeah, but I know you like to take your time.'

I do like to prolong the pleasure, but somehow being away for a long session the first time with a man while your wife is at home, doesn't seem right...

[OlderBC1]

Silky, I have to say, that was beautiful, man. I'm the same way with Sharon. I want some dick & ass, but we were among the last to still have the " love, honor & obey" clause in our vows to each other. I love her so much, it hurts when she abuses me in the typical female fashion. Past menopause, she has no drive left...or so she acts like? Read the stories I post, & check out Marie's behavior. That's something of Sharon that I know is there, lurking under the surface, waiting to be brought out..in the right way. I've never cheated, although when she left me once, she did, Cried her broken heart out to me about it. So it's only a matter of situational differences making things happen. Idk what to do sometimes?

[carolinabi]

If I were doing it behind her back, I would feel ashamed and guilty. I would not be ashamed that I was with a man, but that I was doing it without my wife's knowledge and consent. That's cheating, and she's a wonderful wife who deserves my fidelity.

this^^



I'll be honest and say I feel somewhat guilty. I don't like doing anything behind my wife's back. I'd much prefer the kind of open relationship that some of you guys have.

But I have to say that if I wasn't meeting with a guy, my frustration level over the lack of sexual intimacy with my wife would be through the roof. She does not even try to meet my sexual needs and when they aren't met, most everything else in the relationship suffers. But when I do get my needs met, albeit outside the marriage, things are better within the marriage.

I think I'm in a "don't ask, don't tell" situation and right now everything seems to be at a level calm, which is good.

great, blame your infidelity on your wife, whatever helps you sleep at night...


BEAUTIFUL and BRAVO!!!!!!!!!!
Cheating is cheating if you are doing it without your spouses knowledge or consent. Doesn't matter if it's guy/guy or girl/girl.

Sneaking around is wrong and you clearly know it because ........... you are sneaking.

again this^^

i'll be honest here, i haven't always been faithful when it came to my marriage and my bisexuality, but i always knew it for what it was, cheating plain and simple. i did feel guilty, but at that time was so selfish i made excuses to make myself feel better... which is what it seems that a lot here do..

[srq4fun941]

I don't really feel any differently except the fact that I was able to scratch that itch and take care of my occasional desire.

[Christopher South]

this^^
great, blame your infidelity on your wife, whatever helps you sleep at night...


If that's how it came across it wasn't my intention. As I said I know it's cheating and I made a conscious decision to cheat. lt was not her fault.

[OlderBC1]

We just want some good dick, ass, & pussy! Why do we have to have all this drama?

[Phat3lvis]

I just did this today early morning. My wife knows have her blessing since medically her sex drive has dropped to zero over the past 2 years. I have fucked a woman gad 3 guys suck me I have sucked 1. But my wife and I were talking about it and actually a few hours a go, she is far less threatened by men than competing with another woman.

Same here, my wife is ok with a guy sucking my dick but would flip out if another woman did it.

As for how I feel, it all depends on who I spent my time with. If it's a casual one-time thing, I feel like crap, but if it's an FWB and an ongoing thing I feel just fine.

[Bicyclist]

The wife and I haven't had regular sex in about five years. At one point, when I think she began to suspect my bi urges, she calmly said that she thought it was a natural progression for some men to have gay fantasies when they get older. This made me feel like it would be okay to hook up occasionally, but haven't gotten (made) the opportunity yet. But boy, did she call that one right!

[bwithafun1]

When I get home from an encounter with a guy and all went well, ( usually does as we only play together ) I am in a happy, up beat mood. My wife usually asks how was your night and then wants details of the night. This usually leads to us having sex. My play friend is also married and his wife is in the loop as well, sometimes with him or me doing a mfm with the others spouse.
Damn it's nice being bi

[Christopher South]

The wife and I haven't had regular sex in about five years. At one point, when I think she began to suspect my bi urges, she calmly said that she thought it was a natural progression for some men to have gay fantasies when they get older. This made me feel like it would be okay to hook up occasionally, but haven't gotten (made) the opportunity yet. But boy, did she call that one right!

I don’t think it’s necessarily an age thing. I think if I were to have had continued, frequent and satisfactory sex with my wife, I’d be less inclined to think about, and act on, my bisexual urges.
Bet when there’s no outlet, you start to think about other ways to get satisfaction.

[Havasmoke]

I think there's something to be said for the age thing. When I was younger I think I would have been more inclined to seek out another woman for sex. The thought of being with a guy would never have occurred to me. As I've gotten older, my thoughts have turned more toward being with a man rather than a woman. Don't know why it happened but it did happen.


I don’t think it’s necessarily an age thing. I think if I were to have had continued, frequent and satisfactory sex with my wife, I’d be less inclined to think about, and act on, my bisexual urges.
Bet when there’s no outlet, you start to think about other ways to get satisfaction.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I think there's something to be said for the age thing. When I was younger I think I would have been more inclined to seek out another woman for sex. The thought of being with a guy would never have occurred to me. As I've gotten older, my thoughts have turned more toward being with a man rather than a woman. Don't know why it happened but it did happen.That's also been my experience.

My wife still wants and enjoys sex, and I still enjoy it with her. But I have become enamored with everything to do with oral sex, and she's only given me token attention to blowjobs. It's clear that she doesn't really like to suck cock. For me, there's no blowjob better than one given by someone who loves to suck, and I've come to believe that another man is more likely to want me in his mouth than a woman. That also makes me a better cocksucker than a lot of women -- I like doing it, and want to fully satisfy the recipient!

[sysper]

i wonder how much older guys admitting to like other guys, has to do with just being older & more mature enough to accept bisexuality, than actually liking guys as u get older. so there might be young guys who are bi but the can't or wont admit there bi even to themselves but, as they get older they just accept it & able to embrace it.

[Havasmoke]

Maybe but that has not been my experience. The thought of being with a man when I was younger was abhorrent. I would have been grossed out thinking about it. No interest at all. Now, very curious. Not sure what changed...


i wonder how much older guys admitting to like other guys, has to do with just being older & more mature enough to accept bisexuality, than actually liking guys as u get older. so there might be young guys who are bi but the can't or wont admit there bi even to themselves but, as they get older they just accept it & able to embrace it.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I think that there are a lot of possible scenarios here, as is evidenced by the last couple of posts. All my life, I've harbored a secret desire to be a girl, which is at the heart of my love of nylon & lingerie. But I've always recognized the biology and accepted being male. (Accepting reality -- something missing from a lot of people these days...)

Living most of my life basically as an 'All-American boy', I never developed an attraction to men in any way, and never consciously considered sexual activity with one, despite being very interested in the world of kink throughout they years. If anything, I thought of myself as kind of a 'male lesbian' -- in other words, I was a guy who felt somewhat feminine inside, but still wanted to be with women -- not men!

Yeah, that's pretty screwed up, I guess. But the bottom line is, I am now comfortable being bisexual, as a result of exposure and experimentation. This wasn't in me in my youth, it has come on with age/maturity.

[CurEUs_Male]

I din't see it in myself until my late 30's. Looking back, I remember some thoughts that only went part way towards bi, but as a shy guy with little confidence the thoughts never materialized. Now, it's all I can think about, even with a full sex life with my wife and when she gives me an awesome BJ - I only wish I could be doing it to another guy at the same time.

[sysper]

i guess it goes to show ur sexuality can change overtime.......before my early 20's i was never honestly into it either. even though i had a hard time seeing myself as a guy who might be into guys. unitl 1 day i just had the urge. i guess i could of worked hard to deny it, but i didn't i was just confused. now still working to figure it all out lol........
Maybe but that has not been my experience. The thought of being with a man when I was younger was abhorrent. I would have been grossed out thinking about it. No interest at all. Now, very curious. Not sure what changed...

[CurEUs_Male]

As a side note to this thread, for those of you who are married and out or considering being out to your spouse, there are several helpful and supportive online groups for straight, non-straight and both members of Mixed Orientation Marriges (MOMs).

There is one publically created site http://alternatepaths.net/ which has information and links to the best known online groups.

The holidays can be a difficult time, and research reminds us constantly that bisexuals tend to suffer more that other LGBTQIA+ sub groups. Please, if you are struggling, know you are not alone and there is support.

Happy holidays, and here's to the new year,

Al

[Bicyclist]

All my life, I've harbored a secret desire to be a girl, which is at the heart of my love of nylon & lingerie. But I've always recognized the biology and accepted being male. (Accepting reality -- something missing from a lot of people these days...)

Living most of my life, I never developed an attraction to men in any way. If anything, I thought of myself as kind of a 'male lesbian' -- in other words, I was a guy who felt somewhat feminine inside, but still wanted to be with women -- not men!

Yeah, that's pretty screwed up, I guess. But the bottom line is, I am now comfortable being bisexual, as a result of exposure and experimentation. This wasn't in me in my youth, it has come on with age/maturity.

This mirrors my sexual evolution/orientation exactly, but I wouldn't consider it screwed up. The more we understand how complex human sexual makeup can be, the more I believe this kind of behavior is more common than previously thought. I also believe that the internet's expanding of gender 'boundaries' has already begun to shape what may be considered acceptable and normal by the next generations. I just wish I had found a person like silkyhose sooner to 'talk' about things and share latent desires with. (Yeah, I'm horny, but can't help it.)

I've actually progressed to the point of being proud to admit (to myself) that I now really am attracted to other men and want to learn how to be the best lover I can be. I'm jealous of all the bisexuals out there who figured this out at a much younger age.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I've actually progressed to the point of being proud to admit (to myself) that I now really am attracted to other men and want to learn how to be the best lover I can be. I'm jealous of all the bisexuals out there who figured this out at a much younger age.
Don't know if I'm ready to use a term such as 'pride' when considering my current state of evolution, but I am certainly accepting and comfortable with it!

And, for the first time, I'm ready to admit being actually attracted to a man, who I plan to play with tomorrow. Made contact with him through SilverDaddies and we've exchanged quite a few substantive emails and images. Met him at coffee last week, and we hit it off quickly. He's 4 years younger than I, in good shape and quite handsome. In previous situations, I'd be thinking "I really don't see anything in this guy, but I'll change my mind and get excited when we get naked together..."

This time, it's different. I can't wait to see him and get my hands and mouth on him!

I also wish that I'd discovered this freedom to enjoy bisexuality decades ago. I have a lot of lost time to make up for, and don't have that many good years remaining to do it! :upside:

[sysper]

Don't know if I'm ready to use a term such as 'pride' when considering my current state of evolution, but I am certainly accepting and comfortable with it!

And, for the first time, I'm ready to admit being actually attracted to a man, who I plan to play with tomorrow. Made contact with him through SilverDaddies and we've exchanged quite a few substantive emails and images. Met him at coffee last week, and we hit it off quickly. He's 4 years younger than I, in good shape and quite handsome. In previous situations, I'd be thinking "I really don't see anything in this guy, but I'll change my mind and get excited when we get naked together..."

This time, it's different. I can't wait to see him and get my hands and mouth on him!

I also wish that I'd discovered this freedom to enjoy bisexuality decades ago. I have a lot of lost time to make up for, and don't have that many good years remaining to do it! :upside:lol i also really wish i had discovered this freedom decades ago too. my 20's were such a struggle to understand my sexuality, but mostly i think to accept it & be at peace with it. not that i'm completely over it now lol but at least i'm more comfortable accepting i could enjoy the hell out of spending the nite with a guy & that is perfectly fine! but wish i had this attitude when i was younger, it was so much easier to have casual & experemental sex plus i would have that much more experiance by now. i think most of my friends would even be supportive......who knows maybe 1 or 2 would be a little bit more than supportive;)

[RichieC]

I always love sucking cock and swallowing a nice warm load it's important to me. I've been sucking cock for decades now and I will continue to do so....my partner knows I'm Bi but doesn't know how much cock I suck.

[BigMikeSlade]

After a nice long sweaty session with a guy, I go home satisfied and relaxed. Like some of the other guys, I'm actually still horny but for pussy and not cock.

[Bottomhubby]

I recently came out to my wife, it went better then I thought. Right now we are in a wait and see mode.
She has went so far as to buy me some sexy panties and even through out all my male underwear.

[bobby63114]

That is awesome, hope to meet ya sometime.....

[marine20]

I recently came out to my wife, it went better then I thought. Right now we are in a wait and see mode.
She has went so far as to buy me some sexy panties and even through out all my male underwear.
last year i came out to my wife too. it also went better than i thought it would . but she never bought me panties. she must REALLY want to see you fucked by another guy. sounds like you will be having a lot of fun from now on !let us know how it goes.

[Sammysaid]

I'm married and I've had sex several times with guys and I haven't felt guilty. It's a pleasure to screw a guys ass and cum, but now I want to have a guy fuck my ass and I want her to watch, weird how I feel but that's the truth.

[elmwood7]

It's not weird Sammy. I hope you get to do it.

[Biguy4utoday]

Just did this Saturday night! After some other activities she put me on all fours, then told him she wanted him to fuck my ass, which he did and unloaded inside me while she watched. It was hot!

[Bicyclist]

I recently came out to my wife, it went better then I thought. Right now we are in a wait and see mode.
She has went so far as to buy me some sexy panties and even through out all my male underwear.

I would come out to my wife in a heartbeat if I knew she would buy panties for me. Too bad this is just a dream...

[bw299]

If you are married, how do you feel when you get home after a rendezvous with a man. Horny? Ashamed? Guilty? Fine? Why and what I do with men is completely different than what and why I do with my wife. There is no guilt, shame, or remorse. Sometimes I come home horny. But I always feel fine.