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NakedFun38
Aug 10, 2016, 10:19 AM
I've had lots of anal sex with females but never males. Is there any notable difference between female anal and male anal in the way it feels?

Neonaught
Aug 10, 2016, 10:55 AM
I have had both many times and could feel no difference.

Realist
Aug 10, 2016, 11:44 AM
I agree, but one thing a woman can do that a man can't, is have a vaginal and anal entry at the same time!

As far as I'm concerned, feeling a cock rubbing against yours, while you're both inside her, is the epitome of pleasure!!

NakedFun38
Aug 10, 2016, 11:55 AM
Yeah wow. That sounds hot.

cornholejoe
Aug 10, 2016, 6:18 PM
never could tell any different

cw1860
Aug 10, 2016, 6:53 PM
Best way to find out for yourself is try anal with a guy. If you were closer I'd volunteer mine for the test! ;-)

sysper
Aug 10, 2016, 7:55 PM
maybe not for the giver but maybe for the taker......women do not have prostrates. it's allmost as if it's actually men who are more meant to receive anal sex!

NakedFun38
Aug 10, 2016, 11:08 PM
I know I sure do enjoy it.

OlderBC1
Aug 10, 2016, 11:39 PM
Realistic 8-12 inches felt great, but a real one would have to feel way good! Sucking & swallowing is good, but getting fucked in the ass is too much, man! Especially with someone on this page...

12voltyV2.0
Aug 11, 2016, 12:22 PM
maybe not for the giver but maybe for the taker......women do not have prostrates. it's allmost as if it's actually men who are more meant to receive anal sex!

For those guys have not been the lucky recipient of anal sex---when a guy's cock finds "that sweet spot" and starts making contact with your prostate---oh my fucking god!! What a feeling---for me---if the guy fucking me stays hitting that spot enough---I get this feeling of incredible orgasm---even if I don't actually cum---that totally rocks my world. I don't know if this is the same response for all--but that is what I have experienced and once you get that----you gotta continue to have it!!

This is another reason that if you are at all reticent about doing anal sex, and tend to not want to do it----then don't because once you come to enjoy taking cock inside---it does become incredibly addictive.

Don't get me wrong, I love that body part that ladies have---I hesitate to use the term "pussy" because to me---that is just yet one more term for female genitalia that is rather coarse and nasty, because most men might like to "tag that shit" and such but they seem to only like that aspect of females---not giving much regard for all the other aspects of a female----sorry for the digression---but I have always loved and enjoyed that aspect of sex with ladies----but I really do admit---cock is really addicting and it seems the more you get of it---the more you want.

NakedFun38
Aug 11, 2016, 12:58 PM
For those guys have not been the lucky recipient of anal sex---when a guy's cock finds "that sweet spot" and starts making contact with your prostate---oh my fucking god!! What a feeling---for me---if the guy fucking me stays hitting that spot enough---I get this feeling of incredible orgasm---even if I don't actually cum---that totally rocks my world. I don't know if this is the same response for all--but that is what I have experienced and once you get that----you gotta continue to have it!!

This is another reason that if you are at all reticent about doing anal sex, and tend to not want to do it----then don't because once you come to enjoy taking cock inside---it does become incredibly addictive.

Don't get me wrong, I love that body part that ladies have---I hesitate to use the term "pussy" because to me---that is just yet one more term for female genitalia that is rather coarse and nasty, because most men might like to "tag that shit" and such but they seem to only like that aspect of females---not giving much regard for all the other aspects of a female----sorry for the digression---but I have always loved and enjoyed that aspect of sex with ladies----but I really do admit---cock is really addicting and it seems the more you get of it---the more you want.


theres nothing like an anal orgasm.

lizard-lix
Aug 11, 2016, 4:58 PM
For those guys have not been the lucky recipient of anal sex---when a guy's cock finds "that sweet spot" and starts making contact with your prostate---oh my fucking god!! What a feeling---for me---if the guy fucking me stays hitting that spot enough---I get this feeling of incredible orgasm---even if I don't actually cum---that totally rocks my world. I don't know if this is the same response for all--but that is what I have experienced and once you get that----you gotta continue to have it!!
.......

Well soon I will be able to compare!

I have not gotten fucked with a real cock (never got there with previous partners, only oral), but I have been fucked with a strap on and it was as good as 12 volty says.

But in Jan I got my prostate removed (cancer, I'm clear so far, yay). Soon I will be back to playing and I certainly intend to get fucked (the hall pass is holding).

So watch this space for a real comparison of being an anal recipient, with and without a prostate.

I have played with anal toys both before and after, and strangely, in some ways it feels better now. When I have an orgasm now it seems more centered inside, instead of in my cock. So I feel it a lot more in my ass and I love it! One interesting complication is that I have not yet gotten an erection since surgery (it can take 18 months), I have no idea how the feelings will change when I get my erection back. So far I have orgasms as easily as before I had the surgery, they are still great, they just feel different.

More when it happens.

sysper
Aug 11, 2016, 6:35 PM
congratulations on being cancer free, hope things heal up & ur back to ur old perv self again :)

NakedInSeattle
Aug 12, 2016, 3:04 AM
I've had male and female ass in the past. The reason I like male ass is that i can play with his cock if in the missionary position....as for the feeling, it's the same.

a2smith09
Aug 13, 2016, 12:28 PM
Well truthfully I prefer the way most female ass looks aesthetically over male ass i.e. I find female ass more beautiful. I like its softness and roundness. Now as far as physical penetration they feel the same. The main difference is the skin to skin contact when you go balls deep. For some men there is no difference though ;o) Now you can hit a males prostrate and give him an amazing orgasm. I love those. A lot of females have a bundle of nerves of the backside of their uterus which if stimulated gives them deep internal orgasms too. Its easier to stimulate that bundle of nerves through the backdoor. You need a longer cock to do it. My wife wasn't all that thrilled with anal sex till I started giving her anal orgasms now she's a fan

OlderBC1
Aug 13, 2016, 5:00 PM
Idk...some guys have roundish butts that look good aesthetically....just sayin'...

a2smith09
Aug 14, 2016, 4:32 PM
Lol, you are right about that. I was speaking more in generalities. When I was in my teens and twenties I was told many times I had a nice ass like that. Now it's no where close anymore. �� My wife had a gorgeous ass when she was in her teens and twenties and it's still a gorgeous ass not quit as firm but still gorgeous.

PamelaBiPantyboy
Aug 14, 2016, 4:50 PM
I am becoming female, and want to do anal, both ways, before they change my parts

OlderBC1
Aug 15, 2016, 12:52 AM
Lol, you are right about that. I was speaking more in generalities. When I was in my teens and twenties I was told many times I had a nice ass like that. Now it's no where close anymore. �� My wife had a gorgeous ass when she was in her teens and twenties and it's still a gorgeous ass not quit as firm but still gorgeous.
Yeah, I got the same thing from guys & older women alike. The women liked to grab my round little butt & the guys wanted to fuck it! But they wouldn't let me fuck them or suck me off? Damn...

NakedFun38
Aug 15, 2016, 10:48 PM
Well truthfully I prefer the way most female ass looks aesthetically over male ass i.e. I find female ass more beautiful. I like its softness and roundness. Now as far as physical penetration they feel the same. The main difference is the skin to skin contact when you go balls deep. For some men there is no difference though ;o) Now you can hit a males prostrate and give him an amazing orgasm. I love those. A lot of females have a bundle of nerves of the backside of their uterus which if stimulated gives them deep internal orgasms too. Its easier to stimulate that bundle of nerves through the backdoor. You need a longer cock to do it. My wife wasn't all that thrilled with anal sex till I started giving her anal orgasms now she's a fan


I got really horny reading this. Thank you for sharing.

LatinShyCpl
Aug 16, 2016, 10:21 AM
We have had 2 long term flings with separate bulls, both with prior experience. I remember the first one would say it made no difference to his cock, but it did to his mind; meaning that it felt the same, it took different stimulation. With me, it came natural, with hubby, what would make our bull hard for his hinie was the idea of dominating a man in front of his wife (and boy, did he dominate!!).

On the other hand, our second (and current) bull is different, he likes to spend time alone with each. He just likes ass i guess.

Realist
Aug 16, 2016, 10:59 AM
First, welcome to the site!

It's interesting to read how your partner enjoys the connection with the "bull", but how do you feel about it?

How did you and your hubby first develop the urge for this lifestyle, then locate a willing partner?

Inquiring minds wanna know....IF you feel comfortable discussing it!

LatinShyCpl
Aug 16, 2016, 11:51 AM
For him it was very awkward at first and for a while. He had had some boy on boy experiences back in school (nothing hardcore) and ahd remained very curious. I knew about that and, well, found it interesting so after a long time we decided to explore his curiosities together. But yes, the transfer from fantasy to reality is not an easy one we quickly realized. We both stuck with it however and it has added an amazing new dimension to our sex lives.

BiTexasDude
Aug 20, 2016, 6:35 AM
The only real difference between anal with men and women is that men tend to like it more consistently than women do...and women have smoother skin than men. Other than that, it feels the same - Absolutely fucking wonderful.

NakedFun38
Dec 15, 2016, 9:27 PM
I'm interested in trying a guys ass. Anyone interest if we click?

elmwood7
Dec 16, 2016, 5:50 AM
NakedFun38 if we were closer I'd gladly let you have mine.

chongster
Feb 19, 2017, 11:15 AM
I love fucking ass, both male and female! I like fucking guys more just because of kinky naughty aspect of it, it just turns me on.

itsnormy
Feb 19, 2017, 2:04 PM
Have enjoyed entering both,, inside virtually very little difference, outside a lot...actually feel as if my cock is being cut a bit if the male receiver has a hairy asshole, the hairs do in fact distract...butt for my being the "catcher," OMG by a very young age, I was convinced the only sex I needed or wanted, was to be fucked....and one teen birthday, between a handful of friends had the best presents ever....not one spank for each year, but ONE fuck by each of teen friends and two of their dads for each year...and one 11 inch as the one to grow on...HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME....

csreef
Feb 19, 2017, 3:09 PM
I enjoy screwing guys, because in this way, I can dominate them...I have screwed women in the ass, and yes it is tight, I still have to get over "were I am at the time."

A few years ago I had a GF who LOVED anal. She was kind of the exception to the rule...

Robin Black
Feb 22, 2017, 10:57 PM
maybe not for the giver but maybe for the taker......women do not have prostrates. it's allmost as if it's actually men who are more meant to receive anal sex! I agree. It's initially uncomfortable for both, but after things relax, while it doesn't necessarily get any better for a woman, it definitely becomes wonderful for a guy when another man's penis starts bumping into his prostate. It can actually cause some guys (the one's "receiving") to orgasm from what is happening to them from behind.

bw299
Feb 26, 2017, 3:12 AM
My 1st wife and I tried anal. I cold take it or leave it, she didn't care for it; even when she was getting double penetrated during mfm. She would do me with a vibrator while she was sucking my cock; man what a rush! I loved it. I would cum more quickly and shoot huge loads. I think it is more pleasurable for men because of the prostate.

hung4you
Feb 28, 2017, 7:29 AM
I agree, but one thing a woman can do that a man can't, is have a vaginal and anal entry at the same time!

As far as I'm concerned, feeling a cock rubbing against yours, while you're both inside her, is the epitome of pleasure!!

I couldn't agree more, my wife loves both her holes filled with cock at the same time. Feeling his and my cock thrusting in unison is very erotic. And when she squirts, watch out because she goes bat shit crazy and its like fucking a virgin all over again.

Neonaught
Feb 28, 2017, 7:53 AM
I have had mixed results. I know two bottom guys that feel just like fucking pussy. I should note that my bottoms can do things with their ass muscles I have yet to feel with any woman!

stonebow
Feb 28, 2017, 10:17 AM
I have had mixed results. I know two bottom guys that feel just like fucking pussy. I should note that my bottoms can do things with their ass muscles I have yet to feel with any woman!
As I understand the OP the question was more about any perceived difference between fucking male ass and female ass, not a comparison of male ass to pussy. In any case your answer is confusing as you say it feels "just like fucking pussy" and then you say the guys you've fucked do things that no woman ever has.....how is that JUST like a pussy?

Btw, I've fucked one woman in the ass a couple times and a few other guys a time or two and didn't notice any difference.

Clancy
Mar 2, 2017, 1:34 PM
I really don't think that there is a difference between the two except for one is more hairy but shave it and you really can't tell. I like to watch gay porn and really like watching the insertion.

NakedFun38
Oct 31, 2017, 3:07 AM
Trying to get thread going again. Can anyone else weigh in on this?

Drummerman
Nov 5, 2017, 9:38 PM
No difference to me. I don't like hairy holes though or hairy butts.

smokey
Nov 9, 2017, 9:15 AM
There's a huge difference. The view. Looking down on a nice round female ass while you're fucking it is far nicer than looking down on a hairy man's ass.

earloftexas
Nov 9, 2017, 12:35 PM
No difference to me. I don't like hairy holes though or hairy butts.

I agree with your comment. NOT into hairy pubes, faces, assholes or anything else....I especially like a smooth pussy to lick and suck.

traz99999
Nov 10, 2017, 7:28 AM
No not really, its a different visual, but it feels the same. Its the aura around same sex, sex that changes the dynamic

traz99999
Nov 10, 2017, 7:29 AM
Men tend to have hairy asses then women, but not always

NakedFun38
Nov 10, 2017, 10:56 PM
Men tend to have hairy asses then women, but not always

I've women with hairy assholes cause they normally don't groom there like other areas. But I've never topped a guy either so speculating that a bottom guy is more likely to groom that a women.

NakedFun38
Jul 10, 2018, 10:55 PM
I’ve had anal with females. I’m still looking forward to what anal with a guy feels like.

DareMe
Jul 11, 2018, 12:30 AM
that sounds hot realist

Avalokita
Jul 11, 2018, 2:35 PM
I agree, but one thing a woman can do that a man can't, is have a vaginal and anal entry at the same time!

As far as I'm concerned, feeling a cock rubbing against yours, while you're both inside her, is the epitome of pleasure!!

This assumes that male anal DP is not possible?

Bring a friend and find out for yourself. ;)

hung4you
Jul 16, 2018, 5:08 AM
You are exactly correct, that’s why I enjoy anal so much and crave it. When my regular hits my sweet spot it triggers a huge load of my cum shooting everywhere. I can’t think of anything else I enjoy more than having a stiff cock get me off like my buddy does.

To add to that, my wife loves anal and I have never seen her orgasm and squirt as hard as she does as when I’m pounding her tight little ass. Anal sex is what wears her out, after a round with me she is exhausted and spent, where as me I can’t get enough.

cbb83
Jul 18, 2018, 11:49 AM
For those guys have not been the lucky recipient of anal sex---when a guy's cock finds "that sweet spot" and starts making contact with your prostate---oh my fucking god!! What a feeling---for me---if the guy fucking me stays hitting that spot enough---I get this feeling of incredible orgasm---even if I don't actually cum---that totally rocks my world. I don't know if this is the same response for all--but that is what I have experienced and once you get that----you gotta continue to have it!!

This is another reason that if you are at all reticent about doing anal sex, and tend to not want to do it----then don't because once you come to enjoy taking cock inside---it does become incredibly addictive.

Don't get me wrong, I love that body part that ladies have---I hesitate to use the term "pussy" because to me---that is just yet one more term for female genitalia that is rather coarse and nasty, because most men might like to "tag that shit" and such but they seem to only like that aspect of females---not giving much regard for all the other aspects of a female----sorry for the digression---but I have always loved and enjoyed that aspect of sex with ladies----but I really do admit---cock is really addicting and it seems the more you get of it---the more you want.

Pretty much my experience exactly. While I still consider myself versatile and have no qualms topping a man (and do enjoy it), I'd usually rather bottom for one and save topping for when I'm with a woman (who are perfection itself for such a thing).

Regarding the sensations involved... the difference is mostly in the glutes. Men tend to have stronger glutes and that changes the nature of the feedback they can provide and gives a different, shall we say... "bumping platform" to move against. Although everyone varies! That said, the actual penetration aspect of things is more or less identical between the sexes.

Luvthewater
Aug 27, 2018, 3:06 PM
I'm interested in trying a guys ass. Anyone interest if we click?

Seems you may need a vacation to the sunshine state!!!

Luvthewater
Aug 27, 2018, 3:10 PM
This doesn't answer the question but for me the feeling is completely different. With a woman I'm giving and with a man I'm receiving!!!

Long Duck Dong
Aug 28, 2018, 4:27 AM
Giving... not much of a difference. But position wise, big difference, if I am on my back, I can hold her hips, caress her breasts, smack her ass and look into her eyes as she rides.... with a guy, I can stroke his cock, rub his nipples etc..... my ex partner, DD, enjoyed being on her stomach and feeling me fuck her anally while I held her hands, it gave her a feeling of submitting and surrendering to me and my cock...... but for me, being fucked in the same position does not feel as enjoyable as being on my back.

Recieving anal, I notice a difference, not so much because of equipment used, obliviously but how its done, like with the thrusts and technique. Perferred position is on my back so I can grab shoulders, hips or ass and use leverage to control the way I want to be fucked or enhance their pleasure...... and if I am on top, being held deep in a person while I am being fucked, is one hell of a experience because my cock pulses in time with the thrusts and apparently without thrusting into the other person, they still feel like they are being thrusted into.....

chongster
Sep 10, 2018, 10:19 AM
Nakedfun38 if that is your sexy ass in the pic I would fuck it in a heartbeat! Then you would know how the girls you anal fuck feel! lol

DrBimind
Sep 10, 2018, 10:42 AM
Have enjoyed entering both,, inside virtually very little difference, outside a lot...actually feel as if my cock is being cut a bit if the male receiver has a hairy asshole, the hairs do in fact distract...butt for my being the "catcher," OMG by a very young age, I was convinced the only sex I needed or wanted, was to be fucked....and one teen birthday, between a handful of friends had the best presents ever....not one spank for each year, but ONE fuck by each of teen friends and two of their dads for each year...and one 11 inch as the one to grow on...HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME....

That sounds like a story I wanna hear LOL...bet that was a HAPPY BD

NakedFun38
Sep 13, 2018, 12:31 AM
Nakedfun38 if that is your sexy ass in the pic I would fuck it in a heartbeat! Then you would know how the girls you anal fuck feel! lol

Yes it is!

NakedFun38
Sep 13, 2018, 12:33 AM
Giving... not much of a difference. But position wise, big difference, if I am on my back, I can hold her hips, caress her breasts, smack her ass and look into her eyes as she rides.... with a guy, I can stroke his cock, rub his nipples etc..... my ex partner, DD, enjoyed being on her stomach and feeling me fuck her anally while I held her hands, it gave her a feeling of submitting and surrendering to me and my cock...... but for me, being fucked in the same position does not feel as enjoyable as being on my back.

Recieving anal, I notice a difference, not so much because of equipment used, obliviously but how its done, like with the thrusts and technique. Perferred position is on my back so I can grab shoulders, hips or ass and use leverage to control the way I want to be fucked or enhance their pleasure...... and if I am on top, being held deep in a person while I am being fucked, is one hell of a experience because my cock pulses in time with the thrusts and apparently without thrusting into the other person, they still feel like they are being thrusted into.....


Awesome

Ameosy
May 18, 2021, 1:09 PM
I don?t know if you guys have tried dildos. My favorite way to play is to have sex with my wife in missionary position. She stabs my butt with the dildo to stimulate my prostate, especially a rotating dildo (https://acmejoy.com/products/thrusting-dildo-vibrator-with-rotation-and-heating-sex-toys), I really enjoy it!

NakedFun38
Jun 29, 2023, 11:26 AM
Anyone top a mile and female side by side? Notice a difference?

KDaddy23
Jun 30, 2023, 4:51 PM
I find it... amusing that there seems to be a perceived difference...