Bi Fun - beyond the basics?

[Downsman]

I have had a few, male, bi experiences - and having met up with a guy in my area ( sussex uk) with similar interests, I feel it is time to go beyond the basics. Have tried and enjoyed manual and oral and like the thought of trying more. The other guy is ok with experimenting, him as top, so looking for some suggestions what we could try.

[DiamondDog]

try some fingers/toys, rimming, or just keep on doing j/o and oral sex.

don't get trapped into the idea that anal sex is the "ultimate goal" or the "main event" and that no other sex matters, when it's all good and ejaculation shouldn't matter.

[TrimBeardHairyBod]

Hi Downsman

My advice would be to stop looking at sex as a checklist of physical acts. Try thinking of it as self-expression. Get all comfy in bed with your buddy and engage in a bit of man-talk. Swap experiences, share fantasies, explore ideas and see where that leads you.

[jedinudist]

try some fingers/toys, rimming, or just keep on doing j/o and oral sex.

don't get trapped into the idea that anal sex is the "ultimate goal" or the "main event" and that no other sex matters, when it's all good and ejaculation shouldn't matter.

I really agree. I'd consider anal sex again someday, but it's not a "goal". If I find a boyfriend, I intend to just let things develope as they may. I'm not going to gauge the friendship's success on what sexual acts we have indulged in, instead I will gauge it on how honest are we being with each other, and are we both satisfied?