Extreme interest in Bisex 3some with my wife and another hot guy..

[nikkijones]

I just told my wife, 6 months ago about my bisexual desires.. I have been feeling this for a long time, years.. I finally got up the balls to tell her about it. I want to share another hot guy with her so bad, I want to enjoy his cock with her and receive anal from him after watching him have intercourse with her while she gives me oral. the thought of it drives me extremely crazy and it seems to excite her as well fantasizing about it, watching it and talking about it. We have had the best sex we have EVER had since this has come to light, but I feel even though she seems to be really turned on about it, she still is understandably unsure of actually physically doing it. I have let her give me anal with a strap on and have sucked on it with her making me do it, we have even imitated oral together with a nice realistic dildo and it was so hot, she definitely enjoyed that for sure as I could hear her excitement as she forcefully entered me with it afterwards. I too would love to get some advice on how to go about actually making this fantasy of my wife and I enjoying another hot guy together come to light! Every time I think about it, I get a semi, every time we talk about it, our sex is so intense she almost passes out from the intense orgasm she has, and most times, female ejaculates, I have come to find this forum and hope to find some light and guidance towards a safe and sane sensual adventure!

[buds50]

keep it going man, if she does that she is def into it. keep gently pushing it until it happens. watch some bi porn dureing sex ,with a storyline that u fant about, and talk about .when your ready bring a guy into the scene . someone u know she would like to fuck a few drinks some weed , get her turned on teasing her and touching her . then have said guy stop bi. tease her tell her afrind is in town or whatever.just put the idea In her head .and then he is there . im sure it will happen

[Realist]

I've had a few experiences of this type in the past, but no one would know how to proceed better than you. You know your own quirks and desires and those of your wife, too. Each of the ones I entered into were different than the last. The first didn't turn out so hot, but two others were sublime!

But, for me, developing friendship and trust, first, was very important. Being comfortable, having good communication skills, and setting boundaries is important, too. All of you will have to achieve something rewarding from the experience.

Take it from me, if you take off, half cocked, it can be a recipe for failure. Don't take your wife for granted and protect her feelings and desires.......men are usually more adaptable and think less deeply about these things. (But not always)

Done right, this may become a whole new exciting aspect of your lives together. What follows could be the most fun you and she will ever have, or a total disaster!

My only advice is; listen to her, your potential partner, and express yourself succinctly, too. Then, don't do anything you, or she, doesn't feel comfortable with.

Good luck!

[Neonaught]

I think Realist made most of the points I would have echoed. My wife of 30 years and I have enjoyed many MFM encounters since our first four years ago. Take your time in choosing the first gentleman you will share. Make sure you both find him attractive and enjoyable to just socialize with before you try to all get naked. Once everyone is comfortable together have a frank and detailed discussion on likes and limits so everyone understands the "go" and "no go" zones. We always do this and it makes for a smoother, more relaxed first encounter. Most important of all: have and ENFORCE a strict "no one takes one for the team" rule. By that I mean that if either one of you is hesitant about someone, the other does not in any way shape or form pressure the reluctant spouse to go forward anyway. That way leads to nothing but trouble. We wish you the best of luck and feel free to write to us if we can provide further advice.

[nikkijones]

Thank you, all are actually really great points, and stuff I have been taking into consideration for sure. I haven't tried to "force" anything, and never will. I gues it is fantasy at this early stage, for however long it takes.. My wife is my rock and I love her more than life itself. We have however, been watching bi-sex porn together, texting about it, sending pictures of it, ect, and it definitely brings our sexual desires and physical contact/orgasms to the point of explosiveness, like NEVER before in our lives together, which is 24 years at this point, our sexual connection and sex has NEVER been better.. I am being very honest about my feelings for this with her now, after keeping it in for so very long afraid of what she might have thought, and even the thought of her thinking I was less of a man, or not wanting me, or leaving me for that matter lol. Her reaction was anything but what I would have expected, and she has definitely even embraced the positive effect it has had on us, sexually, and mentally, we are the happiest, and closest we have ever been amazingly enough.. I also told her I am into wearing panties and garters and such, and she actually buys me stuff and gets really turned on by all of this, she orgasms 6-7 times every time we have sex now, and at times almost passes out from them they are so intense lol. I really appreciate the feedback and am so happy to find so many that are like me and that I am far from alone in this. I am hoping we can get to the point where we have this experience for real, with her enjoying the other guy as well, I get really excited to even think she may be able to experience the pleasure of me and another guy enjoying her to the fullest.
and I know it would be amazing to have a sexual experience enjoying the other guy with her and with me getting to experience what it would be like to receive intercourse from another hot guy. lots of respect, thank you.