Location, Location, Location...

[whistle1]

I have been curious for several years, but have not acted on it. I likely never will, but that is a post for a different time.

I have already posted about some of the things that pique my curiosity with regard to man-man encounters. Another facet of the encounters that I always wondered about is the physical location where guys intereact. After thinking about it for a bit, I've narrowed it down to three general categories:

1) Your place;

2) His place; or

3) A neutral location (e.g., hotel/motel, friend's/relative's place, adult movie/book store, spa/bath/gym, car, park, woods, etc.).

Each of these has their pluses and minuses. So, it has me wondering...

Where do you have your male-male encounters - and do you feel safe (physically & in terms of being caught) there?

[cornholejoe]

usually go to a motel have went to this one guy i know house some

[SilkyHoseLover]

My only experiences have been at my house, and only with someone we'd gotten to know through website personal messaging/email, followed by a couple of meetings in discreet public venues. The other man was unable to host at the time, and wanted to go to a motel. The thought of that makes me feel cheap and sneaky, so we played at my home, where I feel most comfortable.

Since the last time we played, my son returned to the area and is liable to drop by without calling to make sure we're home. That makes me kind-of nervous. Fortunately, he has long, predictable hours at work & school, so I would only risk playtime when he was very unlikely to be around.

[sysper]

good question..........i think i would want my 1st encounter to be at his place. afterwards either his place or my place. don't know about a hotel/motel but not ruling it out though i'd rather save the money & use it to buy things that might help our encounters :) if it would be in a spa or something like that i think the assumption would be more than he would be involved with me. even though the idea sounds super hot i'm concerned about std's so probably will never happen. :2cents:

[borntosuckcock]

Usually meet in a public place and then drive out to the desert. Sometimes I'll meet at a guys place, if he can host. Prefer married guys, so you always have the risk of his wife coming home early. I've had some close calls.

[playtoy70]

I have had men come to my house met in a parking lot in my truck been to his place and he blew me good in a woods couple times

[Grub Worm]

Woods, his place (barn), nature trails, sleep overs as kids and sleep overs now camping hunting trips. My place in camper, garage, even backyard. Sometimes the thrill of getting caught is a real turn on.

[olmizzou42]

My two fave FWBs live alone so they host. Sometimes just two of us, sometimes more. Totally secure, no worries about being caught naked with a cock in hand, mouth or ass...or all three.

[bob338]

Over the years, I've had encounters with men (and some boys when I was one) in school showers, locker rooms, Adult book stores, glory holes, my apartment, his house, the woods, and various vehicles. My most recent bud has access to a hotel room through his work so I've recently started meeting him once a month in his hotel room over lunch. It makes for a great, relaxing, and fun playtime and neither of our spouses could possibly walk in on us. Although we did almost have a house cleaner walk in on us when we forgot to lock the door. :)

Always lock the door, fellas!

[amature74]

My first we met in a parking lot and I got into his car. Drove around until we found a private place (a cemetery) and jerked each other and sucked each other - very hot. I think the most relaxed are at the other guy's place, though - no worries about wife, neighbors, grandkids walking in. It is amazing how many guys will answer an ad in Craigs List. My big worry is catching something and sharing it with my wife!

[lizard-lix]

When I was younger, it was anywhere, either house, car, backyard, pool, woods, boats, middle of a dirt road in the dark.

Now, it's a hotel since my wife and the wife of the guy I am seeing don't want us fucking in the house (so far). The fetish club has a playroom, so that may be one of the possible places if we are cool with an audience (I've fucked my wife there, and it is distracting to have 1 - 100 people watching from so close you can 'feel' them, they have a few areas with gauze curtains, those are great, just enough privacy).

Like folks said above, I am really careful about potential STIs and bringing one home, so no random pickups, I will only play with folks I know well enough to believe their DDF status (forget testing, a test is out of date by the time you get the results).

[cuttin2dachase]

As I have posted in similar threads, I prefer to host in my apartment and preferably with bi married or divorced men I have chatted with sufficiently to establish a mutual comfort level. Fake, rude, crude, pushy, impatient and insincere men always weed themselves out very quickly online so if I invite a man to a meetup, I've vetted him well enough to feel confident and excited about meeting him and Ive also gotten the same vibes of excitement and anticipation from him. My place is very safe, private and secure and it's where I feel most comfortable playing. Because my neighbors are unfriendly types who keep to themselves and I don't know them well, I don't really care if they see women or men coming or going from my apartment or if they gossip amongst themselves. There's only a very remote chance that anyone else will come knocking at my door, plus they'd have to break it down to catch me and another guy in the act. On a first meeting, I will invite a guy to join me for a face-to-face drink at a nearby restaurant bar or a regular bar or tavern. I never post or exchange face pics online, so this is the first time either of us will see the faces that are attached to the body and cock pics we have exchanged LOL. I find that sports bars are the most comfortable places to meet men because nobody bats an eye at two guys chatting and laughing while sitting at a table, in a booth or at the bar. It's quite exciting to both know that if we hit it off, we will finish our drinks and soon be in bed at my place. I haven't met a whole lot of men more than once and have had only 3 men I regularly met. Most of the men I meet disappear offline and want no more contact after they get what they want, but hey I got what I wanted too, so one-time hookups are OK with me. I'd prefer to become regular or semi regular FWBs with men, but I will take what I can get until I do meet a real FWB. You can't have repeat sex and fun with a guy unless you've played once before !

[Odge1]

I like private meetings. I prefer meeting at his or her place behind closed doors. Not a big fan of parking lots or outdoors. I don't and haven't ruled that out. I just like to feel safe. My favorite friend has a beautiful condo with a playroom with a queen size bed. He has me sit with pillows behind my back. He then worships my cock and balls. Always a spine tingling blowjob!

[Hypersexual11]

Looking for a long term fwb is always complicated by finding a place. My longest 'relationship' if it can be called that, was a weekly meeting in my van for about 5 or 6 months. We would meet at a large shopping center parking lot and climb in the large bed in the back. We were only blowing each other so there was no rocking to give away what was going on and the windows were designed to be opaque from the outside. I miss that van :(

[centexwill]

Meet in public place (spa, bookstore) and his house.

[chub-bi]

Meet with 1 guy at his place, another guy we split a room. The 3rd fwb I have just sucks me in the car.
Car head is fun this time of the year when its darker earlier and chilly out but it gets scary in nicer weather.

[DownBoy]

Neutral location. Always!

My first time was with a top in the back of his 18-wheeler at a truckstop. Everything since then have been at adult-bookstores/theaters. I've never gone to any man's house.

You should only go to his house (or vice versa) if you two have some sort of FWB type relationship.

[whistle1]

Neutral location. Always!

My first time was with a top in the back of his 18-wheeler at a truckstop. Everything since then have been at adult-bookstores/theaters. I've never gone to any man's house.

You should only go to his house (or vice versa) if you two have some sort of FWB type relationship.

I can understand about not wanting to go to some strange guy's place - or have him come to yours. Don't you ever worry about getting caught at these neutral locations?

[NakedInSeattle]

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