bicurious straight male with no MM experience

[Jack Black]

Where do I go to satisfy my curiosity that is safe and discrete. Got punked w/CL ad. In 53181 area code

[querty]

Try www.swinglifestyle.com

[txsmale55]

Mwm here bi but no playmate. Been looking for many years, with no luck finding a man to play and have sex with. It's not as easy as you would think. And I know their are lots of men out there wanting to play with other men!!!

[NjbiGuy01]

It certainly can be a big challenge. I've had limited success with Craigslist in the past (but it seems there are way too many "regulars" there). I see guys posting sometimes a dozen times a day ! Same pics, same bs story (sure, you're a "beginner" even though you've posted that 50 times now)...lol. Then there are concerns about disease and discretion. I ran into people on my block, people I knew through business, or the community. Scary. I'm on Adult Friendfinder as well, which I've had limited success with, although sometimes the same problems with flaky people crop up.

I agree: There are many guys looking, but it's either they want to play 5 minutes after the first e-mail or they spend a week e-mailing too and fro, only to back out or stop responding. I had a nickel for every person that made me feel like I maybe (finally) met someone I could have a steady thing with, I'd be rich. Usually when it gets to "lets grab a beer or coffee", they vaporize. Meeting MF couples are a whole different set of problems and dynamics...

[lizard-lix]

I was out of circulation for 40 years and recently got back into the dating/pickup scene. So I've been going through the same.

I've been having good luck on AdultFriendFinder.COM, ALT.COM and FetLife.COM (fetlife is not a dating site per se, but there are opportunities and most of the best contacts I've made are from there or multiple sources).

The best way that I've found is to mix them all. I participate in groups like this on AFF and have met several folks at public events. I go to a local fetish club and volunteer to work at the parties.

Finding a good partner takes work. But I now have an expanding circle of queer and kinky friends who I am out to, and I've met a guy I am going to hook up with, probably this coming weekend (we both work too much so time is tricky, we've already met in public twice and we're ready to go). I really want to connect with bi couples (so I'm greedy, sue me :bigrin: Being 59 and not a Ken doll, it has not been easy, but after 3 months I am on the verge with 2 - 3 couples. This took a lot of emails and patience, but now they are sending notes to me first so we are developing a relationship.

OTOH, if you just want a quick hookup AFF or ALT work well. I could find a quickie pretty much any day, I am just very careful and looking for a LT FWB, not a one time NSA fuck & run.

[biNshy]

fetlife.com

[pole_smoker]

It certainly can be a big challenge. I've had limited success with Craigslist in the past (but it seems there are way too many "regulars" there). I see guys posting sometimes a dozen times a day ! Same pics, same bs story (sure, you're a "beginner" even though you've posted that 50 times now)...lol. Then there are concerns about disease and discretion. I ran into people on my block, people I knew through business, or the community. Scary. I'm on Adult Friendfinder as well, which I've had limited success with, although sometimes the same problems with flaky people crop up.

I agree: There are many guys looking, but it's either they want to play 5 minutes after the first e-mail or they spend a week e-mailing too and fro, only to back out or stop responding. I had a nickel for every person that made me feel like I maybe (finally) met someone I could have a steady thing with, I'd be rich. Usually when it gets to "lets grab a beer or coffee", they vaporize. Meeting MF couples are a whole different set of problems and dynamics...
:rolleyes: They avoid you since you're a closet queen, liar, cheat, and total bottom feeder that has multiple STDs. ;) :rolleyes:

[void()]

They avoid you since you're a closet queen, liar, cheat, and total bottom feeder that has multiple STDs.

Well, maybe they do avoid him for those reasons. You're avoided for your choice, acting a very ugly individual. Maybe it is not act, or choice for you?

Again, not stalking and only commenting with a statement of fact observed here in a public forum. You chose what you showed to us.

[pole_smoker]

Well, maybe they do avoid him for those reasons. You're avoided for your choice, acting a very ugly individual. Maybe it is not act, or choice for you?

Again, not stalking and only commenting with a statement of fact observed here in a public forum. You chose what you showed to us.
Um, yeah you are stalking me. You feel the need to reply to every single one of my posts with utter nonsense. :rolleyes: This is a sex site and amateur porn site for bisexual adults, there's nothing "ugly" about writing about sex or posting porn pics for other adults to see. :rolleyes: When I get flamed/attacked by mentally ill trolls like you and others on here I flame/attack back. That's not being "ugly". :rolleyes:

The people on here, and in my personal life who have actually gotten to know me for who I am know that I'm a wonderful person. You and the other trolls are not these people. ;) :rolleyes:

[void()]

Um, yeah you are stalking me. You feel the need to reply to every single one of my posts with utter nonsense. This is a sex site and amateur porn site for bisexual adults, there's nothing "ugly" about writing about sex or posting porn pics for other adults to see. When I get flamed/attacked by mentally ill trolls like you and others on here I flame/attack back. That's not being "ugly".


When you choose attacking others, yes, that is being ugly. Yes, I will call you or anyone on acting, being ugly. I strongly dislike that course of action displaying such ugliness, such baseness. I do not tolerate it from anyone.

The nonsense as you call it, is an objective reflection of yourself shown right back to you. I will continue choosing to do that as long as it takes for you to choose no longer acting immaturely, base, ugly. I do not care that your feelings are hurt. You chose to continue hurting the feelings of others. You could have chosen setting a standard, being more mature.

Yes, i agree it is an adult site. You have chosen to act in a manner that is childish. Why are you still here, child? Need an adult to escort you away? You continue such actions by your own choice. You have been asked nicely to cease and desist. You will not. Well, have a look in the mirror then.

And I am not in any way emotionally invested. At present I am kind of emotionally inclined to read more Terry Pratchett. He is at least funny. You are not. You to me are an empty ugly shell, letters on a screen. That is not mental illness. It is only seeing things at obvious, face value. That is a choice. I retain control, you do not.

[blowjober]

http://www.bi-curious-dating.com/ is fit for you!

[bikurinpa]

Is this a free TO JOIN but have to pay to do anything? Most so called free sites you have to pay to b able to contact anyone or view anything.

[Christopher South]

Where do I go to satisfy my curiosity that is safe and discrete. Got punked w/CL ad. In 53181 area code

Don't know how old you are but you can try silverdaddies.com. Search by your zip code came up with about 20 guys within 10 miles of you.

[bikurinpa]

http://www.bi-curious-dating.com/ is fit for you!

This site just redirects to bicupid.com.