Needing advice about MMF threesomes.

[bisexycouple16]

Just to give you a little background before the question(s)...before I met my wife, I had a few bisexual experiences...my first was with a friend of mine and started by us jacking off to porn and stuff and soon became a suck each other off two to three times a week deal. I found the act of sucking him off to be a very exciting and erotic experience. The first time we exchanged a bj he came in my mouth without saying anything and before I knew it I had swallowed. I really liked it and did it every time we sucked each other off. We did this for a period of about a year and a half, until he left the area. Skip forward a few years and I had another suck buddy, but it did not last after two blowjobs. I've never done anal, but am curious about it. A few more years later, I met my wife, who I have been happily married to for 10 years. She has know for about 8 years now of my experiences with men. She has never had a problem with it. In fact, when I first told her, she seemed turned on to know the details. I just sort of left it at that. About a 6 months ago, we were having a discussion and the topic was brought up. Every now and then, I seem to have this craving to suck a dick, but since I've been married, I don't want to do this behind my wife's back, so I just let it go. I told my wife this. To make a long story short, she tells me that she wouldn't mind actually seeing me suck another man's dick and get sucked myself. We talked about it for a while and she admitted that she might also like to join in the sucking, which I thought we be so hot. So we start talking about the idea of a threesome with another male. My wife eventually expresses interest in having the other man penetrate her vaginally during our threesome. At first I wasn't sure about the idea of another man doing my wife, but the more I gave it thought, the idea became more of a turn on, especially because I would be playing with him too and why not allowing my wife to enjoy the entire experience. So we posted an ad online and got quite few guys who are interested. We requested pics and sent them too and there were a few guys who were really good looking and that we were both interested in. They are all younger than we are, of which I have no problem, but the apprehension that I have is coming from the size of their penises. Personally, I am very average at about 5.75" long and 5" around. I don't have a problem with sucking a big cock, but am a little apprehensive about someone larger than I penetrating my wife. There are three guys that we are really interested in, one is 7.5" long and 6" around, the other two are right around 8" and one is uncut and thick. I have talked to my wife about the size issue and she assures me that the size is not the attraction. She says if we meet these guys and their personalities are ugly, then she wouldn't be interested in them anyway. Let me add, that we have wonderful sex everytime we do it, and she has never complained about my size. I do want her to have a wonderful experience when we do this, and get off as many times as she wants. I guess the question I have is if any married or attached men have felt this way, or you have allowed your significant other to be penetrated by a man larger than you, am I worrying too much about it, should I just go for it, etc. Any thoughts would help.

[bi4asplay]

At the time all of my Bi sex was with my late wife and myself playing with others. For the first couple of years I was the only one to be penetrated She always joked about being envious of me getting all of the big dicks. When in truth I was at least as big as those we played with over a 10 year period. She would help me suck them from the start. It was her choice to let the first guy fuck her and I came licking them both when he came in her. The way that we both looked at it was that we were sharing one another as a couple. The others involved were there for fun not for love. When it was she and I it was for love. Go for what you fantasize about, if you are sure there is going to be no jealousy.

[Gateway]

I think you are worrying about this too much. She is with you for this long because she loves you and the intimacy with you. While sex is an important part of a relationship, it is not everything. There will always be a bigger penis out there and a man who can keep it harder for longer than you can. You have to accept this and be happy that she is willing to try this for you, not many women will do this! Hopefully you will both enjoy the experience and be able to incorporate future men or couples into your lives from time to time.

[ghw132]

My wife and my experience was a guy which was quite a bit larger than me, and the first couple of times my wife had fantastic orgasams with the other guy and I was concerned, but she considered those orgasms as a gift from me to her. Over time she told me she liked my penis better because I could keep it harder longer. And as mentioned by another respondent, we love each other and have sex often, our friend only comes once a month or so, and is there for a quick evening of sex and then he is gone, back to his girlfriend. I do not think you have anything to worry about.

[cuttin2dachase]

My advice is to trust her, take her word and believe her when she assures you that size is not her motivation. You are a lucky man to have a partner who knows, approves and encourages your mm desires and enjoys being shared between you and another man. She is lucky to have a partner who wants to see and help her be sexually pleasured in a way most women never dream of. I see no reason for you to feel insecure or jealous under those circumstances.

My 1st wife eagerly, willingly and easily took on cocks which were longer and/or thicker than mine, the largest one being 9.5 and super thick. She actually preferred cocks near my size (as did I). I have an average, garden variety 6" cut cock which is also of average thickness. Huge cocks caused her pain. I would see her wince while well endowed 3some partners fucked her, but she ignored it and concentrated on the pleasure part and on pleasing our lover and and me. She knew how much it turned me on seeing her being a total slut for other men and took one for the team. Her pussy was very sore for several days afterward to the point that she didn't have sex again with me until the soreness was gone. That pissed her off because she stayed horny and wanted sex with me every day or every other day. It also meant horny me didn't get anymore pussy until her soreness was gone. Also, the large, thick cocks caused us both to gag when a guy facefucked either of us and we both had sore jaws for a day or two afterwards LOL. For both of us, 5.5" to 7.5" and average to medium thick cocks were the most fuckable and suckable. It is still my preference, but like ex-wifey, I don't refuse a cock of any size when it's offered me.

[open2joy]

We think that this is the hottest thing a loving bi couple can do together. Having a living being as a temporary sex toy together. Sex after is even better.

[Neonaught]

My wife of 29 years and I have had quite a few MFM encounters over the years and this has never been an issue for us. Couples must be very secure before stepping into this kind of thing. I adore seeing her enjoying another man or woman. If they did something that especially tripped her trigger I'd just happily take lessons! As far as size goes we have a "Goldilocks zone" we prefer. At least my size or a little bit bigger. Large cock may make for a nice fuck but it's a pain to suck properly.

I recommend you deal with your apprehensions BEFORE you step off with someone.

[Hypersexual11]

We have found that the biggest worry isn't my wife doing a huge dick, but the guy falling in love with her. We had to institute a 'limited kissing' rule and limit the frequency of events. I used to be concerned about the big dicks as well. The first one I watched penetrate her ended that problem. Hotness WAY outweighed the jealousy. Emotional bonding though, wasn't something we were prepared for.

[NakedInSeattle]

Just go for it! You'll both love it...her, the attention of two men and the newness/nautyness of it and you, the fun of a cock again. I'm sure she'll get off on seeing you with a man just as we guys like seeing gals. Lastly, if you can put your jealousies aside, you'll love seeing her get fucked. I know i love this aspect of it!

[Bimmga]

Friend, you need to slow down. For starters, you're worried about your reaction to another man penetrating your fife. You're also concerned about larger than average guys, which is a roundabout way of saying you are already having some pangs of sexual jealousy. Finally, you don't let anyone you've found on the internet anywhere near your wife until YOU are absolutely sure of him yourself. MMFs can be very erotic with the right person. But they can be very bad with the wrong one. They require trust - a lot of trust between you and your wife, between you and him, and between her and him. This takes time and can never be had from an Internet hook up. So I recommend that you back it up a bit and have a different sort of conversation with your wife. Find yourself a bi man, become friends and comfortable with your sexual relationship with. Then, when the time is right, bring him in to meet your wife. They have to decide for themselves if there is any sexual interest. Never forget that the possibility of your wife developing romantic feelings for the other guy is very real. You have to have a plan for this before the clothes ever come off. Also don't for get that first time MMFs can be awkward and that, as with any sexual fantasy, the fantasy is usually better than the reality. This is especially true about having sex with a total stranger.

If you just want to experiment and really don't want the possibility of drama, I recommend a bisexual male sex worker.

[NjbiGuy01]

I swear the last couple I was with stopped playing because she got too close to me. He said they "wanted to explore with others", but she started calling me "baby", "honey" and we did a ton of chatting online that got heavy...We played MM and MFM as well as me and her alone....with his permission. But I suspect she had a little too much fun. I had her squirting, she got into rimming me, lots of passionate kissing and sharing his cock when it was a threesome...it's a risk with this kind of scenario....

[indenver_indenver]

My wife and I play with a 7" dildo when we have sex. It makes me furiously hot to watch her guide it into her pussy. (I''m the average guy with just under 6"). I've asked her if it makes her hot to feel a little wicked guiding the "strange" cock into her while I watch and she said yes. I have told her that I'd love to give her the ultimate pleasure of my licking her clit while another guy has his big cock deep in her pussy but she has not agreed to do it. At the time, I had a good bi-sex partner she liked. I don't put pressure on her but we do play with the fantasy often.

One time when we were making love, I had blindfolded her and started pushing the dildo into her. I stopped when it was about half way into her. A few moments later she urged me, "Put it in all the way." Yeow! I almost came just hearing her words. I've asked her how the big cock felt and she has said, "Wonderful!" I have no jealousy about her taking a big cock - I desire for her to have the experience with my licking her pussy. I believe it would be an experience she'd remember the rest of her life. I want to give it to her as an expression of my love for her.








Just to give you a little background before the question(s)...before I met my wife, I had a few bisexual experiences...my first was with a friend of mine and started by us jacking off to porn and stuff and soon became a suck each other off two to three times a week deal. I found the act of sucking him off to be a very exciting and erotic experience. The first time we exchanged a bj he came in my mouth without saying anything and before I knew it I had swallowed. I really liked it and did it every time we sucked each other off. We did this for a period of about a year and a half, until he left the area. Skip forward a few years and I had another suck buddy, but it did not last after two blowjobs. I've never done anal, but am curious about it. A few more years later, I met my wife, who I have been happily married to for 10 years. She has know for about 8 years now of my experiences with men. She has never had a problem with it. In fact, when I first told her, she seemed turned on to know the details. I just sort of left it at that. About a 6 months ago, we were having a discussion and the topic was brought up. Every now and then, I seem to have this craving to suck a dick, but since I've been married, I don't want to do this behind my wife's back, so I just let it go. I told my wife this. To make a long story short, she tells me that she wouldn't mind actually seeing me suck another man's dick and get sucked myself. We talked about it for a while and she admitted that she might also like to join in the sucking, which I thought we be so hot. So we start talking about the idea of a threesome with another male. My wife eventually expresses interest in having the other man penetrate her vaginally during our threesome. At first I wasn't sure about the idea of another man doing my wife, but the more I gave it thought, the idea became more of a turn on, especially because I would be playing with him too and why not allowing my wife to enjoy the entire experience. So we posted an ad online and got quite few guys who are interested. We requested pics and sent them too and there were a few guys who were really good looking and that we were both interested in. They are all younger than we are, of which I have no problem, but the apprehension that I have is coming from the size of their penises. Personally, I am very average at about 5.75" long and 5" around. I don't have a problem with sucking a big cock, but am a little apprehensive about someone larger than I penetrating my wife. There are three guys that we are really interested in, one is 7.5" long and 6" around, the other two are right around 8" and one is uncut and thick. I have talked to my wife about the size issue and she assures me that the size is not the attraction. She says if we meet these guys and their personalities are ugly, then she wouldn't be interested in them anyway. Let me add, that we have wonderful sex everytime we do it, and she has never complained about my size. I do want her to have a wonderful experience when we do this, and get off as many times as she wants. I guess the question I have is if any married or attached men have felt this way, or you have allowed your significant other to be penetrated by a man larger than you, am I worrying too much about it, should I just go for it, etc. Any thoughts would help.

[cocklover911]

Everyone should follow threesome rules that are made before you have threesome. FMM & FFM have more complex rules than MMM & FFF. You can refer to threesome dating (http://www.bithreesomedating.com/) club's rules on bi threesomes.