Mental Block About Eating Own Cum

[whistle1]

I've read stories (here and on other sites) of guys who love to eat cum (their own or someone else's). I realize that this is not for everyone and is an acquired taste. It also seems that many guys (myself included) have a mental block when it comes to eating their own cum.

The scenario usually goes that the guys are incredibly horny and start jerking off. While doing so, they are all worked up to eat their cum. They may even have some sort of receptacle to catch it. Once the white stuff starts to fly, however, they completely lose all interest and can't follow through.

I hear some of you saying "It will be much easier if you just cum directly in your mouth". The legs back over the head position is often recommended. Some big shooters and/or those with huge cocks are able to cum directly into their mouths.

I have been able to shoot directly into my mouth on several occasions. Even though the cum was already there and all I had to do was swallow, I just couldn't do it. While watching the cum shoot out of my cock (and the feeling of it land in my mouth) was exciting, the first thought I had once I finished was how to get rid of it as quickly as possible.

I realize that this may be something that I will never be able to bring myself to do. I would be interested to hear how those of you who do eat your own got over that initial hurdle (assuming you had one).

Thanks.

[Hypersexual11]

That sums me up exactly. How I got over it was accidental and I have no idea if this would interest you. I met a new fwb for weekly meeting. We both were there to suck dick. In order for us to do it, I had to come first. Once he came, he was like a bullet to the door. I had a lot more experience with guys and was over my ultra shy period after coming. Anyway, I still wanted to suck dick and swallow a load so after I came in his mouth, I'd just 'suck it up' as it were and start blowing him. It would only take him about 15 seconds to come after getting my load. Way before I had worked up any kind of desire for it. Anyway, I would swallow it, not that I really wanted to, but better than spitting it somewhere in my van and have to deal with that later. We saw each other for several months. Now I notice that when I come in my mouth and this only works for me with the feet over head method, I can easily swallow it. You can also try using some prostate stimulation a second or 2 before coming and stop stroking. Sometimes, with practice, you can shoot a load without the orgasm. Good luck.

[jem_is_bi]

I do not eat my own cum. Doing that would not be sexually exciting or enjoyable for me. But, independent of me Cumming first or last, I love having my partner cum in my mouth and swallow all of it!!

[BicuriousIndy2]

With your legs over your head mouth open as soon as you shoot it into your mouth you have to swallow then. Don't think about it and not sure if you will get a second shot in your mouth. Keep telling yourself when the cum hit your younger swallow.

[coyotedude]

whistle, I honestly wouldn't worry about it too much. There's really no need to eat your own cum if you don't want to. It's really about what makes you feel good, not what other people think you should or shouldn't do.

At the risk of TMI: I enjoy my own precum. But I crash very quickly when I have an orgasm. While I've enjoyed other men's taste in the past, I've never been excited about my own. Do I feel I'm missing out on anything? No, not really.

Hope that's helpful. Ciao!

[n1024]

My interest in my own cum was to see what it was like before taking someone else's. The main problem I had was that my cum was available straight after cumming which is the point when interest drops. Therefore I saved several loads by freezing it and then warmed it gently for use. Loved have cum in my mouth while I dildo'd and wanked myself. It was like a gangbang fantasy.
I'd like to be able to eat my cum after cumming so would know I could satisfy a partner even after I'd cum.

[oliveanddark]

I ate my own cum out of a woman's pussy before I ever tried it myself, I find I taste good, but just like someone else s cum it needs to be hot and fresh. I can't suck my own dick, wish I could, but I just eat it right out of my hand after I jack it.

[virginia123]

Cum into a shot glass and save that for the next time you get horny and jerk off.
While you are stroking and getting ready turned on take a taste of the cum in the shot glass from before.
You will become so horny and turned on even more you will be licking the shot glass clean.
When you do cum this time, fill the shot glass again for the next time, etc.
you will like this method.

[bibiboy]

I have tasted my own cum several times and have really liked it. I fantasize about doing it a lot. Especially about going down on her after I've cum inside her. The thing is, like a lot of you, for the most part I lose the urge right after I get off. A couple of times I've asked my gf to encourage me to go down on her and "clean her up". She's done so (but only when I've asked) and it's been sexy as hell. I wish she'd ask me to do it more often on her own because I think I'd really enjoy it all the more and would be giving her another "O" in the process!

[BiBob397]

I do eat my own cum. I would rather eat another guy's but usually I jerk off 2-3 times over a 2 hour period watching hot porn. The action on the screen is usually so hot that eating my cum out of my hand is a fun part of the process. I like to imagine that I'm swallowing the cum out of the cock on the screen. I kike to use the extra to lube up a dildo for my ass. Sex should be fun, and it needs to be fun if you're between partners. Give it a try, man -- and ENJOY!!

[PENTUP47]

whistle: here's a little tip which I picked up of the internet a couple of years back....

But first the background. Your body is 'programmed' to lust to swallow your own semen while you're masturbating; but all the hormones have been used up getting you to actually ejaculate. Thus, you've (temporarily) lost interest in the lovely jizz you've just produced.

Sooooo (here comes the internet tip!), you empty your balls into an ice tray - if you're one of those lucky bastards who has big loads, this will mean several ice cubes - then tuck it away in the freezer, until you're feeling horny again.

Now (here's the best part!) savour the delights of iced jizz, with that miniscule of previously-frozen semen melting in your mouth. NOW you'll enjoy your own cum!

[tabasco84]

About a week ago I came in my hand and 'forced' myself to taste a bit, the next day a bit more, and a few days ago slurped up the entire load. I now look forward to it and now understand why others like it. I think I am addicted now.....

[whistle1]

whistle, I honestly wouldn't worry about it too much. There's really no need to eat your own cum if you don't want to. It's really about what makes you feel good, not what other people think you should or shouldn't do.

At the risk of TMI: I enjoy my own precum. But I crash very quickly when I have an orgasm. While I've enjoyed other men's taste in the past, I've never been excited about my own. Do I feel I'm missing out on anything? No, not really.

Hope that's helpful. Ciao!

I'm not really worried about it. I'm only curious - mainly because of the way my ex used to love it. That just got me wondering what all the fuss was about...

[whistle1]

Thanks to those who replied and offered comments.

The idea of eating my cum out of a freshly-boinked pussy sounds great, but I haven't had access to pussy in years.

The recommendation to freeze the cum and then take it out the next time you are wanking sounds interesting. I just may try that.

[cuttin2dachase]

Try cumming into an empty brown plastic prescription container. You won't see the cum through the opaque plastic...then just close your eyes and suck it out of the container or pour it on your tongue and lips. You can decide then whether to savor it and swallow or spit it back out in the container.

[tabasco84]

mmm.......savor it.....you will be glad you did.....

[Cumoozer]

Hi whistle1. Curious if you've had any success yet? If not, the method I discovered may help you as I was just like you for most of my life, and now I enjoy mine without any hesitation. For years I tried the legs over head, freezing (which just isn't the same as fresh cum), and several other things, but the instant I came I lost interest. So I knew I had to find a way to basically reprogram myself to not lose interest.

I started by fantasizing that the cum itself will make me more sexually powerful, and the more I eat the more my body will crave it and the stronger I will become. That helped with the mental side. To get over the barrier of actually drinking it what I found worked was to do as some have suggested and cum in a shot glass, but instead of freezing it I immediately keep it warm. I had a larger bowl of hot water and put the glass in it to keep it warm.

Then about 10-15 min later, with the cum right there in front of me, as my refractory period started to subdue, I started watching some of the most intense bi and gay porn I knew of. Stuff that would get me really going and fast. As I got super horny and hard again the urge to eat cum again would return, this backed with my little brainwashing of the power of cum and how it will make me sexually more powerful, made my desire to swallow it even more strong. Only now, instead of having to cum to have cum to eat, I had pretty fresh, warm cum load right there in front of me. I'd work myself to being super horny and near cumming and I'd start tasting my warm cum that was waiting for me. In that frame of mind it was very easy to swallow it and doing so turned me on and made me cum so hard.

I repeated this a number of times and then almost without realizing it my sudden lack of desire to eat my fresh load the moment I'd cum started to fade. As it would I'd eat part or all of my fresh load. Now it's no problem at all and I eagerly swallow every drop without any loss of desire. Curious to hear if this works for you, or anyone else out there that wants to eat their own but can't get over the sudden loss of desire!

[whistle1]

Hi whistle1. Curious if you've had any success yet? If not, the method I discovered may help you as I was just like you for most of my life, and now I enjoy mine without any hesitation. For years I tried the legs over head, freezing (which just isn't the same as fresh cum), and several other things, but the instant I came I lost interest. So I knew I had to find a way to basically reprogram myself to not lose interest.

I started by fantasizing that the cum itself will make me more sexually powerful, and the more I eat the more my body will crave it and the stronger I will become. That helped with the mental side. To get over the barrier of actually drinking it what I found worked was to do as some have suggested and cum in a shot glass, but instead of freezing it I immediately keep it warm. I had a larger bowl of hot water and put the glass in it to keep it warm.

Then about 10-15 min later, with the cum right there in front of me, as my refractory period started to subdue, I started watching some of the most intense bi and gay porn I knew of. Stuff that would get me really going and fast. As I got super horny and hard again the urge to eat cum again would return, this backed with my little brainwashing of the power of cum and how it will make me sexually more powerful, made my desire to swallow it even more strong. Only now, instead of having to cum to have cum to eat, I had pretty fresh, warm cum load right there in front of me. I'd work myself to being super horny and near cumming and I'd start tasting my warm cum that was waiting for me. In that frame of mind it was very easy to swallow it and doing so turned me on and made me cum so hard.

I repeated this a number of times and then almost without realizing it my sudden lack of desire to eat my fresh load the moment I'd cum started to fade. As it would I'd eat part or all of my fresh load. Now it's no problem at all and I eagerly swallow every drop without any loss of desire. Curious to hear if this works for you, or anyone else out there that wants to eat their own but can't get over the sudden loss of desire!

I did try the freezing method (let it thaw at room temperature beforehand). I saved up a few loads in a brown prescription bottle so the visual component wouldn't be an issue. While jerking off and still horny, I poured it into my mouth. Problem solved, right?

Even though I had not yet cum and was still horny, I still could not bring myself to swallow.

Part of the issue was likely the taste - bitter and even somewhat metallic. I now have a much greater appreciation for my last girlfriend who used to suck down my cum like it was going out of style.

In any case, I had to go into the bathroom and spit it out into the sink.

Perhaps this is something that I will never be able to do - which is perfectly okay with me. I just find the mental aspect of it interesting.

[OlderBC1]

I'd say the next time you jack off, cum in your hand & just start licking it up! don't hesitate, don't think about it! Just do it, I know you'll like it once you get past the thought of it. So just don't think about it.

[SilkyHoseLover]

I'd say the next time you jack off, cum in your hand & just start licking it up! don't hesitate, don't think about it! Just do it, I know you'll like it once you get past the thought of it. So just don't think about it.

Gotta agree with this approach. This topic comes up frequently, and so many guys lose their motivation before their cocks stop pulsating! It used to plague me, too. At times, I still fail to slurp mine up, although I intend to up until the time I start to spurt. But I do follow-through often, particularly when on webcam with other guys watching. Really gets me hot and they seem to like it, too!

I don't think I could get into saving it up, whether freezing it or any other method. Cum changes consistency quickly, and I don't think I'd like how watery it becomes after-the-fact.

[DownBoy]

If I can eat another man's cum, then I can easily eat mine. It tastes really good too!

[plainguy]

I don't know that I have a mental block about eating my own cum, sometimes I just don't other times I can't get enough, just my urges at the time and how excited I am I guess.

[Cumoozer]

Gotta agree with this approach. This topic comes up frequently, and so many guys lose their motivation before their cocks stop pulsating! It used to plague me, too. At times, I still fail to slurp mine up, although I intend to up until the time I start to spurt. But I do follow-through often, particularly when on webcam with other guys watching. Really gets me hot and they seem to like it, too!

I don't think I could get into saving it up, whether freezing it or any other method. Cum changes consistency quickly, and I don't think I'd like how watery it becomes after-the-fact. Yes, the frozen cum just isn't the same. Not the same taste, or texture. And re-warmed frozen cum is even worse. That's why my method of keeping it warm and eating it again while it's still pretty fresh is the closest thing to truly fresh cum.

Another technique you could try is attempt to deliberately not shoot it all out. Leave some in the plumbing of your cock and keep it from leaking out for a good 10 - 15 mins till your immediate post cum refractory period starts to subside, then milk the little bits out and eat it. Quantity will be small, and it will have thinned a little, but should taste nice and fresh.

[OlderBC1]

Was in gay/bi chat on lush stories this morning & licked up my own load after cybering with another guy. What a way to start the day!?

[whistle1]

Yes, the frozen cum just isn't the same. Not the same taste, or texture. And re-warmed frozen cum is even worse. That's why my method of keeping it warm and eating it again while it's still pretty fresh is the closest thing to truly fresh cum.

Another technique you could try is attempt to deliberately not shoot it all out. Leave some in the plumbing of your cock and keep it from leaking out for a good 10 - 15 mins till your immediate post cum refractory period starts to subside, then milk the little bits out and eat it. Quantity will be small, and it will have thinned a little, but should taste nice and fresh.

I've seen this method mentioned before. I am not one of those guys who can partially cum. With me, it's all or nothing...

[whistle1]

I'd say the next time you jack off, cum in your hand & just start licking it up! don't hesitate, don't think about it! Just do it, I know you'll like it once you get past the thought of it. So just don't think about it.

The problem with me isn't getting the cum in my mouth (I've had my cum in my mouth many times). The problem is that once it's in my mouth, an involuntary reflex kicks in that says "Get it out! get it out!"

As I've also mentioned, I don't particularly like the taste of my cum. I posted something recently about pineapple juice. I may have to try that to see if it helps...

[sysper]

i've done that before but it hasn't changed my feelings about it. no matter how horny i am i know the moment i cum i will loose all interest.
I'd say the next time you jack off, cum in your hand & just start licking it up! don't hesitate, don't think about it! Just do it, I know you'll like it once you get past the thought of it. So just don't think about it.

[Lil Miss Understood]

I absolutley love eating my own cum. to me it's nothing more then mind over matter. It was weird at first, but once I got into it, it just began to feel completely normal. I live a pretty claen lifestyle so mine is very delicious and taste's way too good to waste. diet can have a negative effect and smoking is no help either...

[OlderBC1]

The problem with me isn't getting the cum in my mouth (I've had my cum in my mouth many times). The problem is that once it's in my mouth, an involuntary reflex kicks in that says "Get it out! get it out!"

As I've also mentioned, I don't particularly like the taste of my cum. I posted something recently about pineapple juice. I may have to try that to see if it helps...
Well, fantasizing about a man cumming in your mouth somehow helps. You should be sexually excited, aroused by the act of having creamy-textured cum in your mouth. It's salty for a couple seconds, then it's musky, or other flavored to an extent, depending on your diet.


i've done that before but it hasn't changed my feelings about it. no matter how horny i am i know the moment i cum i will loose all interest.
This is what I mean about not thinking about it. Start lapping it up the second you finish cumming & it'll be way easier to enjoy licking up & swallowing. Just do it very quickly...


I absolutley love eating my own cum. to me it's nothing more then mind over matter. It was weird at first, but once I got into it, it just began to feel completely normal. I live a pretty claen lifestyle so mine is very delicious and taste's way too good to waste. diet can have a negative effect and smoking is no help either...
Ys, it is indeed mostly mind over matter! Just making up your mind to do it quickly & without thought or emotion can help a lot if you really want to enjoy a mouthful of cum. It's the thought of it being icky that causes problems. It's not icky at all, it's just the thought of it being so.

[cornholejoe]

i have licked the cum out of my late wife pussy a lot of times once she put me on my back with my legs and dick over my face fucked me with a dildo and jacked me off and made me eat my own cum really did not like the taste but did it for her

[Phat3lvis]

The first time I tried it I was 14 or 15 and curious, it was not that amazing or bad and I felt pretty neutral about my own. Shortly thereafter I used to fool around with an older boy who pushed me into sucking his dick and not by choice I got to taste his cum more than a few times.

As a young man I never missed an opportunity to kiss a girls mouth after she gave me head, and if she did not cum while fucking her I would go down on her and finish her off, and in this context I don’t feel neutral about my own cum at all, it’s pretty awesome.

Up until recently I really had no desire to jack off and eat my own, but completely on accident, I discovered that precum and ejaculate are fantastic for treating dry mouth. I am taking a medication that makes my mouth so dry that it is almost intolerable. Gum, mouthwash, water, nothing works. Then one day I had a raging hardon and was dripping precum and on reflex just wiped it with my finger and put it in my mouth and immediately my dry mouth felt better. After trying my cum I found both worked well but the precum was much better. So yeah, there is that.

[Bicyclist]

I get enormously aroused cumming on a dildo knowing that the more careful I am in doing so, the more cum I get to enjoy as I suck it and lick it clean, all the time fantasizing it's another guy's precious cream. Yum.

[bi42guy1958]

I can't remember the first time I tried it, been so long. But I knew I was hooked! I like to have a man cum partly in my mouth and on my lips then lick it up clean!
Still waiting for the right couple that would let me clean up a creampie!

[Cumoozer]

I get enormously aroused cumming on a dildo knowing that the more careful I am in doing so, the more cum I get to enjoy as I suck it and lick it clean, all the time fantasizing it's another guy's precious cream. Yum. That's a great idea, haven't tried that one yet! Thank you for the suggestion :)