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al987al
Aug 6, 2015, 3:07 PM
Interesting.

http://nymag.com/scienceofus/2015/08/why-straight-men-have-sex-with-each-other.html

pole_smoker
Aug 6, 2015, 3:35 PM
*yawn* This is just biphobia, bisexual erasure, homophobia, and bi/gay hate from a bisexual/lesbian woman who is a sociologist who is promoting her silly book. Huff Poo did a review/"article" on it and people trashed it as they should. Better yet go to the Amazon page for it and write 1 star reviews.

http://www.amazon.com/Not-Gay-between-Straight-Cultures/dp/1479825174

cornholejoe
Aug 6, 2015, 5:42 PM
over the last 5 years or so i have figured out there are no true straight men iknow men who will take a blowjob from a man or fuck him in the ass or get get fucked in the ass but wont admit they are bi

void()
Aug 7, 2015, 1:41 PM
over the last 5 years or so i have figured out there are no true straight men iknow men who will take a blowjob from a man or fuck him in the ass or get get fucked in the ass but wont admit they are bi

Well, it is really their own choice as how they identify themselves. Our choice lies in how we choose to perceive them. Similar to you, I feel maybe befuddled over their actions and choice for a small duration. Then, I realize they're human males on a tiny speck of a planet in a vast set of cosmoses. Realize too, their choices are not mine. I have no control over what anyone chooses except myself.

These realized, I realize too I am not my emotions. Befuddled is a visitor only. That I can control. So I return to being not really too concerned over what someone else calls themselves. "Not my monkey, not my circus, why do I need have a concern?" Is it germane to me beyond knowing it happens? What I means happens is, people lie. Well, I seem to already know that. So ... ?

That will happen as long as there are people. Not sure anyone can do much to control that into abomination. We each respectively can only live to our own highest moral values, make our own choices, hopefully not interfere or injure others. In short each can do their best and hope for the best, and that is the best anyone can get from life.

jem_is_bi
Aug 7, 2015, 11:30 PM
How about poor vision, poor judgment and too much to drink?

pepperjack
Aug 8, 2015, 1:12 AM
I believe the answer is in here: http://www.amazon.com/The-Naked-Ape-Zoologists-Animal/dp/0385334303 Read it as an 18yo.

pole_smoker
Aug 8, 2015, 2:21 AM
How about poor vision, poor judgment and too much to drink?

Have you ever been really drunk? Or do you know anyone that is blind?

Even people who are blind, when they get drunk can easily tell the sex or gender of who they are having sex with, just lIke people who are not blind when they get drunk. :rolleyes:

void()
Aug 8, 2015, 3:37 AM
I believe the answer is in here: http://www.amazon.com/The-Naked-Ape-Zoologists-Animal/dp/0385334303 Read it as an 18yo.

From the blurb ... "simply another animal species".

Well, gee. ... * waits for loose floor board to smack him in the face *

This follows what I have seemed to know. Not read the work, but just knew the subject matter. It is akin to having just known how to set up basic Apache web servers about five years prior to them being actual Apache web servers. Prior to that they were merely http servers and if recalled correctly CERN was in the lead in how they were standardized and coded up, configured.

I did not attend any university yet knew of these servers and how to configure them and make them work, understood them. Could not tell you I knew, but I knew. Also knew/know there was a lot I did not know / still don't know. I'm happy to not know everything.

Visexual
Aug 8, 2015, 4:28 AM
I remember trying to put a label on myself years ago and finally realized it just didn't matter one bit. I know that I love female bodies but I also love cocks and balls. I really don't trust women when it comes to sexual pleasures anymore. They come with too much drama. So, I'll stick to cocks and balls now.

sysper
Aug 8, 2015, 11:11 AM
it's just me but......the drama can't keep me away from admiration of those very nice curves & even the other side of human personality, though it seems i'm forced to do such admiration from afar.......like on forums like this.