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mrplayfuluk
Aug 17, 2006, 3:25 PM
Bisexuals have a reputation for being oversexed so.... how often do you pleasure yourself in a week and what do you use as stimulation?

Biroadie
Aug 17, 2006, 4:12 PM
much much more often than I think I should.....

usually out of a five day week, four nights, weekends are basically no question. If I skip a day basically I make up for it the next day....ie. twice.

I always complain that I wished they made a pill that i can take to decrease my sex drive to the point of a doctor saying, "holy shit, you have a high sex drive"

DiamondDog
Aug 17, 2006, 5:17 PM
2-3 times daily.
sometimes more.
my imagination, porn, past experiences, and sometimes a well written story.

glantern954
Aug 17, 2006, 6:10 PM
Not as often as I would like to.

Peaches6927
Aug 17, 2006, 6:36 PM
I masterbate with a clit vibe everyday, if for some reason i can't find time that day, i double up on the next...allthough i have been known to masterbate 5 times in one day and then hubby comes home getting it some more...hee,hee (do it right everytime) ;)

JrzGuy3
Aug 17, 2006, 6:43 PM
Several times a day. And that's not even testament to how often I'll be sitting at my computer doing something completely non-sexual and realize, hey, how long ago did my hand make its way into my underwear?


Not as often as I would like to.

Well hey, that should be easy to fix.

Fun too!

trip1
Aug 17, 2006, 8:22 PM
To steal a phrase I'll masturbate several times a day and sometimes more. Always where I can get away with it and sometimes where I shouldn't LOL...

Diane54
Aug 17, 2006, 8:34 PM
only once a day
and then i attack Don after chat
if he isn't amenable then again
so 1or 2 times a day depending

I use a vibe or fingers either works just fine.

mistymockingbird
Aug 17, 2006, 8:36 PM
Daily. Often mutiple times. Usually with a vibe or some other toy. Frequently with a little "help" from a friend on the phone. And I love porn.

innaminka
Aug 17, 2006, 8:40 PM
It varies.
When I'm alone which is often - probably nightly as its a sort of sleeping pill.
Now and then I'll twiddle in front of telly, but that's hard now because my eldest daughter goes to bed at the same time I do.
When I'm travelling - which I do often - I'm a travel consultant - I tend to make more of a pleasure session out of it. Tho the right company :female: :female: often cuts the incidence!!!

Satistically - maybe 4-5 times a week.

Azrael
Aug 17, 2006, 10:01 PM
Daily as a general rule. Sometimes multiple times. Occasionally to porn but I find it's more intense when I keep it mental. Sometimes if I'm particularly depressed I'll skip a day and spend it sleeping, but that's a habit I'm seeking to shed. I also use it to help me get to sleep sometimes.

Lorcan
Aug 17, 2006, 11:02 PM
Geez o weez people! When i was 13 i did it 3 times a day, but with age that slowed down a lot. I thought that was normal. Now when i read your messages i wonder how you were when you were 13! :eek:

:bigrin:

EludedSunshine
Aug 18, 2006, 1:05 AM
I go through spells. Sometimes it's multiple times daily; other times it'll be weeks inbetween.

And as far as what with... well, I'm not going to tell you everything! :bigrin:

taz67156
Aug 18, 2006, 1:51 AM
to long ago for me to remember but that might change soon though

crysstaafur
Aug 18, 2006, 2:50 AM
variable. i am generally insatiable so there are days/nights that i will do it 2 to 4 times a day. sometimes i will on purposely go without(including sex) for a month or two, to spike sensitivity back up. then it's back to driving my spike into as many holes i can find.... also mm with my lady is a nice form of knockout when penitration&oral proves challenging (ex:monthlys.)

smthsb6
Aug 18, 2006, 5:20 AM
Once a day weather I need it or not. Sometimes more.

Biroadie
Aug 18, 2006, 9:42 AM
much much more often than I think I should.....

usually out of a five day week, four nights, weekends are basically no question. If I skip a day basically I make up for it the next day....ie. twice.

I always complain that I wished they made a pill that i can take to decrease my sex drive to the point of a doctor saying, "holy shit, you have a high sex drive"

Oh, as an afterthought, people who I have talked to remarked I am one crazy oversexed Asian.

littlerayofsunshine
Aug 18, 2006, 10:42 AM
I am so going to sound like the oddball here. But I don't self pleasure unless I am having sex with hubby. I prefer to save and store up all my sexual desire/energy and express/release it during sex.

arana
Aug 18, 2006, 10:45 AM
If you finish then go back for seconds does that still count as one or two?

BiPsych
Aug 18, 2006, 12:51 PM
As a 52 y/o guy, people might be surprised that I am still constantly horny. I jack off once a day usually. I love porn. Porn makes my orgasms more intense. Nothing makes me hotter than watch another guy jack off.

trip1
Aug 18, 2006, 1:20 PM
Hi.

I gotta agree with Bi Psych. ONE of the things that turn me on the most is watching hard cock cummm Either being there in person or camming the though has me pounding down and running off a batch by hand LOL

yoyo4u
Aug 18, 2006, 2:33 PM
I like to watch myself in the mirror while I masturbate and I always "see" myself on my knees to catch it all. It is very intense for me!
I do it once, almost every day. :cool:

biplay
Aug 18, 2006, 3:10 PM
I wasn't going to today, but I started reading this....gotta go.

Biroadie
Aug 18, 2006, 3:44 PM
I wasn't going to today, but I started reading this....gotta go.


Hahahaha, have fun! :tongue:

ophelia_in_red
Aug 18, 2006, 5:04 PM
I go through spells. Sometimes it's multiple times daily; other times it'll be weeks inbetween.
Yeah, me too. I can have weeks where I'll do it three or four times every day, and other weeks (the Monthly Week of Bloody Misery, for example) when I don't do it at all. My masturbatory drive (which is, incidentally, totally divorced from my sex drive) fluctuates with hormones, depressive phases etc. etc.

Porrrrrn; Literotica.com (and books like My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday or Delta of Venus by Anais Nin); my own writing; my glorious and beloved imagination. And let's not forget a handmirror between the legs so one can see what one is doing. Hot. :2cents:

DiamondDog
Aug 18, 2006, 5:15 PM
Yeah, me too. I can have weeks where I'll do it three or four times every day, and other weeks (the Monthly Week of Bloody Misery, for example) when I don't do it at all. My masturbatory drive (which is, incidentally, totally divorced from my sex drive) fluctuates with hormones, depressive phases etc. etc.

Porrrrrn; Literotica.com (and books like My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday or Delta of Venus by Anais Nin); my own writing; my glorious and beloved imagination. And let's not forget a handmirror between the legs so one can see what one is doing. Hot. :2cents:

ooo I love Anais Nin's stories. They're so dream-like.

I've never used a hand mirror but I do enjoy watching myself in a mirror that shows my full length body with my face and all, or even recording myself on a digital camera.

Azrael
Aug 18, 2006, 5:18 PM
Delta of Venus is on my to read list.

ophelia_in_red
Aug 18, 2006, 5:53 PM
Delta of Venus is on my to read list.
You won't regret it! DiamondDog's right; her stories have a lovely drifting, fantastical quality to them. Also, the women she writes about are just.. goddesses. I remember finding my mum's copy of Delta of Venus when I was far too young to be reading it (heehee) and finding myself incredibly attracted to the female characters, long before I recognised my bisexuality. I'm wittering! Read the book! :tong:

mrplayfuluk
Aug 18, 2006, 7:32 PM
wow fellow bi's I am humbled by your responses!!!
this has turned into one horny thread!*!#¶
So we are a sex crazed bunch, we should have one big jacknjillathon some day.

Well my last live in lover turned me onto Anais as well as Nancy Friday so I a total Delta of Venus fan..
I try not to do it every day as I like the build up of sexual energy so when I go for it there is some tension like an elastic pull on my desire to cum. I love that moment when you just can't hold off any longer and wheeeeeeee there she/he blows!

Keep 'em coming, if you'll pardon the expression......




:bigrin:

Herbwoman39
Aug 18, 2006, 9:34 PM
I go through spells. Sometimes it's multiple times daily; other times it'll be weeks inbetween.

Ditto. But then at my age (turning 40 in Jan.) my hormones are on this lovely perimenopausal rollercoaster. It's just like puberty...but in REVERSE!

Some days I'm so horney I'd bang a bedpost and others you couldn't even turn me on with good porn (my weakness ;-) It's sad because at one point in my life I was insatiable and simply could NOT get enough. Now? I'm starting to slow down just a bit.

As for what I use, it varies by my mood and privacy level. Most of the time I don't have the house to myself so it's quietly and with fingers. When i DO have time to self-indulge, I like to bring out what I call "the buzzy friend" and take my time :bigrin:

Hmm... I think it's time for some porn.

Biboz49
Aug 18, 2006, 9:58 PM
As a 52 y/o guy, people might be surprised that I am still constantly horny. I jack off once a day usually. I love porn. Porn makes my orgasms more intense. Nothing makes me hotter than watch another guy jack off.

BiPsych: I'm not surprised. I'm a 50 yo guy and I've been constantly horny since I learned how to jack off at 13. I get off every day (I won't say how often a day lol). I also love porn and it's very helpful!

bigregory
Aug 18, 2006, 11:11 PM
Once a day,or more..
But if im left alone for a time say overnight or a weekend i get right into it with the toys,lube etc. then i lose count.An Orgasam is way more fun with a partner!! But masturbation is a great relief..

biwmtrucker44
Aug 18, 2006, 11:13 PM
:bigrin: at least 1 time a day in AM it gets me moving like coffee :flag3: :bigrin:

eods79
Aug 19, 2006, 12:02 AM
Yeah....Im at about 1 a day, sometimes 3. I have personal pics that I use for stimulation, and I also have some bisexual movies that I like.

skyscanning
Aug 19, 2006, 9:41 AM
An interesting thread...

I would say once a day, more from time to time. But I have an interesting twist to my personal self pleasure (most of the time)... While I will work it to an orgasm, and have said orgasm, I do not allow my body to ejaculate. This allows my body to recharge quicker, but more importantly, it allows me to have a much better orgasm when I have my lover with me, as I still have a nice load of cum to share.

It seems to me that self pleasure is a kind of fix. While it does have certain functions (relieving pressure, helping me sleep, etc) it only stokes the fire for the real thing. By not ejaculating while having an orgasm, it lets me save the best for later...

I read of this technique in a book. The paragraph that taught the technique was worth the price of the book :)

Peace and love...

curiousforu
Aug 19, 2006, 5:12 PM
I'm a 49 yr old male married and i masterbate about 3-4 times a weeks. I love to cyber with males and females but i could masterbate even more if i had the time.

Mrs.F
Aug 19, 2006, 6:16 PM
[QUOTE=Herbwoman39]
Some days I'm so horney I'd bang a bedpost and others you couldn't even turn me on with good porn!! :cutelaugh

I agree here with Herbwoman....I have days where it's like the spot never get's hit. I am just so horny. Then all of a sudden it's the opposite...I could care less. Funny hormones!!! :rolleyes:

NJpantyboy69
Aug 19, 2006, 6:30 PM
You mean everybody doesn't do this? I woke up this morning and did it, and then later when I lay down for a nap, I got a little something to make me rest easier, then there is bed time to look forward to.

I have been jo at least daily since I was 13 years old. Now almost 40 years later I still enjoy as much as I did then, and now that I live alone, I can really take my time. My best friend has always been my right hand!!

I love weekends when I can wear my panties, I get and stay hard on demand when I wear them, plus they are so much more comfortable than men's underwear.

:tongue: :tongue: :tongue: :tongue: :tongue: :tongue:

Flounder1967
Aug 19, 2006, 6:36 PM
It's about once a day. Most of time before i got to bed. Sometimes I don't even think aobut just to tired. I try not to do when i might get some. It makes it harder to finish the second time around. Sometimes if dosen't interrupt.

qbicle
Aug 19, 2006, 6:40 PM
;) Everyday if poss. I only have to slip some womens undies on and I,m ready for action. At work its just a quick one in the toilets. At home I use dildos and vibes both on me and in me. Any guy who hasn't used a vibe is really missing out.

Sparks
Aug 20, 2006, 7:25 AM
Twice a day.......once in the morning and then at bedtime. Weekends more so.

Angel31
Aug 20, 2006, 10:04 PM
This is gonna sound strange but I only just learnt the art of self pleasure and I am nearly 31 years old!

Its strange because as a 14/15 year old I tried a few times but stopped. Mainly for reasons of no privacy.

It was only when my partner suggested I buy a vibe about 18 months ago (because of his premature ejaculation problem) that I discovered a REAL orgasm!!! I laugh when I think about it, because before that I had never experienced a real orgasm, except those ones I had in my dreams (any other females experienced this?). LOL, I didn't even know what those were either till recently!!

The only thing is that I have yet to get the point where I can freely pleasure myself infront of someone. At the moment my pleasure is totally a one person affair. This may be because I am not in a good relationship we hardly ever have sex, maybe once every two months!

So I wait until I am alone and get down to it. At the moment this is about once or twice a week. But if I had the chance through privacy, I reckon it would be a daily or once every two day activity! ;)

bi4us
Aug 21, 2006, 3:00 AM
Once a night. During sexy chat and or looking at hot pics. However, at least once a week i'll get into some autofellatio (self sucking). It's so hot when a guy takes his own cock in his mouth, I should know.

the sacred night
Aug 21, 2006, 12:53 PM
My masturbatory drive (which is, incidentally, totally divorced from my sex drive)

Mine is kind of that way too, although it might just have to do with which gender i'm in the mood for at the moment, because I'm usually in the mood for one or the other. If I'm in the mood for a man, I go to my fiancee, and if I'm in the mood for a woman, I go to myself and some handy adult Web sites :bigrin: Which include a lot of video/picture porn, but then I also frequently get turned on by a good erotic story, although stories can rarely get me all the way there without some help from the other things.

wss30152
Aug 21, 2006, 8:23 PM
I masterbate at leat 2 times a day. I usually just think of past or maybe future experiences. Sometimes i usa a dildo in my ass while i masterbate to get a more extreme orgasm.

bi4us
Aug 22, 2006, 12:32 PM
Once a night. During sexy chat and or looking at hot pics. However, at least once a week i'll get into some autofellatio (self sucking). It's so hot when a guy takes his own cock in his mouth, I should know.
Feel free to contact me with e-mail for further details, I love chatting about it. m or f welcome

FatDick005
Aug 23, 2006, 7:32 PM
I usually do it once a day, at least. Sometimes, more. I've been known to masterbate 4 or 5 times, if I'm completely alone all day. I'm pretty easy to arouse. Hell, just typing this is giving me wood. :bigrin:

I like porn, but sometimes I just like to think about past experiences. I really get turned on watching others, though. So, if anyone has a webcam and wants to watch me, let me know. :)

Diane54
Aug 23, 2006, 8:02 PM
I do it once a day - sometimes even twice if I get really turned on late at night and Hubby is too tired or worn out to take care of me.

I have a bullet i use during housework at times - makes it easier and more fun.

I also use a dildoe at times

i hope that isn't too graphic and detailed

Tynary
Aug 26, 2006, 12:54 PM
uh lets see at the very least once a day. But usually so much more. I do it way way more than I should. I worry my sex drive is to high. um I use dildos mostly and my imagination as a stimulator.
there have been times when I have to be at home all day wear I just keep going for quick jobs allday till i lose count. oh god that was too much information.

mike9753
Aug 26, 2006, 1:59 PM
Does anyone go through spurts - (I guess most of us guys SPURT, and perhaps a few women too, but that's not what I mean). I find that I will go through periods where my hand is always wandering into my pants and if I had the time, I would masturbate seveal times a day. That lasts for nearly a month and a half. Then I will go through a period - usually a week or two, when I will have very little interest.

My choice of stimulants are the internet - sites like Literotica, Fictionmania, and ASSRT.org. I do like Threepillows.com as well.

Mike

Tynary
Aug 26, 2006, 4:37 PM
Oh yes I most definetly know what you mean about spurts. I have periods like that. Sometimes I'm really interested and sometimes not but I think with women it may have a bit to do with our cycle.

windsor_couple
Aug 26, 2006, 4:44 PM
At least once a day, occasionally more . I have a great imagination that
helps and love to use my fingers on other parts of my body while stroking :tongue:

12voltman59
Aug 26, 2006, 11:43 PM
I try to do so at least once a day--but if time or other factors prevent that-then I tend to make up for those lost times at the next opportunity----

I do have periods when I like to do it more--and some times when my desire is not so strong---it must be the moon or something-- :tongue:

Bum_Ditty
Sep 2, 2006, 2:52 AM
Usually at least once a day, sometimes twice or more, but sometimes not for three or four days at a stretch. sometimes both penile and anal, sometimes only one. I've never been able to resist for more than 4 days, and such occasions are when I tend to jack twice or more times. Speaking of which...
Bum_Ditty
:bounce:
:color:

SatyrGuy69
Sep 2, 2006, 4:55 AM
:( I can't believe this..this is rediculous.All my regards to the family......and i hope everything is okay...... :soapbox: damn...i'm so angry right now

stroker
Sep 2, 2006, 5:51 AM
about 5 times a day here. managed 20 times in a day once

becksbolero
Sep 2, 2006, 9:02 AM
I have a Nancy Friday book on womens fantasies that has almost all the pages stuck together,I bought it in the spring.Twice a day minimum lately but it goes in fits and spurts ;0)

Angel31
Sep 2, 2006, 7:41 PM
about 5 times a day here. managed 20 times in a day once

You gotta be kidding!

How the hell do you get time to do anything else in the day with all that self love going on!!?? :crosseye:

trip1
Sep 2, 2006, 7:49 PM
You gotta be kidding!

How the hell do you get time to do anything else in the day with all that self love going on!!?? :crosseye:

I don't know but what ever wank book he's using I want a copy LOL

Seeker72
Sep 2, 2006, 8:04 PM
Usually 2-3 times a day for me, if I don't get time to do it that many times then I throw it on the pile of "things to do tomorrow"

Angel31
Sep 2, 2006, 8:38 PM
I don't know but what ever wank book he's using I want a copy LOL

Gosh reading this thread makes me feel like a deprived nun! LOL!! :cutelaugh :cutelaugh

gazzajjj72
Sep 2, 2006, 8:55 PM
Once a day at least sometime more........ if im day dreaming there is always a nother guy and girl involved in verious predicaments............ lol

steve10557
Sep 3, 2006, 2:48 AM
At 13 it was five times a day. Now, sometimes once a day, but due to my inactive thyroid its all over the place and can be once a week. Depends how bored I get I suppose. But freegonzo.com always brings home the bacon if I have a late night insatiiable urge!

_________
They said I'd go blind or get hairy palms.. thankfully neither have happened yet.

eods79
Sep 3, 2006, 3:49 AM
If you give me a bisexual movie, I can blow in minutes. I usually am good for 2-3 times a day! I love porn!

Sparks
Sep 3, 2006, 5:25 AM
twice a day. In the morning it stimulates me, and in the evening it quietly puts me to sleep. :2cents:

Nara_lovely
Sep 3, 2006, 7:25 AM
Since my girlfriend and I live at opposite ends of the country, we both have self-pleasuring as our only option for now. We are dedicated to each other!

For me, it runs in cycles. There have been times recently when pleasure was the last thing on my mind: too much to do, loads of issues to get through, responsibilities, stress etc.
Once through the maddness, the desires return and am glad too!! I don't need porn or other partners...just the thought of my lady is enough.

I don't keep count...just the feeling of enjoyment.

TinTin
Sep 3, 2006, 8:42 AM
Usually once a day, sometimes more than that depending on moods etc. Somedays just seem to be permanently horny dont know why, lol.

Usually consult my imagination or remember past encounters but occasionally dip into a saucy story or film/clip.

Masturbating with a partner watching is fun too.

stroker
Sep 3, 2006, 9:02 AM
You gotta be kidding!

How the hell do you get time to do anything else in the day with all that self love going on!!?? :crosseye:

its a hectic schedule, but a pleasurable one! lol

snsualguy
Sep 3, 2006, 2:33 PM
Every day...at least once. I like to read erotica or watch porn. Sometimes my partner and I just watch each other masturbating! It's so much fun....use toys and creams....have huge orgasms!

bisubbie
Sep 3, 2006, 2:48 PM
I used to do it once every day. Any more it is usually on Friday and Saturday mornings. I use my imagination. Sometimes my wife ties my hands together and had me do it and cum all over myself. It's nice with a vibrating but plug too.

Newbod
Sep 3, 2006, 4:16 PM
Well im def horney as hell most of the time, but not sure if im bi or not going to try it out for 1st time and see :tongue:

moonlitwish
Sep 3, 2006, 6:06 PM
Um...I think I'm in the minority...I don't hardly ever unless my girl just can't go again...I don't usually need anything more than her loving. Maybe once or twice a week if we have odd work schedules or we've got other shit going on where we can't be together.

ambi53mm
Sep 3, 2006, 8:05 PM
Just once a day for me usually from about 6am until 10pm...Gotta sleep sometime. :sleep:

Ambi :)

Lateralus
Sep 3, 2006, 8:08 PM
When I have a job usually once a day. 2 or 3 times when I don't have one, but lately I haven't had much of a sex drive because I just started prozac and it basically kills it. So now maybe once a day.

spoiledangel860505
Sep 3, 2006, 10:53 PM
Well, tonight I just did it 4 times in a row. My usual is about 2-3 times a day. Fingers rubbing my clit. I watch f/f porn, I talk dirty to people online.

chook
Sep 4, 2006, 2:42 AM
Oh My God I think I need surgery to get my hand off my dick..............Noone told me I was supposed to have a break from giving it a damn good polish.....that explains the squinty eyes, bucked teeth and hunch back :yikes2:


Cheers Chook :bigrin:

traveller34
Sep 4, 2006, 9:23 PM
Oh, as an afterthought, people who I have talked to remarked I am one crazy oversexed Asian.
I do it several times a day, have friend she does it 4=-5 times daily. We swap videos , she is Japanese, nurse in Calif

LeeSix9
Sep 5, 2006, 12:53 AM
At minimum once a day. A good hot movie works wonders.

DÆMØN
Sep 5, 2006, 1:42 PM
Daily is a must, and most times if I'm not going anywheres special which gives me time... then before a shower usually. I like clean. 2 or 3 times a day is normal depending on mood and situations.

nwmscurious
Sep 6, 2006, 12:15 PM
As a general rule I do it every day or so. However, after a recent bi experience (my first as an adult), I was so turned on that my frequency increased to three to five times a day for several days. It was like being 13 again instead of 50.

bigtex6969
Sep 6, 2006, 1:59 PM
I play with myself at least daily - not always reaching the ultimate goal. I use porn, chat and a good hot story.

Avocado
Sep 7, 2006, 5:44 PM
If I'm home alone I rarely go a weekday without, can't beat the traditional hand and imagination for it either :bigrin:

Robrich8705
Sep 7, 2006, 11:29 PM
;) Everyday if poss. I only have to slip some womens undies on and I,m ready for action. At work its just a quick one in the toilets. At home I use dildos and vibes both on me and in me. Any guy who hasn't used a vibe is really missing out.

I haven't tried a vibrator yet, but I regularly enjoy the use of a Doc Johnson buttplug I bought a while back. As far as frequency, I'm generally a once or twice a day fellow.

Pyrotex
Sep 8, 2006, 9:19 PM
I discovered self-pleasuring (god what a mouthful) at 13 and promptly did it at every opportunity. During my teens and college years, I did it at least 4 times a day. Once, as a junior in college, I kept records of my masturbating. For two months I averaged more than 6 times a day, with a record of 12 times in one day. It was exhausting!

Now? I do it once a day, usually when I wake up just before dawn--it puts me back to sleep.

I have used butt plugs and other toys and porn, but I favor my good left hand, some lube and a good erotic kinky fantasy. I fantasize about some things that I would NEVER do (or am UNABLE to do) in reality. I love reliving actual sexual experiences I had when I was younger. :eek: I love to watch my dick while I stroke it and sometimes use a mirror.

P.S. I wear "FTL" brand briefs. You science fiction fans will recognize that as "Faster Than Light". I got a big giggle out of my wife by taping a piece of paper near the FTL logo, that said: CAUTION, THIS UNDERWEAR CAN MAKE OBJECTS APPEAR SMALLER THAN THEY REALLY ARE! :tongue: :tongue:

wtp09
Sep 9, 2006, 3:36 AM
hmmm.... (hmm has to cum first) well, my gurl gets hers... more than i can take. wish i was on the same end. i love to jack-off. i enjoy the time by myself, but i need the orgasm from another. i get off everyday, whether it is from me wanking my yank or from my gurl. nothing like just cumming. ALOT!!!!! daily is good for me. sometimes 2 times a day.... but never usually 3....


can everyone just get off on my face? :eek: ;) :bigrin: :bigrin: :bigrin: :bigrin: :flag2:

trip1
Sep 9, 2006, 6:24 AM
Just an add on from an earlier reply...I do love the feel of the female hand masturbating me...Those soft fingers gripping my hard throbbing cock shaft, thats soft palm soaking in my pre-cum as I slide through it is sooo nice.... Trip

pcatz
Sep 9, 2006, 1:09 PM
I would say often, but depends on my mood have gone for weeks without doing it and other times have been in bed all day.

coyotedude
Sep 10, 2006, 2:46 AM
On average, once a week. I'd probably do it a little more often if privacy wasn't an issue at home, however.

If I have complete privacy, then some quality erotica (I like the Erotica Readers and Writers Association website myself) and lots of lube usually get me there quite satisfactorily.

I also love to kiss my partner deeply and run one hand along the curves of her body as I stroke myself with my other hand. (Usually we'll do this if she is in the mood for touching but not necessarily interested in sex.)

Peace

codybear3
Sep 10, 2006, 7:55 PM
Once or twice daily and can usually pop of again after a sexual encounter. I can do it to porn, imagination, a good sexual memory and well written erotic stories... :paw: :paw:

P.S.- The minute I pull on it and it won't stand, I will be looking to have it checked out.

strawberry8302
Sep 12, 2006, 3:00 AM
Well, I don't really know how many times I do it a week because I do it whenever I feel like it. I guess it's like 5 times a week. I usually use my vibrator, cuz I get better orgasms from it. I use my hand sometimes though. I like to watch my lil videos too, to help with the orgasm.

smokey
Sep 12, 2006, 9:23 AM
I have to say its on pretty tight...I haven't been able to work it loose yet and god knows I have tried :eek: :eek: :eek: !!! Now that I am 50 once a day and sometimes two or three...When I was younger I couldn't keep my hands off the damned thing. As for stimulation, my fingers anally and sometimes a dildo though its a poor substituition for the real thing...a nice fat cock in the ass :bigrin:

johndotou
Sep 12, 2006, 12:52 PM
At a minimum 3 times a day. I have been known to lounge around on the weekend and masterbate various times during the day. The most times in one day I masterbated was 12 times in one day,and thats no BS, I was a little sore but hey what can ya do. I only wish I could find a women to keep up with me.

AndrogynousLuv
Sep 12, 2006, 10:08 PM
It also varies for me but generally once a day or rather in the wee hours of the night as in the a.m. time....and usually on the phone with the primary love of my life; yes, it's difficult not being with the one that means the most to you. Anyhow, even if I had no significant other, I'd still do it once a day at the least. I still would prefer flesh to flesh but time these days doesn't allow it. I very often use a nice fairly thick perfectly shaped cock sized dildo lately and it brings me some of my best orgasms alone. Anyhow....keep self pleasuring.

tallballer1
Sep 12, 2006, 10:56 PM
normally i do it once a day i mean sometimes i do it more than that but i always have to do it :tongue:

halo-jones
Sep 13, 2006, 5:03 AM
I do it daily as I find it more of a stress relief than just pleasure...I use whatever I can get my hands on to pleasure myself though I end up just using my hands.

mrplayfuluk
Sep 13, 2006, 7:32 AM
it dawned on me after reading all the comments on this thread that having initiated it... I never revealed my own habits! well like binge drinkers I am a binge self pleasurer. I go through phases when I do it regularly over a couple of days (mainly at weekends), then I'm not bothered. Then it creeps up on me and the first time after the break I have wicked orgasms like my brain/ cock is catching up for lost time, that moment is beautiful and savoured like the first strawberries of summer!

I've notice that not enough UK members have given their views on here (are you being prudish?) but everyone else is delightfully over sexed, thank god!

Keep 'em coming or should that be cumming!! :bigrin:

SWGABi
Sep 13, 2006, 10:12 AM
I usually jack off at least once a day, but always sit at my desk during the day rubbin my cock and go home with wet boxers from precum!!!!!

Pyrotex
Sep 14, 2006, 12:01 AM
I usually jack off at least once a day, but always sit at my desk during the day rubbin my cock...
Well, I'm glad I'm not the only one that gets hardons at work! :) Sometimes I'll get a fantasy "stuck" in my head, and I will have to go the restroom and whack off. Silently, of course.

Sometimes, I get so turned on by a particular fantasy, that I will type it up as an erotic story at home. Let me tell you, on these occassions (a few times a year) my masturbation rate doubles until I finish the story. I used to have several dozens of these erotic doozies, but a disk crash last year wiped out most of them. What a shame!
:(

chulainn2
Sep 14, 2006, 12:51 AM
If I miss a day the next is doubled

brodes
Sep 14, 2006, 1:52 AM
Gotta say I'm impressed and a little relieved that I'm not the only guy/gal out there going hard every day. My partners always complained that I was never satisfied. I could get out of bed after a hot session and need to stroke another load out and they usually find that insulting he he!
I cant go more than a few days (I've tried and if I dont give in my mind cant focus on anything but sex).
Usually once or twice a day but if the mood and the opportunity presents itself I've blown til my balls ache! 6-7 times (i know thats excessive).
Sometimes to porn, sometimes with sex toys. But mostly manual handling!