You May Find it Hard to Date Bisexuals

[shawnyan]

You May Find it Hard to Date Bisexuals.
And you may have tried some bisexual dating websites but find no result.
I did try lots of bisexual site to seek more fun, but find it not an easy work.
Fortunately, I did find some websites worked, such as BiCupid (http://bicupid.com/i/bishawn).
Here I listed top 5 bisexual dating sites by myself @ http://bisexualdatingsites.biz/ (http://bisexualdatingsites.biz)
If you are still seeking your one, you may take a look.

[olmizzou42]

One word: craigslist

[charles-smythe]

You May Find it Hard to Date Bisexuals.
And you may have tried some bisexual dating websites but find no result.
I did try lots of bisexual site to seek more fun, but find it not an easy work.
Fortunately, I did find some websites worked, such as BiCupid (http://bicupid.com/i/bishawn).
Here I listed top 5 bisexual dating sites by myself @ http://bisexualdatingsites.biz/ (http://bisexualdatingsites.biz)
If you are still seeking your one, you may take a look.
…bisexuals date women…and hook-up for sex with men…but they don’t date them…just suck their cock…

[pole_smoker]

…bisexuals date women…and hook-up for sex with men…but they don’t date them…just suck their cock…


That's not true.


Not all bisexual men are this way, and bisexual women are not always this way either.


There are a lot of bisexual men like myself and my husband who date both genders, and have partnerships with both genders/sexes and that includes having actual relationships or partnerships with men.

[cornholejoe]

That's not true.


Not all bisexual men are this way, and bisexual women are not always this way either.


There are a lot of bisexual men like myself and my husband who date both genders, and have partnerships with both genders/sexes and that includes having actual relationships or partnerships with men.

well now pole-smoker you have said you and your husband did not fool around with other people so what is it you do or you dont

[pole_smoker]

well now pole-smoker you have said you and your husband did not fool around with other people so what is it you do or you dont
We dated and had relationships with people of both genders/sexes before we met each other and eventually married each other.

Someone does not stop being bisexual just because they get married even to someone of the same sex/gender.

[cornholejoe]

man you just protest way to much

[pole_smoker]

man you just protest way to much
I'm not protesting anything. :rolleyes:

I do however correct false assuptions and myths that are biphobic/bisexual erasure that people who don't understand bisexuality make about me. ;)

[tenni]

"I'm not protesting anything. "

I read this as a protest about protesting...;)

Thanks OP about the bi dating sites. I have heard of bicupid. Has anyone tried it? Which countries have it?

[pole_smoker]

"I'm not protesting anything. "

I read this as a protest about protesting...;)

Thanks OP about the bi dating sites. I have heard of bicupid. Has anyone tried it? Which countries have it?
:rolleyes: You're replying to a spambot which is what the OP is.

[jem_is_bi]

That's not true.


Not all bisexual men are this way, and bisexual women are not always this way either.


There are a lot of bisexual men like myself and my husband who date both genders, and have partnerships with both genders/sexes and that includes having actual relationships or partnerships with men.

Given my experience on this website, I think men who can have relationships with both genders are a minority of bisexual men. However, I have a similar situation to you. I have had relationships with women and now am in a 9+ year relationship with a man. Yet, I am still attracted to women. That attraction just has not gone away.

[jem_is_bi]

:rolleyes: You're replying to a spambot which is what the OP is. OP does sound a lot like a spambot.

[tenni]

" Yet, I am still attracted to women. That attraction just has not gone away."

This reads to me as the words of a bisexual man in a monogamous relationship with another man. There is always the recognition of an attraction to both genders. Sometimes these acknowledgement comes to you in a surprising manner and sometimes it is a constant attraction to both genders.

What can be difficult is when a person choses to be in a relationship with one gender exclusively but a strong attraction to the other gender comes forward.

The hard part is how to resolve this. Men tend to be more accepting of having a fling with the other gender than they are partnered with. Increasingly, women are beginning not to find this other attraction as less threatening to their own self identify.

[pepperjack]

"I'm not protesting anything. "

I read this as a protest about protesting...;)

Thanks OP about the bi dating sites. I have heard of bicupid. Has anyone tried it? Which countries have it?

Yes, I've tried it; was a dead end for me like many others I've joined, such as the current one, BisexualPlayground; actually set up a date on this site over the course of several weeks. I had a measure of success with AdultFriendFinder, had a membership for years. Then there was Silver Daddies which caters to connections between older & younger males. :2cents:

[pepperjack]

One word: craigslist

Inclined to agree. Have actually had better luck with this site than any other. And it's much less complicated, no account, profile to create. And you never get bugged about upgrading, having to give up your credit card # as well as money. Just cut to the chase. True, it's replete with crazies, scammers, game players, but one can learn how to wade their way through that.

Yesterday was a perfect example. Hooked up with a 28yo gay guy; went to his place; private, ac on; gay porn on his big screen tv when I got there. We socialized then I sucked his 7.5" cock for awhile which I thoroughly enjoyed. He was very clean, freshly showered. As we parted , he left the door open for an ongoing thing. FWB.:suave:

[pepperjack]

…bisexuals date women…and hook-up for sex with men…but they don’t date them…just suck their cock…



Hence, the popularity of the " blow 'n go. " I've learned men are just as deceitful, fickle & game playing as women, you know , the infamous expression concerning " a woman's wiles ? ";)

[doorman2107]

I don't date other men. I might meet for a drink to get to know each other. I just meet other men to Hook up for Sex.I date women .

[pepperjack]

OP does sound a lot like a spambot.

You really are a royal ass-kisser aren't you? Wonder how your new lord & master would react if he knew you were sucking -up to the person he despises the most! :yikes2:

[darkeyes]

Hence, the popularity of the " blow 'n go. " I've learned men are just as deceitful, fickle & game playing as women, you know , the infamous expression concerning " a woman's wiles ? ";)
Women's wiles, Pepper dear, refers 2 our genius in getting our way wiv u lot and wot we want outa ya. It dusn't really have owt 2 do wiv women being deceitful ... that is not 2 say that women can't be.. and if getting our way often means fickle and game playing? So b it...;)

[pepperjack]

No argument here on that reply, Dark. Yes, all those qualities come into play, master manipulators.;) Especially when it comes to the promise of imminent carnal pleasure. A guy thinking with his dick is as a " sheep led to the slaughter. " :smilies15 Of course, by now, I've learned how to be pretty crafty myself & have beat more than one at her own game. :impleased

[jem_is_bi]

You really are a royal ass-kisser aren't you? Wonder how your new lord & master would react if he knew you were sucking -up to the person he despises the most! :yikes2:

If you look through my previous posts in reply to pole-smoker, I don't think you would find much support for that conclusion. However, when he or anyone else has a totally reasonable post that I feel I can support, then I will do that. I don't have or need a lord & master, my personality is dominant not submissive. Further, I very much enjoy sucking in a totally different context than what you imply.

[pepperjack]

Of course they can be, Dark! What about the commonplace lie of, "the baby is yours ? " And while we found a common ground of agreement on the quality of "ruthlessness," I find it interesting, to say the least, that you've aligned yourself with just such an individual. :rolleyes:

[jem_is_bi]

" Yet, I am still attracted to women. That attraction just has not gone away."

This reads to me as the words of a bisexual man in a monogamous relationship with another man. There is always the recognition of an attraction to both genders. Sometimes these acknowledgement comes to you in a surprising manner and sometimes it is a constant attraction to both genders.

What can be difficult is when a person choses to be in a relationship with one gender exclusively but a strong attraction to the other gender comes forward.

The hard part is how to resolve this. Men tend to be more accepting of having a fling with the other gender than they are partnered with. Increasingly, women are beginning not to find this other attraction as less threatening to their own self identify.
Yes, I agree with your observations. That is the origin of the man claiming it is only the cock he desires. All else about our male lives is heterosexually oriented and the foundation of who we are. As men we then look at our desire for sex with men as a way to add pleasure not substance to an otherwise good life. However, this definitely can be threatening to a man's wife. That is not an unwarranted fear, because, some men (probably not most) discover they are like me and are capable of a relationship with another man.

[pepperjack]

And if you'll look at my post on the other site where I questioned your response to a post by Charles concerning Mexican immigrants , where I said it appeared "cryptic' to me, it should be evident I was trying to give you the benefit of the doubt. As I mentioned in that post, I used to do concrete work; but more detailed, during heat waves in the summer when other contractors were taking a hiatus & also during the winter. There's nothing "fragile" about me! So, when you blindly chimed in to BBB's snide, disparaging, cheap shot, reinforcing it....that came across as cowardly ass kissing to me.

[pole_smoker]

And if you'll look at my post on the other site where I questioned your response to a post by Charles concerning Mexican immigrants , where I said it appeared "cryptic' to me, it should be evident I was trying to give you the benefit of the doubt. As I mentioned in that post, I used to do concrete work; but more detailed, during heat waves in the summer when other contractors were taking a hiatus & also during the winter. There's nothing "fragile" about me! So, when you blindly chimed in to BBB's snide, disparaging, cheap shot, reinforcing it....that came across as cowardly ass kissing to me.
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[jem_is_bi]

And if you'll look at my post on the other site where I questioned your response to a post by Charles concerning Mexican immigrants , where I said it appeared "cryptic' to me, it should be evident I was trying to give you the benefit of the doubt. As I mentioned in that post, I used to do concrete work; but more detailed, during heat waves in the summer when other contractors were taking a hiatus & also during the winter. There's nothing "fragile" about me! So, when you blindly chimed in to BBB's snide, disparaging, cheap shot, reinforcing it....that came across as cowardly ass kissing to me.
I was not referring to your physical stamina as being fragile. However, when others argue for a different point of view than yours, fragile seems to fit your response. You take their comments as an attack rather than just another view point to be analyzed for possible valuable content.

[pepperjack]

Sheesh, give me a break! That's complete bs. I argue & defend my position in a very intelligent and civil manner. But I can tell when I'm under attack ( e.g. BBB and il lupo). I've been on this planet long enough to discern that. Even Melody picked up on his tone exactly the same time I did and called him out on it, using words such as "personal attack" and " hostility."

[pepperjack]

" seems to fit my response " is pretty vague. why don't you point out something more specific to support that allegation?

[pole_smoker]

Sheesh, give me a break! That's complete bs. I argue & defend my position in a very intelligent and civil manner. But I can tell when I'm under attack ( e.g. BBB and il lupo). I've been on this planet long enough to discern that. Even Melody picked up on his tone exactly the same time I did and called him out on it, using words such as "personal attack" and " hostility."
:rolleyes: Whatever you claim, it's BS since you're a troll. :rolleyes:

[pepperjack]

:smilies15

[pole_smoker]

:smilies15
:rolleyes:

[pepperjack]

:smilies15:upside::bdaygrin:

[jem_is_bi]

" seems to fit my response " is pretty vague. why don't you point out something more specific to support that allegation?

Well, you could check out post #18.
Sometimes people reply somewhat aggressively about certain topics. Their over-hyped language still conveys nothing more than another view from your view. I believe it is better to keep cool about it, point out they are being excessive in expressing their position on the issue or have a discussion with someone else.

[jem_is_bi]

On dating bisexuals, my experience is that is not any more difficult than getting dates with heterosexual women.
On those few occasions, I have actively tried, it has never taken me more than a few weeks to meet up with a really nice bisexual man.
I meet my present partner in just such a search. With heterosexual women or bisexual men, most contacts don't workout, but some do.

[pepperjack]

Well, you could check out post #18.
Sometimes people reply somewhat aggressively about certain topics. Their over-hyped language still conveys nothing more than another view from your view. I believe it is better to keep cool about it, point out they are being excessive in expressing their position on the issue or have a discussion with someone else.

Responding " somewhat aggressively " to a snide,cheap, shot is evidence of " having a delicate condition?" :rolleyes: Are you for real with this? Unbelievable! And you're claiming to be dominant?:shades:

[jem_is_bi]

Responding " somewhat aggressively " to a snide,cheap, shot is evidence of " having a delicate condition?" :rolleyes: Are you for real with this? Unbelievable! And you're claiming to be dominant?:shades:

I hope you have nice weather and a good weekend.

[pepperjack]

Actually, it appears that an intense storm is moving in on the heels of a heat wave, but I'm enjoying it immensely!:impleased

[darkeyes]

Of course they can be, Dark! What about the commonplace lie of, "the baby is yours ? " And while we found a common ground of agreement on the quality of "ruthlessness," I find it interesting, to say the least, that you've aligned yourself with just such an individual. :rolleyes:
And wot individual wud that b then, Pep?

... telling porkies bout babbas is much 2 commonplace an' no mistake... girls an' women sometimes do tell wee fibs about papahood of their babba.. not as often however as men do when denying it and often denying they'd even been naughty boys wiv the mummy. TG for dna testing... no doubt 'bout Pop of my babba. May not b on her birth certificate, but NHS knows who he is... me an all since I chose him as donor! No doubt bout the otha 2 that Kate birthed eitha... 1 has been DNA tested and the younger is so like Naggy's xhubbie's mum and sister that I doubt there is ne need..;)

[darkeyes]

Actually, it appears that an intense storm is moving in on the heels of a heat wave, but I'm enjoying it immensely!:impleased
Cool n breezy here, Pep... dry tho. So far! Best stay that way for girls nite out tonite! An intense storm in heels is headed for club lata, trust me!!!;):tongue:

[pepperjack]

And wot individual wud that b then, Pep?

... telling porkies bout babbas is much 2 commonplace an' no mistake... girls an' women sometimes do tell wee fibs about papahood of their babba.. not as often however as men do when denying it and often denying they'd even been naughty boys wiv the mummy. TG for dna testing... no doubt 'bout Pop of my babba. May not b on her birth certificate, but NHS knows who he is... me an all since I chose him as donor! No doubt bout the otha 2 that Kate birthed eitha... 1 has been DNA tested and the younger is so like Naggy's xhubbie's mum and sister that I doubt there is ne need..;)


That "wee fib" can seriously screw up a man's life, Dark. Agree with you about the advent of dna testing.

[pepperjack]

Cool n breezy here, Pep... dry tho. So far! Best stay that way for girls nite out tonite! An intense storm in heels is headed for club lata, trust me!!!;):tongue:

So you're that wild of a party animal, eh? :shades::smilies15

[darkeyes]

That "wee fib" can seriously screw up a man's life, Dark. Agree with you about the advent of dna testing.
A girl's 2..... often more so, since usually she is left holding the babba wile luffer boy carries on playin'Jack the lad...:(

[darkeyes]

So you're that wild of a party animal, eh? :shades::smilies15Wenever poss... most Sat nites.. get the boot girls together an' pity poor Auld Reekie:impleased.. Guys mostly but a few of us enjoy and even prefer gels;).. is a wild ole town of a Sat nite, Pep... don't like 2 let the side down:tongue:.

[pepperjack]

Wenever poss... most Sat nites.. get the boot girls together an' pity poor Auld Reekie:impleased.. Guys mostly but a few of us enjoy and even prefer gels;).. is a wild ole town of a Sat nite, Pep... don't like 2 let the side down:tongue:.

Pretty much the traditional partying nite here also. :stoned: I'm usually on the prowl on a Sat. nite.:tong::suave:

[darkeyes]

Pretty much the traditional partying nite here also. :stoned: I'm usually on the prowl on a Sat. nite.:tong::suave:On the prowl? I nev prowl! I expect 2 b prowled!!! Right miffed if I'm not... tho must admit, I like peeps thinking they r on prowl...;) Just who the real predator is.. well... am not sayin'..:impleased;)

[pepperjack]

On the prowl? I nev prowl! I expect 2 b prowled!!! Right miffed if I'm not... tho must admit, I like peeps thinking they r on prowl...;) Just who the real predator is.. well... am not sayin'..:impleased;)

In the 100's here all week-end, Dark, typical mid-July. Hoping for a hot, sensual Sat nite. ;) Chicken breasts on the grill tomorrow.:tongue:

[goodsonora]

Hi JEM,
I agree with you. I am new to the game and still searching some nice guy, but get always attracted to woman.

[darkeyes]

16C here, Pep (61F methinks, innit?)... bright now, but it won't last we r told... long as rain stays off till we get 2 pub then tween pub n club an' at cab rank for home or wereva afta:tongue: ... temp tomoz much the same but lots more rain most of the day... we have peeps coming round for a barbi but I fear no barbi for us tomoz... least not outdoors.. typical July here an' all... duff!!!:(

[pepperjack]

16C here, Pep (61F methinks, innit?)... bright now, but it won't last we r told... long as rain stays off till we get 2 pub then tween pub n club an' at cab rank for home or wereva afta:tongue: ... temp tomoz much the same but lots more rain most of the day... we have peeps coming round for a barbi but I fear no barbi for us tomoz... least not outdoors.. typical July here an' all... duff!!!:(

" wereva afta?" :smilies15 Sounds adventurous. ;) Used to drive a cab when younger in a military town, graveyard shift, dusk 'til dawn. Payday week-ends for the soldiers was the most lucrative time for me. Busy, exciting, wild, sometimes unpredictable & dangerous nites. :bounce::eek2:

[darkeyes]

Ooooop, Pep... adventurous! I do hope so... not first time in cab home or wereva afta clubbing the driver has had 2 b told 2 concentrate on wots going on in front and around him outside the cab and not in seats at the back! 1 thing u can b sure of.. tho this town has plenty military peeps, none of them will b coming home wiv me.. or me going home wiv them. Tho must admit in the 15 years since homosexuality was legalised in the armed forces here, they have become more confident and u c them around much more openly than wen I wos a young girl. A gud thing, even tho because of wot they do and stand for and the things I believe, they dont climb in2 my bed! Have had a chance or 2 in me time but it is thanx but no thanx.

Tho I have allus sed that 'bout polis 2 but last year on me hols wos chatted over the hol up by a ver yummie gorge sexy tall French lady bobby and had really bad case of the hots... I may just have broken habit of a lifetime ther .. so miracles mite happen and I mite weaken some day, u nev can tell, hey:confused:

[pepperjack]

Had my share of backseat distractions from time to time ;), i.e. drunk soldiers & " ladies of the night. ":smilies15 Didn't need any " backseat drivers " guiding me though; very good & alert driver.:impleased

[darkeyes]

Trust u wer ver gud and alert driver 2 handed, Pepper dear!:impleased

Cab will b here in 5 or 10 mins 2 get us in2 town. No distractions for driver... much 2 early and besides is still daylight out! ;) Edinburgh polis take ver dim view ot goin's on in backs of cabs in daylight... besides, so does Kate b4 she has had a wee drinkie or 2... :tongue:

[pepperjack]

Have fun! :bigrin: I'm working on arranging my own rite now. ;)

[pepperjack]

16C here, Pep (61F methinks, innit?)... bright now, but it won't last we r told... long as rain stays off till we get 2 pub then tween pub n club an' at cab rank for home or wereva afta:tongue: ... temp tomoz much the same but lots more rain most of the day... we have peeps coming round for a barbi but I fear no barbi for us tomoz... least not outdoors.. typical July here an' all... duff!!!:(

You thought you had "barbi" troubles, Dark: http://www.infowars.com/florida-man-ordered-by-city-to-keep-bbq-smell-from-leaving-his-property/ :smilies15 (http://www.infowars.com/florida-man-ordered-by-city-to-keep-bbq-smell-from-leaving-his-property/)

[darkeyes]

Wudn't say I have barbi troubles exactly, Pep... not if weather is luffly.. isn't that bad 2day, but no barbi. Ther r always ways 2 have a barbi no matter the weather, but is always best if sun is out and we can laze in garden in our skimpies:tongue:.. in fact, ony "Barbi" I ev really have trouble wiv is me x Rector.. and even then that's only if I wos 2 call her it... most often it is Barb or Barbs... mind u.. she is in her 40s, so Barbi isn't really appropriate.. trust me, I wudn't dare... that wud b more Barbi trouble than I care 2 face...:eek2:;)