who thinks polesmoker is gay

[cornholejoe]

polesmoker says he is bi but i think hes gay who else thinks he is gay

[Ebonybifemme7]

Oh wow thats a good question.

[jamieknyc]

If his right hand is of the same sex, he's gay ;)

[Ebonybifemme7]

I was kinda wondering the same thing.

[pepperjack]

I definitely suspected it, as well as his relationship status.

[biguy1940]

i never knew there was any doubt

[chtampa]

polesmoker says he is bi but i think hes gay who else thinks he is gay

Merely happy!

[12voltyV2.0]

I don't care if he his gay or bi or whatever--no matter what--he is still a fucking asshole!!

[darkeyes]

For goodness sake... do u lot never learn?

[pole_smoker]

Nope, I am bisexual. As is my husband. We are sexually attracted to both genders, but are in a monogamous marriage with each other as we are bisexual.

A bisexual man does not become gay just because they wind up in a monogamous relationship with another man. Anymore than he would be 'straight' or hetero if he was in a monogamous relationship with a woman.

Don't people on this site really actually understand bisexuality? :rolleyes:

Or haven't you all heard of a Kinsey 3? That means a bisexual man that can fall in love and have relationships with both genders as both myself and my husband have had romantic relationships, and sexual experiences with women before we met each other.

[pole_smoker]

If his right hand is of the same sex, he's gay ;)

Awww you're just jealous that I am in a loving and monogamous relationship with my husband, and we have lots of sex daily while you are in a sex less marriage of convenience with your 'wife', and have to resort to lying and cheating. :smilies15 :rolleyes:

Do your 'wife' and kids know you like to put on women's clothing, and have sex with random men who you cheat on your 'wife' with who you meet in Internet chatrooms on amateur porn sites like this? :rolleyes:

[cornholejoe]

i would say more of a kinsey 5

[pole_smoker]

i would say more of a kinsey 5

Nope. I am a Kinsey 3, and so is my husband.

But keep trolling with your biphobic, and homophobic BS. :rolleyes:

[cornholejoe]

Nope. I am a Kinsey 3, and so is my husband.

But keep trolling with your biphobic, and homophobic BS. :rolleyes:

not trolling just stating the facts if you like your life the way it is you dont have to defend it

[rascal48]

Tripped across his chatroom a couple months ago,because I didn't have a mic, he immediately booted me.... What a nice guy he really is when it comes down to it......pole, I for one am not a fan of yours.....you fit in the category of what to do with a baseball bat...just saying....

[pole_smoker]

Tripped across his chatroom a couple months ago,because I didn't have a mic, he immediately booted me.... What a nice guy he really is when it comes down to it......pole, I for one am not a fan of yours.....you fit in the category of what to do with a baseball bat...just saying....

Chat room? Mic?

Neither I or my husband chat/cyber, or skyle here on this site, or at all...so you're thinking of sombody else.

For someone who has been here almost a decade on this amateur porn and sex site for bisexual adults, you are not that active or aware of things. :rolleyes:

[Oztrich]

Why does anyone really care? And why is this even a topic?

[pole_smoker]

Why does anyone really care? And why is this even a topic?

There are people here who obsess about me.

The trolls/haters here like tenni, chtampa, bibedbud, 12voltyv2.0, pepperjack, NJBIGUY01, etc. Have no lives, clearly don't have sex at all or as often as some of them falsely claim, and have nothing better to do than troll, stalk, harass, and obsess over me. :smilies15 :rolleyes:

[Annika L]

What's the big deal if *any* member here is gay or bi (or straight...or whatever)? Are we so pro-bisexual that we can't accept gay members? Or do we just have to try to out them when we think we've spotted them, so we can be clubbily bisexual? Or *gasp* have we really sunk to the point where, as pole_smoker himself points out, we're so obsessed with him that we have to speculate on his sexuality, just because he's so damned cool, like we do with other celebrities in our culture? Sheesh. He's far from my favorite poster, but I couldn't give two shits whether he's gay, bi, straight, trans, or anything else. I think it's weird that you'd care enough to make a thread about it.

[tenni]

The thing is that it should not matter to us BUT it does. I suspect that we don't want to be in the same group as this character.

He doesn't share much of his life and his 'husband" seems just a bit too much in sinc with him. I did notice that most of his images were cockcentric to a huge degree. His porn image selection is same sex. As volt says it is not his sexuality that creates neg vibes here.

[pepperjack]

[QUOTE=Annika L;291510]What's the big deal if *any* member here is gay or bi (or straight...or whatever)? Are we so pro-bisexual that we can't accept gay members? Or do we just have to try to out them when we think we've spotted them, so we can be clubbily bisexual? Or *gasp* have we really sunk to the point where, as pole_smoker himself points out, we're so obsessed with him that we have to speculate on his sexuality, just because he's so damned cool, like we do with other celebrities in our culture? Sheesh. He's far from my favorite poster, but I couldn't give two shits whether he's gay, bi, straight, trans, or anything else. I think it's weird that you'd care enough to make a thread about it.[/QUOT

Your point is well made. Our most notable example is Darkeyes who has time & again very eloquently explained her transition. She's become a dominant , iconic member here. His actual orientation is only of passing interest to me & how it might relate to his motives, behavior. :2cents:

[rickoyler1969]

I think he is all alone & can't get any sex from anyone at all, so he is taking his anger out on everyone on this site because he is depressed & angry at the whole world

[pepperjack]

That same hypothetical scenario also went through my mind weeks ago.

[pole_smoker]

I think he is all alone & can't get any sex from anyone at all, so he is taking his anger out on everyone on this site because he is depressed & angry at the whole world
LAMO!!!!!!!! You couldn't be more wrong about me. My husband and I are reading your post and laughing our asses off at you. :rolleyes: :smilies15:impleased

No I'm not 'angry' :rolleyes: people on this site either love me, or hate me.


That same hypothetical scenario also went through my mind weeks ago.
Yes, you're all alone, and face it, nobody wants you. :rolleyes:

[BiBedBud]

Bottom line.........

[pepperjack]

Bottom line.........

Bottom line is......ps is receding, easier to ignore each day. Don't buy the extremely loud hype, propaganda.Truth is, the site is pretty dry & boring, run by a grandiose, control freak, megalomaniac. Enter at your own risk. Trust me;you're much more free here. ;)

[pole_smoker]

Bottom line is......ps is receding, easier to ignore each day. Don't buy the extremely loud hype, propaganda.Truth is, the site is pretty dry & boring, run by a grandiose, control freak, megalomaniac. Enter at your own risk. Trust me;you're much more free here. ;)
LMAO...too funny! Two trolls who are united only in their hate for me fighting over a site one is spamming...but they both love to talk out of their asses. :smilies15 :rolleyes:

[BiBedBud]

..............REDACTED............ the site is pretty dry & boring, run by a grandiose, control freak, megalomaniac. Enter at your own risk. Trust me;you're much more free here. ;)

I'm sorry you feel that way.

I wonder what makes you think I "controlled" anything or infringed on your "freedom".

I think it's just that you're too delicate, and can't handle defending your expressed views, (http://bisexuality.club/viewtopic.php?p=711#p711) because you don't have the courage to defend your convictions.

You wrote some pretty stupid stuff on my website, which you were free to do. I never censored a single thing you wrote. I also didn't let your nonsense stand un-challenged........ is that what pissed you off, pepperjack? Is that why you quit my site the first time? Why then, did you re-register a day later? And then quit again, hours later?

I wonder................ but on second thought..................... I think I already know the answers there.

[pepperjack]

You're not a bit sorry! You're a snake! I'm anything but "delicate" & you can pass that on to your decrepit, ass-kissin, suck up, jem-is-bi. I've got a very intelligent, penetrating mind which can become a steel trap to my adversaries. Fuck with me some more & watch & see what happens fake-o!

[pole_smoker]

I'm sorry you feel that way.

I wonder what makes you think I "controlled" anything or infringed on your "freedom".

I think it's just that you're too delicate, and can't handle defending your expressed views, (http://bisexuality.club/viewtopic.php?p=711#p711) because you don't have the courage to defend your convictions.

You wrote some pretty stupid stuff on my website, which you were free to do. I never censored a single thing you wrote. I also didn't let your nonsense stand un-challenged........ is that what pissed you off, pepperjack? Is that why you quit my site the first time? Why then, did you re-register a day later? And then quit again, hours later?

I wonder................ but on second thought..................... I think I already know the answers there.
I doubt that troll PJ from flyover country really cares what you think. :rolleyes:

[pole_smoker]

You're not a bit sorry! You're a snake! I'm anything but "delicate" & you can pass that on to your decrepit, ass-kissin, suck up, jem-is-bi. I've got a very intelligent, penetrating mind which can become a steel trap to my adversaries. Fuck with me some more & watch & see what happens fake-o!
Your "adversaries"? LMAO :rolleyes: What an odd thing to say about other people...but you're not exactly the paradigm of someone who does not have severe mental health problems and rage issues. :smilies15

You're LOL "delicate" when you got your legs in the air with a large cock up your ass and being fucked hard, or in your mouth and can't talk since you're choking and gagging on it like the bottom boi bitch you are. :smilies15

[BiBedBud]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
It takes all kinds, to make a world, I guess!


All I can say is............ Wow!......... and........... I hope pole_fucko and pepperjack are very happy together!

Seee ya!
Wouldn't want to beeee ya!

[pole_smoker]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
It takes all kinds, to make a world, I guess!


All I can say is............ Wow!......... and........... I hope pole_fucko and pepperjack are very happy together!

Seee ya!
Wouldn't want to beeee ya!
Pepperjack wishes he could be with me, or be me but beggars like him can't afford to be that picky. ;) :smilies15

[pepperjack]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
It takes all kinds, to make a world, I guess!


All I can say is............ Wow!......... and........... I hope pole_fucko and pepperjack are very happy together!

Seee ya!
Wouldn't want to beeee ya!
Ditto, creep! Maybe now I get to enjoy summer like I originally said, asshole!

[pole_smoker]

Ditto, creep! Maybe now I get to enjoy summer like I originally said, asshole!
so much rage, anger, and mental illness from you. :rolleyes:

[darkeyes]

What's the big deal if *any* member here is gay or bi (or straight...or whatever)? Are we so pro-bisexual that we can't accept gay members? Or do we just have to try to out them when we think we've spotted them, so we can be clubbily bisexual? Or *gasp* have we really sunk to the point where, as pole_smoker himself points out, we're so obsessed with him that we have to speculate on his sexuality, just because he's so damned cool, like we do with other celebrities in our culture? Sheesh. He's far from my favorite poster, but I couldn't give two shits whether he's gay, bi, straight, trans, or anything else. I think it's weird that you'd care enough to make a thread about it.
Quite so, Annika... what is important about posters is whether they are positive or negative contributors to the site and help bisexuals and bisexuality take their place in the world on a free and equal basis with the same rights and obligations as all other people and as valuable citizens of the world. A person's sexuality is unimportant... it is how people respect, care for and deal with the world and those people in that world which mark them out as decent human beings making a positive mark in the world or otherwise.

[tenni]

what is important about posters is whether they are positive or negative contributors to the site and help bisexuals and bisexuality take their place in the world.......

Uh...huh. ;)

I wonder if Joe is questioning the positive contribution issue and connecting the poster's site behaviour with bisexuality as a sign of negative presentation as to what bisexual men are. The poster rarely presented women let alone women in an romantic manner (no kissing images with women and men). There seems to be a disrespect for the female body (and male) let alone disclosure of details of romantic love and affection with women.

Do I think that he is gay? Yes and bittely disrespectful towards bisexuals to present them in the manner that he does.

[darkeyes]

I've simply posed the question, tenni... it is arguable whether the images u refer to are gay for they could just as easily be considered as bisexual since no 1 has their sexuality stamped on their forehead... even those images which some could consider heterosexual... the acts may reflect a sexuality but not becessarily the sexualities of those involved.. even some of those depicting group sex may hint at bisexual activity but are nothing of the kind.. so appearances are not always as they seem... many men on site have concentrated on the mano y mano aspect bisexuality ever since .com came into being... however, I do understand and even sympathise with ur point but I return to my basic point.. the relative worth or otherwise of a member of this site or the wider world to bisexuals and bisexuality and even this 1 little corner of the bi-y-verse based on how he or she acts, says or does irrespective if his or her sexuality..

[matutum]

humans will justfy anything

[darkeyes]

Some will, Matutum... far too many. Not all.:)

[12voltyV2.0]

I think I pretty much boiled him down--the man is a sad, lonely, nasty and vile, royal fucking asshole!!

It surely is too bad that he now pretty much has gained free reign of what is left of this website. He has single handedly turned it into a stinking cesspool.

Such a shame.


I wished that someone would track his sorry ass down and go "Ray Donovan" on him!!

[tenni]

I've simply posed the question, tenni... it is arguable whether the images u refer to are gay for they could just as easily be considered as bisexual since no 1 has their sexuality stamped on their forehead...

True. Some are clearly posed naked cocks showing. Some with erections are clearly not heterosexual as there is no woman in most of them. Some guys on the site refer to their same sex behaviour as gay sex. Such wording shows me that they have not completed evolved as a bisexual or don't care about language...they just want to look at a dick and stroke..lol

As I pointed out though, the focus is clearly m2m sex and not m2f sex. That too doesn't prove he is gay. His lifestyle and much of his language reflects a person emersed in some gay lifestyle/ philosophy.

[pole_smoker]

Uh...huh. ;)

I wonder if Joe is questioning the positive contribution issue and connecting the poster's site behaviour with bisexuality as a sign of negative presentation as to what bisexual men are. The poster rarely presented women let alone women in an romantic manner (no kissing images with women and men). There seems to be a disrespect for the female body (and male) let alone disclosure of details of romantic love and affection with women.

Do I think that he is gay? Yes and bittely disrespectful towards bisexuals to present them in the manner that he does.
Who is Joe?

Since you love to troll and stalk me, and have an obsession about me. I have posted images of women, and women and men together. :rolleyes:

Nope I'm not gay. I don't care if you personally get offended by what I post sine it's all rather tame, and none of presents bisexual people in a negative way as people of all sexual orientations are into what I have posted about. :rolleyes:

There was a longtime poster here who did say how you Tenni are gay, and if that's true I would not be surprised since you are extremely homophobic and even biphobic. ;) :smilies15

[pole_smoker]

I think I pretty much boiled him down--the man is a sad, lonely, nasty and vile, royal fucking asshole!!

It surely is too bad that he now pretty much has gained free reign of what is left of this website. He has single handedly turned it into a stinking cesspool.

Such a shame.


I wished that someone would track his sorry ass down and go "Ray Donovan" on him!!
:rolleyes: You know absolutely nothing about me, and you are simply just describing yourself here.

[charles-smythe]

polesmoker says he is bi but i think hes gay who else thinks he is gay…what the hell difference does it make?...it’s only a label & don’t really mean a damn thing…

[Oztrich]

What's the big deal if *any* member here is gay or bi (or straight...or whatever)? Are we so pro-bisexual that we can't accept gay members? Or do we just have to try to out them when we think we've spotted them, so we can be clubbily bisexual? Or *gasp* have we really sunk to the point where, as pole_smoker himself points out, we're so obsessed with him that we have to speculate on his sexuality, just because he's so damned cool, like we do with other celebrities in our culture? Sheesh. He's far from my favorite poster, but I couldn't give two shits whether he's gay, bi, straight, trans, or anything else. I think it's weird that you'd care enough to make a thread about it.

Best reply ever! We have enough of our own stuff going on without giving a flying fuck about wutsisface. "Clubbily" hmmm... A cool new word... Mind if I steal it?

[pole_smoker]

The thing is that it should not matter to us BUT it does. I suspect that we don't want to be in the same group as this character.

He doesn't share much of his life and his 'husband" seems just a bit too much in sinc with him. I did notice that most of his images were cockcentric to a huge degree. His porn image selection is same sex. As volt says it is not his sexuality that creates neg vibes here.
:rolleyes: I actually have shared quite a lot about my life.

If you don't know by now, this is a bisexual sex and amateur porn site for adults. I post all types of porn not just men and their genitals. :rolleyes:

Go find someone else to troll, stalk, and harass, as that's what you and my haters here do best. ;) :rolleyes: :smilies15

[SilkyHoseLover]

I keep up with this thread, just out of curiosity, but couldn't care less about whether he's gay, straight or bisexual, which is why I've not weighed-in with an opinion.

However...

12voltyV2.3 said: "I think I pretty much boiled him down--the man is a sad, lonely, nasty and vile, royal fucking asshole!!"

Then, pole_smoker replied: ":rolleyes: You know absolutely nothing about me... <snip>"

On this, I have to agree with pole_smoker -- 12voltyV2.0 isn't in any position to know whether PS is sad & lonely... :tongue:

[BiBedBud]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Can we at least reach a consensus opinion that pole_fucko is a "nasty and vile, royal fucking asshole!!"?

I can definitely get on-board with that.

ALSO....

As a 'Club Operator' I want to just chime-in and say that I think a 'Bisexuals Only' club would be a terrible idea.

That's why The Bisexuality.Club is "For Bisexuals, Friends and Lovers".

Indeed, part of my motivation for starting the site, was to popularize the idea that "a straight-girl's best friend ain't no diamond, it's a bi-guy!"

All the way straight, or all the way gay or lesbian........ ***EVERYONE*** is welcome in The Bisexuality.Club!

[pole_smoker]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Can we at least reach a consensus opinion that pole_fucko is a "nasty and vile, royal fucking asshole!!"?

I can definitely get on-board with that.

ALSO....

As a 'Club Operator' I want to just chime-in and say that I think a 'Bisexuals Only' club would be a terrible idea.

That's why The Bisexuality.Club is "For Bisexuals, Friends and Lovers".

Indeed, part of my motivation for starting the site, was to popularize the idea that "a straight-girl's best friend ain't no diamond, it's a bi-guy!"

All the way straight, or all the way gay or lesbian........ ***EVERYONE*** is welcome in The Bisexuality.Club!
If you really want to see an actual 'nasty and vile royal fucking asshole' bibedbud look in the mirror at yourself. ;) :smilies15


I keep up with this thread, just out of curiosity, but couldn't care less about whether he's gay, straight or bisexual, which is why I've not weighed-in with an opinion.

However...

12voltyV2.3 said: "I think I pretty much boiled him down--the man is a sad, lonely, nasty and vile, royal fucking asshole!!"

Then, pole_smoker replied: ":rolleyes: You know absolutely nothing about me... <snip>"

On this, I have to agree with pole_smoker -- 12voltyV2.0 isn't in any position to know whether PS is sad & lonely... :tongue:
Meh, 12VoltyV2.0 is a troll and hater. :rolleyes:

[tenni]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Can we at least reach a consensus opinion that pole_fucko is a "nasty and vile, royal fucking asshole!!"?

I can definitely get on-board with that.

ALSO....

As a 'Club Operator' I want to just chime-in and say that I think a 'Bisexuals Only' club would be a terrible idea.

That's why The Bisexuality.Club is "For Bisexuals, Friends and Lovers".

Indeed, part of my motivation for starting the site, was to popularize the idea that "a straight-girl's best friend ain't no diamond, it's a bi-guy!"

All the way straight, or all the way gay or lesbian........ ***EVERYONE*** is welcome in The Bisexuality.Club!

Although I think that it is egalitarian to write everyone is welcome it demeans bisexuality based on my experience. It may be difficult to explain but one thing that is piss poor is some heterosexual telling a bisexual what they are all about. Bisexuals are gay people with the same issues is another interpretation..Bisexuals are not the same as heterosexuals and I think that they need that space to feel safe and discuss matters without other sexualities. just my view though...your show.

[pole_smoker]

Although I think that it is egalitarian to write everyone is welcome it demeans bisexuality based on my experience. It may be difficult to explain but one thing that is piss poor is some heater telling a bisexual what they are all about. Bisexuals are gay people with the same issues..Bisexuals are not the same as heterosexuals and I think that they need that space to feel safe and discuss matters without other sexualities. just my view.

Is there anything you are not a Butt hurt offended troll about? :rolleyes: You're the only "piss poor" thing here since you are a homophobic, heterphobic, misogynistic, and biphobic troll that is severely mentally ill that is obsessed with people here that you do not like. :rolleyes: :smilies15

You are not any sort of LMAO, "leader" or "spokesperson" for bisexual people or bisexuality, when in reality you are a closeted troll that stalks and flames people on amateur sex and porn sites like this for bisexual adults. :rolleyes:

Heterosexual people, and gay/lesbian people are not the "enemies" of bisexuals but the real enemies of bisexuals are biphobic, heterophobic, misogynistic, and homophobic trolls like yourself who pretend to understand bisexuality but really do not, and who claim to be "spokespeople" for bisexuals but are not out, and in reality are deeply closeted. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :smilies15

Get out and meet heterosexual and gay/lesbian people if they can actually stand to be around you or talk to you, and you will find they do understand bisexuality and have for awhile, and in many cases they understand bisexuality better than people who are very low on the Kinsey scale do including people who are not actually true Kinsey 3's, unlike us actual true Kinsey 3's who fall in love and can partner with either gender or sex.

[chances]

hes gay allright, no doubt about it

[donttellnehismy]

Who cares... Whyvis this even a topic???

[pole_smoker]

hes gay allright, no doubt about it
LMAO says who? You? :rolleyes:

You're just yet another hater/troll that promotes biphobia, bisexual erasure, homophobia, and bigotry. :rolleyes:

[Lisa (va)]

Unless you are interested in starting a personal relationship with someone, why would their sexuality become an issue?

All the way straight, or all the way gay or lesbian........ ***EVERYONE*** is welcome in The Bisexuality.Club!

I personally see no reason to exclude anyone. Some folks may have once identified as 'bi' yet more have shifted some over the course of their life. Also noticed a good many bi people are in fact married to straight spouses, so it would benefit both parners.

Lisa
hugs n kisses

[pepperjack]

I think I prefer the power vacuum on this site to that one which reminded me of George Orwell's Animal Farm while I was there.:rolleyes: http://www.amazon.com/Animal-Farm-George-Orwell/dp/1502492792

[BiBedBud]

^^^^^^
Yeah, I prefer you over here too, pepperjack.

There's a lot less administrative burden for me, that's for sure.

[pepperjack]

Actually, I'm the one who's been feeling less burdened since the first time I left. If you want to reduce administrative clutter, why don't you start with those long-winded, grandstanding, grandiose posts of yours? :rolleyes:

[pole_smoker]

Actually, I'm the one who's been feeling less burdened since the first time I left. If you want to reduce administrative clutter, why don't you start with those long-winded, grandstanding, grandiose posts of yours? :rolleyes:
True, mostly everyone here just ignores his rants.

http://www.sherv.net/cm/emoticons/sleep/sleeping.gif

[pepperjack]

^^^^^^
Yeah, I prefer you over here too, pepperjack.

There's a lot less administrative burden for me, that's for sure.


Awwwww....:smilies15 What became of that " thick skin " you were espousing over there? :shades:

[12voltyV2.0]

I would be damned surprised that Pole Smoker would be a pleasant person to be around-- I picture him to be sort of like that crazy uncle everyone seems to have who comes to family events and everyone is wondering what he is going to do to make a mess of things----of course my view of him is based upon his anti-social ways of being on here----based upon the face of what he says and does here----I can say he is not anyone I would have any desire to make his real world acquaintance.

It might be the case that in real life he does have friends, holds his tongue, is civil and seems to be a "really nice and friendly person" out in the real world and that he lives a Walter Mitty experience of being a total asshole with the way he is on here---but who in the hell at this site, based on the things he does and expresses here would want to be anywhere near him??-It is bad enough for me that I know he exists somewhere else on this planet and that we share being members of the human race!!

[pepperjack]

I've suspected him of a double life; a true psychopath is very adept at pulling that off.

[pole_smoker]

I've suspected him of a double life; a true psychopath is very adept at pulling that off.
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!

No I'm not a psychopath but I would not be surprised if you are one. ;) :rolleyes: :smilies15

[pole_smoker]

I would be damned surprised that Pole Smoker would be a pleasant person to be around-- I picture him to be sort of like that crazy uncle everyone seems to have who comes to family events and everyone is wondering what he is going to do to make a mess of things----of course my view of him is based upon his anti-social ways of being on here----based upon the face of what he says and does here----I can say he is not anyone I would have any desire to make his real world acquaintance.

It might be the case that in real life he does have friends, holds his tongue, is civil and seems to be a "really nice and friendly person" out in the real world and that he lives a Walter Mitty experience of being a total asshole with the way he is on here---but who in the hell at this site, based on the things he does and expresses here would want to be anywhere near him??-It is bad enough for me that I know he exists somewhere else on this planet and that we share being members of the human race!!
:rolleyes: You don't even know me. :rolleyes:

But seriously, what woman or man would actually want to have a desire to make you a real world friend or acquaintance? :rolleyes:

[jem_is_bi]

…what the hell difference does it make?...it’s only a label & don’t really mean a damn thing… I definitely agree with you about that. I ONLY have a problem with those times when he posts way too much such that all else is drown out. I do not have a problem with him posting opinions, views not widely shared by me and others or the sometimes outrageous comments and posts.

[pepperjack]

The problem is....if you open your door to him, he runs amok in your house like a raging, out-of-control brat!

[DownBoy]

I don't see why people hate pole_smoker. He is the only one that keeps this site alive.

[darkeyes]

That's a view, Downboy.. if u call it alive. Some might say because of his of his antics, in all of his various apparitions, and helped greatly by of the disappearance of the owner he has squeezed what life there was out of the place... wicheva, ya pays ya money and makes ya choice:).

[Annika L]

I don't see why people hate pole_smoker. He is the only one that keeps this site alive.

I take the alternative viewpoint that if he vanished from the site, you would see the site spring back to life.

[pepperjack]

I take the alternative viewpoint that if he vanished from the site, you would see the site spring back to life.

Actually, it's got quite a bit of life. The weed just needs to be dealt with; an avid gardener here.

[pole_smoker]

I take the alternative viewpoint that if he vanished from the site, you would see the site spring back to life.

Keep dreaming. :rolleyes: This site was dead and boring long before I joined.

[darkeyes]

Keep dreaming. :rolleyes: This site was dead and boring long before I joined.
By the time u got round 2 calling urself Pole Smoker, Poley, .com wasn't at its best but was hardly dead.. becoming less exciting and fun I wud say, but boring:confused:... hmmmm... have always left boring up 2 u rite back 2 days of auld lang syne..;)

[Oztrich]

By the time u got round 2 calling urself Pole Smoker, Poley, .com wasn't at its best but was hardly dead.. becoming less exciting and fun I wud say, but boring:confused:... hmmmm... have always left boring up 2 u rite back 2 days of auld lang syne..;)

Darkeyes, I actually remember this site from a long time ago. Back then it was very vibrant and fun. These days, not so much... This preoccupation with one person is a shame, especially when lots of issues could be explored to much more effect.

I found, going over what I have written in here, that I am absolutely as boring and run of the mill as a lot of others, and hate that. I like the presence of women and men together in one site that all identify as bisexual, or having some connection with the bisexual world. I have read some really interesting things in here and have to say the most interesting topics raised all seem to come from women. I get sick of the "suck dick" stuff as well, and would love to see more interesting threads that involve both men and women. For example, I would love to explore the world view of men and women with regards to bisexuality, and the difference between genders, but in a more meaningful way than I have read in the threads here. Not just "women like relationships, men like fucking" kinds of things.

Will it happen? I have no idea... As to the namesake of this thread, who the fuck cares?

[silvio]

I take the alternative viewpoint that if he vanished from the site, you would see the site spring back to life.

Most likely

[tenni]

"I would love to explore the world view of men and women with regards to bisexuality, and the difference between genders, but in a more meaningful way than I have read in the threads here. Not just "women like relationships, men like fucking" kinds of things."

I've been a member since 2006 but only started to pay attention to the threads since 2009 when I forgot my password and had to start a new user name.

Were there interesting discussions showing the differences between how men and women view bisexuality?
Yes but more of the nature of a heterosexual woman upset with her bisexual husband or his behaviour.

I think that your topic about the differences between bi men and bi women's view on bisexuality was touched on but never focused. It would be worth reading the thoughts.

People like Annika identified as bisexual and one time dark eyes(before she went lesbian on us...lol). Several intelligent heterosexual? women posted such as Belle and Kate. Cat would mostly be trying to keep things light but could come up with some succinct comments.

However, I don't recall a thread discussing any differences between bisexual men and bisexual women. There may have been one.

I wonder what would happen to such a thread at this point?

Several/many guy think that this site is suppose to be a cover for them to look at dick. Would they feel comfortable disclosing their intimate thoughts on their sexuality? We no longer read threads about the uncertain bisexual person who is looking for support.

There has always been some silliness (camp fire want a cookie sticks out) that had long lost its humour. There has always been the cliquiness seen by some.
There has been great humour and sadness. Would this come back? You never know but sorry I doubt that it will. All posts have slowed down it seems to me.