Married Women Seeing Other Men

[Oztrich]

I know this is probably a strange post, and I would like to hear from women as well as me. I don't intend this to end up being a porn thing, but curious about how other people feel about this topic.

When I met my wife, she was already seeing another man. We dated for some time, and she kept seeing him. There were times we would cross each other's paths, and it could get a little awkward. Initially I was a bit jealous, but not terribly, and I let her know. Her attitude was that we weren't married, and her body was her own. She enjoyed both the attention she got from two men, and she liked the variation in sex between us too.

Eventually she and I married. We took a vacation, and she would talk to her boyfriend on the phone, and tell him she missed their meetings (he was married). On the second night of our honeymoon, my new wife told me she had been fantasizing over having him in another room at the motel we were staying at. She said she missed the feeling of two different men, and the forbidden nature of it was highly erotic to her. What I did not know was that he was already in town, staying at a different motel. He had been hoping to get her alone at some point, thinking I would go out, even if it was only for groceries, but that wasn't happening.

Anyway... She got to a point where knowing he was nearby and not being able to do anything about it was driving her nuts. I told her that her meetings with her turned me on, and that I was afraid my reaction to her doing it with him would upset her. She asked if she could see him, and I said "YES!!!"

Within 2 hours he was in the room next door, and she was in bed with him. It was, I admit, hard listening through the wall, but it was also an incredible turn-on. When they were done and she came back into our room, she looked like she had really been into. When she got into bed she was almost frantic. I loved it!

After that he saw her at least twice a week until we moved away. Each time was more intense for me, especially as she became less guarded about their times together. Now, years later, we never have sex at all. She went through that change of life that seems to screw with many men and women's sex drives, and we eventually descended into total abstinence. Me? I have not changed at all... I wish she was still doing it... Those years were amazing!

How do others feel about this kind of thing? I was not a classic cuckold by the way... She never denied me sex... And the sex we had before the change was really wonderful...

[pole_smoker]

I know this is probably a strange post, and I would like to hear from women as well as me. I don't intend this to end up being a porn thing, but curious about how other people feel about this topic.

When I met my wife, she was already seeing another man. We dated for some time, and she kept seeing him. There were times we would cross each other's paths, and it could get a little awkward. Initially I was a bit jealous, but not terribly, and I let her know. Her attitude was that we weren't married, and her body was her own. She enjoyed both the attention she got from two men, and she liked the variation in sex between us too.

Eventually she and I married. We took a vacation, and she would talk to her boyfriend on the phone, and tell him she missed their meetings (he was married). On the second night of our honeymoon, my new wife told me she had been fantasizing over having him in another room at the motel we were staying at. She said she missed the feeling of two different men, and the forbidden nature of it was highly erotic to her. What I did not know was that he was already in town, staying at a different motel. He had been hoping to get her alone at some point, thinking I would go out, even if it was only for groceries, but that wasn't happening.

Anyway... She got to a point where knowing he was nearby and not being able to do anything about it was driving her nuts. I told her that her meetings with her turned me on, and that I was afraid my reaction to her doing it with him would upset her. She asked if she could see him, and I said "YES!!!"

Within 2 hours he was in the room next door, and she was in bed with him. It was, I admit, hard listening through the wall, but it was also an incredible turn-on. When they were done and she came back into our room, she looked like she had really been into. When she got into bed she was almost frantic. I loved it!

After that he saw her at least twice a week until we moved away. Each time was more intense for me, especially as she became less guarded about their times together. Now, years later, we never have sex at all. She went through that change of life that seems to screw with many men and women's sex drives, and we eventually descended into total abstinence. Me? I have not changed at all... I wish she was still doing it... Those years were amazing!

How do others feel about this kind of thing? I was not a classic cuckold by the way... She never denied me sex... And the sex we had before the change was really wonderful...
She sounds like a whore, not the type of woman to even date or have as a girlfriend let alone marry, like a walking Petri dish of STDs, and yes you were a cuckold or cuckolded by her boytoy/dick on the side.

Plus you just know she cheated on the Original Poster with other guys she never told him about and she lied to him about, just like he cheated on her with other men and women he never told her about and lied to his wife who he supposedly loved about...but that is what happens or eventually does happen in all open relationships, and in all open marriages. ;)

[chtampa]

I know this is probably a strange post, and I would like to hear from women as well as me. I don't intend this to end up being a porn thing, but curious about how other people feel about this topic.

When I met my wife, she was already seeing another man. We dated for some time, and she kept seeing him. There were times we would cross each other's paths, and it could get a little awkward. Initially I was a bit jealous, but not terribly, and I let her know. Her attitude was that we weren't married, and her body was her own. She enjoyed both the attention she got from two men, and she liked the variation in sex between us too.

Eventually she and I married. We took a vacation, and she would talk to her boyfriend on the phone, and tell him she missed their meetings (he was married). On the second night of our honeymoon, my new wife told me she had been fantasizing over having him in another room at the motel we were staying at. She said she missed the feeling of two different men, and the forbidden nature of it was highly erotic to her. What I did not know was that he was already in town, staying at a different motel. He had been hoping to get her alone at some point, thinking I would go out, even if it was only for groceries, but that wasn't happening.

Anyway... She got to a point where knowing he was nearby and not being able to do anything about it was driving her nuts. I told her that her meetings with her turned me on, and that I was afraid my reaction to her doing it with him would upset her. She asked if she could see him, and I said "YES!!!"

Within 2 hours he was in the room next door, and she was in bed with him. It was, I admit, hard listening through the wall, but it was also an incredible turn-on. When they were done and she came back into our room, she looked like she had really been into. When she got into bed she was almost frantic. I loved it!

After that he saw her at least twice a week until we moved away. Each time was more intense for me, especially as she became less guarded about their times together. Now, years later, we never have sex at all. She went through that change of life that seems to screw with many men and women's sex drives, and we eventually descended into total abstinence. Me? I have not changed at all... I wish she was still doing it... Those years were amazing!

How do others feel about this kind of thing? I was not a classic cuckold by the way... She never denied me sex... And the sex we had before the change was really wonderful...

It sounds like a relationship that suited you both and fulfilled both your needs. With you being happy, why would anothers opinion be important. Its cool that you found something that worked for you. Some of the responses you will get to this post will show you how truly unhappy some people will be while in their own relationship. As you read them you will appreciate yours even more.

[pole_smoker]

It sounds like a relationship that suited you both and fulfilled both your needs. With you being happy, why would anothers opinion be important. Its cool that you found something that worked for you. Some of the responses you will get to this post will show you how truly unhappy some people will be while in their own relationship. As you read them you will appreciate yours even more.

Nope, neither myself or my husband are unhappy at all. But I would not be surprised to learn that you and your 'wife' are unhappy. But anyone in any sort of relationship, let alone married to you will be unhappy.

FYI. It is not flaming anyone to tell the truth that relationships. and marriages like the OP described do not work out, and that you should not marry anyone like his wife who is a slut and whore, and that this leads to an unhappy marriage the way the OP describes his as being.

[tenni]

It reads as if you had a great agreement while it lasted. It worked for the three of you. Is your present relationship working for you?

Since you are on this site, I will think that you are bisexual and attracted to both men and women? Have you thought of approaching your wife about you getting a friend with benefits like she had...maybe a guy though?

[pole_smoker]

It reads as if you had a great agreement while it lasted. It worked for the three of you. Is your present relationship working for you?

Since you are on this site, I will think that you are bisexual and attracted to both men and women? Have you thought of approaching your wife about you getting a friend with benefits like she had...maybe a guy though?

They might as well just get a divorce since their sham "marriage" and "relationship" did not work since the OP is a pussy that cannot sexually satisfy the whore who he had the stupid idea to actually marry...and they are both or have both lied and cheated on each other before, or currently are...only his wife is using the excuse that her pussy went dry at a young age when that is uncommon, and unnatural...when in reality she is getting fucked on the side but just lying and not telling him how their marriage is over, and neither of them should have ever gotten married or stayed married since they both lie and cheat on each other.

They're also clearly not happily married.

these are pics of what Oztrich's "wife' likes to do but just lies about doing. ;)

http://lastgangbang.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/four-guys-and-one-mature_1.jpg

http://media.cuckold69.com/galleries/2014/1402/140204-interracial-picture-asian-woman-in-gangbang-sex-with-black-men.jpg

http://media.cuckold69.com/galleries/2014/1403/140319-mature-uk-wife-in-interracial-gangbang-sex-with-blacks.jpg

[Oztrich]

No... She is not into that at all... She knows, however, that I am bisexual

[pole_smoker]

No... She is not into that at all... She knows, however, that I am bisexual
That's good. Why not tell her how you recently cheated on her with some random guy you met on the internet? Or does she know that?

[charles-smythe]

I know this is probably a strange post, and I would like to hear from women as well as me. I don't intend this to end up being a porn thing, but curious about how other people feel about this topic.

When I met my wife, she was already seeing another man. We dated for some time, and she kept seeing him. There were times we would cross each other's paths, and it could get a little awkward. Initially I was a bit jealous, but not terribly, and I let her know. Her attitude was that we weren't married, and her body was her own. She enjoyed both the attention she got from two men, and she liked the variation in sex between us too.

Eventually she and I married. We took a vacation, and she would talk to her boyfriend on the phone, and tell him she missed their meetings (he was married). On the second night of our honeymoon, my new wife told me she had been fantasizing over having him in another room at the motel we were staying at. She said she missed the feeling of two different men, and the forbidden nature of it was highly erotic to her. What I did not know was that he was already in town, staying at a different motel. He had been hoping to get her alone at some point, thinking I would go out, even if it was only for groceries, but that wasn't happening.

Anyway... She got to a point where knowing he was nearby and not being able to do anything about it was driving her nuts. I told her that her meetings with her turned me on, and that I was afraid my reaction to her doing it with him would upset her. She asked if she could see him, and I said "YES!!!"

Within 2 hours he was in the room next door, and she was in bed with him. It was, I admit, hard listening through the wall, but it was also an incredible turn-on. When they were done and she came back into our room, she looked like she had really been into. When she got into bed she was almost frantic. I loved it!

After that he saw her at least twice a week until we moved away. Each time was more intense for me, especially as she became less guarded about their times together. Now, years later, we never have sex at all. She went through that change of life that seems to screw with many men and women's sex drives, and we eventually descended into total abstinence. Me? I have not changed at all... I wish she was still doing it... Those years were amazing!

How do others feel about this kind of thing? I was not a classic cuckold by the way... She never denied me sex... And the sex we had before the change was really wonderful... …the siuation you describe is what pushes many, many men towards other men…

[charles-smythe]

It sounds like a relationship that suited you both and fulfilled both your needs. With you being happy, why would anothers opinion be important. Its cool that you found something that worked for you. Some of the responses you will get to this post will show you how truly unhappy some people will be while in their own relationship. As you read them you will appreciate yours even more.
…I agree…if it makes the two of you happy…no one elses opinion matters…

[Melody Dean]

a slut and whore

Did someone call me?

My husband and I have an open marriage. When we got engaged, we both knew that we were both very sexual, and there might come a day when we would desire others. I was also young and inexperienced, and he didn't want me to ever regret that I didn't sow my oats, as it were.

Well, life never works out as you plan. He's had some health issues, and the medicine he is on saps his libido. I have slept around a little bit (practicing safe sex, of course). I currently have a lover. I also have a friend that sometimes comes with benefits, but that's it's own unique situation.

I have never denied my husband sex, and never plan to. I would have no problem sleeping with him right after my lover, or right before, and neither one of them would have a problem with that either.

I love my husband with all my heart. If he told me he wanted me to stop, I would. My lover knows this as well and has promised that he will never come between me and my husband. We have a happy marriage because we communicate and compromise. My lover is not a replacement, but a supplement, and it keeps my marriage in good standing. If I didn't have a lover, I would grow resentful and insecure from the lack of sex.

[NjbiGuy01]

She sounds like a whore, not the type of woman to even date or have as a girlfriend let alone marry, like a walking Petri dish of STDs, and yes you were a cuckold or cuckolded by her boytoy/dick on the side.

Plus you just know she cheated on the Original Poster with other guys she never told him about and she lied to him about, just like he cheated on her with other men and women he never told her about and lied to his wife who he supposedly loved about...but that is what happens or eventually does happen in all open relationships, and in all open marriages. ;)


Dear lord Jesus who died for our sins. Please get this asshole Pole_smoker banned from this website and earth itself. I promise to not bother you again. 36616

[BareHunter45]

NJBiGuy01'

i put him on my ignore list and life is much much better!

[tenni]

Did someone call me? .

te he he he he he :bibounce: :)

It gets confusing when the Church Lady throws out slut, whore prostitute in the same breath...;)

[pole_smoker]

te he he he he he :bibounce: :)

It gets confusing when Church Lady throws out slut, whore prostitute in the same breath...;)
:rolleyes: Get over yourself. You're the only main prude that acts like a 'church lady' here with how you don't like people posting pictures of porn on a bisexual sex site for adults. :rolleyes:

[cuttin2dachase]

Mel, it sounds like you and hubby have the ideal arrangement ! It's too bad that there are so many loving happy couples (married or not) with unequal libidos and desires who can't come to a similar agreement. One partner stands in the way of the other's sexual fulfillment out of jealousy or insecurity or fear. The other partner must either suffer in silence and resentment or act on their sexual desires and risk messing up an otherwise great relationship. I know I will never again have a female S/O unless she accepts my bi side and either joins me in sexual fun with men or lets me have fun on the side. I'll keep looking for such a woman, though :)

[pole_smoker]

Mel, it sounds like you and hubby have the ideal arrangement ! It's too bad that there are so many loving happy couples (married or not) with unequal libidos and desires who can't come to a similar agreement. One partner stands in the way of the other's sexual fulfillment out of jealousy or insecurity or fear. The other partner must either suffer in silence and resentment or act on their sexual desires and risk messing up an otherwise great relationship. I know I will never again have a female S/O unless she accepts my bi side and either joins me in sexual fun with men or lets me have fun on the side. I'll keep looking for such a woman, though :)
The majority of people do not want an open relationship, or if they are in one do not stay in one for the rest of their lives...if they want their relationship to actually last, and actually really work.

Women especially do not want an open relationship...and what woman or man would actually want you, let alone a 'relationship' with you? :rolleyes:

There's something called, actually talking and communicating, and being truthful with your spouse, or partner, or getting a divorce if you're just going to cheat on them. But I'm not surprised most people here haven't heard of this and blame the other person when they make the choice and decision to cheat. :rolleyes: But then cheating and lying to their spouse or partner comes back to bite them in the ass.

[chtampa]

Dear lord Jesus who died for our sins. Please get this asshole Pole_smoker banned from this website and earth itself. I promise to not bother you again. 36616

Be patient, it is normal to be angry at things that remind us of how unfair life has been to us. He always lashes out at people in relationships that are trying to be happy. This is a very sensitive subject for him. I have known women that have joined the lesbian ranks because a man screwed them over. It is possible that a man would change sides for that reason also. There is likely a woman somewhere that has a jar of testicles that says pole smoker sitting on a shelf. I would hate the world also if I allowed mine to be taken away. Anyone with this much anger is going to crash some day. He has no where else to vent.

[BareHunter45]

:rolleyes: Get over yourself. You're the only main prude that acts like a 'church lady' here with how you don't like people posting pictures of porn on a bisexual sex site for adults. :rolleyes:


Well Pole....looks like that is not the majorities opinion....you have been one royal Pain In the ASS since being here! You have taken over the site and alienated yourself from most of the others. It will be a happy day when you have had your fun and leave us alone....what a prick!

[NjbiGuy01]

Well, I still see the "posts I can't see" messages, and that bugs the shit out of me.....this guy Pole posts the least relevant, downright disturbing and disgusting garbage on the website. Charles_smythe is a close second in terms of uselessness... Drew, for the love of God, ban these clowns...

[BareHunter45]

I'd be happy if they banned just Pole....I'm tired of trying to be politically correct and not offending....he's an asshole. If. Get banned, so be it...no great loss....he's driven this site to a state where it no longer represents the close, family like, supportive group it once was. That part is gone! We lost it and. Got him...sucks!

[querty]

Gotta luv the ignore feature.....I would suspect that as more people ignore pole (the self loathing pathetico whom can't seem to manage his meds) his anger and vehemence for hatred will continue to escalate, until it consumes him. So keep those ignores coming!

[Melody Dean]

Mel, it sounds like you and hubby have the ideal arrangement ! It's too bad that there are so many loving happy couples (married or not) with unequal libidos and desires who can't come to a similar agreement. One partner stands in the way of the other's sexual fulfillment out of jealousy or insecurity or fear. The other partner must either suffer in silence and resentment or act on their sexual desires and risk messing up an otherwise great relationship. I know I will never again have a female S/O unless she accepts my bi side and either joins me in sexual fun with men or lets me have fun on the side. I'll keep looking for such a woman, though :)

There have been issues that I hadn't thought of though. For example, when we talked about it, I always imagined him having someone else too. And I'm encouraging him to. But he says he's not interested right now. I also have to try to make sure I give my husband enough of my time, while still working and doing the hobbies I like, plus spending time with a lover. So sometimes I have to turn things down to spend time with my husband because he doesn't want to do that particular thing.

[BareHunter45]

Gotta luv the ignore feature.....I would suspect that as more people ignore pole (the self loathing pathetico whom can't seem to manage his meds) his anger and vehemence for hatred will continue to escalate, until it consumes him. So keep those ignores coming!

has anyone told him that there are some decaffinated brands on the market that taste just as good as the regular stuff???

[pole_smoker]

Gotta luv the ignore feature.....I would suspect that as more people ignore Tenni (the self loathing pathetico whom can't seem to manage his meds) his anger and vehemence for hatred will continue to escalate, until it consumes him. So keep those ignores coming!
Yes, you're describing Tenni perfectly. ;)
FYI, I'm not angry but you certainly seem to be full of rage.

[tenni]

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[pole_smoker]

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LOL :rolleyes: I would not be surprised if Tenni still does live with his mother.

[tommyswing]

I've had the same reaction as the OP. I've shared men with with my S.O's. and found it quite a turn on. I think d/p is the bomb, licking her clit while she's being taken from behind, is hot also. the thing I won't tolerate is her having an emotional relationship with him. this type of kink is very common with bisexual men and of course if you're not bisexual whether you're completely gay or straight, you will have hard time understanding this.

[pole_smoker]

I've had the same reaction as the OP. I've shared men with with my S.O's. and found it quite a turn on. I think d/p is the bomb, licking her clit while she's being taken from behind, is hot also. the thing I won't tolerate is her having an emotional relationship with him. this type of kink is very common with bisexual men and of course if you're not bisexual whether you're completely gay or straight, you will have hard time understanding this.

Gay men, and hetero couples and even some bi/lezzie women who are couples do this but they generally stop before they get married since open relationships or open marriages do not work out or last. Plus the majority of people bisexual people included do not want an open relationship let alone an open marriage since they do not work, and someone does wind up cheating like the original poster does on his 'wife' who he clearly does not love but she is getting some dick or cunt too, lying and cheating on him too. ;)

[Melody Dean]

the thing I won't tolerate is her having an emotional relationship with him.

Ah yes, emotions. That's a problem I didn't foresee with having an open relationship. Sure, I can go into it thinking that it will be about sex only, and with most of my partners, it has been just about the sex.

But the best partners, and the ones my husband prefers, are friends. Well with friends, there is already an emotional attachment, even if it's just platonic. Having a more intimate relationship will strengthen any sort of attachment, even if it is a friendly one. So there is this weird area, that I honestly don't know how to deal with.

I have an on again off again FWB who is also one of my best friends. The off again part is always because we get confused about the emotions that go along with it. I'll always think of him as a friend first; hell, even if we were both single I'd rather be his friend than a romantic partner; and I sure as hell wouldn't leave my husband for him or prefer him over my husband; but we're both leery of getting into dangerous emotional territory.

[charles-smythe]

There have been issues that I hadn't thought of though. For example, when we talked about it, I always imagined him having someone else too. And I'm encouraging him to. But he says he's not interested right now. I also have to try to make sure I give my husband enough of my time, while still working and doing the hobbies I like, plus spending time with a lover. So sometimes I have to turn things down to spend time with my husband because he doesn't want to do that particular thing. …that’s the kinda scrafices a married/commited person makes to make their partner happy…it’s a give & take thing…

[Melody Dean]

…that’s the kinda scrafices a married/commited person makes to make their partner happy…it’s a give & take thing…


Exactly.

[tommyswing]

Ah yes, emotions. That's a problem I didn't foresee with having an open relationship. Sure, I can go into it thinking that it will be about sex only, and with most of my partners, it has been just about the sex.

But the best partners, and the ones my husband prefers, are friends. Well with friends, there is already an emotional attachment, even if it's just platonic. Having a more intimate relationship will strengthen any sort of attachment, even if it is a friendly one. So there is this weird area, that I honestly don't know how to deal with.

I have an on again off again FWB who is also one of my best friends. The off again part is always because we get confused about the emotions that go along with it. I'll always think of him as a friend first; hell, even if we were both single I'd rather be his friend than a romantic partner; and I sure as hell wouldn't leave my husband for him or prefer him over my husband; but we're both leery of getting into dangerous emotional territory.
This gives me another way to look at it, I can be with men and not have an emotional attachment, I don't know if I would find it that easy with a women. This is one of the reasons I tend to like 3 somes, as a couple we are together in this, the the relationship with the other person doesn't get quite as intimate. Reading your post cleared up a little confusion in my mind, it's not so much her having emotional feeling for him that i would object to, it's her seeing the him as her primary lover, and switching her loyalty to him.

[cuttin2dachase]

1st wife and I did not have an open relationship per se because we were swingers and always played with other men and couples together. We did establish an arrangement/agreement whereby she had a "hall pass" to play with other men when I was away for a week or more travelling in my job. This typically happened 4 to 5 times per year. She was a very highly sexed woman, bordering on insatiable when she was in a slutty, horny mood. I understood that and knew she would climb the walls if she had to go without sex that long and possibly even 'cheat' on me to get sexual relief. I felt fortunate to have such a hotwife. She was a total freak sexually. I wanted for her to never lack for sex when she wanted it and needed it. Our agreement was that she could meet guys we'd had 3somes with and she had quite a few to choose from LOL. I am not the jealous type and were it not for my concern for her physical safety and fears of her getting an STD meeting complete strangers, I would have had no issues with her picking up men at random. Going out for the express purpose of picking up couples or men in bars was one of our favorite swing activities together. We talked with each other each day I was away. Although she was not required to tell me of her plans, she usually did anyway. She had an 'A' list of guys we knew and their phone numbers and simply called them and invited them over. A couple of times she even called me while she was having sex with a guy describing how well he was eating her. I also talked to him when they switched places. It was quite a turn on hearing him describe the blowjob he was getting from her and how he was going to fuck her brains out shortly. Sometimes when I got home from a business trip, she'd show me polaroid snapshots or videos of her fun. One time she tried to arrange a 3some with 2 of our bi male friends. She was disappointed that they weren't both able to meet at the same time, but happy that she fucked them on back to back nights. At the very least she'd describe the things she'd done in my absence, which made for some very hot pillow talk during our homecoming sex sessions. She 'cheated' on our agreement once and admitted it freely. There was a bi guy we were already planning to meet for a 3some and she decided to try him out for herself first LOL. Since we'd both talked to him via emails and phone, I felt like we did know him so I wasn't upset about it. We did meet him together a couple of weeks later and he became a semi-regular third for us.

[pole_smoker]

1st wife and I did not have an open relationship per se because we were swingers and always played with other men and couples together. We did establish an arrangement/agreement whereby she had a "hall pass" to play with other men when I was away for a week or more travelling in my job. This typically happened 4 to 5 times per year. She was a very highly sexed woman, bordering on insatiable when she was in a slutty, horny mood. I understood that and knew she would climb the walls if she had to go without sex that long and possibly even 'cheat' on me to get sexual relief. I felt fortunate to have such a hotwife. She was a total freak sexually. I wanted for her to never lack for sex when she wanted it and needed it. Our agreement was that she could meet guys we'd had 3somes with and she had quite a few to choose from LOL. I am not the jealous type and were it not for my concern for her physical safety and fears of her getting an STD meeting complete strangers, I would have had no issues with her picking up men at random. Going out for the express purpose of picking up couples or men in bars was one of our favorite swing activities together. We talked with each other each day I was away. Although she was not required to tell me of her plans, she usually did anyway. She had an 'A' list of guys we knew and their phone numbers and simply called them and invited them over. A couple of times she even called me while she was having sex with a guy describing how well he was eating her. I also talked to him when they switched places. It was quite a turn on hearing him describe the blowjob he was getting from her and how he was going to fuck her brains out shortly. Sometimes when I got home from a business trip, she'd show me polaroid snapshots or videos of her fun. One time she tried to arrange a 3some with 2 of our bi male friends. She was disappointed that they weren't both able to meet at the same time, but happy that she fucked them on back to back nights. At the very least she'd describe the things she'd done in my absence, which made for some very hot pillow talk during our homecoming sex sessions. She 'cheated' on our agreement once and admitted it freely. There was a bi guy we were already planning to meet for a 3some and she decided to try him out for herself first LOL. Since we'd both talked to him via emails and phone, I felt like we did know him so I wasn't upset about it. We did meet him together a couple of weeks later and he became a semi-regular third for us.
I'm not surprised that whore is now your LOL "ex-wife". Why did you ever make the mistake of marrying her?

[BareHunter45]

Funny....I haven't heard from or seen any posts form pole stroker.....he must be busy....oh that's right I have him on ignore.....

[DMercator]

It sounds like a relationship that suited you both and fulfilled both your needs. With you being happy, why would anothers opinion be important. Its cool that you found something that worked for you. Some of the responses you will get to this post will show you how truly unhappy some people will be while in their own relationship. As you read them you will appreciate yours even more.

Yeah - What Chtampa said. Sounds like you found something that worked for you both for many years. If the two of you were happy with this arrangement, to hell what others may think.

[Melody Dean]

I am not the jealous type and were it not for my concern for her physical safety and fears of her getting an STD meeting complete strangers, I would have had no issues with her picking up men at random. Going out for the express purpose of picking up couples or men in bars was one of our favorite swing activities together.

That's one thing I couldn't bring myself to do, and my husband doesn't want me to do. The people I have been with have all been friends or acquaintances, or there's a getting-to-know-each-other period first. I don't do complete strangers, it just doesn't excite me. (Now, roleplaying strangers with a partner, does, for some strange reason...)