Peachy
Aug 14, 2006, 4:04 PM
Hey ladies and gents...
I have a situation. I am married. My wife and I are both involved with the same man. It is becoming a wonderful situation, with tons of possibilities. We really enjoy it.
Our boyfriend sometimes feels overwhelmed with it all and worries that he'll never have equality in the relationship. Any tips on making the playing field more level between the three of us? I think we're making it as even as possible with all the same opportunities and rules (see below) that my wife and I have. What else can we do to make him more comfortable?
Also, as far as rules go: Faithfulness is a requirement. He doesn't necessarily have a physical problem with this. But he doesn't think it's necessary if one of us gets the opportunity/desire to act outside of the relationship. I don't agree...how much should I give on this issue or should I stick to my guns completely?
Thanks in advance for any response and advice you can offer. I think this relationship could really be beautiful and worth a try.
Peachy.
I have a situation. I am married. My wife and I are both involved with the same man. It is becoming a wonderful situation, with tons of possibilities. We really enjoy it.
Our boyfriend sometimes feels overwhelmed with it all and worries that he'll never have equality in the relationship. Any tips on making the playing field more level between the three of us? I think we're making it as even as possible with all the same opportunities and rules (see below) that my wife and I have. What else can we do to make him more comfortable?
Also, as far as rules go: Faithfulness is a requirement. He doesn't necessarily have a physical problem with this. But he doesn't think it's necessary if one of us gets the opportunity/desire to act outside of the relationship. I don't agree...how much should I give on this issue or should I stick to my guns completely?
Thanks in advance for any response and advice you can offer. I think this relationship could really be beautiful and worth a try.
Peachy.