ok , iv'e had it

[marine20]

I have had enough of this fucking troll taking over this sight. this has now become a sight for mental retardation. i'm taking it off of my favorites, and leaving for good. it's a shame that one fucking asshole can ruin a whole sight , but it has happened. good-bye to all of you wonderful people , and fuck you , pole sucker.

[NjbiGuy01]

Well put Marine20. This guy is a true cancer on the site. So's his alter-ego Smythe. It's sad when people have to leave a site under these circumstances.

Oh Drew, where are you when we need ye ?

[donttellnehismy]

What alter ego?

[john441963]

Let's take a pole to see how many members object to his posts. :-0

[Sigstache]

He's a special kind of troll. He flies just under the radar as to annoy site members but not enough to break sites rules and get kicked/banned or told to curb himself. I applaud the sites policy not to boot him, free speach and all that, but at the same time the 1st ammendment doesn't apply here; its a privately owned site. For someone to be allowed to freely stir the pot and annoy members like he does is shameful on part of the mods and the policy makers of this site. Just my 2 cents.


ETA: another option is to counter-troll. Make parody threads, etc....

[NjbiGuy01]

What alter ego?

Charles_Smythe....he's either the same guy or equally as bent.

I urge everyone on the site who's fed up with these guys to report every one of their posts. Eventually Drew will respond and hopefully delete and block them.

[querty]

guys/gals - Just neuter them. Go to their profiles and add them to your ignore list - then they they just....go away. Their ridiculous and profane polls and threads don't appear on your home page, and their equally ridiculous and profane hatred show in threads only as "you have chosen to ignore this user" of some such. Ta-da!

[12voltyV2.0]

What alter ego?


I don't know if Smythe is an "alter ego" or not----but it has long been a part of the way that either one troll or a series of them have vexed this site for years----the way that Drew did set this site up----you are not limited on the number of profiles, names, handles or whatever you want to call them and we have had "conversations" going on between three or four such people having a "conversation" among themselves---with them basically "supporting" one another in the weird things that they will talk about.

Well, sad to say----that having had such trolls all these years has driven away many a good person from here, but at least for most of that time, Drew or whoever did boot them till they created new profiles and started their shit all over again.

Now though----it is pretty clear----that Drew and his people have put this site on "autopilot." I have not seen anything new posted under the Drew name for at least a year or so now.

Man---I'd love to win a nice lotto jackpot---if I did----I'd buy this damn site then hire some skilled and talented people to really make this site a cool place booth technically and content wise---and "Troll Proof" it, but I since I have no idea at all in how to run a website and would have to do it on a tight budget, my making a run at this site if I got it, would not do it the justice it deserves.

I think that a site like this really could have great potential to not only be a good site for bisexuals and related sexual identifications, but for a web site in general if done "right."

The fact is, as the situation now stands----assholes like Pole Smoker have free run of the place------that sucks more than the fact that Drew and his crew have set this site adrift and don't give a shit about it anymore!!!

[pole_smoker]

I don't know if Smythe is an "alter ego" or not----but it has long been a part of the way that either one troll or a series of them have vexed this site for years----the way that Drew did set this site up----you are not limited on the number of profiles, names, handles or whatever you want to call them and we have had "conversations" going on between three or four such people having a "conversation" among themselves---with them basically "supporting" one another in the weird things that they will talk about.

Well, sad to say----that having had such trolls all these years has driven away many a good person from here, but at least for most of that time, Drew or whoever did boot them till they created new profiles and started their shit all over again.

Now though----it is pretty clear----that Drew and his people have put this site on "autopilot." I have not seen anything new posted under the Drew name for at least a year or so now.

Man---I'd love to win a nice lotto jackpot---if I did----I'd buy this damn site then hire some skilled and talented people to really make this site a cool place booth technically and content wise---and "Troll Proof" it, but I since I have no idea at all in how to run a website and would have to do it on a tight budget, my making a run at this site if I got it, would not do it the justice it deserves.

I think that a site like this really could have great potential to not only be a good site for bisexuals and related sexual identifications, but for a web site in general if done "right."

The fact is, as the situation now stands----assholes like Pole Smoker have free run of the place------that sucks more than the fact that Drew and his crew have set this site adrift and don't give a shit about it anymore!!!
There are trolls here; but they're not myself or Charles. However you are a troll since you flip out and post rants that nobody cares about, and you stalk/harass people who you happen not to like.

Nobody is trying to "destroy the site" except for trolls/bullies such as yourself who get all hung up and stalk/harass/bully other people who they do not like to try to get them to leave the site-as you've done many times in the past, or to get them to stop posting, and people such as yourself who are the real trolls think that you actually own this site, or control what gets posted or written about or who can post...when in reality you don't control anyone, and you do not own this site.

All sites have cliques but this site has a few trolls/haters who like to think that because they've been here they can dictate just what other people should and should not be able to post about...when they're not the owners of the site or in power at all. These people are very vocal and are trolls/haters/bullies when everyone else just simply doesn't click or reply to threads they do not like or are not interested in.

People have left the site not because of myself or Charles-we're not the same person at all-but because of people like you and others who tell them how they should not be here, shouldn't be posting, shouldn't post certain things, etc.

[charles-smythe]

guys/gals - Just neuter them. Go to their profiles and add them to your ignore list - then they they just....go away. Their ridiculous and profane polls and threads don't appear on your home page, and their equally ridiculous and profane hatred show in threads only as "you have chosen to ignore this user" of some such. Ta-da! …I wish everyone who doesn’t like me & pole would put us on the ‘ignore’ list…then we won’t be bothered by their whinny ‘if I can’t tell you what to do-I’m going to whine & cry’ posts…my ignore list is growing…

[tenni]

Charles That does nothing to improve/increase the number of threads created by other members. The vast majority of thread of the first four pages are by you or pole. Very few other members can get a chance to start threads.

Chill a bit. Let others have their turn to start threads and for others to read the thread and answer. Bumping poles threads up to the front page does nothing for the community of sharing bisexuals. Digging back to banned posters' threads does nothing for the community ..they were banned for a reason.

[pole_smoker]

The ignore feature works fine. I have no clue what tenni posted and I'm not reading it.

[NjbiGuy01]

The ignore feature works fine. I have no clue what tenni posted and I'm not reading it.

yes, just hide your head in the sand until tomorrow when you and Smythe start filling the forum with your trash again....

[NjbiGuy01]

Proof that you and your other profile Smythe are the true trolls here Pole:

36198

[pole_smoker]

yes, just hide your head in the sand until tomorrow when you and Smythe start filling the forum with your trash again....
Myself and Charles don't post "trash" on this site...since this is a bisexual sex site for other bisexual adults, however you frequently spam trash daily and nightly. Welcome to the ignore list.

[Fzmr9t]

The one problem with putting someone on ignore, is that someone else will "quote" the persons comments that you've placed on ignore, into their own post, so you wind up seeing it anyway (which, when you read their crap, just confirms that you were correct in ignoring them)

sorry that legit members are forced to deal with nitwits

[charles-smythe]

The one problem with putting someone on ignore, is that someone else will "quote" the persons comments that you've placed on ignore, into their own post, so you wind up seeing it anyway (which, when you read their crap, just confirms that you were correct in ignoring them)

sorry that legit members are forced to deal with nitwits …you’re right…but most of them have been on here so long…it wouldn’t be right to kick them off…so the ones that get ‘quoted’ we just have to tolerate…probably only 1/3 get quoted so that’s still a lot you don’t have to contend with…

[charles-smythe]

I don't know if Smythe is an "alter ego" or not----but it has long been a part of the way that either one troll or a series of them have vexed this site for years----the way that Drew did set this site up----you are not limited on the number of profiles, names, handles or whatever you want to call them and we have had "conversations" going on between three or four such people having a "conversation" among themselves---with them basically "supporting" one another in the weird things that they will talk about.

Well, sad to say----that having had such trolls all these years has driven away many a good person from here, but at least for most of that time, Drew or whoever did boot them till they created new profiles and started their shit all over again.

Now though----it is pretty clear----that Drew and his people have put this site on "autopilot." I have not seen anything new posted under the Drew name for at least a year or so now.

Man---I'd love to win a nice lotto jackpot---if I did----I'd buy this damn site then hire some skilled and talented people to really make this site a cool place booth technically and content wise---and "Troll Proof" it, but I since I have no idea at all in how to run a website and would have to do it on a tight budget, my making a run at this site if I got it, would not do it the justice it deserves.

I think that a site like this really could have great potential to not only be a good site for bisexuals and related sexual identifications, but for a web site in general if done "right."

The fact is, as the situation now stands----assholes like Pole Smoker have free run of the place------that sucks more than the fact that Drew and his crew have set this site adrift and don't give a shit about it anymore!!! …I don’t consider myself a troll…when I reply to a post I try to tell real life experiences & honest opinions…just because you don’t like how I’ve lived my life or my opinion doesn’t make me a troll…we are still allowed to have our own opinions I think, are we not?...

[pole_smoker]

…I don’t consider myself a troll…when I reply to a post I try to tell real life experiences & honest opinions…just because you don’t like how I’ve lived my life or my opinion doesn’t make me a troll…we are still allowed to have our own opinions I think, are we not?...

Just ignore 12VoltyV2.0 he's a troll, bully, and prude. He thinks of everyone else as a troll when he's the actual troll. ;)

You said it best when you replied to him once and said how he posts 100's of crappy posts.

[charles-smythe]

http://imagehost.thasnasty.com/?di=K0AO

[tenni]

The one problem with putting someone on ignore, is that someone else will "quote" the persons comments that you've placed on ignore, into their own post, so you wind up seeing it anyway (which, when you read their crap, just confirms that you were correct in ignoring them)

sorry that legit members are forced to deal with nitwits

True this happens when someone else quotes the person on ignore. However, when you have them on ignore you can not see threads started by that person.

You can see that they have posted on a thread started by someone else. You know that they posted but not what they posted. It is your choice whether you want to ignore all things posted...or click on "view post" to see what they posted. I know Charles has posted three times since Fzmr9t posted and pole posted once between 6:44 am and 3:09 p.m. I am in control if I want to read more likely see spam porn from them or not.

Sorry, that you are leaving Marine20. It is understandable though.

[Melody Dean]

http://imagehost.thasnasty.com/?di=K0AO

As much as I don't want to encourage off topic posts...

Yum.

[NjbiGuy01]

They are not "off topic" they are useless and stupid.

[berryhard]

Kicking this guy off just because he is very active isn't very fair. It's still a free country, for now. He hasn't broken any "rules". He may be bothersome to some buts that's the real world. How about we run out neighbors out of town when they talk too much at a back yard party ? Maybe just shoot them ? We can go back to old fashioned lynch mobs and hang people for no reason.
Toughen up a bit people and learn to deal with adversity and society.

[charles-smythe]

Kicking this guy off just because he is very active isn't very fair. It's still a free country, for now. He hasn't broken any "rules". He may be bothersome to some buts that's the real world. How about we run out neighbors out of town when they talk too much at a back yard party ? Maybe just shoot them ? We can go back to old fashioned lynch mobs and hang people for no reason.
Toughen up a bit people and learn to deal with adversity and society. …well said…& I thank you…

[Sigstache]

He may be bothersome to some buts that's the real world. How about we run out neighbors out of town when they talk too much at a back yard party
Usually if a person is talking to much or to loud, the social norms kick in and people who are annoyed either leave or walk away and start a new circle. On the internet the equivalent is to flip the switch and ignore them, however it isn't as good as walking away because there's still evidence of their presence.

I think the main problem here is that people have complained, its been largely ignored, and no one in authority has asked or told him to curb the behavior. But most offensive of all, he flies just under the rules radar and flat out rubs it in the face of the ones who are offended.

[cuttin2dachase]

I have never proposed kicking anyone off this site. In real life we remove certain undesirable individuals from society. We put them in jails and prisons, but we don't send them off-planet. They go where they can not reach out and do further harm to anyone but themselves. The site gives all members a tool, namely an ignore function. We, even they, may censure undesirable, dysfunctional social retards (aka trolls) and put them in the site jail. There's no reason to agg everything on by bandying words with such fools. If you want to be their poison pen pal and communicate with them, then don't put them on ignore. If you won't stand for or tolerate abuse and sociopathic behavior or those who support it and defend it, put them all on ignore. Simple as that !

[charles-smythe]

I have never proposed kicking anyone off this site. In real life we remove certain undesirable individuals from society. We put them in jails and prisons, but we don't send them off-planet. They go where they can not reach out and do further harm to anyone but themselves. The site gives all members a tool, namely an ignore function. We, even they, may censure undesirable, dysfunctional social retards (aka trolls) and put them in the site jail. There's no reason to agg everything on by bandying words with such fools. If you want to be their poison pen pal and communicate with them, then don't put them on ignore. If you won't stand for or tolerate abuse and sociopathic behavior or those who support it and defend it, put them all on ignore. Simple as that ! …its amazing how simple that solution is…but the know it alls are so bent on forcing people to post their way that they refuse to hit ignore…

[matutum]

I never have had the pleasure of meeting him or talking to him- guess I'm not on here enough- besides it takes a lot to rattle my chain-

[matutum]

I did post a thing a while back about being bi might transfer aids to other people or something to that effect and volty had a complete melt down where he suggested to have me shut up- removed from the site ect- but then I don't claim to be an expert he it comes sexual stuff or ---- I dont need to go on

[pole_smoker]

I did post a thing a while back about being bi might transfer aids to other people or something to that effect and volty had a complete melt down where he suggested to have me shut up- removed from the site ect- but then I don't claim to be an expert he it comes sexual stuff or ---- I dont need to go on
Volty is a total hypocrite and probably HIV+ and with other STDs as he does have unprotected anal sex.


…its amazing how simple that solution is…but the know it alls are so bent on forcing people to post their way that they refuse to hit ignore…

Indeed, and then we have lots of drama queens in every sense of the term like the original poster who simply can't ignore people who they don't like or who can't stop clicking on threads they personally find offensive since they are a prude. ;)

[tenni]

" He hasn't broken any "rules".

Barry, you have not read his posts carefully nor seem to understand rule 2
"Be Polite" Flame the idea if you feel you must, but not the person.

He has consistently put down anyone who writes anything that he doesn't like.

" just because he is very active isn't very fair."
Yes, the point is if all of the threads are by the same person and the vast majority of replies come from the same two people, is it their fault that others are not as active?

Does rule 4 apply? Is he sharing or dominating the site? Is there a line that is being crossed?
Are his threads entertaining? (looking at posts he is entertaining to less than five or six members on any of his threads..usually the same one)

Is their discussion on issues based from his threads? (mostly images of the naked porn)

Do his threads enlighten?

[charles-smythe]

I did post a thing a while back about being bi might transfer aids to other people or something to that effect and volty had a complete melt down where he suggested to have me shut up- removed from the site ect- but then I don't claim to be an expert he it comes sexual stuff or ---- I dont need to go on …I know what you mean…when I first came on him & tenni tried to tell me what to post & etc…I ignored them & kept posting…because I didn’t kiss their ass…now I’m a troll…

[charles-smythe]

http://imagehost.thasnasty.com/?di=NJ4I

[Melody Dean]

http://imagehost.thasnasty.com/?di=NJ4I

Honey, you've got some wonderful taste... But, can we keep this on topic, and put those pics in their own thread? It makes it hard to navigate through the thread, and more importantly, hard to find said pics later. You know, in case someone might want to see one again...

[charles-smythe]

Honey, you've got some wonderful taste... But, can we keep this on topic, and put those pics in their own thread? It makes it hard to navigate through the thread, and more importantly, hard to find said pics later. You know, in case someone might want to see one again... …I’ll try to refrain…

[tenni]

I did post a thing a while back about being bi might transfer aids to other people or something to that effect and volty had a complete melt down where he suggested to have me shut up- removed from the site ect- but then I don't claim to be an expert he it comes sexual stuff or ---- I dont need to go on

There were studies that indicated that bisexuals transferred HIV from gays to women. This was based on information from studies in South America where the term bisexual was used by gay men. Due to Maschimo, no man admitted that he was a homosexual. All gays labelled themselves as bisexuals in the South American country. Also studies lumped gay men and bisexual men together when they came up with stats on HIV. This have been found as Bi Erasure and re examining these studies found that bisexual men did not have a higher incident of HIV than heterosexual men. So the premise that you wrote is wrong and left over incorrect informaiton from awhilre back.

[berryhard]

" He hasn't broken any "rules".

Barry, you have not read his posts carefully nor seem to understand rule 2
"Be Polite" Flame the idea if you feel you must, but not the person.

He has consistently put down anyone who writes anything that he doesn't like.

" just because he is very active isn't very fair."
Yes, the point is if all of the threads are by the same person and the vast majority of replies come from the same two people, is it their fault that others are not as active?

Does rule 4 apply? Is he sharing or dominating the site? Is there a line that is being crossed?
Are his threads entertaining? (looking at posts he is entertaining to less than five or six members on any of his threads..usually the same one)

Is their discussion on issues based from his threads? (mostly images of the naked porn)

Do his threads enlighten?


where are these "rules" ? I'm not a "trouble maker" but I am not aware of any rules. Secondly, most of he members here are obviously fools, so many are constantly discussing this guy, that's probably what he wants. He's acting and saying things to get attention and have people react. And you all are. I think he's pretty smart, he's got u where he wants you. Probably pretty lonely as well.

[darkeyes]

where are these "rules" ? I'm not a "trouble maker" but I am not aware of any rules. Secondly, most of he members here are obviously fools, so many are constantly discussing this guy, that's probably what he wants. He's acting and saying things to get attention and have people react. And you all are. I think he's pretty smart, he's got u where he wants you. Probably pretty lonely as well.
The rules are on the bottom of the registration page... but they are not enforced these days cos the site owner seems 2 gave disappeared in a puff of smoke... u should have had wee study of them b4 u registered... well, mayb in normal times u shud ave. Tho dunno wot normal is on .com ne more...

[berryhard]

There they are, right in plain sight ! Lol. Really never noticed them. Now that I've read them I can see many don't follow them, perhaps myself at times.
Personally, short of ileagl or socially normal acceptable matters I would think pretty much anything goes here. "flaming" the person vs the topic seems to be the culprit in the case of the fellow who seems to have so many people upset. I haven't seen anything that personally would upset myself though. I truly think people are being hyper sensitive and if they don't like it, knowing the moderator seems to be remiss, should just ignore or go to a site that caters to the sensitive. This isn't the only rodeo and there is and off button. Actually, if the people offended by him not being polite were not hypocrites they would follow their own advice and ignore. The real edicatte in society is to turn the other cheek. Insulting and criticizing another who offends is actually worse then the original offense. I have spoken my mind and spent far longer in this then it deserves and mode time then I ever thought I would. Let's get back to talking about bisexual sex and the issues and joys surrounding that. That's why we are here right ?

[NjbiGuy01]

It's sad Drew has abandoned the site. I attempted to contact him (to no avail) to even offer to help moderate or assist in improving and keeping the site working well. Sad really.

And yes Tenni, the person you refer to (who's name I shall not speak) clearly oversteps the website policies daily.

[charles-smythe]

There they are, right in plain sight ! Lol. Really never noticed them. Now that I've read them I can see many don't follow them, perhaps myself at times.
Personally, short of ileagl or socially normal acceptable matters I would think pretty much anything goes here. "flaming" the person vs the topic seems to be the culprit in the case of the fellow who seems to have so many people upset. I haven't seen anything that personally would upset myself though. I truly think people are being hyper sensitive and if they don't like it, knowing the moderator seems to be remiss, should just ignore or go to a site that caters to the sensitive. This isn't the only rodeo and there is and off button. Actually, if the people offended by him not being polite were not hypocrites they would follow their own advice and ignore. The real edicatte in society is to turn the other cheek. Insulting and criticizing another who offends is actually worse then the original offense. I have spoken my mind and spent far longer in this then it deserves and mode time then I ever thought I would. Let's get back to talking about bisexual sex and the issues and joys surrounding that. That's why we are here right ?
…thank you for your breath of fresh air…its refreshing…I personally had no gog in this fight…but when I first came on the site I made the unforgiveable sin of agreeing with pole about something…first thing I know I’m under attack by tenni & his minion…& against my will I was in the thick of things…no matter how much tenni thinks he owns tha site…I will not let him dictate to me what I can & can’t post…if tenni would shut up & mind his own business 90% of this crap would go away…but he’s too much of a control freak to shut up…

[pole_smoker]

…thank you for your breath of fresh air…its refreshing…I personally had no gog in this fight…but when I first came on the site I made the unforgiveable sin of agreeing with pole about something…first thing I know I’m under attack by tenni & his minion…& against my will I was in the thick of things…no matter how much tenni thinks he owns tha site…I will not let him dictate to me what I can & can’t post…if tenni would shut up & mind his own business 90% of this crap would go away…but he’s too much of a control freak to shut up…

Exactly just ignore Tenni he's a troll and most people already have put tenni onto their ignore lists and ignore his posts.

Other people who have been here a lot longer than you or I have, have said how Tenni was previously banned temporarily for stalking/harassing/trolling people he doesn't like on this site.

[charles-smythe]

…it is a lot nicer…not having to see certain people’s negative posts…

[donttellnehismy]

I love the ignore feature

[AGuyIKnow]

Let's get back to talking about bisexual sex and the issues and joys surrounding that.
I agree! All of the whining and trash talk has created just as much usless noise as the crap that pole has posted. None of this has anything to do with bisexuality.

Blocking his ass is easy.

[charles-smythe]

I agree! All of the whining and trash talk has created just as much usless noise as the crap that pole has posted. None of this has anything to do with bisexuality.

Blocking his ass is easy. …thank you…if they would only listen to you…