pole smoker

[monaohio]

how many of you people think pole smoker's threads or comments are gross or just plain out right rude

[marine20]

everyone, of course. it's too bad that one man tries to manipulate a whole forum. it might not be so bad , but he really has a lot of nonsense. we can only hope that he loses interest and goes away !

[charles-smythe]

how many of you people think pole smoker's threads or comments are gross or just plain out right rude

…I don’t think he’s really trying to manipulate the whole board…I think he’s just trying (& obviously with a lot of results) to annoy a few people who because they’ve been on this site for a long time think that they own it & can dictate to newer members what to post about…just remember thast it takes 2 to make an argument...if he annoyes you ignore him…don’t open his posts…if you don’t open & read them you won’t be annoyed & WONT have to make comments back…

[Waylon]

The incessant postings and frequency of poll after poll after poll are really a drag. It all gets real old real fast. Many days, I just sign back out when I see his boring listings of topics....

[justafella]

Certainly all the polls are too much. It's not the way I want to give out information about myself. I was going to put up a poll asking if there were too many polls, silly!

[Sigstache]

Seems his biggest offense is spamming the board with redundant threads. If the topic looks goofy or uninteresting I just dont click on it. Easy enough.

Eventually spammers get bored with it and stop.

[NjbiGuy01]

Not even so much as redundant, but useless and downright stupid threads ! A look at the titles and that he posts six in a 30 minute period...and if they aren't useless they are tasteless !

I know I'm not the only person who e-mailed Drew complaining about this silliness. Lets hope Drew responds or this idiot goes away......

Just look at the childish junk here, pure crap :

http://www.bisexual.com/forum/search.php?searchid=5013981

[charles-smythe]

Seems his biggest offense is spamming the board with redundant threads. If the topic looks goofy or uninteresting I just dont click on it. Easy enough.

Eventually spammers get bored with it and stop.
…well said…a post you don’t open & read can’t annoy you…

[charles-smythe]

Not even so much as redundant, but useless and downright stupid threads ! A look at the titles and that he posts six in a 30 minute period...and if they aren't useless they are tasteless !

I know I'm not the only person who e-mailed Drew complaining about this silliness. Lets hope Drew responds or this idiot goes away......

Just look at the childish junk here, pure crap :

http://www.bisexual.com/forum/search.php?searchid=5013981

…try NOT opening & reading his posts…

[Lisa (va)]

I have no interest in the threads that he has started, but that is MY personal preference. But by the same token, he has as much right to start a thread/pole as anyone else. Simple solution, as stated on numerous occasions, simply ignore the person or pass the thread by. Though it would be nice if there weren't so many at one time so threads of other interests could be active in the forum as well.

Lisa

hugs n kisses

[NjbiGuy01]

…well said…a post you don’t open & read can’t annoy you…


"Eventually spammers get bored with it and stop". In his case, it's now going into it's second year. He ignores anyone who posts anything negative. It's always all about him. He turns threads around back to HIM all the time.....it comes back to him....

While it seems you choose to participate Charles-Smythe (as it is your right to), many (dare I say most) of us find him downright annoying. Nobody is trying to control or censure him (or anyone else for that matter), but what's the point of continually posting threads that are about as interesting as "do you think the sun will come up tomorrow ?".

These threads are childish, useless, tasteless (songs about AIDS, really?)....posting pictures of the Amtrak conductor in sexual positions ? Seriously ? What a waste of bandwidth, time, effort and space on the forum.

[Annika L]

…try NOT opening & reading his posts…


See Charles, I *don't* open and read his posts. Or at least the few times I do, I do with my eyes open as to what I'm apt to find. What is a drag is the sheer *preponderance* of them, and the way they dominate the forum. It's a bit like living with a hoarder...you want a nice cup of tea and you have to hunt through all the shit to find a cup, hunt through more shit to find the tea, hunt through more shit to find the kettle, take all the shit off the stove, unbury the sink, and then, make some tea. It's just not as pleasant as it should be. Yes, some people "like" to live that way...I get it...you don't hear me calling for his removal from the forums or telling him to stop. But when one single person can dominate the preferences of many...seemingly simply because he can, because he happens to have *so* very much time on his hands...it's...just not as pleasant as it should be.

[charles-smythe]

"Eventually spammers get bored with it and stop". In his case, it's now going into it's second year. He ignores anyone who posts anything negative. It's always all about him. He turns threads around back to HIM all the time.....it comes back to him....

While it seems you choose to participate Charles-Smythe (as it is your right to), many (dare I say most) of us find him downright annoying. Nobody is trying to control or censure him (or anyone else for that matter), but what's the point of continually posting threads that are about as interesting as "do you think the sun will come up tomorrow ?".

These threads are childish, useless, tasteless (songs about AIDS, really?)....posting pictures of the Amtrak conductor in sexual positions ? Seriously ? What a waste of bandwidth, time, effort and space on the forum.
…I repeat…DO NOT OPEN THEM…that will eliminate you being annoyed…if you simply MUST continue to read them…give the rest of us a break & stop whining about them…I don’t personally like all his polls or all his post…if you’ll notice I don’t read or post on them all...

[charles-smythe]

See Charles, I *don't* open and read his posts. Or at least the few times I do, I do with my eyes open as to what I'm apt to find. What is a drag is the sheer *preponderance* of them, and the way they dominate the forum. It's a bit like living with a hoarder...you want a nice cup of tea and you have to hunt through all the shit to find a cup, hunt through more shit to find the tea, hunt through more shit to find the kettle, take all the shit off the stove, unbury the sink, and then, make some tea. It's just not as pleasant as it should be. Yes, some people "like" to live that way...I get it...you don't hear me calling for his removal from the forums or telling him to stop. But when one single person can dominate the preferences of many...seemingly simply because he can, because he happens to have *so* very much time on his hands...it's...just not as pleasant as it should be.

…If you ignore him & keep posting what you consider worthwhile posts they will bump his down…& if yours are really wothwhile other members will bump them to the top when they comment…

[tenni]

Why do you defend his behaviour Charles? This makes you look like his double banger clone to many on here.
"If you ignore him & keep posting what you consider worthwhile posts they will bump his down…& if yours are really wothwhile other members will bump them to the top when they comment…"

When people have done this, he simply spams old posts and takes no notice that he is hogging the threads. This bringing back threads by banned members reflects poorly on him. It makes him look like the former banned poster and especially when he brings back so many banned posters' threads.
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“ I don’t think he’s really trying to manipulate the whole board…”
“Ignore him”

When you look at the forum frequently every thread is either from him or he has commented on it. The lack of respect and until recently lack of being capable of empathy for others is apparent.

Why have a poll that requires publicizing each voter’s identity? That is third world banana republic approach to voting. If it is not pole it is Charles replying to many threads or back and forth dialogue with few other posters commenting.

[NjbiGuy01]

…If you ignore him & keep posting what you consider worthwhile posts they will bump his down…& if yours are really wothwhile other members will bump them to the top when they comment…


Or perhaps he could just grow up and stop this shit ? Hoping Drew takes care of this...

[pole_smoker]

Why do you defend his behaviour Charles? This makes you look like his double banger clone to many on here.
"If you ignore him & keep posting what you consider worthwhile posts they will bump his down…& if yours are really wothwhile other members will bump them to the top when they comment…"

When people have done this, he simply spams old posts and takes no notice that he is hogging the threads. This bringing back threads by banned members reflects poorly on him. It makes him look like the former banned poster and especially when he brings back so many banned posters' threads.
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“ I don’t think he’s really trying to manipulate the whole board…”
“Ignore him”

When you look at the forum frequently every thread is either from him or he has commented on it. The lack of respect and until recently lack of being capable of empathy for others is apparent.

Why have a poll that requires publicizing each voter’s identity? That is third world banana republic approach to voting. If it is not pole it is Charles replying to many threads or back and forth dialogue with few other posters commenting.
:rolleyes: So you don't like my posts, or Charles' posts. It's simple don't click on them or reply to them, or our threads if you don't like the topic...instead of being a professional complainer and whiner.

[tenni]

Now Pole
Of all the complaints you chose my comments to attack. Why would that be ...cyber bully?

As already explained you do not give others a chance to create threads or comment on a thread. Things become quite different when you are not spamming the site with your sexually pornographic no issue posts. You're rather unintentionally transparent about who and what you are..

Most people do not like the excessive posting and mindlesss nonsense posts. When all the visible thread are from you or Chuck, it is excessive.
Chuck at least tries humour and seems like basically a nice fellow.(despite suspicions that you two are one in the same poster)

If you care for the site /its members and bisexuality, try the following monitoring yourself.

a/ limit new threads that you start to two per week for a month.
b/ limit your posts on any thread to say ten per week.
c/ remove the requirement on your polls for the voter must identify themselves. Most of us live in a democracy where polling and voting is private and public disclosure is not forced on to the voters.
*considering the number of members of the site, your polls are ignored by most. Why do you beat a deadhorse?...no one wants to respond to your polls they are boring yet sensationalist juvenile nonsense.

I'm sure others might have a suggestion or two that you could do.

[Annika L]

…If you ignore him & keep posting what you consider worthwhile posts they will bump his down…& if yours are really wothwhile other members will bump them to the top when they comment…


Fallacy, I fear. You may notice that I do post. But I have time to post 2-3 times a day, maybe, if I see something interesting to post to (and I often don't, because of all of his crap). He seems to have time to post 20-30 times a day. Even if that's a mental exaggeration and it's more like half that (and I don't suspect it's as little as half that, actually), that's plenty to dominate the forum.

[pole_smoker]

Now Pole
Of all the complaints you chose my comments to attack. Why would that be ...cyber bully?

As already explained you do not give others a chance to create threads or comment on a thread. Things become quite different when you are not spamming the site with your sexually pornographic no issue posts. You're rather unintentionally transparent about who and what you are..

Most people do not like the excessive posting and mindlesss nonsense posts. When all the visible thread are from you or Chuck, it is excessive.
Chuck at least tries humour and seems like basically a nice fellow.(despite suspicions that you two are one in the same poster)

If you care for the site /its members and bisexuality, try the following monitoring yourself.

a/ limit new threads that you start to two per week for a month.
b/ limit your posts on any thread to say ten per week.
c/ remove the requirement on your polls for the voter must identify themselves. Most of us live in a democracy where polling and voting is private and public disclosure is not forced on to the voters.
*considering the number of members of the site, your polls are ignored by most. Why do you beat a deadhorse?...no one wants to respond to your polls they are boring yet sensationalist juvenile nonsense.

I'm sure others might have a suggestion or two that you could do.
:rolleyes: Nobody's attacking you. :rolleyes: Or being LOL a "cyber bully" to you even though you have cyber-bullied and trolled/stalked/harassed people on this site a lot and still do.

Myself and Charles simply posted common sense. There are threads I don't like or have no desire to read based on the topic or author...so I don't click on them or reply to them. It's that simple.

Nice try. You're not the owner/boss of this site.

[RockGardener]

All you have to do is go to his profile and "ignore" him, now the threads that he starts will not show on the front page for you and you will see the latest however many threads show that are not his. It cleaned up my front page nicely.

[tenni]

What Rock Garden posts is true. If you block pole, you do not have to read threads started by him. If you do not open his threads then you don't have to read them. HOWEVER.....


45% of all threads visible to anyone who is reading the threads publicly at this moment were started by pole.
20% of visible threads without blocking were last commented on by pole (varies hourly though)


Since this thread was started, I would wager that there has been a reduction in percentages of threads started by pole and his buddy Charles. This is still a significant over representation and domination of Pole’s beliefs about what bisexual.com (http://bisexual.com) is about. POLE IS presently THE PUBLIC IMAGE OF BISEXUAL.COM (http://BISEXUAL.COM) His/her is acting as the boss and owner of bisexual.com (http://bisexual.com). Denial is one of her/ his defensive reactions. It simply is not true unless pole says so....according to pole.

What is bisexual.com (http://bisexual.com) about? According to pole started threads, it is publicly about porn as in cunt, cock, piss, swallowing cum, cock suckers. It is socio politically about uncircumcised penis. It is not about much of anything bisexual as far as socio political issues. It is not about Biphobia, Bi Invisibility. It is not about helping each other with those who are struggling with their newly self discovered sexuality. (According to Himself, everyone knows about bisexuality since the 1970's)

[Browne]

http://youtu.be/sCNrK-n68CM


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[charles-smythe]

Or perhaps he could just grow up and stop this shit ? Hoping Drew takes care of this...

"<Originally Posted by RockGardener>
All you have to do is go to his profile and "ignore" him, now the threads that he starts will not show on the front page for you and you will see the latest however many threads show that are not his. It cleaned up my front page nicely.
…apparently if pole annoys you that much all you have to do is ‘ignore’ him…if you don’t I can only assume that you actually like all this bickering…BE THE SOLUTION…NOT PART OF THE PROBLEM…

[charles-smythe]

What Rock Garden posts is true. If you block pole, you do not have to read threads started by him. If you do not open his threads then you don't have to read them. HOWEVER.....


45% of all threads visible to anyone who is reading the threads publicly at this moment were started by pole.
20% of visible threads without blocking were last commented on by pole (varies hourly though)


Since this thread was started, I would wager that there has been a reduction in percentages of threads started by pole and his buddy Charles. This is still a significant over representation and domination of Pole’s beliefs about what bisexual.com (http://bisexual.com) is about. POLE IS presently THE PUBLIC IMAGE OF BISEXUAL.COM (http://BISEXUAL.COM) His/her is acting as the boss and owner of bisexual.com (http://bisexual.com). Denial is one of her/ his defensive reactions. It simply is not true unless pole says so....according to pole.

What is bisexual.com (http://bisexual.com) about? According to pole started threads, it is publicly about porn as in cunt, cock, piss, swallowing cum, cock suckers. It is socio politically about uncircumcised penis. It is not about much of anything bisexual as far as socio political issues. It is not about Biphobia, Bi Invisibility. It is not about helping each other with those who are struggling with their newly self discovered sexuality. (According to Himself, everyone knows about bisexuality since the 1970's)





…just hit the f—king ‘ignore’ button & cut all this bullshit out…BE THE SOLUTION…NOT PART OF THE PROBLEM…

[darkeyes]

…just hit the f—king ‘ignore’ button & cut all this bullshit out…BE THE SOLUTION…NOT PART OF THE PROBLEM…

Chas, hun... u maybe shud try takin' ur own advice sometimes... ;)

[Cum1st]

TARRED AND FEATHERED IS TOO KIND!

This is a sexual site. A place where people can be naked and talk about fantasies, desires, and past sexual experiences. The anonymity of the web makes it so. In real life I can't discuss what I can here. This is really free speech.

If while walking off trail in the large nearby state forest I came across a sexual scene my strong desire would be to join in or at least to watch and spill some seed. I could talk about that here, but probably not with the participants.

His posts are sexual. Some of them may make some members uncomfortable. Sex is a strong emotional drive encompassing much more than just "doing it".

Hitler, the ultimate control freak, conquered a nation by creating hate. Is that what's happening here?

I haven't seen pole smoker cross the boundaries outlined in the rules of this site, or heard any sensible argument against him.

[tenni]

Cum1st
Is this a sexual site or a bisexual site?
What is the difference ?
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You might want to read the rules again as far as crossing boundaries are concerned.
Anarchy is beyond free speech. Free Speech comes with responsibilities in most civilized societies.
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There is an internet legend. The first person in a debate who references Hitler to give support to their view..is the loser.

[charles-smythe]

TARRED AND FEATHERED IS TOO KIND!

This is a sexual site. A place where people can be naked and talk about fantasies, desires, and past sexual experiences. The anonymity of the web makes it so. In real life I can't discuss what I can here. This is really free speech.

If while walking off trail in the large nearby state forest I came across a sexual scene my strong desire would be to join in or at least to watch and spill some seed. I could talk about that here, but probably not with the participants.

His posts are sexual. Some of them may make some members uncomfortable. Sex is a strong emotional drive encompassing much more than just "doing it".

Hitler, the ultimate control freak, conquered a nation by creating hate. Is that what's happening here?

I haven't seen pole smoker cross the boundaries outlined in the rules of this site, or heard any sensible argument against him. …well said…ignore all the flack that you’rer going to catch…whether some of the members like it or not…you’rer intitled to your opinion whether they agree or not…that’s actually part of the problem…SOME members don’t think the rest of us are intitled to our apinion…& they’re willing to destroy the site rather than let us have an opinion different than theirs…

[charles-smythe]

Chas, hun... u maybe shud try takin' ur own advice sometimes... ;) …you’re right…that’s an example of what all these nay-sayers are doing…they’re drawing everyone in to their petty little complaining…

[tenni]

"& they’re willing to destroy the site rather than let us have an opinion different than theirs…"
be

Hilarious :bounce: from some guy who has been a member for two + months.
Everyone is entitled to an opinion.

As an "member" of two months on Bi.com, what is your expert opinion as to what a destroyed bisexual.com site would look like ?

[pole_smoker]

"& they’re willing to destroy the site rather than let us have an opinion different than theirs…"
be

Hilarious :bounce: from some guy who has been a member for two + months.
Everyone is entitled to an opinion.

As an "member" of two months on Bi.com, what is your expert opinion as to what a destroyed bisexual.com site would look like ?
A "destroyed" site would be one where Tenni or Jim Riley, stalks/flames/"cyber-bullies"/attacks/trolls people he does not like on the site.

Oh wait...that's been happening for a very long time and he was banned from this site before for doing it. :rolleyes:

http://i.imgur.com/Ihl6cZE.jpg

http://www.novacancyart.com/uploads/2/7/3/5/2735897/_1663502.jpg?178


No, Jim Riley, it isn't. Not editing that out either... hide some more?

[charles-smythe]

"& they’re willing to destroy the site rather than let us have an opinion different than theirs…"
be

Hilarious :bounce: from some guy who has been a member for two + months.
Everyone is entitled to an opinion.

As an "member" of two months on Bi.com, what is your expert opinion as to what a destroyed bisexual.com site would look like ?

…does loggivity on the site mahe your opinion worth more than mine?...I may have only been here 2 months but they have been 2 active months…in the last 10 or 15 years I’ve seen several sites destroyed by members who thought they ‘owned’ the site & tried to dictate to the new member what they could or couldn’t post…when it comes right down to it what you post…or what pole posts…or what I post is NO other member’s business….

[charles-smythe]

…I guess my dog in this fight is it always pisses me off when some know it all a—h--- tries to tell me what I can or can’t read…I’m a grown man…if I don’t want to read pole’s or anyone else’s posts I want…I don’t need some self appoint censer tell me what I can & can’t read…& that’s just what all this bullshits about…you tring to tell others what they can & can’t read…stop being a horses-patute & hit the ‘ignore’ button & let the rest of us make up our own minds…

[cuttin2dachase]

I'm with Rock Gardener. I put him on ignore weeks ago. None of the threads he has started or starts in the future will ever show on my forum again. A lot of forum clutter is eliminated with a few simple clicks. As an added bonus, all of his posts on other threads are not visible to those who ignore him. He's a sociopath who feeds on the undeserved attention he gets from his warped opinions and posts. He glories in eliciting negative comments and emotions from those people he attacks and is a natural born sh*t stirrer. He really isn't deserving of any response at all. There's an old saying that goes like this: If a pig invites you to wrestle with him in a pigsh*t filled mudhole, be aware that the pig is actually going to enjoy every minute of it. If everyone who is tired of him would put him on ignore, that would leave him only the 4 or 5 people who seem to defend him to be outlets for his rants. I'm not sure if he can see what I post, but I hope he is cut off from reading my posts too. Read below and here is what you'll see when he posts to any thread:

Yesterday, 4:42 PM
pole_smoker
Some Kind of Super Member
This message is hidden because pole_smoker is on your ignore list.
View Post

[charles-smythe]

I'm with Rock Gardener. I put him on ignore weeks ago. None of the threads he has started or starts in the future will ever show on my forum again. A lot of forum clutter is eliminated with a few simple clicks. As an added bonus, all of his posts on other threads are not visible to those who ignore him. He's a sociopath who feeds on the undeserved attention he gets from his warped opinions and posts. He glories in eliciting negative comments and emotions from those people he attacks and is a natural born sh*t stirrer. He really isn't deserving of any response at all. There's an old saying that goes like this: If a pig invites you to wrestle with him in a pigsh*t filled mudhole, be aware that the pig is actually going to enjoy every minute of it. If everyone who is tired of him would put him on ignore, that would leave him only the 4 or 5 people who seem to defend him to be outlets for his rants. I'm not sure if he can see what I post, but I hope he is cut off from reading my posts too. Read below and here is what you'll see when he posts to any thread:

Yesterday, 4:42 PM
pole_smoker
Some Kind of Super Member
This message is hidden because pole_smoker is on your ignore list.
View Post
…now why can’t tinni do that?...sure would eliminate a lot of BS for the rest of us…

[Melody Dean]

Hey guys, what is the point of this thread? We have no moderator, so this is not a plea to remove someone from the site.

Just whining and venting? Okay, sure, except by posting this thread, all you're doing is instigating him. You're making it worse.

Yes, the number of poles are annoying. Yes, Pole can be crude and is very opinionated. Yes, he states his opinion as fact. The only thing we can do is nicely ask him to stop. And it will only eliminate part of it, other parts are just who he is (crude and opinionated) and we just have to deal with it.

When it comes to attacking people instead of ideas, there are others on this board just as guilty as Pole is. He knows this, and pokes the bear, making those people attack him back.

All of that being said, posting pictures of someone without their permission is wrong. Publicizing someone's name without their permission is wrong. In my book, those are ban-able offenses.

[elmwood7]

I agree with Melody in all she said except the part about nicely asking him to stop. It would be a waste of time. He's not going to stop.

[nailchewer]

Added to my ignore list, lets see how well that works!

[12voltyV2.0]

I long ago decided that there was nothing that the man said that I had any interest in reading, so ages ago---I put added his name to my "IGNORE LIST"--I have long been urging everyone else to the same and "Don't Feed The Beast."

Just ignore the asshole and he will eventually give up and go away.

[AGuyIKnow]

I gave him a second chance but he promptly reminded why I ignored him the first time.

[NjbiGuy01]

You're not the owner/boss of this site.

Neither are you asshole, despite your "some kind of super member" or whatever title you bestow upon yourself.

Grow up. Your posts are mindless drivel and serve no meaningful purpose. It's all about you...always is.

Why not accept the message and lighten up on starting six threads a day genius and stop acting like your holier than thou too. It's downright annoying and insults people that are here for meaningful dialogue and discussion, not the childish garbage you post daily.

While we have your attention, perhaps you can explain what purpose today's bullshit du jour serves:

http://www.bisexual.com/forum/images/styles/lifeElement/misc/poll_posticon.gif Poll: Do you like to eat cum out of a freshly fucked asshole or twat? (http://www.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?16944-Do-you-like-to-eat-cum-out-of-a-freshly-fucked-asshole-or-twat)
Started by pole_smoker (http://www.bisexual.com/forum/member.php?159571-pole_smoker), Today 3:24 PM

[pole_smoker]

Neither are you asshole, despite your "some kind of super member" or whatever title you bestow upon yourself.

Grow up. Your posts are mindless drivel and serve no meaningful purpose. It's all about you...always is.

Why not accept the message and lighten up on starting six threads a day genius and stop acting like your holier than thou too. It's downright annoying and insults people that are here for meaningful dialogue and discussion, not the childish garbage you post daily.

While we have your attention, perhaps you can explain what purpose today's bullshit du jour serves:

http://www.bisexual.com/forum/images/styles/lifeElement/misc/poll_posticon.gif Poll: Do you like to eat cum out of a freshly fucked asshole or twat? (http://www.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?16944-Do-you-like-to-eat-cum-out-of-a-freshly-fucked-asshole-or-twat)


Started by pole_smoker (http://www.bisexual.com/forum/member.php?159571-pole_smoker), Today 3:24 PM
http://www.bisexual.com/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=35584&d=1431879600

If you want to see posts that are nothing but trolling, BS, and drivel read your own posts where you stalk, troll, and harass me including this one. ;)

This is a sex and amateur porn site for bisexual adults. Or have you forgotten this?

[cuttin2dachase]

The thread is about him, so we are not off topic LOL Just do what Rock, Volty, nailchewer and I and many others have done. Put him on ignore and you'll not have to see his horsesh*t ever again. He may not go away, but he'll have a very limited audience on whom he can spew his sociapathic vitriol and/or respond to his vulgar polls.

[charles-smythe]

The thread is about him, so we are not off topic LOL Just do what Rock, Volty, nailchewer and I and many others have done. Put him on ignore and you'll not have to see his horsesh*t ever again. He may not go away, but he'll have a very limited audience on whom he can spew his sociapathic vitriol and/or respond to his vulgar polls.
…yes please all of you who don’t like him…put him on ignore…

[jem_is_bi]

…yes please all of you who don’t like him…put him on ignore…
Charles We can't do that. You would have to deal with him all by yourself!!

[charles-smythe]

Charles We can't do that. You would have to deal with him all by yourself!!

…lol…you’re probably right…

[nailchewer]

Have to say, the site has a completely different look now that I can't see any of Poles constant mindless BS. Must be nice to have nothing to do all day but think of stupid/nasty questions to ask. And before you say anything, just because it says I'm logged in, doesn't mean I'm sitting behind my desk all day with my junk in my hand, getting off to those that do answer. I posted an answer to a question he posted a few days ago, and he promptly messaged me and asked for more details. While I might be willing to share stories/details with a person I don't know, I quickly changed my mind about going further than I did to prevent him from getting satisfaction from anything I might reveal...... because he certainly doesn't seem to share the other way.

[querty]

yes once I put hole on ignore the site was back to enjoyable. For all those you have not, if you must reply to some post of his in a thread, please don't include his comment as part of your response.

[elmwood7]

Pretty soon the only 1 who sees his mindless bs will be Charles.

[chances]

rude and gross--two words hit the nail on the head

[nailchewer]

yes once I put hole on ignore the site was back to enjoyable. For all those you have not, if you must reply to some post of his in a thread, please don't include his comment as part of your response.

AGREED!

[charles-smythe]

…now that everyone but me has put him on ‘ignore’ everyone can stop talking about him…

[JaredT77]

Hey pole_smoker! How you been doing man? Still pissing people off? Lol! Some people or most will never learn. Sorry, it's been awhile since I have been on here. Just wanted to give you a shoutout on a Thread that was created just for you.

[charles-smythe]

Hey pole_smoker! How you been doing man? Still pissing people off? Lol! Some people or most will never learn. Sorry, it's been awhile since I have been on here. Just wanted to give you a shoutout on a Thread that was created just for you.

…from the way people are talking were the only 2 that don’t have him on ignore…lol…

[JaredT77]

…from the way people are talking were the only 2 that don’t have him on ignore…lol…


Honestly, I used to bicker with the guy, tried blocking the guy, but then realized it's better to just call it a truce and be friends. Pole_smoker is here to stay. He's not going to leave if people tell him to. Drew is not getting rid of him or anyone else. If you can't accept it then deal with it. (That's to any pole_smoker haters out there).

We are all adults on here and I agree with my other friend, Melody Dean on what she said. Honestly, this here is a adult site. I have eaten my cum out of a woman's pussy after fucking her. My own cum and I probably would eat a guy's cum out of a woman's pussy too. The guy's only talking about shit we beat our dicks off too.

[charles-smythe]

Honestly, I used to bicker with the guy, tried blocking the guy, but then realized it's better to just call it a truce and be friends. Pole_smoker is here to stay. He's not going to leave if people tell him to. Drew is not getting rid of him or anyone else. If you can't accept it then deal with it. (That's to any pole_smoker haters out there).

We are all adults on here and I agree with my other friend, Melody Dean on what she said. Honestly, this here is a adult site. I have eaten my cum out of a woman's pussy after fucking her. My own cum and I probably would eat a guy's cum out of a woman's pussy too. The guy's only talking about shit we beat our dicks off too.
…actually I like eating other’s guys cum out of a girls pussy…

[chances]

I put him on "ignore" now I can probably come here with a better attitude and enjoy intelligent conversation again
.

[JaredT77]

I put him on "ignore" now I can probably come here with a better attitude and enjoy intelligent conversation again
.

Umm, he's still going to read your comments. "Ignore" doesn't really exist on this site. On Facebook, if you want to ignore someone, you can block them and you never ever have to hear from them again. Not here. You're just going to have to have thick skin.

[pole_smoker]

Hey pole_smoker! How you been doing man? Still pissing people off? Lol! Some people or most will never learn. Sorry, it's been awhile since I have been on here. Just wanted to give you a shoutout on a Thread that was created just for you.
Thanks Jared I'm doing well and so is my husband. I hope things are going well for you, and that you have a happy Memorial day weekend.

[JaredT77]

Thanks Jared I'm doing well and so is my husband. I hope things are going well for you, and that you have a happy Memorial day weekend.

You're welcome and good to hear from you. Glad that you and your husband are doing well on this Memorial Day weekend. I'm just relaxing this weekend and enjoying my time off from work. Shoot me a private message some time.

[cuttin2dachase]

I don't really care if he can still read my comments, Jared. If he doesn't like it, he can put me ignore too as can you or anyone else. I'm sure he'll continue to attack and rage against anyone who doesn't see the world in the same intolerant closed-minded way he does. Putting him on permanent ignore means I don't have to see anything he posts or has ever posted. His apologists and defenders can be his outlet for expressing himself. Enjoy the abuse and sociopathy! And btw, no, nobody has to have thick skin to put up with him when we can ignore him LOL

[JaredT77]

I don't really care if he can still read my comments, Jared. If he doesn't like it, he can put me ignore too as can you or anyone else. I'm sure he'll continue to attack and rage against anyone who doesn't see the world in the same intolerant closed-minded way he does. Putting him on permanent ignore means I don't have to see anything he posts or has ever posted. His apologists and defenders can be his outlet for expressing himself. Enjoy the abuse and sociopathy! And btw, no, nobody has to have thick skin to put up with him when we can ignore him LOL

That is all up to you. If you don't like what he says then don't respond back. Just ignore him but people creating blogs and threads don't help but add fuel to the fire.

[cuttin2dachase]

I am not responding to him, I am responding to others who have posted on this thread. It seems most of them feel the same way I do. We'll have to agree to disagree on how to deal with him. Agreeing to disagree is something he's not capable of and that's only one of the reasons so many people are ignoring him.

[JaredT77]

I am not responding to him, I am responding to others who have posted on this thread. It seems most of them feel the same way I do. We'll have to agree to disagree on how to deal with him. Agreeing to disagree is something he's not capable of and that's only one of the reasons so many people are ignoring him.
I don't always agree with what he says and him and I went rounds before I realized it was a waste of time arguing with him. I chose to call it a truce and be his friend. You don't have to be his friend but your comments about pole_smoker "behind his back" don't make you a bigger man.

[cuttin2dachase]

I don't see how I could be talking behind his back since you are copy/pasting my comments to your posts making him able to read them LOL He's the one with the smug, inflated, self centered ego. It's him who thinks he's a bigger man by belittling others. Now you're doing what he does by criticizing me for having an opinion that's contrary to yours. Now I'm calling a truce with you. He is not worth arguing over anymore. You know where I stand I know where you stand. As I said before we need to agree to disagree.

[pole_smoker]

I don't see how I could be talking behind his back since you are copy/pasting my comments to your posts making him able to read them LOL He's the one with the smug, inflated, self centered ego. It's him who thinks he's a bigger man by belittling others. Now you're doing what he does by criticizing me for having an opinion that's contrary to yours. Now I'm calling a truce with you. He is not worth arguing over anymore. You know where I stand I know where you stand. As I said before we need to agree to disagree.
You know I can read your posts anyway, right?

[JaredT77]

You know I can read your posts anyway, right?

I think he's under the impression that you wouldn't be able to. They never listen pole.

Cuttintothechase, my whole point was that I have been there, done that with pole_smoker and I decided it was a waste of time to feud with the man and chose to be friends with him instead. You don't have to and I could care less what you do. We can call it a truce but you can't talk "behind the man's back" and expect him not to hear you.

[charles-smythe]

I think he's under the impression that you wouldn't be able to. They never listen pole.

Cuttintothechase, my whole point was that I have been there, done that with pole_smoker and I decided it was a waste of time to feud with the man and chose to be friends with him instead. You don't have to and I could care less what you do. We can call it a truce but you can't talk "behind the man's back" and expect him not to hear you.
...here...here...

[cuttin2dachase]

...here...here...

Well good. We've established that he can read everything I write, therefore I haven't been talking behind his back. Sorry, Jared & Chuck, but I choose NOT to be friends with him here. I only consider someone an online friend if he or she comports him/herself online as someone I'd want to meet in real life. He does not and will never fit that bill for me. Calling a truce to me means end of discussion, not agging it on and on.

[JaredT77]

Well good. We've established that he can read everything I write, therefore I haven't been talking behind his back. Sorry, Jared & Chuck, but I choose NOT to be friends with him here. I only consider someone an online friend if he or she comports him/herself online as someone I'd want to meet in real life. He does not and will never fit that bill for me. Calling a truce to me means end of discussion, not agging it on and on.

Honestly, you can go fuck yourself for all I care. I don't even know you and really don't care to now. We don't have to call a truce because you just want to have the final say and expect me to shut the fuck up. No truce then.

[cuttin2dachase]

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[charles-smythe]

Well good. We've established that he can read everything I write, therefore I haven't been talking behind his back. Sorry, Jared & Chuck, but I choose NOT to be friends with him here. I only consider someone an online friend if he or she comports him/herself online as someone I'd want to meet in real life. He does not and will never fit that bill for me. Calling a truce to me means end of discussion, not agging it on and on.
…my name is Charles not Chuck…

[cuttin2dachase]

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[JaredT77]

Cuttin2dachase...................what a bitch! Lol! Good riddance!

[NjbiGuy01]

If you can read our posts Pole_smoker, then why do you still even come here where you and your bullshit posts and poles are hardly welcome in the slightest ? Please go away you annoying twat.

[charles-smythe]

Cuttin2dachase...................what a bitch! Lol! Good riddance!

…amen…

[cuttin2dachase]

I'm no longer accepting posts by members of the Pole_Smoker Mutual Admiration Society. Henceforth, my posts will be addressed to non-PSMAS members only.

[JaredT77]

…amen…


I did try to tell the guy "been there done that" with pole_smoker, but he came off sounding like a pussy ass bitch. Oh well.

Oh my God!!! Oh nooooo!!!! We're on his Ignore list!!!! Oh well. I could care less what that bitch says. Fucking coward.

[Cum1st]

If you can read our posts Pole_smoker, then why do you still even come here where you and your bullshit posts and poles are hardly welcome in the slightest ? Please go away you annoying twat.

I guess that makes me an 'in the slightest'. Don't recollect being called that before.

Some of pole's polls and topics draw me out. I've got experiences and desires I like to share, and other's apparently do too. Will this put me on the 'Ban List'?

Too bad we can't poll the guests. They seem to outnumber us active members.

[JaredT77]

I guess that makes me an 'in the slightest'. Don't recollect being called that before.

Some of pole's polls and topics draw me out. I've got experiences and desires I like to share, and other's apparently do too. Will this put me on the 'Ban List'?

Too bad we can't poll the guests. They seem to outnumber us active members.

Don't worry, apparently I am in that same group with you. At least we're not lying to ourselves and being hypocrites to others.

[chtampa]

DéjÃ* Vu. It was just a few months ago JaredT77 was having these same exact conversations with pole_smoker. The same back and forth crap. Calling him names and insulting him, and not backing down from his BS. It made me think, “Wow, this man really has the courage of his convictions, a real man’s man.” Then someone told him he could get in trouble for what he said to pole_smoker. Suddenly testicles vanished and the panties appeared. Then we all got front row seats to a reality show marriage. You know, the one where the guy is all tough until the wife shows up and then it is “Yes, Dear” and “No, Dear”. This is the kind of guy that you can’t respect because he is all talk. It seemed that posters were equally split between the belief that this was all just a Jerry Springer drama concoction between the two of them, or that someone was actually that weak minded. It is funny to see all the emotion in these posts because they really do have NOTHING TO SAY. I have worked around children and they do the exact same thing at recess. Sorry guys, there is still someone here that remembers.

Examples to follow……

[JaredT77]

DéjÃ* Vu. It was just a few months ago JaredT77 was having these same exact conversations with pole_smoker. The same back and forth crap. Calling him names and insulting him, and not backing down from his BS. It made me think, “Wow, this man really has the courage of his convictions, a real man’s man.â€� Then someone told him he could get in trouble for what he said to pole_smoker. Suddenly testicles vanished and the panties appeared. Then we all got front row seats to a reality show marriage. You know, the one where the guy is all tough until the wife shows up and then it is “Yes, Dearâ€� and “No, Dearâ€�. This is the kind of guy that you can’t respect because he is all talk. It seemed that posters were equally split between the belief that this was all just a Jerry Springer drama concoction between the two of them, or that someone was actually that weak minded. It is funny to see all the emotion in these posts because they really do have NOTHING TO SAY. I have worked around children and they do the exact same thing at recess. Sorry guys, there is still someone here that remembers.

Examples to follow……

I could care less what you or others say about me. I chose not to waste my time feuding with the guy and chose the higher path of burying the hatchet. You want to talk shit, go right ahead.