My 1st time with a younger married man

[CHRISINTREPID1957]

I have not been sexually active for quit some time due to taking care of relatives [= no time for me]. Now that I am free of that I am bi-curious and am seeking a married man for my 1st experience in sometime as I mentioned above.

What should I look out for? Be aware of? Is the ratio of married men to bi-curious men on a equal plane or is it pretty much 10 - 1 odds of meeting someone who is interested and just not playing games?

Any help on this would be most appreciated. ANd by the way this is my 1st post here and my 1st time on this site, so there are a lot of 1st's going on right now, maybe that would be a good sign? <smile>

Chris Intrepid
N. California

[Long Duck Dong]

simply, set ya boundaries....lol

you need to know what you want, what you seek and what you regard as the rules for the encounter

honestly and this is a personal opinion only.... I tend not to get involved with married people any more than a one off encounter.... cos if they are lying to their partners, I don't wanna get caught up in the BS if the other partner finds out

if you wanna have sex with a married man that you can trust and feel safe with.... personally I think its better if you go with a couple that have a open relationship... you are safer that way.... you know that they are interested in what you want....you stand a better chance of building a good friendship with long time partners who you can trust.... and you may find that a married couple are willing and happy to allow one on one sex in the confort of their own house and that beats the hell outta a hotel room or a park toilet

casual sex with random partners is one thing..... feeling like you are trusted, welcomed and wanted as a friend is awesome and that turns sex into something closer to love making

above all practise SAFE SEX......aids is a life sentence

[DiamondDog]

simply, set ya boundaries....lol

you need to know what you want, what you seek and what you regard as the rules for the encounter

honestly and this is a personal opinion only.... I tend not to get involved with married people any more than a one off encounter.... cos if they are lying to their partners, I don't wanna get caught up in the BS if the other partner finds out

if you wanna have sex with a married man that you can trust and feel safe with.... personally I think its better if you go with a couple that have a open relationship... you are safer that way.... you know that they are interested in what you want....you stand a better chance of building a good friendship with long time partners who you can trust.... and you may find that a married couple are willing and happy to allow one on one sex in the confort of their own house and that beats the hell outta a hotel room or a park toilet

casual sex with random partners is one thing..... feeling like you are trusted, welcomed and wanted as a friend is awesome and that turns sex into something closer to love making

above all practise SAFE SEX......aids is a life sentence

agreed.

that's why I'm only OK with having sex with married men ONLY if their spouse/husband/partner, knows and accepts it and is cool with it.