New Poll

[Christopher South]

Just trying to get a sense of where we all stand regarding being out and sexually active.

Poll is anonymous.

[tenni]

This is one of the most detailed polls that I have seen on this site for quite awhile. Congrats!

I would say that this is a poll about people in a relationship
(not restricted to bisexuals and excludes single people or single bisexuals)

[Browne]

When I was married I was in a closed relationship and was not "out" to the spouse. I'm simply single now.


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[pole_smoker]

When I was married I was in a closed relationship and was not "out" to the spouse. I'm simply single now.


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When you were married did you cheat on your wife at all?

[Browne]

When you were married did you cheat on your wife at all?


She used to have this friend from work who was SMOKING HOT. When we were engaged this friend used to come over to visit us and I wonder sometimes if my ex didn't put her up to testing me, to see if I'd bite. One time she came over and brought a disc with some pictures of her and her friend on spring break, some of which were topless shots. So it was a little weird for me standing there with my future wife and her hot friend and we're all checking out these topless girls. Another time this woman asked my to come to her place because she wanted me to check out her bedroom to see if there was a secret room behind her bedroom because she highly suspected her landlord of watching her having sex from this "secret room". I never went over there. Another time she came over to show off her new boob job and I was upstairs and overhead the conversation between my ex and her and she was asking where I was because she wanted to show them off to me, hehe... There were other little tidbits too like this that happened but I never touched this woman, although her hotness sure had me somewhat fired up about the situation.

So on the night of the batchlorette party, a bunch of my buddies came over to hang out at my place. I started drinking tequila early and it wasn't long before I blacked out. Now from what I've been told, during my blackout one of the guys said we should have strippers come by. Some of the guys wanted to while others who were married were apprehensive about it because they didn't want their significant others finding out about it. I supposedly blurted out "Hey, we should call "E----" (the SMOKING HOT chick), because I knew she was a dancer. Someone at the party heard this and it made it back to my ex THAT NIGHT. So needless to say the night turned into a shit show as my ex hurried back home to discover strippers (not the hot chick) in her home and it was around that point that the blackout ended for me and I "came to" the situation that was before me.

Is that "cheating"? To some people it might be but to me it wasn't.


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[pole_smoker]

She used to have this friend from work who was SMOKING HOT. When we were engaged this friend used to come over to visit us and I wonder sometimes if my ex didn't put her up to testing me, to see if I'd bite. One time she came over and brought a disc with some pictures of her and her friend on spring break, some of which were topless shots. So it was a little weird for me standing there with my future wife and her hot friend and we're all checking out these topless girls. Another time this woman asked my to come to her place because she wanted me to check out her bedroom to see if there was a secret room behind her bedroom because she highly suspected her landlord of watching her having sex from this "secret room". I never went over there. Another time she came over to show off her new boob job and I was upstairs and overhead the conversation between my ex and her and she was asking where I was because she wanted to show them off to me, hehe... There were other little tidbits too like this that happened but I never touched this woman, although her hotness sure had me somewhat fired up about the situation.

So on the night of the batchlorette party, a bunch of my buddies came over to hang out at my place. I started drinking tequila early and it wasn't long before I blacked out. Now from what I've been told, during my blackout one of the guys said we should have strippers come by. Some of the guys wanted to while others who were married were apprehensive about it because they didn't want their significant others finding out about it. I supposedly blurted out "Hey, we should call "E----" (the SMOKING HOT chick), because I knew she was a dancer. Someone at the party heard this and it made it back to my ex THAT NIGHT. So needless to say the night turned into a shit show as my ex hurried back home to discover strippers (not the hot chick) in her home and it was around that point that the blackout ended for me and I "came to" the situation that was before me.

Is that "cheating"? To some people it might be but to me it wasn't.


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No I do not consider that cheating. Unless of course you had sex with one of the strippers/whores (as women and men who strip are often times prostitutes on the side). Did any men there get their dicks sucked by the female strippers/whores? Or did the strippers/whores spread their legs, show off that beaver, and play with their clit and cunt lips?

[fredtyg]

I guess I voted too soon. I chose Closed, Out to partner but not having sex outside the relationship. Not quite right.

I'm not having sex outside the relationship because I simply don't have the opportunity- the right guy isn't around. If there was a guy, yes, I would. I suppose the wife might suspect, but don't think she'd care so long as it's not too obvious. Don't ask, don't tell, if you will, although we've discussed it years ago.

[Browne]

No I do not consider that cheating. Unless of course you had sex with one of the strippers/whores (as women and men who strip are often times prostitutes on the side). Did any men there get their dicks sucked by the female strippers/whores? Or did the strippers/whores spread their legs, show off that beaver, and play with their clit and cunt lips?

No. Despite the fact we were all wasted we didn't resort to that kind of BEHAVIOR. I guess we were lucky enough to be raised in such a way to always try to maintain some sort of due level of respect to any given situation. But I've seen the lengths some people will go through all in the name of 1UP-manship...and it makes you wonder what type of childhood situation cooked up THAT type of character...


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[pole_smoker]

No. Despite the fact we were all wasted we didn't resort to that kind of BEHAVIOR. I guess we were lucky enough to be raised in such a way to always try to maintain some sort of due level of respect to any given situation. But I've seen the lengths some people will go through all in the name of 1UP-manship...and it makes you wonder what type of childhood situation cooked up THAT type of character...


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True I have met lots of men who paid for pussy, or they pay for a man's mouth/ass, or a shemale's dick, or TS/TG cosmetic cunt, and it's like why????? There are plenty of men, women, shemales, TG/TS people who will gladly have sex with you for FREE if you want it.

[Christopher South]

This is one of the most detailed polls that I have seen on this site for quite awhile. Congrats!

I would say that this is a poll about people in a relationship
(not restricted to bisexuals and excludes single people or single bisexuals)

You are correct. Had there been more than 8 choices I could have been even more specific but my main thought centered on those in a relationship and, obviously because we're on bisexual.com, those who are bi.